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writes:I've been with my boyfriend over a year and he's only the 2nd person I've slept with. We have a great sex life but my self confidence drops as sometimes when he fingers me there is white stuff on his fingers. It doesn't smell and it's not cum, unless I cum without realising which would be a worry in itself lol.. and sometimes when we have sex it's not a lot, but enough to be noticable. Is this normal?I'm clean, I got checked when I split up with my ex as he was a cheat. Should I get checked again, and does anyone else know if this is normal and get this??? Please write back asap, I'm really worried.. thank you xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): Totally normal honey :] Yep, it can be a bit embarrassing, but hey, nobody told him he should go down there so it's his own decision. If he really doesn't like it, then he should maybe take a step back and think what comes out of his cock that you actually SWALLOW, never mind get on your fingers lol :]
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reader, x..chloe..x +, writes (24 February 2008):
x..chloe..x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all so much.. i was going off my trolly worrying.. my bf has never said anything about it but it made me self concious, embarrassed and worried that he wud leave me or something.. thnk you all agen, ur all legendary people xxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, daisydaresyou +, writes (24 February 2008):
Yes, as the other woman said, this is normal! It's all about being aroused. Don't fret, and maybe read up on some female biology? It's much better to know about your own body otherwise you can end up worrying about things that are completely normal like this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2008): This is totally NORMAL! I'm surprised that no one on this blog has pointed out that when a woman is arroused... and gets wet... the lubrication her body creates ranges from clear to white.. depending on the bodies hormonal balance at the time of sex... My boyfriend thinks it's very sexy... and enjoys the thought of me "creaming" all over him... you might want have this perspective, since it's unavoidable.
If you don't have any discomfort, smell, or other indications of infection, don't worry about it!
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reader, R71 +, writes (24 February 2008):
My gf takes great care of herself and still she gets this discharge from time to time. I think it's quite normal and certainly doesn't bother me at all. I tend to discretely remove it and wipe it on my boxers - which are normally lying on the floor next to the bed by this point!! I certainly would never mention it to her as I wouldnt want to embarrass her.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (23 February 2008):
 This is most likely normal vaginal discharge, which is a self-cleansing of the interior walls of the vagina, just as your outer skin surface sheds dead skin cells daily. Some whitish discharge is typical daily especially at your age and for some time throughout your life - less perhaps at an older age. The discharge is typically just a small amount of whitish or cream-colored material and is harmless.
If this bothers you, then prior to engaging in sexual activity, just vaginally insert two fingers and twist a couple of times while bathing or during a shower. This should remove most or all of any discharge. Do not douche, as it is unnecessary and very likely to cause other problems, such as an unbalance of the natural vaginal environment.
You could check with a gynecologist, but you would probably just be wasting money. Just do not worry about it, but swab your vagina with your fingers and little if any more will follow right away.
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (23 February 2008):
 As long as there is no odor associated with the discharge there is no reason to indicate that this is anything more than a normal vaginal discharge.
This discharge is normally a bit acidic and serves to prevent infection and will carry dead cells with it. It is basically your vagina's way of keeping itself clean and healthy.
A man also produces a discharge, pre-ejaculatory fluid (pre-cum) which basically does the same thing in that it flushes the urethra prior to ejaculation, paving the way so to speak.
No, I would not worry. I am sure it is quite normal. Doc
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reader, Lexi_3 +, writes (23 February 2008):
 I have this same exact problem, and i dont no what to do about it. Just like yours mine has no odor either but it has also worried me. So if you go get checked out, please leave me a message, describing what it could be. Thanks.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (23 February 2008):
 It sounds like vaginal discharge, you tend to secrete more when you are ovulating.
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reader, leonard j. Douglas  +, writes (23 February 2008):
Please, Do a Google Search.
Type in your Search-Bar, "White Stuff Fingering".
Then when the Info. window comes-up.
Click, "Fingering and weird white secretions Medical Questions. Do hope that it's helpful to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): That's pretty normal I think. I get that at times. I wouldn't let it rattle you. Women have naturally occurring bacteria and microorganisms down there and are mildly acidic, which keep them under control. Taking antibiotics can kill the bacteria and cause yeast infections. If the white stuff is kind of like cottage cheese, that could be a yeast infection. If it's not, it's probably just a slight imbalance in your ph levels. What you want to watch out for is any itching, odor or pain. If those are present, then it's likely you have some sort of mild infection and you want to see your gynocologist, who can give you something to clear it up in a few days.
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reader, Aylarsh +, writes (23 February 2008):
 I think you are normal but it is best to see a doctor or some type of professional about this. There is a patient doctor trust so you can keep it secret and not tell anyone if something is wrong. Just in case there is you should get checked. i wish you luck!!!3
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