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My mates told me I should masturbate an hour before I have sex.

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Question - (12 July 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 July 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My mates told me I should masturbate an hour before I have sex. Is this true anyone out there done that? I'm a virgin and they also told me that I could get sexually transmitted disease from my girlfreind even though she's a virgin 2. Can anyone help me plz and tell me if these are true or false xx

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A female reader, girlwhoneedshelp United Kingdom +, writes (13 July 2007):

girlwhoneedshelp agony auntYou cannot catch a sexually transmitted disease from someone who hasn't had sex, fact! About the masturbation, watch out you don't enjoy it too much and release too much otherwise when the main even comes you might disappoint your other half with little discharge and not as much pleasure as you would receive had you not masturbated previously. Also, if you masturbate it means you might only be able to have sex once depending on how much you release, so I say its a better idea not to do this and just to go ahead with the sex so you will be able to do it more than once!

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (13 July 2007):

love-him agony auntHia babe,

If you masterbate before sex, ( an hour or 2 ), it means to most men they will last longer during sex.

About the STI thing. If the girl has thrush ( which isnt an STI ) then you could get that, and also if she has crabs ( sharing clothes or towels ) you could also get that..

I hope i helped,

Mail me if you would like to talk x

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A female reader, O Connor Ireland +, writes (13 July 2007):

O Connor agony auntabout the masturbating situation - it would help as it helps the sex last longer. but it is not necessary! as for the STD thing im not really sure about wat you can and cannot get - if she has thrush than you can get it. you should both get tested before you do it to put both of you at ease - thats wat i did with my boyf and knowing we were both safe made sex alot more enjoyable!

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (13 July 2007):

Jamer70 agony auntIm not sure either about getting STDs while being a virgin. Im pretty sure you can get crabs from sharing clothers but im not 100% sure. Dont know

As for the masterbating thing its a "thing" where you last longer during sex as you "went" a while before. to my knowledge true

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