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writes:i was wondering does it hurt the first time a girl has sex and if so how can the pain be stoped?can someone please tell me:does it hurt a lotdo you bleed does it only hurt the first timeis there anthing that can prepare me the first time ? Reply to this Question
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reader, Lexi2010  +, writes (16 February 2010):
 Look Im 16 and I had sex about 3 months ago.. It Hurt like hell..
Not gunna lie.. But Tell the guy that U want him to go slow.. it will hurt But if u lube up and he does too.. it shouldnt hurt as bad..
It might hurt u the first couple of times u do it, But u have got to relax.. and u might bleed.. I didnt.. but who knows.. Good luck..
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reader, lolliopoRTL +, writes (17 June 2008):
Hey there hun, well to start off yes sex can hurt, but it depends on the person. like my first time id didnt hurt to bad. Before you have sex, have your man either finger you, or go down on you (oral) that usually helps, the wetness and you being "in the mood" will help a great amount.
As of bleeding, some girls bleed, but in depends on your body. If you do a lot of sports, or horse back ridding, you shouldn't bleed. If you bleed don't be alarmed, it's normal and he wont think it's weird. But make sure when you have sex, be sure that your ready. The biggest advice of all is use a condom.!!! Good luck chicca
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2007): well i think that on my first time it really didn't hurt as much as u think it will maybe just a lil bit but the pain is bearable it's not a pain u can't handle
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2007): well i think it does hurt but not the whole time. To make it not hurt you can ask him to finger you to make you more loose so it dosnt hurt. and you will prob, bleed. its called your cherry pops=) that dosnt hurt though. but it might get a little messyy=D only have sex if your ready. and theres only a 20% change of getting pregnant just so u knoww=)
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reader, tasha556 +, writes (11 June 2007):
 it can hurt first time and the amount of pain depends on you. if you are calm, relaxed and ready it shouldnt be as painful. normaly girls do bleed but some lose theres without realising it by horse riding etc so if you dont bleed dont be alarmed. if your going to have sex make sure: you are ready you are 16 and hes mr right
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reader, darksecretangel +, writes (11 June 2007):
 Yes unfortunatly sex does hurt the first time, it does hurt for the first couple of times until you get used to it. for you to be prepared you should really be turned on enough so you have to be absolutly sure that its what you want at the sperfic time. But hun you are only young and im thinking if that is what you want to do go ahead but dont forget legal age is 16.
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reader, love-him +, writes (11 June 2007):
 Hia babii, well to start off, everyone is different =].. there are ways you can loosen yourself up.. you can maybe finger yourself, or get ur man to? or maybe work a little bit or oral (from him) to act as a lubricant and also wetness.. there may be a small amount of blood, which is when your hymen is broken into.. the reason u may not bleed, is cos maybe if you do a lot of sport or horseriding? or just running, can stratch it and then it would have broken itself which u would just have thaught to be a period (so wot im tryin 2 say is if u dont bleed ur not weird) some people who have sex find it hurts for quite a few times after, it depends on many things, wether you are lubricated, relaxed, how big the penis is.. For preparation ideas, id suggest a calm atmosphere, like a bedroom, nothin outdoors..for the first time.. umm make sure u are relaxed, maybe start off with a little bit of ksisin n touchin to get you both in 'the mood'.. maybe (if u havent already) research a few facts on sex, like on the internet, ways you can relax yourself.. i hope i helped, and if u eva wanna talk mail me kai x x x oo and dont get pressured into anything and safe sex is gurrd lol !! x x x
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reader, Straight Up +, writes (11 June 2007):
Well because nothing has ever been there before it’s probably going to hurt as for you bleeding that depends on how you do it and whether your body is sensitive. My advice is to just relax I know it’s going to be hard as it’s your first time you have a lot of expectations but don’t expect too much. And make sure your ready other it’s not going to be a very nice experience
goodluck
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