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Archived questions from: 18 October, 2014 (see latest in Crushes category)

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Crushes: Help and advice

I don't hear from him for days -- does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3488 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - I met this guy at a bar 3 weeks ago. He was wearing the shirt of a band I like and I thought he was hot, so I went over and asked for his name and phone number. He seemed shocked but gave them to me anyway, and asked for mine too. We chatted for a ...

Do I ask her if she likes me or just move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3486 days ago

18 October 2014 (M) - There is this girl, and to make it short, I feel as if she stole my heart an never gave it back. Therefore it's really hard for me to be open to feel anything for anyone else. I told her I like her but she reacted in the way I figured she woul...

Enjoyed our first date together.Is it too much to send her a card wishing her well?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

18 October 2014 (M) - Just a quick one. Went out with someone (first date if you will), and had planned to meet up again soon. She's since postponed this, I think she has a lot on with work - stress etc. Is it too much to send her a card wishing her well? Have sort ...

I think I'm over him now. He broke up with me. Why is he now reaching out to me, considering he has a new Gf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - My ex dumped me about 1.5 years ago. He's in a relationship with someone else 3 months after our breakup. I was desperate and couldn't move on. I spent over one year to put myself together and decided to move abroad. The last day before I left ho...

He says my nature is bad. That was his reason for breaking up with me. What was my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - I met a guy online 3 months back. On the first day itself I had phone sex with him. Initially he was very loving. We were even planning to meet. He used to say if I make you pregnant I will marry you. He said we will make videos while having sex...

Does she truly love me? What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

18 October 2014 (M) - I have being dating a girl for about two years now and I love her very much. before we started dating she had a boyfriend but I loved this girl because she is so jovial,sweet voice and easy to go along with and so respectful. so I started getting ...

I love my BF. A flat mate seems to have a crush on me. Though not interested, how should I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - I am 22 and live with my boyfriend,a gay couple and a single guy. Recently I have begun wondering whether the single guy might have a crush on me. He's really shy and never had a girlfriend. We get on really well but I don't want him to get the ...

Despite all the troubles, why does he keep on coming back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3488 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - i dated a boy for nine months, we broke up publicly in may 2014, however soon realising the mistake we had made and that we still loved each other. We tried to continue our relationship in secret. however one night he held a party, but he spent mo...

It was an awkward first kiss, but does that make me an a pathetic 24 year old loser? What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - So I just got home from a sort of first date with a guy. We hung out at my house last weekend just to break the ice so I cooked lunch for us nothing major. Tonight we went out for drinks and when it was time to drop me off we were just chattin...

Is it ok for me to send this message to a guy I like? In the closet now, but should I just come out to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

18 October 2014 (M) - "Hey decided to just be honest. I’m not gay but I am bi, and I kinda want to ^^^ you off. It doesn’t make you gay to let a guy ^^^ you off, like i said i’ve had friends it happened to and they honestly couldn’t tell the difference. I’d be 100% dis...

Ten years later, and despite being in a relationship, I am still obsessing about this guy from the past. How can I move on or resolve this ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - This is taking over my life. I think about this guy constantly and torture myself by looking at his picture on-line a lot! I hear through the grape vine he's a bit of a player (I hate that in a guy.) But still can't stop thinking what could be if...

I like him but I'm too shy to talk to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - I like a guy, but I'm kinda shy. I don't have the guts to talk to him yet. I had his sister tell him I like him and he said cool. But the thing is, he doesn't know me. I was going to have his sister introduce us, but I don't have enough confidence ...

I miss her. Do you think she is in a rebound relationship? If yes, how long do you think it will last?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

18 October 2014 (M) - Hello, I have a question, but i need to tell you the most important details you will need for decision in the shortest possible way. My ex (also my Classmate!!) had a boyfriend, but I got her from him and she became my girlfriend, they were ...

Could I be Bi? How will my parents react if I tell them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3490 days ago

18 October 2014 (M) - I'm very curious with boys at the moment. I'm madly in love with a girl (A) and she lives far away and she is very hot but there is also a boy who goes to my school, all boys) and he's called (B) I fantasize a LOT about (A and B). I don't kn...