Is it just porn or is it something worse?
Q. Why would a guy I date/live for 10+ years go to such huge lengths to cover-up looking at tame Internet porno? He has a whole separate browser on our computer and it is set-up to basically not leave any "tracks". He says it's just because he's ...
A. 6 October 2008: Yes possibly because you're now thinking if he is lying about that, what else could he lie about.
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Is it just porn or is it something worse?
Q. Why would a guy I date/live for 10+ years go to such huge lengths to cover-up looking at tame Internet porno? He has a whole separate browser on our computer and it is set-up to basically not leave any "tracks". He says it's just because he's ...
A. 6 October 2008: lol @ the anon poster automatically blaming 'us women' when he could have simply said to his girlfriend what concerned him in the first place thus avoiding upsetting her. Rather than be honest, have a secret browser ey, its way better to complicate ... (read in full...)
Is it just porn or is it something worse?
Q. Why would a guy I date/live for 10+ years go to such huge lengths to cover-up looking at tame Internet porno? He has a whole separate browser on our computer and it is set-up to basically not leave any "tracks". He says it's just because he's ...
A. 6 October 2008: I would. It could be stuff even more sinister than you think. And if anything ever happens and the law takes your pc away, you will be in the firing line to start with too dont forget.
I'm like you, I accept the porn site thing, but if he knows you ... (read in full...)
I pushed himt o give me a second chance. Do you think it will work for us?
Q. This guy named Matt broke up with me like 2 or 3 days ago. Because I kept on saying that he doesnt like me and he flirted with other girls lots. I showed him a picture of me sliting my wrist, which I thought didn't really helped -- i wasn't that ...
A. 6 October 2008: I get the feeling you have emotionally blackmailed this poor guy into getting back with you, he is probably terrified now that if he finishes with you, he will have a suicide on his concience.
I'm amazed that people actually are happier having some... (read in full...)
Now that we've split up he wants his money back!
Q. I was in relationship for 6 years. Last year money was getting tight so I borrowed some from my boyfriend. I twice offered to pay him back but no he said, you keep it. Now we have split up he wants it back!...
A. 6 October 2008: No if he said he didn't want it back, then he shouldn't get it back. If it was always a loan and you arranged to pay it back, then obviously you would.
Sounds like he's a bit annoyed at the split.
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I slept with friend's baby daddy, how wrong was this?
Q. I slept with friend's baby daddy - it's been four years since they split and they both seen people since. My girlfriend and I weren't close when it happened, but she had briefly introduced us. Her and I became closer later then she found out. How ...
A. 6 October 2008: So lets get this right, because i'm a tad confused. You had a girlfriend, she had a mate, you split with the girlfriend and 4 yrs later got with the mate ....where does the daddy come into it? do you know what, I cant figure it out. Can you explain ... (read in full...)
I forgave my girlfriend after blatantly cheating on me several times, now I suspect she is still cheating / lying!
Q. Last week my gf got home and text me "baby im home - come round now" - when i turned up she was in tears, i kind of knew what was coming next. I said wats up "im going to loose you" - me "why" - i new she had either been with somebody or slep...
A. 6 October 2008: I think she's hiding something yes. If you know she didn't go to the party, you need to know why she said she was going. And hopefully find out where. As for cheating, who knows. But she sounds like a pathalogical liar at best. C xxxx... (read in full...)
How often do women think of their previous lovers? I'm worried she will compare me to her ex'es!
Q. I have been dating a girl and we had sex for the first time the other day but I came really quick and I don't think she was satisfied. I was a virgin before that but she had slept with other guys. I just want to know, will she be comparing me with...
A. 6 October 2008: No they dont. I dont think ive ever thought of an ex when in bed with someone else. And I rarely think of exes at all. They're exes for a reason. Dont be worrying about it, cuz thats gonna cause you performance problems. C xxxxx... (read in full...)
I have told him that him looking and chatting to other women upsets me but he carries on!
Q. I met my boyfriend online 10months ago and moved in with him 2 months ago. He looks at half naked women online and chats to them. Last month I found out that he had sent nude pics of himself to some of theses women and was asking them to send him ...
A. 6 October 2008: What a shame you didn't know he was into that before you moved in with him ey! It would of saved you a lot of hassle. The guy is not only a liar, but mega into his net chat. Which is fine if it doesn't involve loose women desperate for negative ... (read in full...)
He was perfect, now he's gone
Q. It's been over a month and I'm still in love with this guy. We didnt have sex, but we came very close. We are perfect for each other. I keep hearing our song.. its becoming more popular daily. Our signs are the right match. He was the first g...
A. 6 October 2008: If he's got another girlfriend then no. If it was him that did the ending, you will just end up making yourself feel an idiot. C xxxxx... (read in full...)
Is this abuse? Should I get out of my relationship now?
Q. Should I get out of my relationship now? I am currently taking a break from my relationship with my boyfriend because I am working on issues from my past. My question is if he is abusive. Since we've been together for about 7 months a few things ...
A. 5 October 2008: Sounds a bit of a control freak to me? Or maybe a battle of wills? It sounds like you bring the worst out in each other. Some people just aren't good for each other. Him stopping you going out the door is very wrong, but so is scratching him and ... (read in full...)
He's not my kind of guy. Should I move on?
Q. I've just met this guy who I'm crazy about, he asked me out and everything was great. The thing is, he's a LOT different to guys I normally go for and he expects very different things from a relationship, and it would take a while for me to get used ...
A. 5 October 2008: You're not with those other guys now, so maybe keep going for the same type is where you're going wrong. I dont know, but if you like him that much, why not take a gamble and see how it goes. Cant help thinking it would be a mistake to end it with ... (read in full...)
I wanna have my own baby!
Q. ok im 13 and i wanna hav sex i already told ma mom to put me on the pill. she already made the appointment. i wanna have a baby wat do i do. i raised ma little brother all by myself and i loved it i want to do it again but with ma own baby. ...
A. 5 October 2008: Ive got 2 you can have, theres no bids on eBay yet! lol actually they are teens but nearly as much work!
If you have raised your bro, you must remember how much work that was! I know at 13 you're not a child anymore but you're not an adult eith... (read in full...)
Attention to all the Dear Cupid Uncles and Aunts
Q. Dear Uncles and Aunts I have noticed sometimes some of you are replying to questions that are so outdated. I cannot help but ask, don't you look at the dates of the questions? It is annoying to see some of you answering these outdated questions...
A. 5 October 2008: Here is a classic example of aunts not reading peoples posts before answering themselves if ever there was one. And quite right so really. Proof that people aren't influenced by other peoples opinions...
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Is it weird for a 24-year-old to be dating me, an underage girl?
Q. i have a boyfriend thats 24 and am 13.....i need help dont know what to do is it wierd for him to love me ?or is he a rapist and am i stupid for dating him ?...
A. 5 October 2008: You're not stupid, but he is!
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Attention to all the Dear Cupid Uncles and Aunts
Q. Dear Uncles and Aunts I have noticed sometimes some of you are replying to questions that are so outdated. I cannot help but ask, don't you look at the dates of the questions? It is annoying to see some of you answering these outdated questions...
A. 5 October 2008: Very noble. But some of us dont even read other peoples answers before we post our own. Not all, granted, but I expect most. I know what you mean about grouping, but I personallly dont see how many posts there are to a question. I see the title of ... (read in full...)
I feel like a failed mother as my son masturbates all the time.
Q. I am I concerned mother, my son is 14 years old, and he masturbates, but the thing is that, he masturbates anywhere he wants, last night we were having dinner, whith my husband, my other son and my two daughters, and he just started masturbating ...
A. 5 October 2008: A reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2008):
This is verified as being by the original poster of the question
Wow you need to gett this boy to calm down, sit with him and tell him that it is a private practice
Why have you posted an an... (read in full...)
I should have known when we met in the psychiatric hospital!
Q. i dont know where to begin, i met him in a phych ward, i was withdrawling from alcohol and him cocaine. we confided in eachother alot and stayed in touch, he was 28 i was 23, he was living with his grandma and i was living with friends, about 2 ...
A. 4 October 2008: Why do I get the feeling you wasn't sober when you posted this? Just by the missing letters etc.
Well done if you are now though! And as for falling for a waster, thats simply because you were vulnerable at the time! Nothing more, nothing less... (read in full...)
How can I be pregnant if we haven't actually gone all the way?
Q. Hi, I'm 18 an been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we haven't had sex yet but I have skipped a period an starting 2 feel sick in the mornings! I'm so scared I really don't want 2 be pregnant:(! How can I be pregnant if we haven't actually gone all...
A. 4 October 2008: Nope. Only intercourse. You might be stressed? I have had brief periods of a few weeks at a time over the years where i feel sick in the mornings for a couple of hours. I never got morning sickness when I was pregnant with my 2, but I likened it to ... (read in full...)
He was perfect, now he's gone
Q. It's been over a month and I'm still in love with this guy. We didnt have sex, but we came very close. We are perfect for each other. I keep hearing our song.. its becoming more popular daily. Our signs are the right match. He was the first g...
A. 4 October 2008: I'm a big believer in what will be will be, so if its meant to be, at some point it will be.
But you dont have to of had sex with someone to love them, so yes you might well of done, but personally I also believe that there is more than one 'the... (read in full...)
Can I continue making her cum
Q. I have been lucky enough to be able to make my first (and older) GF cum every time we have sex. Usually within minutes, so I was quite surprised many females have never experienced this pleasure and my GF who has had several partners previously, ...
A. 4 October 2008: 200 ml? whats that?
And yes there is a saying...ladies first lol
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Am I a coward?
Q. I am having to ask advice for the first time in a while, a few years ago I got a divorce. It wasn't a good marriage and we would offen argue and both got physical once or twice. There have been few problems and the settlement was fairly amicable....
A. 4 October 2008: No you're not a coward, you're just not into throwing your weight around like an immature thug!
I would let it go for now though, but tell your girlfriend about that incident. Then if anything happens in the future, atleast she cant say you didn... (read in full...)
Which one of us is more likely to be the father??
Q. I had sex with my ex on 6th of september, 3 days after her period, she then had sex with another guy on the 14th of september. she is now pregnant, who is more likely to be responsible for the baby, me or the other guy?...
A. 3 October 2008: You will only properly know by DNA test. But as you're asking who is 'most likely' to be the biological dad, that would most likely be the other dude. She would of been slightly less fertile when you slept with her.
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How can I tell if this guy falling in live with me?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a garment business and i got attracted with my landlord who happens to be married just like me. He often visits me in my store. when im around he touches my shoulder and my hands until i started to fall for him. He recently gav...
A. 3 October 2008: Sounds like he's testing you yes! What a shame though, when it goes tits, which it inevitably will, you will lose the shop and have to find somewhere dearer.
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Will it work out if I cheated on my husband? I told him...
Q. Almost a year ago, I had a break up with my now husband. I had a rebound after him for about a month. After deciding to be together again, I break it off with the other guy. I was scared that it wouldn't work out between us, and made a bad mistake ...
A. 3 October 2008: Maybe not, because it sounds like you are with him for the wrong reason. The clue to that is in you sleeping with the other guy because you were worried it wasn't going to work with your hubby.
See what I mean?
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I'm just not interested in ANYONE, is this normal?
Q. I've never done this before, but here goes... I'm a 20 year old student, majoring in economics pre-law. I'll be graduating in the next few months, and will be one of the youngest students attending law school, so I'd like to think I have a decent ...
A. 3 October 2008: To me it is. I have been single since january, and I like it that way. Similar to you I am looking for a career change, and ive got my social life, kids, home, and have met shed loads of blokes in the last few months, been out for a drink with, yet ... (read in full...)
I'm the other woman. Your opinions?
Q. i dont know what my purpose is in asking other people's opinions because i know what what your opinions will be... i guess i want everyone to reiterate what i already know...that cheating's bad...blah blah blah.. anywhooo, here it goes: i current...
A. 3 October 2008: Thats good. Know what you mean. Its a bummer getting older but its not a bummer getting wiser usually.
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What are the effects of cannabis use?
Q. can someone explain the effects of the drug weed to me please? is it seriously harmful if smoked daily? my boyfriends smokes it and has been doin for three years now, just abit concerened for his health. x please help thanks x...
A. 2 October 2008: Fits of the giggles laughing about random unfunny shit on the tv that you cant even follow the story of!! Probably the only time The Bill is humorous. ok thats early days, probably yonks ago for your bloke, but I knew a guy that had abused whacky ... (read in full...)
I'm worried my height is inadequate for my future career as a model! Help me stay positive?
Q. All i want to do is model and people tell me I look like a model and I`m really slim ,but I`m not tall enough.Its really getting me down .I am only 15 and everyone says I might still be growing but its getting me down. Any advice on how to try an...
A. 2 October 2008: Lots of good pointers in here. At 15 you still have about 3 yrs growing height wise to do yet probably. Feet stop growing last! I didn't grow after 15, but i smoked so i stunted my growth at 5'3! lol but even if you stay the height you are now (you ... (read in full...)
He has lied to me in the past but never cheated. We're trying to work on it but I found out that he lied again about a really small thing. I have no self-esteem, I am paranoid, and miserable. But I love him. Please help me!
Q. We've been together for 4.5 years, since we were both 17. I love him so much and can't imagine my life without him. He is my soulmate and my best friend. We are sexually, spiritually, politically, romantically, and intellectually compatib...
A. 2 October 2008: I didn't even read all that, it was too long, but I got the jist very early on. The guy cheated on someone when he got with you, got you off to a bad start anyway, then he goes and proves yor instincts right by lying, small stuff maybe, but blimey, ... (read in full...)
I engage in sex with men I don't love, because I want to feel loved but they treat me like garbage instead! What's wrong with me?
Q. iam verry clingy...i dont know whats wrong with me iam scared to be by myself, i take a lot of crap form guys...i still talk to my ex and even mess with him from time to time after he hurt me so much....stupid huh....i even have this stupid relation ...
A. 2 October 2008: Stupid huh? Like yes! Stop handing sex to them on a plate, play a bit more hard to get, but meaning it because you dont have to hand it to them that quick! Women that value themselves and make a personal pact to themselves to not jump into bed with ... (read in full...)
Do I give in to his threesome request or let him go?
Q. My boyfrend and I have been together for 6 months now. He is recently divorced. He left his wife because of several reasons but one of which was the lack of sex. He says our relationship is not based on sex, and yet he said if ever I start not ...
A. 2 October 2008: How the hell did you fall in love with someone so stupid?
I am 100% certain his ex is chuffed to bits she got rid of this waste of air space. And is laughing her head off at some other poor mug that ended up with him. She's hunky dorey, he's off ... (read in full...)
How can I convince him that my boobs are an ok size?
Q. My boyfriend always seemed to like my body. But he was very critical yesterday. There are things I can change, but there's one that I can't: my breasts. Full B's. But he says he'd prefer they were bigger. He says I look good anyway, but if they were ...
A. 2 October 2008: lol birdynumnums, exactly! I would bet shed loads of money on there being shit loads of women with bigger boobs than this poster. And I would bet shed loads of money on there being shit loads of women with smaller ones too. What does he want her to ... (read in full...)
How can I stop myself hurting over my 'toyboy'?
Q. I am married and obsessed with a guy 20 years younger than me. We are both taking a class together a few times a week and up until recently, drove together. We sit at the same table and used to have a lot of fun but that has deminished as well. ...
A. 2 October 2008: I cant get my head round people not getting out of dead end r/ships or marriages before embarking on new ones. So complex and destined to fail! No one is perfect no, but by your age one would think you had your head screwed on a tad more!
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How can I convince him that my boobs are an ok size?
Q. My boyfriend always seemed to like my body. But he was very critical yesterday. There are things I can change, but there's one that I can't: my breasts. Full B's. But he says he'd prefer they were bigger. He says I look good anyway, but if they were ...
A. 2 October 2008: He sounds like a right shallow twit! thats putting it politely because we wouldn't want to get banned now would we! When you have moved on from this dippit you will realise that you attracted a cock for a brief period there trust me. At the moment ... (read in full...)
Can physical attraction develop over the years?
Q. How do you become sexually attracted to the guy you want to marry? We have been together for 4 years, and things are perfect, yet i am not physically attracted to him, and sex feels wrong. I want to fix this, and feel it is all in my head. What ...
A. 2 October 2008: Good luck with that because I expect a few people have been there before and haven't figured that one out yet, but hopefully some have, and I will be waiting for the answer from them along with you!
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Is there any point to this?
Q. hi i need some opinions more than advise. I really like this girl who lives three and half hours away but i know i will only see her once in the next year and i keep saying to myself theres no point. What should i do cheers!!...
A. 2 October 2008: Listen to your instincts and meet someone closer to home!
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This woman sent a picture of a semi naked woman to her boss, my husband! Am I to believe this was a joke?
Q. I recently found an e.mail from my husband's receptionist displaying a photograph of a woman who had her boobs hanging out. He said this was a joke but why would she send this type of thing to her boss? Do you think she's having some kind of...
A. 1 October 2008: She probably fancies him. He should be finding a new member of staff! Well out of order.
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Did I just make the biggest mistake of my life?
Q. Did I just make the biggest mistake of my life? I got married to a woman I havn't even known for 3 months. I should have thought it through more because this is horrible now. I didnt realize all that came with being married. She is even 6 years ...
A. 1 October 2008: Ey? This is probably the daftest thing ive ever read on here, you didn't know someone more than 3 months and you married them?
I cant imagine how she talked you into that one!
Split and get divorced after 2 yrs seperation. What a car crash.
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I'm the other woman. Your opinions?
Q. i dont know what my purpose is in asking other people's opinions because i know what what your opinions will be... i guess i want everyone to reiterate what i already know...that cheating's bad...blah blah blah.. anywhooo, here it goes: i current...
A. 1 October 2008: lol been here done this bought the t shirt years ago.
I had just split with the kids dad and loved being single, the guy was married, she was pretty, slim, a teacher. But there was chemistry between us. I didn't wanna take him off her. No way! Peri... (read in full...)
What should I do when my husband cheats every six months?
Q. ok, so i've been married for almost 4 yrs, and my husband cheats on my about every six months it breaks my heart. we have talked and talked. he says he wants to keep our marriage. i beleive that there is hope for us but im tired of hurting. i dont ...
A. 1 October 2008: Cheat once, its get overable, twice, its unforgivable, every 6 months???? Do you have such a low opinion of yourself?
What miracle is going to come along and save you from this awful soul destroying life?
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Why won't he commit after 2 years? He changes the subject when I talk about buying a house...
Q. i have been with my partner for 2 yrs, i have 2 children so we cant move in together cos he has no room. but when i talk about us gettin a house together he changes the subject. am i wasting my time here i love him so much but after 2 years why wont ...
A. 30 September 2008: This is a similar question to one on here earlier, yet they had been dating 5 yrs and people said she shouldn't feel pressured to live with him even after this length of time, so 2 yrs is nothing.
I know what you mean though, I was married by 18, ... (read in full...)
Why won't he just come back to me?
Q. I was with my ex for almost 5 yrs and we were engaged to be married and have a daughter together. He left me over a year ago and started dating someone else within a couple months. For almost that whole relationship we've been sleeping together and ...
A. 30 September 2008: Because he doesn't have to! Why would you want him anyway, he is cheating on his girlfriend. Ever wondered if he has always been cheating on you the whole 5 yrs? Just curious.
If you hadn't been giving him sex the last yr, he might well of come back... (read in full...)
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