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writes:I was wondering should you ever trust a man 100% or give your love 100%. I am 25 good looking and have two degrees but recently I find it hard to be in a relationship or even wonder if a man is ever worth giving your all. I was in a five year relatiobhip and it was emotionally abusive on his part and I gave him 100 percent trust and it ended up bad.Also around me I see friends getting cheated on, people using other people, and men being d^^s and am just wondering is it EVER worth it to trust a man 100% and let your guard down? It seems like you always have to save some part for yourself and never let or trust anyone in FULLY.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2011): No, you can never trust someone 100% because no one is perfect. And that goes for men and women. We all lie to our significant others at some point, even if it's just a "white lie" here and there. As long as your man is not constantly telling huge whoppers, you'll be good to trust him about 95% of the time.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (25 November 2011):
 Certainly not. Just as no man should trust a woman 100%. These things cut both ways, you know. It's a possibly cynical view that I have, but the only people I can actually say I do trust to that extent are my immediate family - and not all of them either (yes, Aunt Mildred, I'm looking at you).
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reader, thinkb4  +, writes (25 November 2011):
You cannot trust ANYONE 100 per cent. You can know someone all your life and they go and shock you.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (25 November 2011):
 Yes of course, men are people too, they are not all animals. Let me turn it around on you - Should a man ever truly trust a woman 100 percent?
If one person hurts you, should you hate the other 6 billion of us, and say that we must all be the same.
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reader, BBShizzle +, writes (25 November 2011):
 You will only fully trust a man when you know that yous both truly love each other, me and my boyfriend have had trust issues but we have overcome them and now we trust each other 100% percent and when you fing your perfect man you will trust him 100% and he will appreciate it and also give you that trust back :)
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (25 November 2011):
 Trust him 100 percent once you are married.
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reader, Angie7  +, writes (25 November 2011):
You can trust some people fully but if you let your guard down around the right ones it may be hard at first it was for me but I tried to explain to him that it's difficult for me to trust anyone he understands cause of my past and realizes I am still learning from it but I am letting go and forgiving the past slowly but it's really starting to come along. Just remember that we can learn from our past but only if we choose to do so. The only way you can let go of the past is by forgiving it not dwelling on it. Weather you always remember it or forget it just forgive it and mean it. By that you will learn. Always give your heart in a relationship too. I've felt the same way you have and without me failing or getting my heart broken I wouldn't have learn what I did. By the way a man could say the exact same thing about a woman but not all same applies to men though...
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reader, supermum +, writes (25 November 2011):
 You just haven't found Mr Right hun. When you are with the right person, it will come naturally, and I doubt you will even realise you are doing it.
Humans are not perfect. It is unfortunately part of our nature to hurt eachother. However, if you don't take the risk of being hurt sometimes, you are going to miss out on potentially the best thing that could ever happen to you.
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reader, pinkkitty23 +, writes (25 November 2011):
I know what you mean there's a lot of cheating and lying;and then there's guys who just don't appreciate you and take you for granted, but you don't want to just expect every man to be like that; it's an unfair stigma. It hinders you from finding true love. I've been burned before and living with the idea of trying to be bullet proof and keep men at bay because someone broke your heart is just as bad as getting your heart broken,trust me. It's better to take some caution and take it from there.I'm glad I let myself get my heart broken and got up again else I wouldn't have found my man :) Honestly though if you can't trust your man then why be with someone ? It's only going to stress you out. All and all, I don't think you should give a guy 100% trust off the get go but you can give him some and go from there. There are men out there who wouldn't cheat and who are great men you just have to be brave enough to take a chance:)
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