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Can you forgive a person after destroying your trust and crushing your heart?
Q. so my gf had been acting weirdly for months and i found out she had an affair with a man howeever she only saw him 3 times and only had sex once. she was on medications and depressed with an eating disorder and huge self esteem issues and at the ...
A. 8 March 2012: Wish I had seen the nasty conclusion....
I'm not a mind reader, you didn't say anything like this in your first post, so how is anyone to know what you did or didn't do.
You were the one who mentioned you put work first, you were the one who... (read in full...)
Partner lied to me about having an eleven year old child. Is this a red flag?
Q. My partner lied to me about having a child from a previous relationship. I knew he had two other childrend but I didn't know he had had another child who would be eleven years old now. I knew my partner had a relationship with the child's mother ...
A. 19 February 2012: It's still your right to want to ask, to want to fix things. Your a mother and his soulmate, you want the best for all of you and that includes your child. Your instincts are to protect (you, your child and now him) and that is very good.
Leavi... (read in full...)
Why do these women at my office think that its OK to be so bitchy to other workers? And can anyone tell me what I can do to not let this 'get' to me?
Q. I work in a mainly female work area. There are some much older very experienced men. But then men seem to stick together and that bothers no one. Some of them are dinosaures. One has to get help to look at his emails and none of them like using the ...
A. 19 February 2012: Sorry my follow up is so late. I made the point badly, I wasn't trying to tell you that assertiveness would help, I was trying to show you that it doesn't matter if your assertive, or if your quiet and kind like some of the ladies you ment... (read in full...)
I never want to talk to my father again
Q. Hello, I need help very soon please xx. Ok before I get into this problem you need a back story. Ok my mom and dad split when I was two so I'm used to the two home lifestyle. I have a stepdad I had a stepmom. Her. The stepmom is the issue. I was a...
A. 14 February 2012: You were angry and mad, could see that. And you dad aint the brightest at making sensible decisions. Got that too. And his marriage aint that good, and he's not really good about keeping his business out your face. Yes he doesn't have to ask you ... (read in full...)
I never want to talk to my father again
Q. Hello, I need help very soon please xx. Ok before I get into this problem you need a back story. Ok my mom and dad split when I was two so I'm used to the two home lifestyle. I have a stepdad I had a stepmom. Her. The stepmom is the issue. I was a...
A. 13 February 2012: Anon aged 14, there is nothing to be sorry for, your considered opinion and your advice is as valuable as anyone here. Thank you for taking the time to help.... (read in full...)
My best friend/room mate found my vibrator and won't stop teasing me about it!
Q. I've been single for a couple years now and I've been living with my best friend (who happens to be a guy) for four years. We've known each other since we were 16, though, so it's not a huge thing and he's also been single for longer than I have. ...
A. 13 February 2012: lol.. so you ignored a lot of our immature advice (me) and decided to act like a grown adult.. Good for you... I hope all goes well.... (read in full...)
It's complicated, but she doesn't want to put in the effort. I really do care for her!
Q. I have an issue. I am complicated with a girl that I've since highschool. We have gone out our senior year for a year into our freshman year of college (which was long distance) until complications got in the way. After our breakup, for about a...
A. 13 February 2012: I'll answer your question to Bardia.. In my situation it hasn't ended and it's lasted probably as long as you've been on earth. It bloody well hurts a lot and spoils other things in your life. I understand your feelings, but I'm in your girl's ... (read in full...)
Partner lied to me about having an eleven year old child. Is this a red flag?
Q. My partner lied to me about having a child from a previous relationship. I knew he had two other childrend but I didn't know he had had another child who would be eleven years old now. I knew my partner had a relationship with the child's mother ...
A. 13 February 2012: I'm curious to what happens now. You already have a kid for this guy.. are you going to dump him and ban him from being a father.. Protect the child from who? Is there signs that the guy is abusive, has he hurt you or your child in anyway. Leave ... (read in full...)
I never want to talk to my father again
Q. Hello, I need help very soon please xx. Ok before I get into this problem you need a back story. Ok my mom and dad split when I was two so I'm used to the two home lifestyle. I have a stepdad I had a stepmom. Her. The stepmom is the issue. I was a...
A. 12 February 2012: ScaredForLove... my words are clumsy, mistake isn't the proper word. It's unplanned pregnancy. They didn't plan to have you, but as soon as they knew you was coming they did their best. From the moment you first opened your eyes and waved your ... (read in full...)
I never want to talk to my father again
Q. Hello, I need help very soon please xx. Ok before I get into this problem you need a back story. Ok my mom and dad split when I was two so I'm used to the two home lifestyle. I have a stepdad I had a stepmom. Her. The stepmom is the issue. I was a...
A. 12 February 2012: ScaredForLove (interesting name)
Your mother wasn't a child when she got pregnant, she was at the legal age of consent. Your father didn't rape her, he wasn't an old man who manipulated her, they were two young people who made a mistake.... (read in full...)
The reason why so many relationships fail
Q. I've come to realize recently that there are so many relationships that fail, so many guys and girls that break up with their boyfriend/girlfriend, and so many broken hearts. You may say it's because of the increased population, but I say it's b...
A. 12 February 2012: I can't really argue much with what you say.. said something similar in a post yesterday. Yes it's important to find someone who matches you as well as someone you love. But I'm not sure about perfect men and women who never manage to screw up. ... (read in full...)
25 years together. What does this cheating ex want from me?
Q. Four years ago I caught my husband of 18 years cheating with a online woman, I took him back, but never got over the pain and the betrayal. I thought we were destined to be together forever, because of the way he treated me like a princess...
A. 12 February 2012: Can you at least ban him from the house, at the moment you sound like your still in shock. There is a big difference between the man he is now, and the man you still remember. You need to be far away from him right now, to clear your head and to ... (read in full...)
I never want to talk to my father again
Q. Hello, I need help very soon please xx. Ok before I get into this problem you need a back story. Ok my mom and dad split when I was two so I'm used to the two home lifestyle. I have a stepdad I had a stepmom. Her. The stepmom is the issue. I was a...
A. 12 February 2012: Parents can't love who their children demand. They can't have sex or not have sex because a child still at school tells them what to do. Soon you'll be gone and will have a husband of your own. Does your father then have the right to tell you who ... (read in full...)
Partner lied to me about having an eleven year old child. Is this a red flag?
Q. My partner lied to me about having a child from a previous relationship. I knew he had two other childrend but I didn't know he had had another child who would be eleven years old now. I knew my partner had a relationship with the child's mother ...
A. 12 February 2012: One woman beat him up
The other takes his kids away because he has a girlfriend
Your on here because you judge him because of how he's treated
Guy doesn't seem to have much luck with women... (read in full...)
Is he ashamed of being friends with me? Why does he lie about me?
Q. I am a mature student and I have been friends with a guy that teaches at my uni (he doesn't teach me) for about two years. We meet up frequently and email back and forth on almost a daily basis. I talk to him about absolutely everything and have ...
A. 12 February 2012: Relationships between students and teachers are always difficult no matter the age. You may not be his student, but it's still easy for other students to call favouritism, and easy for you to call rape. The advice as always is, don't date your ... (read in full...)
He came to visit so we could meet in person, but I caught him talking on the phone with other women during his visit.
Q. Dear Aunts, I finally met the man I was talking to online, and that was afraid to meet because I am too shy and did not drive. We met in person two weeks ago, and he is the sweetest and most gentleman man I have ever met; he drove the whole time s...
A. 12 February 2012: Guy sounds like a professional player to me.. everything so perfect, he's so charming, he treats you so tenderly... no mistakes, no awkwardness, just the perfect guy you dreamed about.. like out of the movies. Too good to be true. Then the phone... (read in full...)
Why do so many people seem okay with such a mindset?
Q. I read it and hear it all the time: "He/She can look all they want, can flirt all they want, etc., but in the end it's me they come home to." What is this?! It seems that we've lowered our standards SO much that we accept this BS aISA "relatio...
A. 12 February 2012: Sorry babes, my history lesson isn't much help. Remember he wasn't the right person for you, he isn't the right person for anyone with such behaviour. It hurts when someone breaks our trust, but life will be better in the long run. He wasn't ... (read in full...)
Strange situations cropping up make me think my husband is fooling around
Q. There are three things I'm concerned about. 1) There's a woman at my husband's job that's always texting him. I've seen her messages a few times when we're together(sometimes he tells me to grab the phone and see who it is). I haven't said too much ...
A. 12 February 2012: I'm not a suspicious woman.. but yep, sounds fishy to me. Not the love Nicole bit, but going away without me suddenly, 4year old matchbooks from a club in his pocket, like the shirt doesn't get washed.. nope, that's enough for me to ask ... (read in full...)
How do I let him go, when I'm not even sure that I can?
Q. Hello again aunts and uncles. Title speaks for itself really! How do you let someone go from your life, when you genuinely don't think you can do it?? I know what people will say as i have commented on many posts just like this, "keep yourself b...
A. 12 February 2012: Yep agree with Janniepeg, you done the keeping busy thing, you've had time to heal a little and become used to being single again. Time to hit the dating scene and at least get used to being told your pretty again. I'm not talking love, or even ... (read in full...)
Partner lied to me about having an eleven year old child. Is this a red flag?
Q. My partner lied to me about having a child from a previous relationship. I knew he had two other childrend but I didn't know he had had another child who would be eleven years old now. I knew my partner had a relationship with the child's mother ...
A. 12 February 2012: It would be a red flag to me. I like men who love their children, and I expect them to maintain a good relationship with the child's mother, if not friendship, then at least they should be a support to her and their child. Then I can be sure they ... (read in full...)
My best friend/room mate found my vibrator and won't stop teasing me about it!
Q. I've been single for a couple years now and I've been living with my best friend (who happens to be a guy) for four years. We've known each other since we were 16, though, so it's not a huge thing and he's also been single for longer than I have. ...
A. 12 February 2012: Missed the part about him being single... that just gives you even more insults to give if he won't back off and act decently. The best way to stop offensive jokes is not to laugh, not to hide but lay bare the other's inadequacies that are causing ... (read in full...)
My best friend/room mate found my vibrator and won't stop teasing me about it!
Q. I've been single for a couple years now and I've been living with my best friend (who happens to be a guy) for four years. We've known each other since we were 16, though, so it's not a huge thing and he's also been single for longer than I have. ...
A. 12 February 2012: I like to recommend all women to buy a vibrator even if they never use it. Purely to overcome their embarrasment about sexual issues and gain the confidence to say "yes I'm a sexual being".
Just like you said here is just what I would say... "... (read in full...)
What to do with old sex tapes? When to get rid of them?
Q. I think it's fairly likely that I will be in a new relationship soon and I'm not quite sure what to do with sex tapes that were made with about 7 or 8 different partners over the past ten years or so. I suspect that if we become a couple she'd b...
A. 12 February 2012: Destroy them.. even if she's not the right woman, another woman would probably hate them as well. Destroy them now you've remembered them, or you risk someone finding them and getting very upset.
Keep them only as long as your single, and your... (read in full...)
25 years together. What does this cheating ex want from me?
Q. Four years ago I caught my husband of 18 years cheating with a online woman, I took him back, but never got over the pain and the betrayal. I thought we were destined to be together forever, because of the way he treated me like a princess...
A. 12 February 2012: You don't mention if any sexual activity took place, but Code Warrior is right, the guy wants to be at home with you but he doesn't know how to ask. He doesn't know how to fix the big wrong he has done to you. I can't say for you to dump him or f... (read in full...)
Is masturbation harmful to a man around 80 years old??
Q. is masterbation harmful for an old man,say 80 years old? ...
A. 11 February 2012: Of course it's not harmful.. to quote Abella "In fact it is probably giving him joy and keeping him healthy".
Why would you worry about this, how did you find out this. Leave this 80year old man alone to enjoy his life as best as he can. Or is t... (read in full...)
How can he so easily forget what we have? I'm blonde. His blonde jokes offended me
Q. Hello aunts. This guy and I met 4 months ago and things have been moving really smoothly infact, better than I had predicted. He checks on me a lot, calls me often and its the first time I've been in a relationship where the guy is so into me. We...
A. 11 February 2012: He told a joke, you found it offensive, you told him this.. now he doesn't want to see you again.
DUMP HIM! People who offend and don't care, guys who run off without explanation, aren't people who bring quality to your life and are not people y... (read in full...)
Is it possible for an interracial relationship to be successful?
Q. Could it be possible for a black girl and a white guy to have a succesful relationship? Or is the cultural differences too much? I'm an African American girl and i've being thinking of going out with this guy i'm in college with but i've asked a ...
A. 11 February 2012: This also a type of racism, thinking that only someone with the same skin colour is good enough for you. I can't think of one reason why you can't date him, apart from other people with too much time on their hands telling you what to do. He h... (read in full...)
He's sexually experienced while I'm still a virgin by choice. Can we work out a compromise for our relationship?
Q. I have been seeing a guy for several months now, and we have come to really care about each other a great deal. We are almost inseparable. We have spent weeks at a time together, and still missed each other when parting ways. There has only...
A. 11 February 2012: Yes. If you don't feel you want to have sex for any reason that is your right. As long as you tell him your views and explain to him you will not give up your virginity, so that he knows where he stands.
The happy compromise is making out, car... (read in full...)
Why do these women at my office think that its OK to be so bitchy to other workers? And can anyone tell me what I can do to not let this 'get' to me?
Q. I work in a mainly female work area. There are some much older very experienced men. But then men seem to stick together and that bothers no one. Some of them are dinosaures. One has to get help to look at his emails and none of them like using the ...
A. 11 February 2012: I know exactly how you feel, been there myself. And because I'm a direct person and will just tell them they is wrong to their face, or stop them gossiping about other people, they were careful to do all their nastiness behind my back, and I would ... (read in full...)
Is our relationship worth salvaging?
Q. My girlfriend and I got in a fight about a month ago. Things haven't been working too well for about 6 weeks prior, so I told her I wanted to take a break. She asked me why, I said that the relationship was hurting me and I needed some space. S...
A. 11 February 2012: Dear poster, it's also difficult to give very good advice when you don't tell us anything at all because you don't believe anyone can help.
"I don't see how anbody could provide any real advice on relationships when they don't know personal... (read in full...)
Do you know any links to good artices in DearCupid please re fellatio?
Q. I just started dating after getting out of a 15 year marriage. My ex never liked blow jobs and really zapped my confidence with his criticism so I need a step by step guide of giving a good bj. Thanks!...
A. 11 February 2012: Don't let the past trap you.. That's the way to make your losing ex win against you everytime. If you lack confidence, basically you're still his woman, he's still in your mind and he's still controlling your present and future, time to let the ... (read in full...)
Why do so many people seem okay with such a mindset?
Q. I read it and hear it all the time: "He/She can look all they want, can flirt all they want, etc., but in the end it's me they come home to." What is this?! It seems that we've lowered our standards SO much that we accept this BS aISA "relatio...
A. 11 February 2012: I've been following this thread with interest... you know to a certain extent, this idea of your partner only looking at you, loving you, and doing everything in their power to make you happy is a very recent idea and most commonly found in Western ... (read in full...)
What are the best tips top get to sleep and sleep well without medication?
Q. I have never slept well, not for years . And I just accept that this is how I am , but can anyone give me any good tips on how to get some uninterrupted sleep? 4 to 5 hours seems to be my limit. I talked about it to my doctor but he seems to thi...
A. 11 February 2012: OK, first make sure you have good bedroom habits, like we were taught as children. 1. Bedroom should not be hot or too cold, but should be adequately ventilated. 2. No naps in the day time, as this takes away from bedtime sleep. 3. No al... (read in full...)
Can you forgive a person after destroying your trust and crushing your heart?
Q. so my gf had been acting weirdly for months and i found out she had an affair with a man howeever she only saw him 3 times and only had sex once. she was on medications and depressed with an eating disorder and huge self esteem issues and at the ...
A. 11 February 2012: Yes you can forgive.. but if she has eating problems, depression, lacks self esteem and is on medication, a person like you isn't helping very much, your driving adding to her torment. She sounds like a very sick lady, and instead of helping,you p... (read in full...)
I'm 33 and never want to speak to my mother again
Q. I'm having serious issues with my mother. I am 33 yrs old and can honestly say I hate my own mother. It all started when I started college at 20 yrs old. We use to clash a lot and she wld just take things to another level. She wld call me ...
A. 11 February 2012: Your not wrong, but it's a strong person who can walk away from family and go it alone. Especially when they have children. You hate your mother, but you don't say anything about your children. They will be losing a grandparent if you never see ... (read in full...)
It's complicated, but she doesn't want to put in the effort. I really do care for her!
Q. I have an issue. I am complicated with a girl that I've since highschool. We have gone out our senior year for a year into our freshman year of college (which was long distance) until complications got in the way. After our breakup, for about a...
A. 11 February 2012: Either be a proper boyfriend to this girl or leave her alone to find someone else. At the moment she's stuck in situation where she's not free but she's not committed. You both still have feelings, and therefore cannot "just be friends". If you ... (read in full...)
Every time I ask my partner to change positions or try something different, he goes limp!
Q. I have been engaged since mid september and my fiancé and I truly love each other. There is one problem. Every time I ask him to change positions or say lets try this... He goes limp and can't get up for like a hour if it at all. I always say it ...
A. 11 February 2012: Yes it's a problem, men's ego's are delicate, and if they feel inadequate the dick doesn't work. How about not saying anything next time, maybe the talking breaks his mood and makes him start to question himself. Try just moving his hands, or mo... (read in full...)
The sex law does not stop any teenager from having sex, why is it always slammed in our faces that we're underage?
Q. Hi, i am not looking to have sex. But i have questions on the sex law. It doesn't stop anyone! I know a pregnant 8th grader! On secret life of the american teenager, amy got pregnant at 15! But why when girls my age (15) ask to go on the pill, its ...
A. 11 February 2012: The doctor put me on the pill for medical reasons at 14. I was so angry with him, because he hadn't asked my mother's permission, and I assumed that he thought that I was having sex. He didn't, he thought I was responsible and needed it for ... (read in full...)
Cheating boyfriend's passport expired 3 years ago! Should I call immigration on him?
Q. What kind of a person does this? this guy is seriously sick!!? I loved my ex bf so much.. I thought we were in love.. He was so sweet.. Told me he loved me everyday.. He never gave my a reason to doubt him. Everything was great. We had g...
A. 11 February 2012: If it's a British Passport it doesn't matter if it's expired or if he doesn't have one. UK and European Citizens don't need a passport to stay in the country. If it's a visa, that's a different matter... but unless you know the law, he might still ... (read in full...)
I found my boyfriend's logged in on multiple sex sites but he swears it wasnt him, just a hacker using his details. Is that even possible?
Q. ok so here it goes, last year i found something on my bf laptop by accident he was sitting next to me and i asked wat it was,i logged into it coz his face was strange and it brought me to a profile with all his details on a fuck buddie site, logged ...
A. 11 February 2012: Hoping Maverick would come back on this one, cause she knows a lot more than me... she says it's not possible, I don't think it's possible.. I'm gonna stop feeding any hope and agree that your decision to walk away is right.
You've consider... (read in full...)
I found my boyfriend's logged in on multiple sex sites but he swears it wasnt him, just a hacker using his details. Is that even possible?
Q. ok so here it goes, last year i found something on my bf laptop by accident he was sitting next to me and i asked wat it was,i logged into it coz his face was strange and it brought me to a profile with all his details on a fuck buddie site, logged ...
A. 10 February 2012: Stuff and bother, more complicated.
So he wasn't hacked, he just opened an email which then took you to a link which says he's registered. Not sure what pof is, that needs explaining.
I had a virus which decided to send every friend in my contac... (read in full...)
Why on earth would my partner keep a bottle of 'Dick Lick' from a previous liaison. Eugghhh!
Q. I have struggled with trust with my new partner for some time. We managed to put to bed the things that were troubling me (and they were NOT small I can tell you). All has been good but I have now discovered two more things that are making me ...
A. 10 February 2012: I don't think this relationship will work... your always stumbling across things that bother you, and it doesn't sound like you'll ever trust her.
You didn't mention that the lube had been moved, that wasn't part of your story. But no matter w... (read in full...)
I found my boyfriend's logged in on multiple sex sites but he swears it wasnt him, just a hacker using his details. Is that even possible?
Q. ok so here it goes, last year i found something on my bf laptop by accident he was sitting next to me and i asked wat it was,i logged into it coz his face was strange and it brought me to a profile with all his details on a fuck buddie site, logged ...
A. 10 February 2012: Yes, maverick is right... it's unlikely to be an ex, even if she remembered all his passwords and he didn't change them... she couldn't be sure if he or you, or anyone he knows would ever see any sex sites. She more likely hack into his social ... (read in full...)
When I asked my FWB partner not to have sex with her disgusting ex because I don't want to end up contracting a disease, she thought I was accusing her. Did I do the right thing?
Q. So I had a fwb thing with going on with someone and she said how much she hated her ex and what not and her ex did act like a complete dick. He even at one point seemed to be bragging to her how he's having sex with so many women and doing meth (I ...
A. 10 February 2012: FWB is about friendship (hopefully) and sex. Not much more to it. But it's also a contract, and you do have the right to set some conditions, like not sleeping with other people who might be diseased.
As a friend you should warn her about he... (read in full...)
Why on earth would my partner keep a bottle of 'Dick Lick' from a previous liaison. Eugghhh!
Q. I have struggled with trust with my new partner for some time. We managed to put to bed the things that were troubling me (and they were NOT small I can tell you). All has been good but I have now discovered two more things that are making me ...
A. 10 February 2012: Oh dear, are we supposed to throw them out.. How come nobody told me? Doctor didn't say anything, neither did the chemist.. them things are expensive, maybe she likes to save money. I'm sure you throw them out before the expiry date and that's all ... (read in full...)
Can a boy in college around pretty girls stay a virgin?
Q. Hey Everyone, okay, so this guy that I'm not actually officially dating, but we have been a thing for almost two years is away at college. which is kind of why we're not together. He tells me he is still a virgin, but I don't believe him because ...
A. 10 February 2012: If your not "official dating", and he's been pushing you for sex, and he's moved away to college, it's unlikely that his virginity state will be your problem. It's unlikely he'll keep his virginity for a girl he's not in a dating relationship ... (read in full...)
I told him I'm a virgin, but I've done things with guys...it turned him off
Q. So.. I've been dating this guy for a week. Im a virgin. He's not. He asked about my past, I had done some things and it totally turned him off. But, I was completely honest with him because I didn't want to lie to him. What do I do?...
A. 10 February 2012: And at 13-15years old, how come you two are talking sex after only a week?... (read in full...)
I told him I'm a virgin, but I've done things with guys...it turned him off
Q. So.. I've been dating this guy for a week. Im a virgin. He's not. He asked about my past, I had done some things and it totally turned him off. But, I was completely honest with him because I didn't want to lie to him. What do I do?...
A. 10 February 2012: 13-15years old... stop doing anything with guys until your older, as you see they don't think much of you because of this.
It's really easy to get a bad name for doing sexual things too young and with too many guys... once you get that name, it... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend winking at me mean anything?
Q. My boyfriend winks at me a lot, and sometimes raises his eyebrows at me lol. Does this always mean something sexual, or can it mean something else too?. We haven't had sex with each other yet, by the way. I stayed at his house once though, and he ...
A. 9 February 2012: Sounds like code for "hey babes, it's good, we got it good, we are something special and nobody else has this".. the winking is known as smug.
You seem caught up on sex... sometimes guys that are nice do like to take the time to just get to know ... (read in full...)
Is making love different from other sex?
Q. Tonight I met my lover, who is a married woman. We have been together 2.5 years. I am not married and she has told me in the past that she does not plan to leave her husband. She seemed very eager to see me. She gave me a very thorough and nau...
A. 9 February 2012: You can't tell by sex if a person is in love or not. Gentle tenderness doesn't mean love, it can be just another way to have sex. People can have rough sex all the time and still be in love, otherwise they'd be a lot more divorces. Some people ... (read in full...)
Au naturale...
Q. I read in a newspaper recently that a lot of women are beginning to stay 'natural' i.e no shaving their arm pits, etc, I am wondering what readers of 'dearcupid.org think about that suggestion....
A. 9 February 2012: And about what men think... mmmmmm... they might mention it for a second or so.... but they don't seem to mind a lot after we get closer... But I'd really like one day to do the double shaving thing. A guy who dumps me because of me hair.. not... (read in full...)
Au naturale...
Q. I read in a newspaper recently that a lot of women are beginning to stay 'natural' i.e no shaving their arm pits, etc, I am wondering what readers of 'dearcupid.org think about that suggestion....
A. 9 February 2012: Yippie!!! I'm in fashion again.... I can't be bothered to shave because I'm lazy. Sometimes shave in the summer if I fancy getting dressed up, and this is only because the summer clothes show more of the body. Also might shave if I'm feeling ... (read in full...)
I found my boyfriend's logged in on multiple sex sites but he swears it wasnt him, just a hacker using his details. Is that even possible?
Q. ok so here it goes, last year i found something on my bf laptop by accident he was sitting next to me and i asked wat it was,i logged into it coz his face was strange and it brought me to a profile with all his details on a fuck buddie site, logged ...
A. 9 February 2012: OK, so it's out of character, it's not like him to do this. But no strange hacker could do something like this. No strange hacker would want to do this.
The fact that he has gone and told his mum this isn't a relief, guys who are lying go and l... (read in full...)
I found my boyfriend's logged in on multiple sex sites but he swears it wasnt him, just a hacker using his details. Is that even possible?
Q. ok so here it goes, last year i found something on my bf laptop by accident he was sitting next to me and i asked wat it was,i logged into it coz his face was strange and it brought me to a profile with all his details on a fuck buddie site, logged ...
A. 4 February 2012: Don't think hackers know your dick size or your car?
If he's telling people about his dick, the girls aint the skank, he is.
The guy is a liar and he is a cheat, first chance he gets he'll be doing sex with someone else, if he's not already.... (read in full...)
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