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My boyfriend wants a hand job and a blow job, but I don't know how to do it.

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Question - (27 May 2008) 9 Answers - (Newest, 11 June 2008)
A female United States age 18-21, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend wants me to give him a hand job and blo job. I'm fine with this, except I never done it before. How do you do a hand job? How do you do a blo job?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008):

easy,wrap ur hand around his dick, and go up and down. then just suck

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A female reader, pepper27 United Kingdom +, writes (27 May 2008):

pepper27 agony auntHi Hunny

I dont no if you are 13 or 15 and its obvious that you havent done anything like this before, You say your ok with this, I would think very hard first sweetheart..

If this is making you feel uncomfortable then dont do it...You need to no just what you want, not do something to please another...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008):

In reply to the comment below, I don't remember learning how to give blow/hand jobs in sex education...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008):

The advice the other girls who replied is good. The techniques they described should work well. Also, have any of your girl friends given handjobs or blowjobs before? If so, they can tell you how to do it. For blowjobs, you can also practice the technique on a banana, but with the peel on.

Also, you can Google "how to give a blowjob" and some good sites with instructions telling you how to give one should come up. Good luck and post back after you have done it to tell us how it went.

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A female reader, pashanoodle Australia +, writes (27 May 2008):

pashanoodle agony auntI agree that you may be a little young for this kind of stuff..but if you are going to experiment just make sure it is something YOU want to do for you...not just to please your BF. If he's a good guy he will understand if you say you're not ready.

If you want to get some technique tips...try having a look at some sex guides, there are lots of books written on how to pleasure your partner etc. If you're too embarrassed to check them out in the bookshop, try your local library or you could probably even google it! However, probably the best way IS to ask him to tell you what feels good/show you..everyone is different!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008):

i think your a little to young to be experimenting this kind of sexual pleasure,also if you was older you would not be asking what a hand or blow job was as you would have had sexual education in school

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008):

this is what i wld do ... say to his him ": i want your to show me how you like your hand jobs done so i can please you better..." but basically just hold on to his penise with a firm grip but not to firm.....and move it up and down the shaft of his penise lick ur hand for some slide... save the blow job for l8er tell him he csn have that when he licks your lolipop

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A female reader, edsbabygirl United States +, writes (27 May 2008):

edsbabygirl agony aunta blow job is done however it makes you comfortable. Some girls can take it all, and some girls can only take the head. You litely suck and wiggle your tounge on the the head of his dick and lick the shaft. A hand job i best after you have lubed up his penis with your own saliva.

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A female reader, Tremor Australia +, writes (27 May 2008):

Tremor agony auntThey are both fairly simple processes.

A hand job is when you rub your boyfriend's penis with your hand. It's basically you masturbating for him.

A blow job is when you put you boyfriend's penis in your mouth and stimulate him that way.

But honestly, if you do not know how these things work, then I'd say you aren't ready to be doing them.

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