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writes:I'm wandering what women think of performing oral sex on men? Do women actually spend time thinking about or desiring to do it or is it merely something they do for the pleasure of their man? I know it varies from person to person but I know women who said they wouldn't care if they ever did it again. I can't imagine a man saying that about performing on a woman. Also, do women enjoy swallowing when a man ejaculates?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): as for me and my girlfriends we all agree that we love it.
for me, i do think about it and desire it. i can see a man in a grocery store and wonder how he would feel in my mouth. just wish i had the guts to go up to one of those strange men and tell him that.
i take it personally if he does not cum in my mouth. the moment he does, the movement of his body, the sound of him moaning ......at this moment you are all woman.
i climax just from giving a man head.
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of course from some married male friends, poor guys....i hear the wifey refuses because she does not want to get icky. puhlease...........
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): I gave head for the first time this evening and not only was it enjoyable for him (clearly) but i also really enjoyed myself. I thought his semen tasted really nice to be honest but he does have a good diet and drinks tonsssss of water :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): My wife and I have been married for over 10 years. Our sex usually consists of me giving oral to her, 4-6 times, with an orgasm each time. We then choose a position and have vaginal intercourse. 10% of the time she gives me head as foreplay but never finishes the job. She has only swallowed once in more than ten years. I am quite physically fit, shower once or twice a day and am as caring as I know how to be. I have talked to her about how badly I would like her to give me a bj as often as I give her oral b/c that would be a major turn on. Swallowing would, of course, be an added bonus. I am to the point of resentment and jealousy. What should I do?
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reader, notorioustasha  +, writes (20 March 2008):
I dont mind giving my boyfriend head on some occasions i love it but then there can be times where im reluctant lol..
my boyfreind can tell when im not that into giving him head as im not doing it right.
I Like Giving Head Lol :D hahaha
ermmm swolling semen hmmmm it depends iv swolled his load a cuple of times sometimes i like the taste but then there is days where it is tangy and sour but i find if u swollow it as soon as it shoots then things are okai..cus there has been times were i have been reluctant to swolow his load and therefore swolled half and that way i get the full flavor of his semen.. lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): For me personally..its not that bad...I actually rather give blowjobs cuz when I give a hand job I just kind of look at my boyfriend's penis and wonder what it would be like to lick it or just go at it...It is more curiosity for me and I do enjoy the fact that he gets pleasure out of it but I don't think I could say I could live w/o giving them. Then about the swallowing cum part..I don't really mind it at all..but every guy varies w/ how much and how it tastes and how it comes out. My boyfriend isn't bad at all and I never even notice him cumming in my mouth half the time..it's kind of strange..but still blowjobs are fun for me.
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reader, Gena Bullock  +, writes (11 March 2008):
 This is a real stickler of a question... no pun intended. To each his own or, er, her own--I say. Most women probably do it because it pleases their partner; some do it because they really do like it and the small few could care less if they ever did it again. It takes a gentle, caring man to coax a woman into doing it if she's adamant about it. Going slow is the best method and if it doesn't work out the first time--spits and sputters, BUT she's willing to try again IF you are caring about it. Hey, I'd say it's up to you guys in the long run. We're game (most of us) if you're gentle.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): I love receiving head but really don't mind weather the girl swallows or not, if she takes it in her mouth and then let's it run out over her naked body or just let's me ejaculate all over her face- it's just as good for me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008): i simiply think that blowjobs are fun to recieve but some women or girls doesnt like to give it. if its up to me i wouldnt make a women give me one unless im really horny. but yeah i think blow job is as normal as a guy licking the vagina which to me is normal and i think alot of guys out there including me does it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2008): I personally love giving head...when I was younger though I thought it was a horrible chore. However, now there are times I really really want it. I also don't mind swallowing it really doesn't bother me, I'll admitt some men do not taste amazing, but hell I'm sure there have been moments when I have not been my best smelling down there either!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2007): I am a 51 year old male, a swinger with a modest amount of experience and my observations is that the women who don't like it are having sex with an erroneous stereotypes mindset. I have met many women who absolutely LOVE to swallow and/or fill their mouths with a nice warm load to savor and share. I have tasted my own many times, so I know exactly what it tastes like. Once a person figures out that it is no big deal, they relax and begin a wonderful lifetime habit. In my experience, the women who refuse to try are clinging to misinformation/immature locker room stories from their youth. Most men who practice healthy dietary habits have cum that tastes fine... It is as simple as that...
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2007): I've been giving and receiving oral satisfaction for some 45 years. After the movie, "Deep Throat" came out in about 1970, I think, the interest in women swallowing a man's sperm seemed to skyrocket.In the beginning, I kind of thought is was rather nasty, but many girlfriends over the years wanted to do it. I naturally spent a lot of time pleasing them orally as well, and I have swallowed a lot of female ejaculate. Some folks don't seem to know that women shoot fluid as well, and I haven't heard much said about it.It's never harmed me, and my sperm has gone into many female tummies. To the best of my knowledge, they stayed healthy, lovely and wanted more.Their skin tone and texture always seemed brighter and vibrant for days. As far as taste is concerned, a guy should eat a lot of fruit, such as pineapple, cherries, grapes and blueberries during the 24-hours or so before his girl will swallow. The fructose usually sweetens the semen. Other sweet, sugary foods also help. Daily vitamin supplements are a very good idea to ensure your girl gets a good, healthy load. Why do some men love it? It's the incredible feeling. An eager woman who learns to please this way, and enjoys it, can do things with her lips, tongue and throat that a man will never experience any other way. It takes practice and experience to really master. It is more stimulating than a vagina, which is usually just static, although I've always loved the feeling and warmth there too, before the other.But again, the important thing is to thoroughly please the lady first. Try to give her multiple orgasms any way that she enjoys it before she does this. She will usually be more willing and eager.Best wishesDoubleM in Texas
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): Yeah,
Getting oral is perhaps one of the best sexual experience a woman can GIVE man-AND vice versa.
But the fact is the whole concept of oral is NATURAL-it is perhaps the Nature's way of cleaning AND preparing the parts that are needed for reproduction.
For example imagine the pain during labout. If sex isn't so pleasurable humankind would have been extinct before the Jurassic park? (LOL)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007): As a man I love to go down on a woman. Its the most beautiful thing I have ever done, especially if you can feel the clitoris rise then she comes. But, having tasted my own sperm I hated it. It stuck in my throat.
Anon
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): i gave 'head' for the first time today and it was wonderful, i will defo be doing it again yes i swallowed to and after the initial gagging reflex got into a rythm that worked fine. he was please, i was pleased end of story.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): Its normal Its good its natural and I love to do swallow it all 15 to 20 men at a short.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): As a woman I rather agree with my boyfriend. I love Swallow. Its good for skin specially for the face. I swallowed many hundred time and that is the reason even at the age of 30 I am still looks 22. I usually like to swallow from 10 to 12 men at a time. Its taste extremely good to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2007): I am a women in my mid forties with decades of parters and sexual experience, I feel no pressure to answer any particular way but honestly. This act is something I would do for a man I had “only” deep affection for after I felt he valued and respected me only. How a man affectionately makes love to a women, touches her reveals how he values her, and cares about her pleasure building slowly, sensuously, erotically. Is loving foreplay present, kissing, touching, or just forcing his cock in her mouth immediately, so all sex is not the same and equal. It can be cruel and abusive out of context. It is a highly emotional issue for me and can trigger bad feelings of being abused, demeaned, degraded, dominated and humiliated. It's not something I fantasize about, like men fantasize about having sex with females, their instinct is primal, driven biologically by hard wiring. Women, I would assume if honest, do not get aroused by this act, don't obsess, think about it going about their daily business, and if not aroused by our partners first, feel this is a uncomfortable chore, creating sore jaws, sometimes gagging with this unnaturally large object in our oral cavity, not anatomically designed by nature that will make for getting turned on, actually getting highly agitated by extreme at time torturous discomfort. Thoughts of shopping lists, and hopes its over quickly seem to surface more often than not. I do not want to do this without being sufficiently turned on first, then I'm more agreeable to mutually please him. There is not a single biological evolutionary hard wiring in females to do this, It serves no reproductive purpose other than for the males sole pleasure of using the female for this selfish purpose, it‘s not mutual sex act taking place like intercourse would be. Care must be taken by males, not to force this act, push her head down there unless she's willing after feeling respected cared for and loved, the right context in a relationship with a good sexual loving history between. This can be a male aggressive act, like raping her mouth again if done out of context. If I never had to do this for another man it would not matter, as I do only to please someone who is very special, not for a say a one night stand situation. A man has to earn this special privilege. I do not wish my mouth to be used as an object repository for male semen, like dog pisses on a fire hydrant to relieve itself, the key is mutual loving relationship. And no, I don’t perform oral while he ejaculates. That’s where I drawn the line for my own personal tastes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2007): Well my opinion is if you want me to go down and lick around down there until you orgasm then you should be prepared to return the favour.
Cheers
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2007): A workmate of mine swallows and seems to do it for everyone. She says it tastes different according to the diet of the guy i.e. beer and curry not so good. She got it shot in the eye once and said it really irritated her eye.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2007): I just read the answers from the other women and I don't think they are telling the whole truth.Women give men what they want so we can get what we want.As soon as we get them to say "I do",we don't have to do it anymore.I don't care for it but I smile sweetly at him and let him think that "Oh baby,your so great". We have better things to do besides build up their ego's so they won't be pouting all day long.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2007): i love having the feeling of hotcum buried in my mouth.... i don't know why but I just do taking my man and having his load and swallowing it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2007): I do this for my boyfriend as I am totally in love with him and want to make him ecstatically happy in bed. The technique is to make sure he warns you he is about to come, then you can prepare to swallow it in one go without actually tasting it. If you dont do it right, the taste is absolutely sickening.Another tip is to let it slip out the corner of your mouth, he thinks you are swallowing when your NOT.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2007): I do this for my boyfriend as I am totally in love with him and want to make him ecstatically happy in bed. The technique is to make sure he warns you he is about to come, then you can prepare to swallow it in one go without actually tasting it. If you dont do it right, the taste is absolutely sickening.Another tip is to let it slip out the corner of your mouth, he thinks you are swallowing when your NOT.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2007): My wife says it's like trying to swallow an uncooked slab of warm hairy meat, which isn't a very imaginative or poetic simile, and I like to think 'hairy' exaggerates the case, but I find the overall literalness fairly persuasive. I mean, how do you counter that?
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reader, love-him +, writes (10 June 2007):
 Hia i love giving head and the first time i swallowed, my ex was extremely bad as his semen burned my lips which was horrible but my current boyfriend we enjoy things like that. hope i helped x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2007): I actiualy enjoy giving a guy head! i think the dick tastes good and it feels good in my mouth :D
personaly though I do NOT! like cum! cuz the guy I gave oral to cum was like spicy and burned my mouth...its was a fairly bad experience but i swallowed anyways
so i guess every woman has her own prefecneces on the taste of cum, and the cum of every guy differs so overall it just depends on the guys cum and the womans likes
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reader, cd206 + ♥, writes (9 June 2007):
 I don't actually mind performing oral sex on a guy but I must admit I don't really like swallowing. I will do it if a guy tells me it's a massive turn on because sometimes we have to do things we don't like for someone else but generally I'd rather not!
CD
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reader, Sincere_07 +, writes (9 June 2007):
I totally agree with Tasteofindia, it does vary from woman to woman. I can truthfully say when i am thinking about what i am going to do to my boyfriend when i get home, i do think about the technique i will use.
If you were to ask a group of 10 women this question you would get a lot of different answers. Some only do it when drunk, some don't swallow, some do, some won't let you near their mouths. It is all about personal preference, it has nothing to do with how much you love your partner.
Again, i don't swallow but i do find it an enormous turn on to give "head". To know i am pleasuring my boyfriend (and lets face it its obvious) in such an enormous way gives me pleasure as well.
Since my boyfriend quit smoking his semen does taste different but it's not something i generally enjoy on my menu for the day and have only partaken when taken by suprise.
With regards to the comment made about not wanting it in the eye, i can honestly say having it in your belly button is not one of my favorite experiences. It is a fluid that you can't wipe off easily it sort of spreads when you wipe, and a sticky belly button is not nice.
With regards to a woman saying she will never do it again you may find they have had a bad experience or have a very sensitive gag reflex. The gag reflex can be worked on, i was the worlds worst for when i brushed my teeth if i went to far back i used to gag. I read up on this and you can train yourself not to do this. Practise obviously makes perfect so if your girlfriend is a bit embarressed by practising on you she can try with other objects when your are not around.
I do hope this is helpful x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2007): i used to absolutely hate the thought of it, but im now with someone for a few years who i really love and i like doing it for him, mainly because he likes it i dont get excited waiting to do it, its for him but i dont hate it anymore. it really depends on the woman and who she giving it to. i know its a vague answer but its the truth.
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reader, TasteofIndia + ♥, writes (9 June 2007):
 I know you don't want to hear that it varies from person to person, but there's no other way arounder it - it does. Every woman, just like every man is different in their tastes. (Hard to believe, but some guys hate going down on women. Hate it! Dread it! Loathe it! Crazy, right?)
Personally, I enjoy giving head to my boyfriend. I never swallow just because the taste grosses me out, but so far there are no complaints from him. I am very open minded and the only request I make of him is - none in the mouth (or the eye. Ahh!!). I love it mostly because it gives my man such pleasure and that is a turn on for me. But, I wouldn't say that I spend time thinking about it. Occasionally, sure, but certainly not on the hour.
Hope you get lots of responses to your query, sweetness.
xxIndia
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