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anonymous
writes:Just out of curiosity, please tell me if what I'm feeling is normal. I'm 51, by the way.This past year I've been feeling so very horny, I mean, I want sex all the time!! The slightest thing seems to turn me on. It could be triggered by something I'm watching on TV, relating to sex, or even something I'm reading, then I get this sudden overwhelming urge to play with myself. It starts off with this slight throbbing down below, then I start getting wet. I have always been very sexually active, but to want it practically 24/7 is a bit OTT, don't you agree?I have recently met this guy who is satisfying me beyong belief, but I'm not seeing him as much as I'd like to. Even when I'm with him, I just want more. He's more than happy to accomodate my needs, but soon after, when I'm on my own, off I go again.I'm not really asking for help here, as I'm more than happy to continue, It's just that I want to know if it's normal, or am I now a practicing nymphomaniac?Oh dear, give me strength...here I go again!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2008): Hey, It's your resident nympho here....He's 10 years younger, I swear. Now, due to some difficult situation, I'm unable to see him as much, (and that weren't a lot before) and I'm really not sure what to do about it. I'm unhappy in the sense that I don't have him, or anyone else for that matter, as a permanent companion, yet on the other hand, when I'm not thinking about sex, I'm a very happy person, It's just that sometimes I feel so envious of those in more secure and happy relationships, and wish I had the same.I know, I know - I'll just have to grin and bear it 'til my luck changes. Not really got much choice, have I?Thanks for your input guys.
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reader, DiovanLestat + ♥, writes (23 June 2008):
 It's your age honey, you have now developed enough maturity to feel secure in your new role of amature "nymphomaniac". LOL.... (and I'm using that term "ironically", don't worry HonningKanin I do realise that this is a real and serious problem.
I'm aware that you haven't come here looking advice. Your just sexually fullfilled and you want to tell the whole world. Dash..... Boasting about happiness.... Something we really see on this board. Thank goodness...You keep didling away, but be carefull, if he catches you he might feel a little inadequate and start making love to you even more than he does now. Poor guy, I feel sorry for him, just as he's declining in sexuality, your getting ready to start.
Scratch that, he's probably a lot younger than you, I bet he's some gorgeous looking 20year old toyboy, who trys to give you all the loving you ever need. (Diovanlestat turns green with envy, and screams out loud with jealousy)
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reader, Ask oldersister  + ♥, writes (22 June 2008):
 You know, as I get older I am convinced all literature in this world written by men was to repress female sexuality. For some reason..hmmm....this society feels so threatened by it. Enjoy, be glad you are giving yourself permission to be who you are.
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reader, BigSis + ♥, writes (22 June 2008):
 I AM a good girl.....when I'm asleep.
: ^ D
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (2 June 2008):
 Hi again,
my word, and here I was thinking Big Sis was a good girl.
But I agree with her statement, after all if she has trouble accomodating him then the more practice she gets the better :) . In fact if he has the right equipment to solve your particular needs, then you should keep him tied to the bedpost ( keep a supply of fresh water at hand and feed him protein shakes - it'll all work out in the long term )
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reader, BigSis + ♥, writes (1 June 2008):
I wonder.....Hmmmm...that last message....
*places thumb on jaw bone and rubs chin with forefinger*
He's spot on, you know, I think you should make an effort and see more of him, then maybe, just maybe you can get him to 'accomodate' you even more.
Good Luck, and keep them juices flowing.
: )
BigSis xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008): Hi
To answer to your questions, it is normal, nothing wrong. Sex at 51 is good, part of execrise....lol
Viagara is good but can be dangerous.I have experience taking some viagara, got side effect - chest pain and high blood pressure, I stopped taking it. The only way to keep going, want more without mediciation is talk dirty, flirt, giving hints, outdoors, or being kinky, play with urself while he is with you, will turn him on, to get more sexual active.
This guy u met, you really like him, why not see him as much as you can...wink wink......
Teddy S (look alike) LOL xxx
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reader, Collaroy +, writes (30 May 2008):
Hi anon,
If we all lived in ancient Babylon you'd be worshipped as a sexgoddess...you'd have a harem full of willing nubile young bucks to take care of your every desire.
But alas, in the present day:
I think you have to find a way to up the visits with the man who is responsible for creating these urges, he obviously is the only one at the moment with the right equipment to keep you sane. :-) Viagara will probably be required if you are already bringing it up ( boom boom ) .
Anyway, you sound like a lady full of life and bursting with sexual energy - good on you I say ( that man is one lucky ducky)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): Hey you guys, it's me. Thanks for your opinions, sounds like I'm normal after all. Phew!
Susan, if my body's telling me it's my last chance to get pregnant, then I'm not going listen to it. Can't be doing with all that again.
Dr Vendetta, swingers eh? I may just start looking into that...LOL...not really. For as long as I have this new chap, I'm quite happy.
I'll just have to invest in some viagra for him, coz I just can't seem to get enough, what do you think?
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reader, HonningKanin +, writes (29 May 2008):
 I dont personally thinks its unusual. I generally am more sexually charged than my Husband, but when He isn't there i generally do masturbate to relieve myself.
I actually thought I was a nympho until my doctor told me nymphomania arent people who just want sex all the time. Its a disease by which the persons sexual desires interferes with their day to day life and relationship with others. Mainly true nymphos are incapable of being faithful because they are addicted to sex and sometimes like any addiction the person cant stop even if they wanted to.
Even if your sex drive is accessive you aren't the only one in the world and even if it isn't normal if it doesn't mess with anything in your life outside the bed room it shouldn't be a cause for alarm.
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reader, Susan Strict +, writes (29 May 2008):
 It's not unusual to get a burst of sexual energy just before the menopause. It's your body's way of telling you this is your last chance to get pregnant! And it doesn't necessarily stop afterwards.
It sounds like you've got it bad (or good?!). Enjoy it.
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reader, pepper27 + ♥, writes (29 May 2008):
 Hi Hunny
Your normal well in my eyes anyway, My sex drive hit the roof after my 40s and most certainly has not slowed down, Quite the opposite love...So enjoy its good for you it makes you free an orgasm a day keeps the doctor away!!!!!FORGET THE BLOODY APPLE!!! TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (29 May 2008):
 why can't i find women like this more often.
you like sex eh?.. i'll alert the media.
its natural. even if you feel you could take on the worlds largest gang bang its still natural.. lil'dirty. but natural.
why not join a swingers club, if we're gonna be realistic about it. you want sex. people have.. well lives, faimly friends and work. they can't be on call 24/7. sp get a harem togehter and just see several guys ( assuming they've been vetted and wormed and house trained )
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reader, Annalisa + ♥, writes (29 May 2008):
 It could be down to post-menopausal hormone levels, I think. I hear of many people who find their sexuality past the age of 50, whether it's thanks to a great relationship or just more time on their hands.
You might be a little over the top, if you find it difficult to think about anything else, though!
I would advise a balanced life, including prayer/meditation (if you are not a believer, taking time to relax and just letting your thoughts wander away from your body will be very beneficial).
Make time for lady friends, take an interest in other people as friends and try to volunteer in offering help.
Keep yourself busy and don't let your animal urges take over. As long as your life is full and varied, how much sex you have is down to your own needs, so don't worry!
God bless you and good luck!
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