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Nothing Qulifies me to help people except for my own personal experiences with in life, my mistakes, my regrets and my tiumphs.
I currently live in London, England and have my whole life, Although i do plan to Move when im Older. Havent decided where. Possibly Canada or Australia.
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How can I get my girlfriend ready for sex?
Q. Friends my gf is never ready for sex! please tell me what to do. How to make a girl ready for sex?? She never wants me to talk about sex and its very difficult to control... please help me out please!...
A. 1 October 2007: man you asked this question a little while back, and everyone answers will be the same. You have to wait for her to be ready.
you CANNOT force her.... (read in full...)
Any good sites where I can meet people my age?
Q. does anyone know of a good website where i could meet people my age and in my area? not only boys but girls just for friendship too?...
A. 30 September 2007: Myspace, Facebaook and bebo are the obvious choices.
But WAYN or Where Are You Know is good. It connects people via there area they live in and you can see where people live etc.
Though a wordof warning be carful who you meet and watch yourself... (read in full...)
I want to have sex but my gf is never ready. Are there ways to make a girl ready?
Q. hey frnds ! i wanna know how to make a girl ready for sex??? i need to have sex but my girlfriend is never ready to do so!! i can't controle it....i need to have sex...plzzz help me out!!!!!!! thanxxxxxxxxx...
A. 29 September 2007: look you cant make a girl ready for sex. You have to wait for her to be ready in her own time.
If you really need it that badly find another girlfriend if your this impatient, as she shouldnt be forced into having sex before shes ready.... (read in full...)
What's the difference?, someone please explain.
Q. ok this is probably one of the most stupid questions you will have ever read but could you please try to answer it! What is actually the different between making love and just sex? I know it all involves the same thing but alot of people say its ...
A. 29 September 2007: In my view
Making love is when the two people involved truley love each other and "give themselves" emotionally and psychically during the sex.
Plain sex is just normal sex, with little emotional involved. Its completly psychical.
Hope it h... (read in full...)
I don't like how my boyfriend talks dirty! Should I dump him?
Q. my boyfriend talks dirity all the time hes says to ome oh my penis is hurtting do you want to see it i dont know if i should dump him or not cause i like him but i dont want him to say dirty things....
A. 28 September 2007: If you are 10-12 you are right to feel bad about him talking dirty to you. Tell him you dont like it, if he doesnt yes do leave him.... (read in full...)
Can men tell if you have had sex before or not?
Q. Can men tell if you have had sex before or not?...
A. 28 September 2007: i doubt it unless they are an OBGYN... (read in full...)
Is it better to have lost in love than to never have loved at all?
Q. Is it really better to have lost in love than to never have loved at all? If so, why does it hurt so bad....
A. 27 September 2007: YES. in my opinion love, whatever it is, is one of the best feelings in the world. Though losing love hurts you do get over it later. But never loving deprives you of feeling love in life... (read in full...)
Love produces love? Can one love be enough for both?
Q. Is there any true in the motto that Love always produces love? Can One's love(honest and indisputable one) produce love to other side(be it male or female) even if there exist no one? What you think, is it worth or futile endevour being with someone ...
A. 27 September 2007: No love does not produce love. Even if one party loves the other it takes something else for the other side to feel the same feelings for the person.
Yes it is futile to live someone who doesnt love you as sometimes they never will, its hurtful but ... (read in full...)
The phone rang after we had just finished sex. Was it ridiculous for me to want to answer the phone? Or for my husband to be hurt?
Q. My husband and I had just finished sex. The phone rang, and I answered it. My husband said it ruined the moment, and I should have let the answering machine pick it up and was really hurt. More info: *I didn't have to get up to answer the pho...
A. 27 September 2007: I can understand what he meant. Even though your were finished the psyical part of sex maybe he felt that cuddling or talk aftterwards is just as important as the actual sex and he thinks its rude to aswer the phone.
Next time dont answer it or unpl... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Wanted, your ideas for features and improvements!
Q. Hi I'm looking to get some input from everyone on what you'd like to see on the site. How can I make it easier to use? What new features would you like to see? Any annoyances or bugs you'd like to fix? Can I make the moderati...
A. 27 September 2007: How about the abilty for registered users to have alist of favioute questions.
Also for the question askers to have a sort of notification sent to their e-mails about their questions being answered, or a link to their questions as some people cant... (read in full...)
I like this guy, but he wants more from me than I can give
Q. i like this guy.and he likes me too,but i think he wonts more from me than i am willing to give wot should i tell him and haw?...
A. 27 September 2007: Just lay thr truth out for him. This is better than letting him get his hopes up then breaking them. The earlier you tell him to better.... (read in full...)
My friend asked out a girl and she said no. Does that mean he has no chance?
Q. my friend likes a girl and he aked her out she said no but, she saying no to everybody. does that mean he has no chance?...
A. 27 September 2007: It may mean 2 things.
She wants to be single or she doesnt feel that way about your friend.
Tell your friend to back of and just wait until she is ready to date if thats the problem. If she doesnt like him like that, he cant do anything. If so he... (read in full...)
After I got him off, I used antibacterial lotion on my hands - could I still get pregnant from touching myself?
Q. I am on the pill and last week I was on my period. I wacked my boyfriend off and then my hands off and used an antibacterial lotion. Later, I ended up touching myself when I took a shower. Am I possibly pregnant?...
A. 27 September 2007: Higly Unlikely... (read in full...)
I'm 31 and look 15 and I hate it... people tell me it's a blessing but it's not: it's a nightmare!
Q. Hi guys, I have an odd problem. I am 31 and I look about 15 and I hate it. I am having real problems with this. I do not get taken seriously, I always get id wherever I go, even if to but a lottery ticket. I dress well and wear make up and ...
A. 27 September 2007: Im sorry to say but i cant say anything to help you either.
It sounds like youve done alot to overcome your younger looks but it hasnt helped you at all.
Im the same, i look 11/12 when im 17. I get asked for ID when going into 12A movies, now that... (read in full...)
Joined a guitar class, does this guy like me?
Q. recently, i joined a guitar class. there is this guy i think i like. he is 4 years older than me (17 yrs old this yr) and in polytecnic. he likes the clerk at the centre. i dont want to tell him i like him because i am scared he will not like me and ...
A. 25 September 2007: i have to agree with leanne here.This guy is 14-16 way to old for a girl your age, sexually and emotionally. Your growing up and you will tons of crushs and these feelings ach one feels more significant than the next, but they usually are crushes. I ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to have a crush on someone if your married and have kids?
Q. Is it wrong to have a crush on someone if your married and have kids?...
A. 24 September 2007: i thinks its ok, but as long as that is where it ends. We cant control who we like really and its nice every now and again to get that feeling likeyour 16 again. But thats where it ends and aslong as you do love your husband its ok.... (read in full...)
My racist grandmother says things just to annoy my latino husband and I! What should I do?
Q. I don't know how to handle my grandmother. She says things just to annoy my husband and I. For example, she knows that it disgusts and annoys us when she says racist things and calls people things such as the "n" word, etc. (She and most of the ...
A. 24 September 2007: i agree with Danielepew.
I know you should really love and respect your family buy she hasnt done it for you or the people you love. Just because shes your nan doesnt mean you have to live her her BS. Shes living in the 1930s and needs to move on a... (read in full...)
Am I a Freak or is this normal?
Q. hey, im the type of guy who finds it awkward getting close to people and my friends tink im gay coz i dnt react well to hugs off girls nd stuff im not gay i just dnt feel like huging people ..am i a freak or is this normal? ...
A. 24 September 2007: Very normal. No one is born fully confident, lots of people are shy.
And your friends are the freaks if they cal you gay.... (read in full...)
I'm worried if I have a baby it will be ugly, because my boyfriend has been referred to as an ape.
Q. Ok this is quite possibly the most shallow question you will ever come across... but here goes. I am seeing my boyfriend 3 years now and I love him more than anything, we are in a very commited relationship and he treats me very very well, and v...
A. 23 September 2007: Well heres all i got to say.
If you do have a baby with this man you love, your not gonna care if its gonna look like brad pitt/Jessica Alba or Shrek because your gonna see the best looking baby EVER. Its that simple, and if you do have the baby... (read in full...)
How does dressing reflect (homo)sexuality?
Q. my 17 year old son wears his jean really low down with his boxers showing and a short t shirt. Does this mean he is gay or has problems with his sexuality?...
A. 21 September 2007: Not really. Where i live, wearing your jeans low and showing your boxers is called "sagging" and its just a fad loads of teenagers do. It doesnt mean he is gay or confused hes just follwing a fad.... (read in full...)
My friends don't approve of my older boyfriend
Q. ok so im 15 and going out with a 21 year old. everythings fine except my friends are being really annoying about how its wrong. what bothers me the most is my best friend is getting pissed off and hes always like dont even mention your bf anymore ...
A. 20 September 2007: id have to disagree with the other posters. It seems they may be angry cus your 15! basically a kid still and your dating a man. Maybe there just worried for your safety and whens hes around there freaked out by a man being around kids. I know i ... (read in full...)
After I checked his texts he got wierd and said he needed space. Does that mean he is cheating?
Q. me and my boyfriend was happy,15 months together.then i found text message of a girl on his phone i rang her and she said they were friend he said the same however from that day he went wierd with his phone and then told me he needed space!i am ...
A. 20 September 2007: Well you did invade his privacy, also you basically accused him of cheating by asking the girl about their relationship. He is proberly angry about what you did by going through his phone and feels he doesnt need that.
Remember you wouldnt like it i... (read in full...)
I think my ex is "the one," but my family really likes me current guy! What do I do?
Q. Oh my goodness such a dilemna. Im 19 and last year went out with this lad who was 6 yrs older than me, he was gorgeous and spoiled me and was amazing in bed and we had so much fun together. But now I'm with someone else, he treats me ok and wants us...
A. 19 September 2007: well your 19 years old your and woman. Do what is best for you and your future life and happines. Go back with your ex if you believe he is the one for you.... (read in full...)
A man at a bar poured a drink on me, my boyfriend beat him up, and now I'm torn
Q. i got a question and its kinda confussion abit i guess! today is my birthday and last night my bf and i went out to the club and he had gotten real jealious over a guy buying me a drink and asking me for my number, but you see i didnt acce...
A. 18 September 2007: Man!! i would have done exactly the same thing no question. How dare some guy treat you like that, he deserve to get his but kicked. How would you have felt if he stood back and allowed it to continue, to let this guy go on. Forgive your BF as he ... (read in full...)
Is it illegal for a child to have child porn on their computer, if it is of their friends or partners in the same age group?
Q. I am aware that child porn is illegal, but I am currently in highschool, and many of my friends, all of which are under 18, exchange sexually explicit photos. None of these pictures are put on the web, or etc. But they exchange them to each other ...
A. 17 September 2007: IT IS against the law.
The viewers age doesnt matter. Its the "Actors" age that matters and since theirs underage its illegal for them to view/have the porn. Sometimes the parents are responsible for the childs actions, so i would be very care... (read in full...)
How many times a week should a guy in my position masturbate in a week?
Q. Am really wondering how often somebody without a partner especially a boy(20-25yrs) should mustarbate in a week if its right at all...
A. 16 September 2007: Theres no number. Its up to you. As long as it doesnt interfer with other aspects with your life its ok what ever the number.... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out over the Internet?
Q. hey, i want to ask this girl out but i cant think of the best way to do it i can never get her on her own to ask her out but i was thinking of asking her on MSN but wld she think i was a coward....
A. 15 September 2007: hey your not a coward. If you really cant talk to her in person MSN is fine. Or ask for her mobile number so you can call her sometime.
I know a few of my friends ask there girlfriends out over MSN and it went fine for them.... (read in full...)
He says "your my girlfriend, not my mother". Should I be so concerned with his life choices?
Q. Hey its me again, about the should I chuck him or wait for a miracle. I've got another question, my boyfriend wants to do more pot which is completely against my morals. He has plans to do it this weekend. I want to use the old "three strikes your ...
A. 15 September 2007: Well let him be his own guy. It his mistake. You should proberl leave him if it goes agaisnt your morales.... (read in full...)
Is my fiance cheap? He makes 2800 a month and spend 2000 on my ring.
Q. Is my fiance cheap? He makes 2800 a month and spend 2000 on my ring....
A. 15 September 2007: are you serious. You should be happy he loves you enough to buy a ring plain and simple. Also he has to feed himself, Buy clothes, travel etc. He needs that money. You do sound greedy and need to concentrate on the fact he wants to marry you.... (read in full...)
My bf has to have a beard b/c of his religion, but I hate beards! I want him to cut it!
Q. I love my boyfriend so much, but he's got a beard and long hair, he has to have it this way because of his religion, but the thing is im not a fan of beards, but he can't cut it. I really hate beards ! It just makes him look older and my friends ...
A. 14 September 2007: Well you gave already said its for his religon so he shouldnt cut it. You have to either love it or leave him as you cant ask him to go against his religon.... (read in full...)
How likely is it to get pregnant when only the pull-out method is used?
Q. Hey guys...=) Well basicly last night I had unprotected sex...i know it was stupid...I definatly wont be taking risks again... i know the guy/his history etc so STI'S isn't an issue... but I'm worried there could be a possibility of getting pregn...
A. 14 September 2007: well even if he "pulled out" the likely hood of being pregnant is similar to that if he didnt. Pre-cum contains sperm also. So you could get pregnant from that.
I dont mean to scare you but its the truth, take a test and be careful from now on.... (read in full...)
A 27yr old man was persuing me on the internetnet and I called the police. Now my friends make fun of me.
Q. i was online a couple of weeks ago in a chat room and was talking to a whole bunch of people and trying to make new friends. after awhile a man who said he was 27 started talking to me and things were nice. we spent a couple days talking and soon he ...
A. 13 September 2007: Well sorry to say your "friend" is a idiot. You were beyond 10000% right to do what you did, it was smart and VERY mature. You proberly saved yours and others life by doing it.
I dont have any idea where you "friend" gets off saying what she is. ... (read in full...)
Does it make me a bad person to do something for myself for once?
Q. What are peoples reactions to thinking of number one. I have spent my whole life making others happy over myself, being walked all over, let down, used and a human punchbag (verbally) for peoples problems. Does it make me a bad person to do so...
A. 13 September 2007: its good to have "me time" every now and then. It gives us energy to contiue life.... (read in full...)
I lied about my age and our relationship is getting really serious! What do I do??
Q. okay let me start like this amd my boyfriend started dateing 5 months ago and i lied about my age and he is about to be 17 and im 3 years younger then him but we are like really serious about our realtionship and i dont know what to do ...
A. 13 September 2007: Tell him the truth now.
As if it gets anymore serious i.e sexual hes the one who will end up in jail. No matter if you lied to him. Hes the one whos in danger here.
Tell him the truth and he if really likes you he will still date you.... (read in full...)
I'm 15, he's 18. I'm nt making any moves on him, but I like him so much that it's killing me! Help!
Q. okay well my problem is iv recently fallen in love with this guy of 18 (im 15) iv known him all my life but iv recently developed strong feelings towards him, more than iv ever had for anyone before. i know there is a big age gap, so am not making a...
A. 12 September 2007: Well i think the age gap is not that big, BUT since your only 15 your better off waiting until you are 16 so he doesnt get into any trouble for doing anything with you. Though dating him is not illegal.
When you are 16 just tell him how you feel... (read in full...)
We both want sex, but she loves me and I don't love her. Is this right?
Q. hey, im fifteen years old. I want to have sex with this girl. I think she pretty, sexy, and mad hott. we went out for a little bit and from that I got a blow job. Some issues arrose and I broke up with her. She's in love with me and I want to have ...
A. 12 September 2007: well consider what you are doing. Having sex with a girl whe "loves" you and be her first. Mostly 'cus shes mad hot and turns you on. Man ive felt like this before but its not the right thing to do. Think about her here. Shouldnt se have sex with ... (read in full...)
Do doctors prescribe medication to help you cope with a break up?
Q. Has anyone ever been given medication by their doctor to help cope with a break up? Im really really struggling to forget about my ex - it hurts like hell and im torturing myself by thinking about him and crying about him all day and all night to ...
A. 11 September 2007: like kenny said. Doctors wont pescribe something for a broken heart. Only time can help. No matter how hard it is, it definently is the best recipe. Soon you will be back to yourself... (read in full...)
What do men think about a women asking them out?
Q. I am 36, female and single. I got chatting to this great guy who's single and 38, i felt that he liked me. I then asked him out on a date and he said Yes. What do men think about a women asking them out? ...
A. 11 September 2007: im alot younger than you but i would like it. Especially shy guys would prefer it, and in todays day and age i see no probelm with it.
Its also great as its on your terms which is better for the guy as he doesnt have to judge what to do.
Go fo... (read in full...)
My friend likes the same boy I do, but he chose me and now she is mad
Q. A couple of months ago my friend told me she like the boy i liked...and i found out he liked me...we went to a party...flirted hidiously and then spent the whole night together and she completely cut me off...all my friends sed she should just be ...
A. 11 September 2007: well she proberly feels betrayed as she confided in you about her crush and you went and dated him still, so its understandable shes a little angry. All you can do here is let her cool off and give her time to get past this.
Though i find it hard... (read in full...)
Am I still a virgin?
Q. Hi, on my birthday my friends bought me a vibrator. Now am i still a virgin since i use it?...
A. 11 September 2007: Yes. A vibrator doesnt count a homo/hetro sex.... (read in full...)
Is there a possibility that I might be pregnant again?
Q. I had my abortion 8/21/07 I started having unprotected sex AGAIN 8/28 through 9/6/ so is there a possibility that I might be pregnant again? ...
A. 10 September 2007: Didnt you learn from your past mistake. Yes you could be pregnant again. Learn this time.... (read in full...)
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