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writes:I have got a question for men...who are in some sort of profession e.g. doctors, engineers, lawyers etc etc or into books. I would like to know how is it like living with them...also are they supposed to be boring in bed or otherwise. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): There are 24 hours in a day, this gives you a rather limited amount of time to spend on things.
In school there are two kinds of people, to socialites and the study freakes. If you spend all your time with your nose in the books you will become more intelligent and thefore more likely to have a white collar job as you call it.
On the other hand, if you spend all time hanging out with friends your grades will be lower, you will get a blue collar job but you will be better socially.
There exceptions offcourse but somebody like a doctor who has had to follow a long hard study followed by a demanding internship will have had less time to spend on relations and sex then somebody who just got dropped out of school and is flipping burgers.
When sex is all you have you will become very good at it, when you got other intrests then even mundane sex can be exciting enough.
Remember however, opposites attract. If you are sexually adventurous and he is not then he could still be persuaded by you. Show him what he has been missing. Only one of you is needed to come up hot new ideas. As long as he is not a prude it don't matter what he has done or hasn't done before, you can show him
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): I am the original poster
The reason why I asked this question is not to offend anyone especially who is not a white collar worker. I have fallen hard for one of the men who is my senior..same profession as me except quite high up and is a high flying lawyer. I just wanted to get a picture of how life can be with him or anyone in his position before i get any closer thats all.
That does not mean I am ruling out others...this is a specific question geared at certain type of men as I am so desperate to know how they can be in their personal life (because of the man i really like)...like checking the waters without sleeping with them...sorry thats not my style....if that offends anyone.
But thanks very much all....especially guillaumme...i look forward for more answers
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (21 February 2008):
 Hi,
I read that 8 in 10 businessmen who travel away from home will sleep with a person other than their partner at least once in any given 12 month period.
Bu the quality of lover is not directly related to profession. A brusque sexist construction worker who yells out to women to "show us your tits" is hardly going to be ideal bedroom material. But then a guy who spends an hour in the bathroom every morning preening himself for the high flying business meetings during the day is hardly likely to be a selfless lover.
It's all relative , but high flying professions usually mean long hours and high stress levels, these guys are ego driven and have loads of money. A show I saw was of execs in Manhattan aged in their 30's - all single. They all had one thing in common a total lack of any sort of moral compass. To them women are there to be conquered, once the chase is over so is the interest - and they cannot see what the problem with that is.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (21 February 2008):
 How do you expect them to be? They are just normal human beings like you and I. Why don't you sleep with the guys who happen to be in that profession and find out for yourself. Just a thought if you are that curious lol.
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