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reader, Aylarsh  +, writes (25 February 2008):
 It's a shame that you can't go to anyof your parents feel free to ask anymore questions whenever.
Good luck Love!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (24 February 2008):
 What do you mean by virgin?
A girl is considered a virgin if her hymen is still intact. She may not have sex and still lose her virginity because the hymen or thin membrane inside her vagina can be broken by rigorous exercise .
She may have sex but in some girls the membrane maybe tough and elastic and may not be easily broken if penetration is not deep enough to break it. In which case, she is still a virgin.
In some society , virgin referred to a young woman with no sexual experience.
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reader, Fairy_Lu  + ♥, writes (23 February 2008):
 Well thats a shame about your parents but with any problems you can post on here and atleast you will get answers
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reader, hlskitten + ♥, writes (23 February 2008):
 Hi
Thats a shame, but i guess this site is good for anything like that you need to ask.
Although it doesnt take the place of a good adult you can confide in.
C xxxxx
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reader, jazninch +, writes (23 February 2008):
jazninch is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks you av all helped me so much and if anyone asked no i dont want to know this because i want sex but just coz i wanted to know my mum n dad split up wen i was 1 i now live wi mi dad and he dont like me askin questions like that coz he wont accept that im growing up and that i will be 13 in 7 mounths
my mum hates me n i hate her most of the time becaue of wat she did to try and get me back
wen i try to talk to her she either tries to change the subjuct or ignores me so
(by the way , johndoe200three im female !!)
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reader, Aylarsh +, writes (23 February 2008):
You used a condom so you aren't it just protected you from Disease and pregnancy. You are not a virgin after contact with someone elses genitalia.
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reader, SoSowhat10 +, writes (23 February 2008):
 Nope.. Your not a virgin! But dont have sex because your like 10-12..Come on now..Your to young...Do you want me to sing you a song about NOT HAVING SEX!
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reader, SamuraiRick +, writes (23 February 2008):
 If you wear a bullet proof vest and you get shot at, did the bullet still hit you?
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reader, O Connor  + ♥, writes (22 February 2008):
 nope a condom doesnt stop you losing your v plates, just decreases the chance of you gettin pregnant. i dont agree with the way your parents dealt with this either, it is a conversation for a girl to have with her mother, not be passed around by her parents. you are so young still so im hoping this is not a question that you are asking because you are thinking of having sex, wait a few more years, you will get there and appreciate it more as you will be more mature and more able to deal with the emotions that come with sex. however, if you are gonna do it jst use a condom!!
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reader, spanna +, writes (22 February 2008):
 a condom will only stop a girl from getting pregnant, well reduce the chances significantly, it does not stop u losing your virginity.
Your parents should not be behaving like this, you are at a curious age and need to have answers so you dont go looking for them too early in life.
Beings your parents are being so immature, feel free to ask me anything you want i will ty my best to answer them
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (22 February 2008):
 I am disurbed that your parents keep passing the buck back and forth, when you ask about sexual matters. It is little wonder than Britain has a very high teenage pregnancy rate because of ignorance and lack of sex education.Your parents should be ashamed of themselves, by not imforming you at the most important time of your life as you are reaching puberty. They are people who you look up to and should teach you about these important matters, not shove it under the carpet when it suits them. I think they should take responsibility and get you books to read about sex and contraception. Hope I have been of help, Dusky xxx.
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reader, Helen1986 +, writes (22 February 2008):
 Hello, No you are not a virgin if you have sex using a condom. If a mans penis enters inside you protected or not you are not a virgin.
Wearing a condom is very intelligent and will prevent STDs and nasty infections it also minimises the chance of becoming pregnant. So always make sure your sexual partner wears one.
Remember you never know where anyone has been!!! Sexually transmitted infections are travelling fast and it only takes the one time to contract one. SO ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!!!!
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reader, Helen1986 +, writes (22 February 2008):
Hello, No you are not a virgin if you have sex using a condom. If a mans penis enters inside you protected or not you are not a virgin.
Wearing a condom is very intelligent and will prevent STDs and nasty infections it also minimises the chance of becoming pregnant. So always make sure your sexual partner wears one.
Remember you never know where anyone has been!!! Sexually transmitted infections are travelling fast and it only takes the one time to contract one. SO ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!!!!
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reader, Helen1986 +, writes (22 February 2008):
Hello, No you are not a virgin if you have sex using a condom. If a mans penis enters inside you protected or not you are not a virgin.
Wearing a condom is very intelligent and will prevent STDs and nasty infections it also minimises the chance of becoming pregnant. So always make sure your sexual partner wears one.
Remember you never know where anyone has been!!! Sexually transmitted infections are travelling fast and it only takes the one time to contract one. SO ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!!!!
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (22 February 2008):
 condom or no condom you wont be a virgin anymore.if you have SEX you bf/partner must wear a condom!
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reader, Fairy_Lu + ♥, writes (22 February 2008):
If you have sex if a mans penis enters your vagina protected or not you are no longer a virgin its as simple as that, and i think it was a little strange for your parents not to explain that if you asked.
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reader, guillaume + ♥, writes (22 February 2008):
 Hi, No, you wouldn't be a virgin, plain and simple. G.
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reader, johndoe200three +, writes (22 February 2008):
even if you use a condom and have sex you arent a virgin no. Your protecting yourself from std's and possibly aids. You are clearly doing the right thing and your parents should be able to talk to there own son about this. But like i said to answer your question you would not be classified as a virgin condom or not.
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reader, babewithbrains +, writes (22 February 2008):
 A condom doesn't stop the man's penis going up you're vagina - it just catches the sperm/semen and other bodily fluids.You should be learning this in either year 6 or yr 7.You should talk to your mum more - it's not going to be easy from what I've seen here but just talk to her, about anything, go shopping, stuff etc..Good luck with the future.JellyPS. Are you in Year 7? So am I!!!!
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reader, Ann1056263 +, writes (22 February 2008):
 No, you wouldn't be a virgin if you used a condom. It's still sex. And I think it's great you're so aware and open about sex at a young age. I'm not saying to go out and have it, just that you'll be able to make smarter decisions than most young girls out there.Try showing your parents this. If they know you're getting the answer from someone else, they might be more likely to answer your question.Parents usually don't like other people giving their kids advice.Hope that helped. ^_^
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reader, hlskitten + ♥, writes (22 February 2008):
HiNo you wouldn't be a virgin if you used a condom.Thats a shame, your ma n pa should be able to speak to you if you are asking questions. In an ideal world anyway.C xxxxx
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