Periods back 5 weeks after having baby - normal?!?!?!
Q. Heya, well I had my baby 5 weeks ago (through cersearian, I'm breast feeding him - I was told that when breast feeding it takes *at least* a few months for your periods to come back... usuaully takes around 6 months... But this morning I got up and ...
A. 9 December 2008: Yes. It happens at various times. Lots of women breast feed for a year or 2, and their periods come back way before that dont they. Its all getting back to normal. Thats a good thing ey.
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I want him, not his kids!
Q. My boyfriend keeps trying to push his children on me. I do not like children and have chosen not to have any of my own. He contacted me through a personal ad on the internet that stated how I feel about kids, so there was no surprises, he knew ...
A. 7 December 2008: I agree, I think you would suit someone that hasn't and doesnt want them either. Atleast you have been honest. We cant all like kids! My dads late wife wasn't all that maternal. But she did quite well with us ive gotta admit, and I always had a lot ... (read in full...)
Does my cyber friend has feelings for me too?
Q. We're 13 hours time difference apart on the Earth! 3 months ago I met a white man, (I am an Asian girl) thru internet - this is the 1st white man cyber friend I ever had. He was quickly attracted to my picture I posted on the net and we became f...
A. 7 December 2008: Who knows. Only he does. But I cant help wondering why people want to get 'involved' with people off the internet. Whats wrong with the real world? The internet 'relationship' screams of escapism. And maybe you want more, but does he really? He's ... (read in full...)
I'm worried her affair is tit for tat, what can I do except for hoping she returns to me?
Q. I had an affair last year told my wife and she gave me space to work it out, after two months the affair ended. Recently she told me she'd been having an affair after mine ended and is still seeing the man. She wants to sell our house and buy two so ...
A. 7 December 2008: Comes to her senses? Who's to say she hasn't now? No disrespect, but, only she can decide if she's finally come to her senses. Ive never thought it makes much sense to stay with someone that cheats, but hey ho, I know, we are all different.
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Ex dumped me for the mother of his child, we still have sex, does he want me back?
Q. Hi guys, I need help over my ex bf he dumped me for his ex the mother of his child, anyway we are still having sex once or twice a week,talk on the phone everyday,i see him most days aswell, anyway for the past week hes invited my for a drink an...
A. 7 December 2008: Its usually only people with very low self asteem, or people that really dont want a serious relationship.
This guy is a playa.
I dont know who your friends are, but they seem to be very dim in my opinion. This isn't love, not by a long chalk. A... (read in full...)
My daughter is ill and I am afraid I will lose my new job if I take care of her! What do I do?
Q. There's a very strong possibilty my 11 yr old daughter is going to be too ill to go to school on monday, might have to take her to the docs, we have been up since 3am, i think she has this chest infection, temperature, fluey type thing going round. ...
A. 7 December 2008: Thanks for the advice folks. Unless she makes a miraculous recovery by the morning, I will have to put her first.
I'm just not looking forward to ringing in, and am gonna feel terrible. I really enjoy the job, and not many people can say that abou... (read in full...)
Why is she annoyed that I went out with a female friend? She does the same to me.
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together just over 2 years. over thosses 2 years she has gone out with many male friends some has bothered me some hasnt. the other day i went out with a female friend and told her about it all. i went out with the ...
A. 7 December 2008: Whats good for the goose n all that hun. Gotta have equality, rarely works otherwise, builds resentment.
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My daughter is ill and I am afraid I will lose my new job if I take care of her! What do I do?
Q. There's a very strong possibilty my 11 yr old daughter is going to be too ill to go to school on monday, might have to take her to the docs, we have been up since 3am, i think she has this chest infection, temperature, fluey type thing going round. ...
A. 7 December 2008: You think? Hmmm I wonder if they would go for that. Chances are they would say stay off rather than keep the phone on me though, but literally just because at the moment, mondays are dead there. Saves them having to pay me. My immediate boss is a ... (read in full...)
It is a true love with my student?
Q. Hi.. I am 24,working as computer lecturer in an institute. I am fallen in love with my student, age 17.. as well as she started to like me at initial stage.. she likes to have friendship with me. She and I talk over the phone and sends text mes...
A. 7 December 2008: Are you mad? There is a serious code of ethics issue going on here. Thankfully she stood her ground on the sex side of things.
She might be of legal age, but you have crossed the line where morals are concerned. Dont you like your job?
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Is he just hanging on to me as a possible insurance policy?
Q. Hi All. I have been friends with this guy for over 2 years now(he's 7 yrs older if that matters). we had a "mini relationship" for the first year then broke up because he doesn't want a relationship and i felt i was getting too attached emotionally ...
A. 7 December 2008: You already know he is a commitment phobe. Even though the fact your gut feeling is that he is seeing someone is relivant, I think its more a case that you need to decide if anything has changed since you split? Otherwise whats going to be any ... (read in full...)
How long does it usually take for a woman to orgasm?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have known eachother for 3 and a half years now, all through high school. We started going out last Valentines day, (Feb. 14, 2008) and have been having sex since the end of march. Our sex life is absolutely fantastic, as well as ...
A. 7 December 2008: Only 30% of women orgasm through intercourse alone, so the chances are, you're in the 70%. Its a right bummer ey. But not the end of the world! All those blokes that tell you every one of the 10/15 women they've been with have, are either lying, or ... (read in full...)
Should he attend his ex fiance's wedding?
Q. My boyfriend was invited to his ex-fiance's wedding should he attend? We both know she has feelings for him still....
A. 7 December 2008: If she still has feelings for him, and is getting married, its likely to be a very short marriage, so no, I wouldn't bother wasting money on a toaster and going, myself.
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Was engaged, he backed out, got another girl pregnant and know he wants back...What do I do?
Q. Okay big question.....I love him I know I do that's not the question. We were engaged a year ago, He got Major cold feet, left, got another chick pregnant, now he wants back in. Says he made a huge mistake by leaving. Says that we are meant to be ...
A. 7 December 2008: I think its a huuuuuge risk to take. Like others have said, what happens if he sods off again? Kids heads cant be messed with. Mine got hurt when I split from an ex a year ago (he wasn't their dad) and I wont go into anything with anyone again now ... (read in full...)
Any fans of Harry Potter?
Q. One of the questions that I answered on Dear Cupid just sparked my curiousity. I was wondering if any of the other aunts and uncles are fans of the Harry Potter series? Not everyone is a fan of course, but please humor me, because I'm curious....
A. 7 December 2008: I am not into it personally. But its a shame my son doesn't use this site because he would be nattering away for hours on this thread!
I do know that the first film was part filmed 5 minutes from me, the aunts house? Think it was the aunt anyw... (read in full...)
I was her teacher for a while, and now we want to marry once she is old enough, but what will people say?
Q. my girlfriend is 10 years yunger to me,i am 25,we are madly in love and plan to marry after she joins some college that is 6 years from now.m ready to wait but is this relationship socially acceptable coz i for 1 year was her teacher in school and ...
A. 7 December 2008: If any of my childrens teachers used grammar like that, I would move schools ... (read in full...)
My ex is cheating on the mother of his baby with me and says he wants me back.
Q. Alright me and my ex boyfriend who broke up 2 yrs ago,we are still in contact.I am still sleeping with him,and Have been for 4 months now.He has told me he still loves me and wants me back.But the had a baby with his exgirlfriend 2 weeks ago.I am so ...
A. 6 December 2008: He sounds like a right catch hun
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I was her teacher for a while, and now we want to marry once she is old enough, but what will people say?
Q. my girlfriend is 10 years yunger to me,i am 25,we are madly in love and plan to marry after she joins some college that is 6 years from now.m ready to wait but is this relationship socially acceptable coz i for 1 year was her teacher in school and ...
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My PC is full of pictures of me and my girlfriend... now she's dumped me and I feel so alone.
Q. I'm really depressed and upset. My girlfriend of 3 years, whom I met at college, dumped me a few weeks ago saying she wanted to be on her own. We met in college in our final years and although I fancied her I didn't make a move because I was go...
A. 5 December 2008: Delete them then, there are gonna be shit loads more in the future. Enjoy! xxxxxx... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to have sex.
Q. hey i am 14 years old and i am really afriad to have sex because i am afriad that i will get cought and plus im agfraid that it is gonna hurt really bad.and that people is gonna call me a slut,whore (ect)but most of all ...my friend is 14 and she is ...
A. 5 December 2008: It hurts. And no you dont want to get pregnant, thats all there is to say. When you meet someone special in a few years time (i was 15 and married him at 18) you will be gentle together and face it together.
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She told me she would frequently hook up with her girlfriends and fool around with other guys!
Q. Alright, well earlier today my girlfriend told me something that has been eating at me a fair bit. We only started dating about a month ago, and for close to a year before that she wasn't seeing any guys, wasn't interested in seeing guys, etc...
A. 5 December 2008: Hooking up with friends be it male or female isn't alarming. Threesoms on the other hand is. End of.
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Deep down I kinew she wasn't in love with me when we got engaged. Now I love another....
Q. I got married a few years ago. Since the beginning it was an uphill relationship. I realize now that I was never in love with her, I just had allot of hope that she would change. I thought that I could change her. Deep down inside I know she was ...
A. 5 December 2008: Shit happens and we all make mistakes. Dont sell yourself down the river if you truley think you have now met Ms right. You certainly wont get any medals for it remember!
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Is fantasizing about other guys tantamount to being unfaithful?
Q. Ladies! Imagine you were in a faithful relationship when a dashing, debonair, handsome, lean and lithe, sensitive, passionate, caring, tall, good looking, cute man with nice buns, nice smile, deep voice, great shoulders (and what's more he thinks ...
A. 5 December 2008: You can fantasise about Brad pit during sex. It doesn't add up to being unfaithful. If anyone tells you it does, they are lying. A huge percentage of men and women think about someone else during sex. If it was a crime, there would be a lot of ... (read in full...)
Sometimes he rings, sometimes he doesnt...
Q. Sometimes he rings, sometimes he won't! - HELP!! - I'm involved with a guy who I only see now and then as we live in different cities - he knows I would do anything for him (even give him money)- but he doesn't really show me his emotions alt...
A. 5 December 2008: You dont evn live near each other. Why would he see anything serious in it? And you would even give him money????? Please tell me you haven't
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How can I break his heart into tiny little pieces?
Q. Hey I'd really like a male perspective on my problem but would also appreciate female feedback as well... I've been in an on and off again realtionship with my daughter's father, during one of our "breakups" he decided to go and have another ...
A. 4 December 2008: The guy is a loser, and has zero respect for you or your daughter. He doesnt appreciate what he has. I couldn't deal with another woman pregnant. That would be the straw that broke the camels back for me, if I had put up with all you have ... (read in full...)
YOUR views on commitment please!
Q. Do you think most guys don't want to "commit" in their 20's even if they REALLY like a girl? Or would even a guy who doesn't like commitment commit if he found the perfect girl? What do you guys think?...
A. 2 December 2008: In my experience guys in their 20's are more likely to commit than guys in their 30's. Guys in their 30's tend to have been dumped by the mother of their children, and dont want to be hurt again. Thats less likely to of happened to a guy in his ... (read in full...)
I have a health problem with a child, does anyone have any specific advice?
Q. My ex bfs child has become ill at first its like a cold, but 2day the child has not drunk much where they drink loads, not been to the toilet, and when coughts has trouble catching there breath at first thought it was hooping cought, but after go...
A. 1 December 2008: How old is the child? Sounds like a chest infection to me, but only a doc could say. If he's not going to the toilet, he could be getting dehydrated. And that isn't good, but also depends on the age. Always best to give ill kids lots of water. When ... (read in full...)
Do you fess up to cheating and get dumped? or try and pretend it never happened?
Q. so i cheated on my boyfriend ,i had sex with my exboyfriend. it was just all in the moment, i know it was wrong and i shouldnt have done it. i love my boyfriend now, and i dont want to lose him. its only been 2months but i dont want to tell him, bc ...
A. 23 November 2008: If its not going to make your guys life better then keep shtum! If you wont do it agiain & love the guy you are with then dont say anything
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I was trying to forget him but I just can't stop loving him.
Q. I dated this guy for 5 months but things didn't go well and he went back to his ex (they broke up because she cheated on him). We still talk 2 each other. I tried to have him back but he just said no. He told me that he didn't stop loving his ex ...
A. 12 November 2008: He's a playa. What miracle will come along and save you from this guy?
His ex cheated on him and he got back with her. He is damaged goods sweetheart!
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Why do baby daddy's lie about new relationships?
Q. Why do baby dads lie about new relationships and try to keep it a secret and yet string the mother along??...
A. 12 November 2008: Yes, they are worried you will ban contact due to jealousy.
Would you?
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Ex boyfriend has turned up again but I'm with someone else!
Q. My ex boyfriend with whom I was with for eight months, decided one day he would leave me without telling me and go back to his ex-wife. Since he left me I have met a really nice guy, the problem now is that my ex boyfriend has come back into the ...
A. 8 November 2008: You dont say if your ex is still with the one he left you for or not. Although thats really not relivant. I would of loved to of been in your shoes and told the ex to do 1!!! I'm sure a lot would of like to do the same thing with an ex too.
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Has anyone else experienced this problem of bleeding after giving birth?
Q. I had a baby 5 weeks ago and after haveing my baby i bled for 1 week and a half but i had sex during this time and i stopped bleeding for a week and when i stopped bleeding i begun takeing the contreceptive pill and i have been bleeding ever since i ...
A. 6 November 2008: I bled for a good 5-6 weeks after the first. Clots too. Was minging! I think they wondered if there was a bit of placenta left in there for a while there, but it wasn't and did stop eventually. Didn't bleed for more than a week with the second. You ... (read in full...)
I was ripped off before - do I risk going through the same thing again?
Q. Two months ago I met someone who treats me really well, says he loves me, is gentle and kind etc etc etc. He lives around 70 miles away and stays with me 2 nights a week whilst he is off work. I go to his flat 1 night a week when I can (I have a ...
A. 6 November 2008: Slow down. I cant see why after 2 months you would even need to think about moving in with someone. Your poor 16 yr old. How quickly did you move in with the ex that ripped you off? Are you a bit scared of being single? Is that possibly why you jump ... (read in full...)
I let my brother go into foster care, is he behaving nastily because I didn't take him in?
Q. my brother (who's 9) was in a crash car and both my parents died but he is a survivor. Child services call me asking if I want take him in or he'll be in foster care. I didn't want to take him in because my girlfriend (of 2 years) just move in with ...
A. 6 November 2008: You keep asking if all these things are to do with you, but you dont seem to be taking steps to help him out. Some of it is to do with you (i'm not going to sugar coat it) and some is to do with the fact he's lost his mum and dad who were also his ... (read in full...)
Why won't my ex leave me alone and move on?
Q. I dated my ex for about a little over 3 months. It's been well over a year since we dated. A lot of things went wrong, as he was manipulative, emotionally damaging, and incredibly selfish. Drama went on after I broke up with him. He continued to ...
A. 5 November 2008: You can finish with him, and you have. That will be infuriating for him. I also feel sorry for his new one. Ive got an ex like yours and I finished with him numerous times only for him to manipulate back again. I got the nice guy swinging to nasty ... (read in full...)
I just with the other babymomma would go away
Q. Please help me please Iam in a difficult sitaution i let my babydad move in with me after he just broke up with his other babymom.They been brokenup for two 6 months they have two kids together and i have one bye him to.I know him first i met this ...
A. 4 November 2008: The other 'babymom' isn't going anywhere for the next 16 yrs atleast. And quite right too. But he shouldn't be stopping over there, even if its miles away. He should be stopping in an hotel. Stopping with her isn't appropriate.
He needs to buy a pa... (read in full...)
She says she loves me only after one week ! Is this just a ploy ?
Q. okay my girl friend said see loves me and it only been two week we've been together this is my first girl girl relationship and she already want to have sex but her baby moms still in the picture but said they don't do anything what should i do i am ...
A. 4 November 2008: She sounds young. Golden rule, anyone says they love you that quick, they are either a dreamer, liable to 'fall in love quick then fall out of love just as quick' or after one thing. Usually reserved for men to say to women, but thats not exclusive! ... (read in full...)
16 and pregnant ! Can I keep the baby and continue my education ?
Q. Im 16 years old, in year 11 at high school. Im expecting A grades in my subjects and want to further my education and go to university. But I might be pregnant. It's with my boyfriend, who would be there for me but i doubt could provide money to...
A. 4 November 2008: Anythings possible and hopefully some of the young girls that have achieved it will post in here. But the fact you live in the Uk is to your advantage and there are lots of options to help you out if you decide to keep the baby and further your ... (read in full...)
Was I right to end things?
Q. im in love with a man five yrs my junior. It started out as a fling, then we realized we had more in common than we thaught. we became good friends and he invited me to church. its been six months and recently asked him where he sees this going. he ...
A. 4 November 2008: Personally I think you absolutely did the right thing.
When I was 31, I met a guy that was 22. We started out as seeing each other, just a bit of fun. But within a month, he asked if we could date properly, because we got on so well. I was a moth... (read in full...)
I'm 21 he's 57, is the age gap too much?
Q. Hi, I am a 21 year old female and I recently met a guy off a dating site and we really have hit it off big time - sexually and spiritually! He's so considerate, loveable and all-over gorgeous and I may be falling in love with him. Trouble is, he's ...
A. 4 November 2008: I agree to a certain extent with the female anon that said something about older guys going for women younger than them because they cant sustain a relationship with women their own age. To a certain extent I believe thats true, and certainly is in ... (read in full...)
I'm 21 he's 57, is the age gap too much?
Q. Hi, I am a 21 year old female and I recently met a guy off a dating site and we really have hit it off big time - sexually and spiritually! He's so considerate, loveable and all-over gorgeous and I may be falling in love with him. Trouble is, he's ...
A. 4 November 2008: Odds are stacked against you because you are on different wave lengths. And the longer you spend with an age gap relationship, the more that becomes apparent over time. But you're a legal age so its your call isn't it.
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Do you think it is possible for someone to stop fancying someone?
Q. Do you think it is possible for someone to stop fancying someone? I have a guy mate who said he fancied me so much in the past but now he is scared to tempt our friendship.. he says he loves me too much. he has been sending me a lot of mixed me...
A. 4 November 2008: Yes its possible to stop fancying someone. I quite fancied a guy a few months back, went over his for coffee, have a few beers with him out, was doing the dreaming about what it could be like to date, but we didn't get into anything, once I got to ... (read in full...)
Why won't my ex leave me alone and move on?
Q. I dated my ex for about a little over 3 months. It's been well over a year since we dated. A lot of things went wrong, as he was manipulative, emotionally damaging, and incredibly selfish. Drama went on after I broke up with him. He continued to ...
A. 4 November 2008: Because he is a manipulator. All the being nice, getting no response so turning nasty, is a classic pattern with a controller.
He hasn't changed and your instincts are right to stay away from him. Its a shame most others dont have the same qual... (read in full...)
I let my brother go into foster care, is he behaving nastily because I didn't take him in?
Q. my brother (who's 9) was in a crash car and both my parents died but he is a survivor. Child services call me asking if I want take him in or he'll be in foster care. I didn't want to take him in because my girlfriend (of 2 years) just move in with ...
A. 3 November 2008: My bro is 11 yrs younger than me, and if my mum had died when he was 9, I would of taken him in no matter what. Blood is thicker than water. What if it doesn't work out long term with this girlfriend (you're young, its stacked against you) but your ... (read in full...)
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