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Nothing Qulifies me to help people except for my own personal experiences with in life, my mistakes, my regrets and my tiumphs.
I currently live in London, England and have my whole life, Although i do plan to Move when im Older. Havent decided where. Possibly Canada or Australia.
Right now im at university studying to hopefully work in the criminal justice system or whatever i feel is right. |
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Am I wrong to have asked for the expensive ring back?
Q. I just bought a $3K ring for my girlfriend and then she announces she is moving out after 10 months. I asked for the ring back and that offended her? Am I wrong to have asked?...
A. 13 July 2007: i agree with pete and flowergirl. When you gave her the ring she entered a "love" contract. She broke it so should respect your relationship and return it.... (read in full...)
Can you get STDs without intercourse?
Q. A quick question can you get any diseases from REAL passionate wet kissing with tongue and mutual masturbation, or dry humping? I had my undies on the whole time, while he wanked and I tried not to come into contact with it....
A. 13 July 2007: No you cant get and STD etc without sexual contact in the mouth and genital region.... (read in full...)
My mates told me I should masturbate an hour before I have sex.
Q. My mates told me I should masturbate an hour before I have sex. Is this true anyone out there done that? I'm a virgin and they also told me that I could get sexually transmitted disease from my girlfreind even though she's a virgin 2. Can anyone ...
A. 13 July 2007: Im not sure either about getting STDs while being a virgin. Im pretty sure you can get crabs from sharing clothers but im not 100% sure. Dont know
As for the masterbating thing its a "thing" where you last longer during sex as you "went" a whil... (read in full...)
I need to know if the relationship will be inappropriate due to the age difference.
Q. Well I'm a 14 year old freshman and I really like this girl who's two years younger than me. She's in seventh grade, which is the same grade as my brother. I need to know if the relationship will be inappropriate due to the age difference, or I ...
A. 13 July 2007: its fine as long as you know you can get in trouble for doing anything sexual otherwise go for it.... (read in full...)
He isn't happy with just kissing me and wants to try out other things.
Q. I've got a boyfriend but he we have kissed and snogged and stuff already but my boyfriend is a year older then me and he says he wants to try out more stuff then kissing... but im not sure .... What should I do to pleasure by the way im only 12 .. ...
A. 13 July 2007: your way to young to be doing anything sexual.
Stick to the kissing as you dont not want to get into the sexual stuff at your age as your body is not nearly ready enough and there are alot of dangers from doing sexual stuff.
Like flower girl sai... (read in full...)
I'm on my period and a guy dry humped me, he didnt have any clothes on but I had a thong, and pyjama pants... Is there any way I could be pregnant?
Q. Okay, I'm on my period and a guy dry humped me, he didnt have any clothes on but I had a thong, and pyjama pants... Is there any way I could be pregnant?...
A. 13 July 2007: highly unlikely as you were wearing clothes... (read in full...)
I want my girlfriend to suck me off but she won't.
Q. I want my girlfriend to suck me off but she won't. How can I persuade her otherwise? I go down on her but she won't repay the offer....
A. 13 July 2007: you cant force her to. You just have to wait until she is ready to do it.
Talk to her about sex, but dont try and persuade her. just put her fears to rest and talk it over. Maybe shes scred maybe she needs more time.
Just wait... (read in full...)
I want my guy to go down on me
Q. What can you all use to have your guy go down on you? Guys what do you like?...
A. 12 July 2007: Hey. Just ask him. Doubt he will say no!... (read in full...)
My girlfriend shrugged me off and humiliated me
Q. I am 17yrs. I was with a group of people in a room. I asked one of my friends to take a picture of me n my girlfriend. I put mu hand around her and she shrugged away. It was very humiliating for me. SHe later felt sorry for what she did. but i still ...
A. 12 July 2007: Ask her why she shrugged you of first. Maybe she didnt want it taken, maybe something else. If you feel the reason is fair, just ignore it and move on past this. If you think its unfair talk to her ya you were hurt and moce from there.It all dep... (read in full...)
I have a prominent rib cage and feel very self concious
Q. Hey, well i have a promanant rib cage on my right side because i was a premature baby, so there is a huge bone across my right boob so it looks like i have a huge boob and the other one looks much smaller please help. i feel like a retard, will my ...
A. 12 July 2007: Its possible that your boobs could grow over the rib cage you still very young and have years for you body to grow and change. Dont worry ... (read in full...)
He had his penis indide me with no condom; is it possible to get pregnant?
Q. ok.......me and my boyfriend hav not had sex but he has put his penis in me. we didn't move but then his parents came and got him. we did not use a condom and i'm not sure if i can get pregnant or not.....can anyone help me??? ...
A. 12 July 2007: Yes it is possible if he had his penis inside of you.
Get tested and buy a few to make sure of it.
And next time wear a condom!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says if I want to be with him I can't hang out with my friend anymore and I just really don't know what to do because I want to do both of them!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and I love him with all my heart. I would like to spend the rest of my life with him. But I also have a very good friend that I like to talk to and hang out with and just have fun with him. My boyfriend ...
A. 12 July 2007: Your bf has no right to tell you who you can and cannot hang out with.
You say you want to spend your life with him, do you want to spend your life being controlled?
Law down the law say you want to spend time with you friend and you will do when ... (read in full...)
Isn't this fraud?????
Q. I found out off a work colleague of my husband's that he and his friends at work have been raising money for a non-existent employee who has lung cancer in order to fund a trip to Las Vegas to see showgirls and prostitutes. The "colleague" was ...
A. 11 July 2007: First of all you should tell your husband to stop what he is doing as it is very illegal and to give all the money back or at least to a real cancer charity. Hopefully he will but if he doesnt you may have to go as far as the police as he has take... (read in full...)
Sometimes after I eat food I just have to go to the toilet. Is this normal?
Q. Sometimes after I eat food I just have to go to the toilet. When I have to go to the toilet after I eat my meal, does that mean I poop everything out of what I ate? I don't take laxatives....
A. 11 July 2007: Yes its very normal! Without going into too much detial its just how our body works, maybe you have a faster matabolism than others but its still very normal... (read in full...)
The new guy I'm seeing is amazing! The problem is my friends - they say he's too ugly for me and that I'll end up hurting him!
Q. i have being seeing a guy who i think is amazing. We seem to get on so well, and have such a connection. All the past guys i have dated have all been boring and i he just makes me laugh so much. I love spending time with him, but problem is none of ...
A. 11 July 2007: Hey you like him dont you? Youve saying yourself that you really like this guy and that he makes you feel great.
Hes your BF not your friends is he. As long as he makes you happy, he should make them happy. Because your happy.
Looks mean little i... (read in full...)
Will my body piercings turn a guy off?
Q. This is directed mostly to guys. I was wondering if body piercings turn guys off? I have six piercings on one ear and five on the other, and I want to get my belly button and tongue pierced. I just don't want to lose my chance with a guy, because ...
A. 11 July 2007: If a boy doesnt like you for you and is turnt of by your body then he isnt worth it is he!
And some boys do like piercings... (read in full...)
I discreetly got DNA and the result shows I am not her biological father. I am stunned and do not know what to do.
Q. Just found out my 12 year old daughter is not mine, I was divorced recently and an old friend of my ex wife told me when she had a few drinks . I confronted my ex she said it was rubbish but it has been playing on my mind for months. I discreetly ...
A. 10 July 2007: Wow! Sorry for the news.
But you may not be her biological facter but your still her dad arent you?
Shes loves you i bet and youve been around all along , so your still her true dad no matter what any test says.
Dont leave 'cus of this as your... (read in full...)
Should I date a guy with less formal education than me?
Q. I was wondering, does it matter whether I date a guy who has had less formal education than me? He recently asked me out. He's not been to college and I have.I wonder if that will have any effect on our relationship...help!...
A. 10 July 2007: Im gonna leave this simple. If you like him and he likes you that can make for a great relationsip.
Education plays no part in a good one and his intelligence has no bearing on if it will work or not.
If you do go out with him enjoy it... (read in full...)
Is this a normal penis size?
Q. I am a 13 yro black kid and my penis is 6 1/2 inches long and im afraid that i have 2 be huge cuz everybody says im supposed 2 be huge and i dont wanna be made fun of in the locker room. AM i to small?...
A. 10 July 2007: Your fine, and your still only 13 you have years left to grow all over your body. As for you size i think 6" is average for ALL men regardless of colour, but im not 100% sure.
As for going into sterotypes me myself being black we go through enou... (read in full...)
He is so paranoid about getting pregnant!
Q. I'll be 15 very soon and my bf will be 18 in a few months. We want to have sex before it's illegal but he's WAY too paranoid about getting pregnant, he wants to wear TWO condoms AND get on the pill! I know it's a good thing to be careful, but I just ...
A. 10 July 2007: Its sounds like he is being sensible in considering the consquences of sex like STIs and pregnacy. Just talk to him and tell him how you feel then ask him sabout how he feels and you can come to a calmer comparmise.
But do wait until you are lega... (read in full...)
We're young and we want to have sex badly.
Q. I want to have sex badley but I not sure if I should do it my boy friend is 16 and im 12 he calls every night tells me come over i am ready. (Moderator Note: purposefully left without corrections)...
A. 10 July 2007: well first of having sex now would be illegal and land your bf on the sex offenders register or even in jail!!!
Your 12 your body isnt ready for sex and your proberly not ready for the consquences of sex I,e pregnacy, STI.
Also as for him telling ... (read in full...)
Could I be contacted with herpes, STDS, and etc?
Q. my sister and i got into a fight. She spat at me, and her saliva went on my arms, face, lips, and inside my mouth. Could I be contacted with herpes, STDS, and etc?...
A. 10 July 2007: Well the simple asnwer is no. Though it is true some STDs can be transferred through split it would have to be buckets full of spit down your mouth! And you would proberly need an open wound.
This all depends on your sisters health and if your real... (read in full...)
Is there any operation or medicine to get virginity back in pakistan?
Q. is there any operation or medicine to get virginity back in pakistan ...
A. 10 July 2007: virginity is a one time thing. Once you lost it its gone foever... (read in full...)
I turn 20 soon and im still a virgin. Is that okay?
Q. I turn 20 soon and im still a virgin. Is that okay? I wanted to wait until i was in a serious relationship before i had sex but now i dont know if i should just go out and sleep with someone because of the whole age-pressure thing?...
A. 9 July 2007: Its the right thing to do by waitng for the right person to come along instead of sleeping around.
Dont fall for peer pressures and society be your own person... (read in full...)
Is it against the law to date an 18 year old guy when your 14?
Q. Is it against the law to date an 18 year old guy when your 14?...
A. 9 July 2007: No its legal as long as you do not get involved in any sexual contact he will be fine. But you can date him... (read in full...)
She's 11, and I'm 15! Is this age gap wrong?
Q. Hi.. I'm 15 and I like this girl 5 years younger than me but she's about to turn 11. Well, I know that relationships with an age gap of even 10 years are often accepted, but still I can't seem to decide on what I should do. What I know is, we're ...
A. 6 July 2007: Shes 10 man! You may like her but in many ways she a kid and your becoming a man. Let her grow up first. Then you can go for her at a much later date. Or find someone your age... (read in full...)
Can you get AIDS from sweat?
Q. Could you get STD,AIDS,HIV from sweat or somebody elses sweat?...
A. 6 July 2007: The simple answers is no. From sweat like yummymummy said. You would have to come in contacts with buckets among buckets of sweat to be close to catchimg it, same with kissing saliva... (read in full...)
I'm in love with someone who is very overweight and won't try to lose it!
Q. What do I do if the person I'm in a serious relationship with, desiring marriage mostly on their part, is 135+ lbs overweight and despite my encouraging request to my significant other to lose weight and eat healthier has done almost nothing, if ...
A. 6 July 2007: I agree with LauraE. If you love someone you love all of them for who and what they are. But if this causes her a health problem somethingg can be done. Why dont you suggest that you both start working out, running around your street. Jon a gym. ... (read in full...)
Will my boyfriend be able to tell that I am a virgin?
Q. My Boyfriend Thinks I Have had Sex But Im A Virgin Will He Know?...
A. 6 July 2007: Phsyically no he will not be able to as it is very difficult to tell unless hes a OBGYN. But like Maryjane22 said you shouldnt be having sex with someone your lying to, its not fair on him is it?... (read in full...)
How can my boyfriend beef up and put on some weight?
Q. My boyfriend is very skinny. It was natural because it was INBORN. When he was born, he is very vulnerable because he is so skinny. But when he grew up, he had some fats. But not much. Now he wants to Have more body to please me. I feel sorry for ...
A. 6 July 2007: If he doesnt want to change you have to live with it or leave him. If he is unheathly skinny talk with him and suggest a dietican... (read in full...)
I tend to get major erections in the presence of my SISTER-IN-LAW in our house
Q. I tend to get major erections in the presence of my SISTER-IN-LAW in our house. I know this is wrong, but I do it to test her reaction. So far, she hasn't said anything to me. My wife told me to stop walking around the house in my boxers, but I st...
A. 6 July 2007: First of all i'll defend you by saying as men we cannot control our erections as long as your purposly not thinking erotic thoughts about her. Its just life. Secondly please put on boxers 1st to please your wife and stop any future embarres... (read in full...)
I'm worried because my heart pumps really fast! Is this normal?
Q. Recently even now, my heart has been pumping really fast. I don't know what is this caused by. It could be the food I am eating or my nervousness. I am worried about this....
A. 6 July 2007: Are you nevous over something or someone? Are you under stress perhaps? Have you been eating lots really fast? These are just some ideas that im throwing that could be the problem, but if your still woried seek help from a professional like your D... (read in full...)
She has found religion and now doesn't want sex...what do I do?
Q. Hello everyone ... I am writing this cause I am in need of advice and I am stuck. My girlfriend and I have been going out for over 6 months. She is the right one for me, and we have already talked about marriage, kids, etc. We stated to have a s...
A. 4 July 2007: Yummymummy has once agian said it all like danielepew said. Respect her wishes... (read in full...)
She has found religion and now doesn't want sex...what do I do?
Q. Hello everyone ... I am writing this cause I am in need of advice and I am stuck. My girlfriend and I have been going out for over 6 months. She is the right one for me, and we have already talked about marriage, kids, etc. We stated to have a s...
A. 4 July 2007: Yummymummy has once agian said it all like danielepew said. Respect her wishes... (read in full...)
How can I meet some new friends and maybe get a girlfriend?
Q. hello, i am almost 18 years old. i have been living in a new city for a few days now and i do not know anyone (except for some neighboors here and there but no to hang out with). these past couple of days i have not have much chance to meet a...
A. 4 July 2007: Well since its summer why dont you join some sort of activities club and meet people there thats always great way to meet people who enjoy your tastes. If your joining the trade school even though you wont meet girls you can meet other friends ... (read in full...)
What's best for having safe sex?
Q. Hi! ... What is the best for safe sex, the morning after pill or condoms? ...
A. 4 July 2007: I would say using both together is safes as neither are 100% effective on their own... (read in full...)
Can my mum put him in jail when we have had no sexual or really physical contact what so ever???
Q. ok I am 16 years old, I hate guys my age they're too immature... I recently started dating this 20 year old guy and me and him have done nothing but talk but my mom called him up threatening to put him in jail for just talking to me...the funny ...
A. 4 July 2007: Nope. As long as you have no sexual contact with this man she cannot put him away. Like yummymummy said you do need to talk to your mum as it is better to fix this conflict now rather than pent up feeling and let them errupt which shouldnt happen b... (read in full...)
I have a crush on a female star from Wimbledon, so I friended her on Myspace. Is this considered stalking?
Q. i have been watching wimbledon and i have developed a crush on a particular female star. i went onto myspace to see if she was on it (it was set to private) and i asked to be her friend (those who have myspace will understand the procedure). the pr...
A. 3 July 2007: As long as you dont go any further than you have now you are fine and enjoy your crush.... (read in full...)
I am worried about what my friends would say if they knew my BF was a virgin
Q. my boyfriend is 18 but he has never has sex. i am a bit worred about mine coz all my other m8 have 18 year old bf and their bf have all had sex before. but i dont wont to tell them that my bf has never had sex becouse i am worred on what they would ...
A. 3 July 2007: Well i dont understand how they could make fun of your bf because he is a virgin.
Dont compare your bf to your friends as this never bodes well in a relationship as you nitpick your bf tendacies.
If you truely dont want them to know just dont kis... (read in full...)
Is it still possible to fall in love after a year of dating?
Q. for you men out there, is it possible for you to fall in love with a women that you dated for a year if you haven't felt it by now?...
A. 3 July 2007: In my opinion yes.
When you truely know someone and get past the shallowness of a short lived relationship it is possible to fall in love with someone... (read in full...)
Could sperm survive from our first sexual encounter to our second 1/2 hour later?
Q. ok, here it is. yesturday me and my boyfriend had sex. we used a condom but then we did it adain no more than half an hour later. he didn't come out but could there still be sperm from the first time and would it still survive? is there a chance ...
A. 3 July 2007: Im assuming you didnt use a condom the second time and if this is true yes you could indeed be pregnant, if you did use a condom and it didnt break you should be fine
. Like eyeswideopen said do use an extra form of contraception when having sex ... (read in full...)
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