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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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After me being madly in love with him for years, he wants FWB!
Q. Soooooooo after 5 five years being maddly "in love" with a friend who always blew me away, he finally decided to tell me about his feelings and, he want to be friends with benefits , and idk i like him IN THAT WAY but i also want him in other way ...
A. 6 April 2015: Oh poor male Nonny, your argument makes NO sense.
"help I've fallen in love with my FWB I don't want to leave her what should I do?"
we get that all the time. we say "tell her you love her and see if she wants more"
BTW your fri... (read in full...)
After me being madly in love with him for years, he wants FWB!
Q. Soooooooo after 5 five years being maddly "in love" with a friend who always blew me away, he finally decided to tell me about his feelings and, he want to be friends with benefits , and idk i like him IN THAT WAY but i also want him in other way ...
A. 6 April 2015: Because I remember being a 16/17 yr old girl. They do not WANT FWB they want a boyfriend.
and they are going to make the sad assumption that boys think like girls do and girls will only "give it up" if they care and like/love the guy and want... (read in full...)
After me being madly in love with him for years, he wants FWB!
Q. Soooooooo after 5 five years being maddly "in love" with a friend who always blew me away, he finally decided to tell me about his feelings and, he want to be friends with benefits , and idk i like him IN THAT WAY but i also want him in other way ...
A. 3 April 2015: male annon said: "If a girl is using her body as a "means to and end" then she is trying to use her body to MANIPULATE a guy into something he did not originally want. It is TAKING ADVANTAGE of his bodily cravings for sex and hoping to get him ... (read in full...)
He has told me he really wants to be Friends with Benefits, I don't know what I want1
Q. MOD NOTE: Previous question from same asker can be accessed here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/after-me-being-madly-in-love-with-him.html hi:) ( i'm a fan of himym so i'll use the names, it is not related to the personalities of the characte...
A. 2 April 2015: oh you poor horny little thing...
we are trying to help of course touching his penis (you can't even say PENIS or dick.. felt good... that's how our species procreates... if sex felt bad we wouldn't want to do it and we would die as a race. ... (read in full...)
She hugged me and it felt really good. Am I in love?
Q. A girl hugged me today and it felt really good. Later when I was in class, I got a boner from thinking about it. Am I in love? I had a crush on her last year. Should I hug her again to see if I feel the same....
A. 2 April 2015: IF you hug her yes you will feel the same. and every time you THINK about hugging her your body will react.
It's normal. YOU ARE NORMAL.
but your not in love.
you have a crush. They can be lovely or painful.... time will tell.
... (read in full...)
After me being madly in love with him for years, he wants FWB!
Q. Soooooooo after 5 five years being maddly "in love" with a friend who always blew me away, he finally decided to tell me about his feelings and, he want to be friends with benefits , and idk i like him IN THAT WAY but i also want him in other way ...
A. 2 April 2015: But the young girls "offer their body" as a means to an end. their belief is that the boy will have sex with her and fall in love with her.
Boys who permit this belief.. "I'll respect you in the morning" "of course I love you" or any of t... (read in full...)
What are the signs when a man has serious intentions to marry? How can I be sure he's serious about us?
Q. How will I know if a man has the intention to marry me? My boyfriend of almost 2 years, has at some point said he wouldn't want to marry again. When we broke up and wanted to get back together, I pointed this to him and he said he changed his ...
A. 2 April 2015: "he isn't all that bad"
this is not the man you want to marry.
you are ready to settle down NOT settle.
... (read in full...)
What are the signs when a man has serious intentions to marry? How can I be sure he's serious about us?
Q. How will I know if a man has the intention to marry me? My boyfriend of almost 2 years, has at some point said he wouldn't want to marry again. When we broke up and wanted to get back together, I pointed this to him and he said he changed his ...
A. 1 April 2015: How do you want to be proposed to?
that's how you ask him.
what he says or does when he is drunk does not count. Do not get me started on alcohol etc...
if you are ready to marry him then you PROPOSE. You don't discuss "do you think... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is bipolar, what must I do?
Q. My boyfriend recently was discharged from a mental hospital where he was being treated for bipolar disorder. A psychologist there told him that he must cut me off to spare me pain. I think this is ridiculous but he listened. I also found out that he ...
A. 1 April 2015: I agree that if my therapist said I need to END my relationship and I didn't want to, I would probably not do it.
It's possible he wants to end it and is using the therapist as an excuse.
what you must do is say "I am not happy with this b... (read in full...)
How do I stop feeling like a loser for going to uni late?
Q. I started at 17 (I'm Scottish) but faced some problems due to being young (hallmates didn't want to be friends with someone who couldn't go out etc.) and after a few years ended leaving my course as I was really depressed (family issues too) and my ...
A. 1 April 2015: It happens.
I left what we call college at age 21 to get married. I was a senior just 6 months short of my degree.
I went back part time a few years later and did one or two classes a semester while working to get my degree.
It took me a to... (read in full...)
After me being madly in love with him for years, he wants FWB!
Q. Soooooooo after 5 five years being maddly "in love" with a friend who always blew me away, he finally decided to tell me about his feelings and, he want to be friends with benefits , and idk i like him IN THAT WAY but i also want him in other way ...
A. 1 April 2015: yes you do... you know what to do..
tell him to take a flying leap is what you do.
NEVER EVER settle.
young women do not need FWB. neither do young men.
IMO FWB is for old divorced folks who do not want to get involved but ha... (read in full...)
Am I just an insecure bunny boiler?
Q. Me and my BF, both 25, been together for over 18 months now, but there's this girl he's friends with that really rubs me up the wrong way. She's a 20yr old single mother, and doesn't have much of a job. They used to like each other way before...
A. 1 April 2015: IF you trust him (and it sounds like you do with good reason) then let it play out.
He's transparent with what goes on with her.
Just because SHE wants something does not mean it's going to happen.
If you tell him to end the friendsh... (read in full...)
How can I know if my husband is gay or not?
Q. I have been happily married for 13 years now. I have always had great sexual experience with my husband. I only felt it was not as often as I would want. I recently suspected he might be a gay??? there were several signs of it to me. Most shocking ...
A. 1 April 2015: You have asked. he said no.
you have a great sex life... and a good life in general..
it's possible he's bisexual and being married means "forsaking all others"
do you think he's cheating?... (read in full...)
My husband masturbates to porn and turns me away when I try to initiate!
Q. I need some advice and opinion here. To sum it up in a gist, my husband has been married to me for two years now, but recently I found out that he masturbates to porn. This has happened several times. When I confronted him about it, he got agita...
A. 1 April 2015: Abuse is abuse... cheating is cheating.. and NO he is NOT allowed to do as he wants as long as he doesn't hit you what a crock.
Can you in any way shape or form leave this loser? ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend about my illness?
Q. About a week ago I was diagnosed with a syndrome that makes it very hard for me to get pregnant. My doctor said I will most likely not be able to get pregnant by myself without these very strong medications, that will make me gain weight and have ...
A. 1 April 2015: The first thing you do is find support groups of women with the same issue. It sounds like PCOS. I have a friend who just had a baby after ten years of trying with no luck...
The next thing you do is figure out how YOU are going to cope... ... (read in full...)
She was insistent on including her daughters in our invitation to her and then she was a no-show! I wasted £300 on all 4 of them!
Q. I got married over a month ago and I invited a friend of mine - we used to work together and became really good friends so I invited both her and husband to my wedding for the entire day. When my friend received her invite she called to as...
A. 31 March 2015: UNFRIEND....
she is so crass and rude and WRONG IMO she's not worth the cosmic energy to let her know what a piece of work she is.
the gift is nothing...who cares if they gift you one less thank you to write...
it was rude to ask to b... (read in full...)
Is there is a possibility that he might like me back in the future as I can see him in my future?
Q. Hi, me and this guy from Newcastle have been friends for 6 months now and he is my best friend that i can talk to him bout anything and he understands as he is 18. When it was 2 months into our friendship, i told him i liked him and he rejected me ...
A. 31 March 2015: It's possible but it's NOT probable...
you need to move on with your love life.... (read in full...)
Would a single man of 45 who has never settled down give up his 'freedom' now?
Q. Hello and Thank you for reading. My question is about men/a man and I'd appreciate hearing from the male perspective as well as females. If a man is single at age 45 and has never felt ready to settle down but is now kind of shifting in that...
A. 31 March 2015: he's happy where it is now... he's made that clear.
so will THIS guy change at 45 probably not.
Do men at 45 or so change from bachelor to happily married man... sure
i know of three stories
one guy bachelor till 45.. met a girl ma... (read in full...)
I burst into tears when I saw how my boyfriend lives in squalor, what now?
Q. My 38 year old boyfriend of one year knew I was on my way round. What I saw horrified me. He is living in complete squalor. Dirty filthy conditions I would not put a dog in. He smoothed over it all saying he's busy with work and replacing a chimney ...
A. 31 March 2015: I understand that it's upsetting OP... what you need to figure out is why this is so upsetting to you.... it will help you figure out what you need to do.... (read in full...)
How do I live with the man and woman who were in a relationship behind my back?
Q. About a month ago the guy I was seeing broke it off with me. We had been friends for around six months before finally getting together and currently live together in the accomodation at our university. We were very happy and very close. He was also ...
A. 31 March 2015: I too would find a new place to live.
and I'd make sure that the GF knows he lied to you about being with her. Not that I normally would say that but he's a piece of work who thinks he can get away with murder.... (read in full...)
How do I get over something like this? Are there no more morals or respect these days? I'm so hurt and I want him to feel my pain
Q. I have been suspicious about my fiance's activity so I broke off my engagement because he is talking and hanging out with his ex. We haven't even officially broke it off and he's been out with her and other friends. He's asked me to meet up with ...
A. 31 March 2015: Return his things and the ring.
then unfriend him on social media and block him and his "ex"
on all social media and the phone.
then go on and mourn for 6 full weeks.
after that get on with life and live well... that's the best re... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I are thinking of having a non monogamous relationship
Q. My boyfriend and I are thinking of having a non monogamous relationship. We have not yet figured the ins and outs of it yet but I'm not here to ask about that. I realise that most people here are not into the idea or sharing the marital bed so to ...
A. 31 March 2015: for me watching my now ex husband (we were dating then married) was part of my fun...
He sounds very secure and if he's not into MFM but is fine with you doing it, then by all means have at it.
You may find that once you add that to your mix... (read in full...)
Should I try to win him back?
Q. I dated a guy for a month and it was going so well at the beginning and we were both really into each other, but then he started to get too serious too fast after 2 weeks he told me he loved me and wants marriage and kids asking those kinds of ...
A. 31 March 2015: let it go....
any relationship that takes this much effort this early on is not going to work out well.... (read in full...)
I burst into tears when I saw how my boyfriend lives in squalor, what now?
Q. My 38 year old boyfriend of one year knew I was on my way round. What I saw horrified me. He is living in complete squalor. Dirty filthy conditions I would not put a dog in. He smoothed over it all saying he's busy with work and replacing a chimney ...
A. 31 March 2015: We had a rehab of our house done a few years back. it took 6 months.
there were never dirty clothes or food laying about. my sheets were clean... my dishes when we had any washed...
So did you burst into tears because you were app... (read in full...)
Could we work or remain simply as friendly coworkers?
Q. Dear Cupid, Here's the thing. I live a life in shackles. Every waking day I'm reminded of what I have to live with. I have an illness caused/triggered by a traumatic incident I've experienced. I love my new/current job. My coworkers were s...
A. 31 March 2015: I think until you have your illness and issues under control consistently that dating anyone should be on the back burner.
You are worried about an IF.... not a WHEN....
and even then worrying about the future makes it so you can't en... (read in full...)
How do I know the difference between gut instinct and paranoia?
Q. Hi all. This question has two parts. Should you ever ask your BF if he finds another woman attractive and if he would ever fvck her? I asked my BF tonight if he would fvck this other woman we both know and he said not while he was with me. T...
A. 31 March 2015: you need to lighten up and you need professional help.
I think your mind is messing with you
NEVER ask a question you don't want an answer to.
When my mother would ask me questions that were NONE of her business (as was a divorced ... (read in full...)
We've known each other 2 weeks so what do you take from these messages?
Q. I need your opinion please... I started talking to this guy, we started talking everyday for the first 4 days but then he stopped calling and says he us busy. It's a fact that he has a very bust job I understand but he doesn't even answer texts, ...
A. 31 March 2015: IF YOU REALLY LIKE HIM.... then BACK OFF... let him take the lead....
if you hammer at him it will push him away.
my husband was (and still is) a horrible texter and he does not always reply to me when I WANT him to.
I think he's be... (read in full...)
My fiance never wants to have sex. How can I improve this situation?
Q. My fiance never wants to have sex. I ask him all the time why and he tells me he is extremely self conscious of his penis. He won't let me touch his penis if I try to grab him. I know he loves me but I can't seem to fix this issue. I try to ...
A. 31 March 2015: OP what happens if you don't initiate? does he come after you in a few days?
have you ever had a good sex life?
if not, then it won't change and you can't fix him and you are better off ending the relationship or taking a lover with perm... (read in full...)
Why can't he face that his family is lying about me and tell them to butt out?
Q. My partner and I of 6 years broke up three months ago, we have been trying to sort it out but I have asked him to tell hi family to butt out of our relationship, or I am not coming back. HE used to work in the family business and moved from Ireland ...
A. 31 March 2015: I'm glad you got your money back.
Your boyfriend's family is showing an example of "blood is thicker than water" FAMILY FIRST.
If you know this is how the family is, then expecting them to change is futile. This is how it is.. he is... (read in full...)
Would you move thousands of miles for someone you loved but have to give up your goals or dreams?
Q. So I met someone I am really into and we have been carrying on a long distance relationship for a few years! we met online. He lives on the other side of the country. I liked him since we first chatted though and we have talked everyday since then. ...
A. 31 March 2015: why does moving mean giving up your hopes and dreams? why can't you do both?... (read in full...)
If he's engaged surely he should just admit it to me?
Q. I've had my suspicions when my partner has been away, I caught him texting someone Xmas day, he then replies in person i don't know anyone with that name, when he went I done some fb searching found friends in common with people he lived with, ...
A. 31 March 2015: WHY do you need HIM to admit it to you?
will that even change that you give him real estate in your head.
will his admitting he's engaged and lying to you make it easier to end this game with him?
why?... (read in full...)
Is he stringing me along or is he serious about having a relationship with me? I miss him so much.
Q. Hi all, I really need advise, I can't stop thinking about this guy. I've known him and have been out with him and apparently he says we are still together. He lives elsewhere now since leaving for a job. and we havent really seen each other. We ...
A. 31 March 2015: talk is cheap... actions are important.
He's not what you want or need and he keeps you on his string in case his real life does not pan out.
Don't call him, text him, email him or facebook him.
In fact, I would not respond to him at ... (read in full...)
What are the signs when a man has serious intentions to marry? How can I be sure he's serious about us?
Q. How will I know if a man has the intention to marry me? My boyfriend of almost 2 years, has at some point said he wouldn't want to marry again. When we broke up and wanted to get back together, I pointed this to him and he said he changed his ...
A. 31 March 2015: You won't know until he asks... therefore if you want to know you need to ask him.
AND listen to his words very carefully unless the answer is yes... in which case then you have to watch his actions too.
I'm betting he will hem and haw and... (read in full...)
Soon we'll be LDR. How can this relationship be strengthened so I don't stress about cheating and his reactions online when we have a disagreement?
Q. Been seeing this guy for almost 2 years now, and we weren't facebook friends until after 10 month, not until I realized it would also be nice to somewhat "show off and basically show recognition for this guy that I love". Long story short, at 12 m...
A. 31 March 2015: I do not have my husband on my facebook profile. He's not even ON facebook... i'm not cheating.
Facebook has nothing to do with cheating.
do you trust him? if you don't trust him then there is no need to continue the relationship. trust... (read in full...)
Divorced for 2 years now. Have an amazing new guy in my life. So why can't I deal with dating and decision making? What is wrong that I feel this way?
Q. I got divorced 2 years ago, I wanted it and my ex didn't. He absolutely did nothing but just crying for 1 year. I couldn't take his family making decisions for us any more. He is 49 I am 34. It's been 2 years now and I feel extremely guilty...
A. 31 March 2015: He's willing to send you 500,000 to buy a house.
he's trying to buy you... continue to say no since you are not sure. Let him move to where you are (if he's moving of his own choice and not because you asked him) and continue to date him and ... (read in full...)
How can I calm my sexual urges and lessen my need to think about sex constantly ?
Q. I'm a 21 year old female from a religious background and a virgin. I'm not supposed to date or have premarital sex. I'm not even supposed to masturbate but being a human I do anyways. But recently,that hasn't been helping me suppress my sexual ...
A. 31 March 2015: Ask your doctor for one of those anti-depressants that destroys libido...
Paxil is a good one. (note I'm KIDDING about this but SSRIs are often the cause of lack of sex drive)
All kidding aside... your urges are NORMAL... don't you ... (read in full...)
Would you allow your children to meet someone so soon, especially when you have doubts over how long the relationship could last?
Q. The father of my twin daughters wants his girlfriend of 11 weeks to meet our girls, but I'm convinced it's too soon. My boyfriend didn't meet my children until we had been seeing each other 6 months, and he was mummy's special friend who came for ...
A. 31 March 2015: Personally I think it's really not your call. Children are resilient and mom being stable is enough.
IF he wants the girls to meet her after 11 weeks... he feels something. it may be for a year or two or longer but I'd let it go. She's ad... (read in full...)
His status is set as "single," how would you handle that?
Q. Hey guys. Please help me. If you had been in an exclusive relationship with someone for almost seven months when you found their OKCupid profile was still active (last logged in yesterday afternoon) with its status set to single, how would you ...
A. 31 March 2015: Ask him.
The first question is "what are YOU doing on OK CUPID?"
if the answer is "checking to see what your status was/is"
then you have an issue and he has an issue.
personally if you two have had the "we are exclusive" talk and... (read in full...)
Am I doing something wrong in this relationship or is she just "over" me?
Q. Well, I met this woman about a week ago at a friends party. We have been sending messages over email this week. I have told her a lot about things I am doing and she responded. I actually said I was sorry for sending a long message and that...
A. 31 March 2015: CALL HER.
my husband and I dated LDR the first year we were together and email was and still is our primary way of communication but there is NOTHING like a nice phone call. NOT a text.
A PHONE CALL with voice.... it's old school... try it... (read in full...)
Why is my ex letting me know that she's stalking my social media?
Q. I recently broke up with my gf of about a year. Throughout the relationship she was frequently insecure and jealous, but when she wasn't her love was like the sun. Eventually her jealously and insecurities made her angry, mean, and distrustful ...
A. 31 March 2015: It's human nature to want to know what people you know and were close to are up to.
For me I like watching the train wreck my x husband and the woman he left me for (his new wife) are... makes me feel good that he left me and my life is bett... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is using my flaws against me, what do I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months, and we are in a long distance relationship (5 hours drive apart), at the start of our relationship everything was perfect, I generally felt he was the one! We had so much in common, but as the m...
A. 31 March 2015: You are in a 9 month LDR and it's not good... It's never going to be better than the beginning...
I didn't even read all your reasons... He hurts you... He's long distance... why are you trying to make this round peg fit in your square hole?... (read in full...)
He hasn't text me in nearly a week? Has he lost interest? What do I do?
Q. Hello. Well, I have been talking to this guy for about a month now. We have been on two days in the past, both ending really well, both ending in kisses. He said we will definitely have to go on a date again when he comes back (he is currently ...
A. 31 March 2015: how about you call him and see how he is and NOT ask if he still wants to meet you and assume he does...
just call to say HI! ... (read in full...)
Why does my long term Gf still keep registering on dating sites? It's affecting our relationship
Q. I've caught my long term girlfriend many times registered and active on different dating sites. I am not able to get to the root of it, because I always end up defending myself over extremely minor mistakes I made years ago (like being 10 minu...
A. 31 March 2015: "stupid dating site"
OP the woman can't even OWN her bad behavior.
Do you need help in figuring out how to walk away from this woman without drama and stalking? (because I bet if you do walk away and end it she will NOT go quietly)... (read in full...)
His (now pregnant) one night stand is causing angst for us. Do I stand by my man and help him through this difficult time or leave?
Q. Please help. My boyfriend of 5 years and i took a break. During this time he had a one night stand with a condom. Two months later we started going to counseling and everything seemed to be working out. He even proposed marriage and our...
A. 31 March 2015: OP, This woman (and her baby which I'm really WONDERING if it's your BF's baby) are NOT YOUR CIRCUS, NOT YOUR MONKEYS
do not let HER insanity drag you down.
IF the baby is his (and like I said he can't tell until the baby is born but the... (read in full...)
He hasn't text me in nearly a week? Has he lost interest? What do I do?
Q. Hello. Well, I have been talking to this guy for about a month now. We have been on two days in the past, both ending really well, both ending in kisses. He said we will definitely have to go on a date again when he comes back (he is currently ...
A. 30 March 2015: and when does he come back?
sounds to me like it's a big todo about nothing.
you like him but aren't formally dating... he owes you nothing.
why not send him a text or give him a call just to say hi if you are just friends?... (read in full...)
He hasn't text me in nearly a week? Has he lost interest? What do I do?
Q. Hello. Well, I have been talking to this guy for about a month now. We have been on two days in the past, both ending really well, both ending in kisses. He said we will definitely have to go on a date again when he comes back (he is currently ...
A. 30 March 2015: maybe he's sick?
maybe he's busy?
maybe he lost his phone?
who knows... and maybe just maybe he needs a bit of a break.
if where you left it was good, then just sit back and see what happens....
how long will you two be LDR?... (read in full...)
His (now pregnant) one night stand is causing angst for us. Do I stand by my man and help him through this difficult time or leave?
Q. Please help. My boyfriend of 5 years and i took a break. During this time he had a one night stand with a condom. Two months later we started going to counseling and everything seemed to be working out. He even proposed marriage and our...
A. 30 March 2015: I agree he needs an attorney. FAST. NOW. find out what he needs to do to establish legal paternity and if he is not the BIO DAD.
He needs #1 to have a paternity test done. IF he is the father he then needs an order for visitati... (read in full...)
Why does my long term Gf still keep registering on dating sites? It's affecting our relationship
Q. I've caught my long term girlfriend many times registered and active on different dating sites. I am not able to get to the root of it, because I always end up defending myself over extremely minor mistakes I made years ago (like being 10 minu...
A. 30 March 2015: yes it will go on forever. IF she has not stopped and she knows it bugs you she's not going to stop.
If you have threatened to leave and have not left even after she did what you said you would leave about, then you have lost your power and she ... (read in full...)
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