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Nothing Qulifies me to help people except for my own personal experiences with in life, my mistakes, my regrets and my tiumphs.
I currently live in London, England and have my whole life, Although i do plan to Move when im Older. Havent decided where. Possibly Canada or Australia.
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I'm embarrased because I have small breasts
Q. I'm embarrased because i have small breasts and get called names for them. Im like an A cup and im 14. 15 in feb. Im wondering if sleeping with a bra stops their growth because i always sleep with one on. I need help...
A. 5 November 2007: Since everyone discussed development im gonna tell you a secret about most men and breast.
When it comes to breasts, breast is best. Most guys dont care what size they are as long as they are breast.
Some men/teens prefer smaller boobs, some lar... (read in full...)
Can my friendship survive?
Q. My husband is firing my best friend's husband. Can my friendship with her survive?...
A. 5 November 2007: I doubt it will
Sorry to say, but i doubt she will be happy our husband fired hers... (read in full...)
Sometimes I ejaculate in my pants without any masterbation.
Q. Sometimes I ejaculate in my pants without any masterbation. How do i stop this?...
A. 5 November 2007: Chances are it is pre-cum like martini said and explained.
To stop try not to get arroused so much, but this is really hard to do (no pun meant) it happens to every teen male and even older ones.... (read in full...)
Her boyfriend has a foot fetish.
Q. I have a friend who has a question, Her boyfriend has a foot fetish. Basically he likes her to stand on toy cars and things like that in chunky heeled boots and high heels. She says he's a really nice bloke but she doesn't know what to do? As ...
A. 5 November 2007: Im not sure what the problem is here yet alone the actual question, and i dont know what you really wanna hear here.
Dump Him? Go Along? Hes a Perv?
You already said its not harming anyone, so there really is no issue.Alot of people have foot fe... (read in full...)
Why do men always find someone else first?
Q. Why do most men always get another woman before they break up? Are women braver than men? ...
A. 30 October 2007: Not all men do, thats just a generalisation.
Bravy depends on individual people and also if they find partners before thay break up with another.... (read in full...)
Should we meet up or not?
Q. I met this guy at a wedding but, his 43 and im 21, we had cemistry from the firts moment we layed eyes on each other. but the problem is his never been married but his got two children with 2 different women. Now he wants to meet up, should i or ...
A. 30 October 2007: Well you said you have chemistry so why not. The girlsfriend are out of the question i see no problem.... (read in full...)
We are devoted Christians, is it okay to share a bed?
Q. My Fiance and i are Christians,She visited me and was too late for her to go back,she had to spend the night in my house(one roomed house with 1 bed). Please tell me was i suppose to sleep together on one bed? or i leave her and go to a lodg...
A. 26 October 2007: Well i doubt it would, because you are not having sex before marriage. But if you are truely not sure ask your spiritual leader for help.... (read in full...)
I've been sneaking out of the house.
Q. I have been sneaking out of my house and doing bad things. Last weekend me and my friend went to my friends house and stayed the night and said that we were staying at my other friends house. The next morning they called my friends mom, the girl who ...
A. 24 October 2007: well if you really are 18+ i see no reason you should sneak out of your home. Your a woman now and should have the freedom that comes with it. Do what you want and spend timewith who you want to.
If your mum drinks to much dont ignore it try and ... (read in full...)
Can my boyfriend have babies at the age of 37 and up?
Q. hello! im 21, and still have a family to make i have the man of 5years i want and love, i have always wanted to have kids my b/f is 37 if your some1 or no a man thats had kids this age please let me no an give me some hope for a family ive al...
A. 24 October 2007: Yes. Men can have children quite into their later stages of life... (read in full...)
I don't like my boyfriend looking at other women!
Q. I don't like it when my boyfriend looks at other girls in public, I find it humiliating. If I initiate sex or give him a blow job before we go out, is there less chance that he will look at other girls because he's just had an orgasm? Or would it ...
A. 23 October 2007: Martini said it all again.
It would be nice if the people we were with looked at us and only us. Maybe with the look we had when we were 16 and in "love" but truely its a pipe dream.
Men and Women will always have a wondering eye but doesnt m... (read in full...)
I'm torn between a possible career or love.
Q. hey guys, i have a simple small question to ask I have thought about joining the army for awhile now and i was thinking i should do it but the problem is, i dont want to leave my girlfriend behind, i dont trust her to say that she'll wait for ...
A. 23 October 2007: i have to also say you cant have you cake and eat it too. I believe that you should think of your long term life and future.
Do you believe thearmy can give you the life you want, do you believe you and your girlfriend will be together fore... (read in full...)
Me? a Poser?
Q. If you are in a long term relationship, is going into chat rooms posing as a single person classed as cheating? ...
A. 23 October 2007: it could be concieved as emotional cheating as martini said... (read in full...)
Will wearing it compramise my beliefs, or make it hard to follow them?
Q. Me and my boyfriend of 6 months ended up going into a halloween store after we'd found out our friends were throwing a halloween party. After looking around a bit we came to the women's section. We stood there for a while and he asked me if i liked ...
A. 22 October 2007: Well im assuming you wanna wait until marriage to have sex which is ok.
But i think wearing a sey halloween dress wont compromise your belifs unless you actually do have sex. Theres no reason you cant just have fun with the dress. Like give him a er... (read in full...)
Is it ok to betray her?
Q. Well, I've known this guy for over 8 years. I've always seen him as one of my best friends. We're both in Year 9 now. He's been in a relationship with my friend for 8 months, and recently split up with her. It's been about 2 months now. Now he to...
A. 21 October 2007: i disagree with aredas. I dont think being a true friend counts here, I dont know for sure but i bet this guy hurt your friend when he broke up with her because of another girl(you. So she said she wouldnt talk to you if you date him as if you do ... (read in full...)
The great idea to ask her out.
Q. Ok so I'mn getting ready to ask out a girl that I really like and I've got a plan... So I get he rLocker Com and write her a note, give her a Necklcae and a Rose (Rose is her middle name). So sound like a good plan? ...
A. 21 October 2007: sounds great, very good idea. But dont get her the necklace, just yet. Hopefully she will say yes but giving her the necklace could either make her feel obliged to go out or if she says no you will be out of pocket.
The rose and note are good idea... (read in full...)
Does a bloke only say what he means?
Q. Is it true that a bloke only ever says what he means and are there exceptions (e.g. like when he's playin you)?...
A. 21 October 2007: It depends on the guy
Some lie alot, while others are truthful. Its hard to know the difference so its not much help.
Basically not all men are the same. Some are fools some are nice... (read in full...)
Should I expect that my live-in bf know my middle name and birthday?
Q. I've been with my live-in boyfriend for 5 months. Should I expect that he know my middle name and birthday? Turns out he doesn't ( I know his) and he thinks I'm overreacting to be upset that he does not know these two things. Just looking for ...
A. 21 October 2007: i agree with phil here
Tell him once - good for you
Tell him twice - Yell at him... (read in full...)
Who is right and who is wrong? I woke up in the middle of the night and my husband was at the PC, chatting.
Q. We had a great day together. Around midnight I went to bed, he was watching a game on TV. I woke up at 2:30am and he was not in bed. Without much thought I went downstairs. He is on his computer, chatting. He said he was chatting with his coworkers. ...
A. 21 October 2007: i may be a man but i dont get whats wrong here. yes he did overreact to the issue. But he could of lost track of time easily when he was chatting to his mates. Also he could be doing much much worse than chatting to co-workers, he coulda invited ... (read in full...)
My partner is an environmentalist and I'm tired of being getting lectured and reprimanded! I feel like a child!
Q. My boyfriend is French and I'm American. We do very well together excepting one thing. I have many bad habits and I'm very bad at being an environmentalist (in which he is). He tells me what I ought to be doing and for the most part he is usually ...
A. 19 October 2007: how about you sit him down and make a small comprimise on one thing on how to do your part. Its what we do at my house. For example turning of a light or using less heat.
I know being lectured is annoying but compromise can be the key here as anno... (read in full...)
How can I find if he went with a prostitute?
Q. I think my bf of 4 years has cheated on me with a prostitute.I asked him, he denied know but I im having a problem believing him so. How can I go about finding out?...
A. 17 October 2007: i think the only way you can tell if he did is if he admits to visiting a hooker or you actually find the hooker he visited.
First ask yourself why you think he visited one and then see if you wanna ask him one more time.... (read in full...)
It looked like they took a photo of us . . . . . .
Q. i was with my freinds and we were just talking bye the gate at school (there is a football pitch right bye our school) there were two men on a buggy cart (i didnt realy know what it was but they suddenly stoped (directly in facing us)and we saw a ...
A. 16 October 2007: A photo of you talking maybe be nothing but i would definently tell a teacher or your parents that you think a man is acting weird outside of your school. They will either stand with you and the man wont come back or they can call up the police to ... (read in full...)
When does a guy pre-cum?
Q. Just wanted to know as this sounds dumb.. when does a guy pre-cum???? as me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex but he stopped when he felt like he was cumming, but i know u can get pregnant from pre-cum...
A. 16 October 2007: a guy can pre-cum any time he is arroused during sex or not.
But its VERY likely he pre-cummed during sex... (read in full...)
After dating me for 4 months he says he is married! What should I do with him?
Q. My boyfriend just told me he is married after dating me for 4 months he said he didn't tell me because he did not want to lose me. He feels that if I knew I would leave him. What should I do with him. Keep him or throw him to the curb??...
A. 11 October 2007: Get him out of your life and move on. He is a user... (read in full...)
Is it ok to have female friends?
Q. Is it ok for married man to have female friends? No sex just talking on the phone and text messaging? ...
A. 10 October 2007: Yes it is.... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Big milestone..... over 300,000 unique visitors over the past month :-)
Q. Cool... Over the past month, from Sept 8th to Oct 9th we had over 300,000 unique visitors to the site! According to google analytics we had 302,516 visitors. It doesn't seem that long ago I was posting when we had passed 250,000 visitors/month. ...
A. 9 October 2007: WOW we were saying 250,00 was great not so long ago. 300,00 is great.... (read in full...)
Can I believe my horoscope?
Q. Are Star Signs always true? I'm a Pisces, and he's a Virgo. Our Star Signs are incompatible, yet we're crazy for each other. I love everything about him, because he's so different from me. I've found that I've got bored with the people...
A. 9 October 2007: Starsigns are usually very vague so they apply to everyone who reads them.
Also starsigns are "just for recreational purposes" so they mean nothing in real life.
Dont base your life on starsigns... (read in full...)
Masturbation - is it common?
Q. ive always wondered, is it okay to masturbate? is it common or not? everyone goes round saying 'you're a wanker' etc. is this because everyone does it or am i a one off?...
A. 9 October 2007: Its very common, most males and females do it through out there life from teens until later life. And when people say your a wanker it doesnt have do anything with masterbation.... (read in full...)
He has nude pictures of himself on his computer. How do I tackle him about this?
Q. My boyfriend is moving in with me, therefore some of his stuff is already here.... like his computer. Last weekend i borrowed him my camera to take pictures at his job site. Today, I went on his computer to watch a movie and looked in his picture ...
A. 9 October 2007: truthly i dont see this as a problem. He took them of himself, not another girl, and he has every right to take pictures of himself naked or not. And they are on his PC.
So i dont see it as a problem really, maybe its different but nothing wron... (read in full...)
Can he be arrested for this?
Q. hey my friend just told me shes pregnant and shes only 13 and her bf is 17, she asked me if her bf can get arrested cuz shes under 16 but i didn't know so can anyone tell me if he can. thanx anyone who answers...
A. 8 October 2007: Yes he can be.The age of constent in britian is 16 so chances are he could be.... (read in full...)
Whats next?
Q. alright i am 11 me and my gf have done evreything together from kissing to holding hand what do we do next...
A. 7 October 2007: I think you should keep where you are for now. Holding hands and kissing are fine at your age but the next steps are big and are too big for your age. Have fun and enjoy yourself where you are no need to push yourself forward... (read in full...)
I want sex but I'm scared. Please help!
Q. I need help big time. I'm 12 yrs old and my bf is 13. We both want the same thing - sex. But i'm to scared. I feel ready but dont no if i should. He is so understanding n never rushes me he says if i dont want to than he'll wait. We've bee...
A. 7 October 2007: well firstly not to be parronising but age isnt just a number its more than that. Especially at your age. Your 12 your not psyically ready for sex let alone emotionally ready for the consquenes of sex.
Scondly the usually answer wheb thinking of h... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and fancy a boy who is 11 ~ Is this wrong?
Q. I am a 15 year old girl and fancy a boy in who is 11. Would it be wrong if we went out? ...
A. 4 October 2007: We cant control who we like. But yes it would be wrong to date he is far too young... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I have my period?
Q. I just started my period again and my bf wants to have sex with me. How do I tell him I have my period?...
A. 3 October 2007: Eddie said it perfectly.
Tell him that and he will back off... (read in full...)
Hand holding..why won't he?
Q. my boyfriend won't hold my hand and I don't know if he wants to or not? how do you tell?...
A. 3 October 2007: he may be a little shy, just give it time he will do it at his own pace.... (read in full...)
Can I lose my virginity with a sex toy?
Q. can i lose my virginity with a sex toy? i mean can i break my hymen with a sex toy and then it ll be easy for my husband pls help ?...
A. 3 October 2007: gcockerham is right you need to have sex with a man or a woman to lose your virginity.... (read in full...)
What are the relationship 'bases'?
Q. What are the bases in relationships?? x...
A. 3 October 2007: in the american sense uncle phil is correct.
In the other sense the others are correct.... (read in full...)
He's been planning this "suprise" for two months. He's rubbish at suprises! Will this come between us?
Q. can my man hating his job and keeping a surpise from me for 2 more months be affecting our relationship ? he is really bad at giving surprises and he has known about it for months already !!...
A. 3 October 2007: Im seriously confused aswell, with surprises its the thought the counts not if hes good at them or not.... (read in full...)
Legal in England for a 17 yr old girl to live with her bf, aged 21?
Q. HIYA, IS IT LEGAL IN ENGLAND FOR A 17 YEAR OLD GIRL TO LIVE WITH HER 21 YEAR OLD BOYFRIEND WITHOUT HER PARENTAL permission? [Note: caps off pls]...
A. 1 October 2007: nix-baby is wrong. Your still under 18 so you need parental permission still. Anyway your better of talking to your family about this rather than ditching them and possibly ruining our relationship with them.... (read in full...)
We like to have sex anywhere that could be fun, bus shelters etc; my bf is 17 and I'm 15, could this be wrong?
Q. is what im doing ok?? i like to be very passionate in the bedroom. i prefer to use handcuffs or belocked to a bed while a guy takes full advantage of me. i like to have sex in the back of a car, morrisons carpark, in bus shelters. on park benched or ...
A. 1 October 2007: Look when you get caught and eventually you will do, your boyfriend IS gonna get into trouble, he proberly will go to jail, he most likely will be put on the sex offenders register and he will ruin his entire life. For what? some public sex with an ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with my aunt-in-law. How can I get this to happen?
Q. I fancy my aunt-in-law and i want sex with her realy badly how could i get her to have sex with me...
A. 1 October 2007: first all of your to young for sex, especially with someone who is alot older than you.
Secondly you should have sex with a family member regardless of in-law status.
You may just have a crush on her which you cannot help and the sex is normal f... (read in full...)
How can I get my girlfriend ready for sex?
Q. Friends my gf is never ready for sex! please tell me what to do. How to make a girl ready for sex?? She never wants me to talk about sex and its very difficult to control... please help me out please!...
A. 1 October 2007: man you asked this question a little while back, and everyone answers will be the same. You have to wait for her to be ready.
you CANNOT force her.... (read in full...)
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