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my name is Skye, Im 33 years old, I live in the UK and Im recently married. I love animals and have an nine year old english springer spaniel called Millie.
I dont have any counselling qualifications that entitle me to help people. I tend to rely upon good old common sense. I did study psychology at college, but my husband tells me we're all slightly mad anyway and he is probably right...ha ha ha!
Seriously though, I just hope that I can help sometimes. I will certainly try my best.
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My wife caught me talking to other women on dating sites.
Q. ok well here goes. i used to be on all these dating sites. then i got married. but i continued to go on them well. the other day my wife caught me, and seen that i had been talking to these women. so she then accused me of lieing, cheating, and meet ...
A. 6 August 2007: I agree with the other replies here. I would be totally livid if I discovered my husband had done something like this.
We need to earn the trust of our partner and if it is broken we have a really huge problem.
Tell her again (and again and agai... (read in full...)
He stares at my chest.
Q. My mom's freind has a son. He's 3 years older then me. Whenever I see him, he makes me feel uncomfortable. He always stares at my chest. One time I asked him if he could please keep his stares to himself. He said sure, but he still does it. What ...
A. 6 August 2007: I agree. Speak with your mother and tell her exactly what you have told us. She will know how to deal with this. If he still persists after this tell him in a REALLY loud voice (loud enough so that all the adults around will hear)that if a boy of ... (read in full...)
I done loads of sit ups and now i hurt.
Q. i did 100 situps all in 1 go 2 days ago id never done sit ups before but i want to loose weight so i started the sit ups and did 100 in about 25 mins and now my abdomen is killing me it hurts so much! what have i done??...
A. 6 August 2007: Wow! You are a brave girl! All that excerise is bound to hurt a lot, especially when you have never done sit-ups before.
I agree that you have simply pulled a muscle. Your tummy is not used to this kind of workout and has decided to punish you with... (read in full...)
We're on a cooling down period... should I contact him or wait to hear?
Q. i have been with my partner for 7 weeks, but i feel he has been distant with me although he still sees me, the other day i asked if he wanted to finish, we agreed to a cooling down period, i am worried that he may not contact me, should i contact ...
A. 6 August 2007: As hard as it may be, my advice is to wait for him to contact you. I know that you are feeling bad and want to make things all right again, but you cant rush this issue.
Try to busy yourself with other things, like your friends and family. Deco... (read in full...)
Why do people think being a virgin at 20 is a problem? IS it a problem??
Q. This isn't a problem, its a question! But why do so many people think that being 20 and a virgin such a big problem?? And why do all the teenagers think they have to have sex at like 14, 15??...
A. 6 August 2007: I totally agree. Why society makes big deal of this really beats me! Not all teenagers think this way, but sadly they are getting fewer. I bet some are boasting to their mates that they have had sex when they havent just to fit in. Unfortunately, ... (read in full...)
No period for 3 months! Am I pregnant?
Q. I haven't had my period for 3 months and i only just lost my virginity a couple of days ago. We had unprotected sex whats the chance of me being pregnant?...
A. 6 August 2007: Hello Sweetheart,
No one will be able to tell whether you are pregnant or not for a little while yet. You are still young so your cycle can be irregular and as such you can miss periods and not be sure of your dates.
Im sure I dont need to tell ... (read in full...)
Is happiness to be found or within ourselves? And if it's within in ourselves how the hell do you find it because I can't!
Q. Is happiness to be found or within ourselves? And if it's within in ourselves how the hell do you find it because I can't! Any suggestions?...
A. 6 August 2007: Yes, you can! Decide to be happy and dont accept anything else. It truely is that simple.
I used to be unhappy a lot of the time too, until one day I realised that I did not need to be anymore. I dealt with each issue that was bothering me one by o... (read in full...)
Shall i tell her how i feel??
Q. I have a girlfriend, we have known each other for a couple years. When I saw her at school I had a crush, now that school was over I realized this and we met with a friend to see Pirates of the Carribean. She had fun. Since then we have gone to eat ...
A. 5 August 2007: Why not ring her and ask her out to the cinema and for a coffee afterwards? Then you will get to talk to her properly alone. If she declines, then move on gracefully and agree to be friends. Hopefully she will agree, so talk about the film, then ... (read in full...)
I don't know whether it's a wind up, her messing about or she wants me to ask her out.
Q. I recently told a friend how I feel about her and she said she has feeling for me to... we took it to the next level and slept together but then she started bein funny with me the next day and said she feels guilty cause she has a boyfriend but this ...
A. 5 August 2007: I would advise you to draw a line beneath the entire experience and simply move on from this girl.
Im sorry to say this when you so obviously like her, but she cheated on her boyfriend with you. Imagine if you where her boyfriend? I know she says... (read in full...)
I love him, but my mom doesn't. Should I choose him or my family?
Q. I am totally in love. head over heels for this guy. there is a 7 year difference between us. my mother will not stand for it, and is trying to put him in jail because i am only 17. ive been with this guy {behind her back} for a year now, and I'm so ...
A. 5 August 2007: Wow! Poor you! No wonder you are so very confused. Ok, so he is older than you. Is this the only reason that your mother does not like him? Is he a bad person, a bad influence, a drug or alcohol abuser, does he beat you? Seems like there must be ... (read in full...)
He's has problems since his wife died. He wants to date me but I am relunctant. Should I?
Q. I work with people.. I've known this customer for 3 years. He is in his 60s, retired after a highly paid job, and we've always had a cordial relationship. He is a very nice man who's always had time for other people and he was one of my favorite ...
A. 4 August 2007: Im sorry that you are in this horrible position. Here is a man you once liked, who is now merely a shadow of his former self. Alarm bells are ringing in your ears and personally I think you should listen to them.
I understand that you do not like... (read in full...)
How long will it take my eyebrows to grow back?
Q. KO! I'm a male and shaved my eyebrows, just wondering how long it would take to grow them back....
A. 3 August 2007: Shouldnt take too long. A week or two at the most. Luckily, hair grows more quickly in the summertime.
Good luck and ALWAYS be careful shaving around your eye as it is a very sensitive area,
Skye... (read in full...)
I lied about my age, what do I do?
Q. Hey !!!! I am confused. I met this guy on myspace. i like him, he sounds like geniuine guy. hes a virgin and everything so im not scared of him being a pedophile. I have lied to him about my age. I said I was 16 when Im 14. hes an up and coming f...
A. 3 August 2007: Please be wary of meeting up with anyone you have met on line. No matter what they say, you have no way of knowing whether it is the truth. That is the same advice I would give to an adult; and many adults have been duped by a trickster on line.
T... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong to have a f*** buddy while my girlfriend is out of state?
Q. Is casual sex OK when you love someone else who is not around? My girlfriend took a job that forces her to travel out of state for weeks at a time 90 percent of the time. I love her but dont want to sleep alone. Is it wrong to find a casual sexual ...
A. 3 August 2007: No way! Casual sex when you say you love your girlfriend is totally out of the question. You would never contemplate this course of action if you really did love her. Imagine how she would feel if she found out? These things have a way of making ... (read in full...)
I'm scared I might get pregnant, are my chances high?
Q. My last period was July 11, 2007. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend on July 18, 22, 23, and on the 27. I'm scared I might get pregnant, are my chances high?...
A. 3 August 2007: Well, most of us have had a similar scare to you, but going by the days you had unprotected sex (assuming you have an average 28 day cycle) the chances you could be pregnant are quite high.
The most sensitive pregnancy tests might give an accu... (read in full...)
We fight all the time. Do I need to just leave this mean man, or continue to try to make it work?
Q. I am so confused right now. My live-in boyfriend of about 1 1/2 year and I have been fighting quite a bit. When it's good, it's truly the best I've ever had, and he says the same thing. He's a bit younger, 33 to my 37, and never been in a ...
A. 3 August 2007: Hello anon, Im not surprised that you are feeling so confused. You care for your boyfriend, yet you feel you cannot be yourself around him. He may never have experienced a serious relationship before, but he is 33 years old and therefore he should ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin at 18 because i want to wait for the right person, is this a silly idea?
Q. Hi, I'm a virgin at 18, because I'm waiting for the right person to have my first time with. Do you think this is a silly thing to do, and that I should have done it differently? I've had the opportunity to, but would rather have it with another ...
A. 31 July 2007: I couldnt agree more with Midge. Wait until you feel ready. So what is others make fun of you, its none of their business! You arent your friends, do what is right for you. I was a bit older than you when I lost my virginity and Im so glad that I ... (read in full...)
We want to get married but I also want children; he doesn't
Q. My name is Chrissy and my boyfriends name is David we want to get married and i want children but he doesn't he said they cost too much money and all they do is scream and cry i want children very bad what do i do??...
A. 31 July 2007: Hello Chrissy,
Im sorry that you are feeling torn between your boyfriend and the desire to have children. I understand what a difficult situation you are in.
David is right, children do scream and cry. They are costly, and very hard work, bu... (read in full...)
How can I tell my fiancee's parents that he hits me?
Q. How can I approach my fiancee's parents (with discretion) by letting them know that he hits me at times when I disagree and or just have my opinion towards some topic. I'm afraid of talking to them because they would think Im just lying since...
A. 30 July 2007: Please do not put up with this any longer. This man does not love nor care for you like a boyfriend should otherwise he would never dream of hurting you, or telling lies about you. You are entitled to your opinion regardless of his viewpoint. Leave ... (read in full...)
Getting over someone who does not love you back.
Q. hey guys i was wondering if u could give me any tips on dealing with or getting over loving someone who u know doesnt love u back, im finding it so hard...
A. 29 July 2007: Im so sorry that you are feeling this way. If it helps, most of us have been there at some stage including me. Try doing something that you enjoy first, like have a nice bubble bath, a walk in the park, or a girly chat with a friend. Anything that ... (read in full...)
Never had sex but my period is late, why?
Q. Hello, Im 15 Iv Never Had Sex Of Any Kind, But My Period Is Late.. Im Always Regular And Come On Ever Month Which Is Why Im Abit Worried.. The Thing Is I Cant Remember When I Was Due On But I Know I Am Late.. What Can This Be?? Im Abit Worrie...
A. 29 July 2007: Hello Sweetheart, Firstly, stop all this worry! Your period is a very sensitive thing. It can be delayed for all sorts of reasons, including being worried. Have you lost a lot of weight recently? Where you stressed out during your school exams? H... (read in full...)
I'm 20, in university and I want to start a family so badly! What can I do?
Q. Hi, I wonder if anyone could help me. My partner and I (both 20 years of age) have been together for over 5 years, we have been engaged for about 1 1/2 years. We have both just completed our first year in Uni and plan to marry afterwards. Howe...
A. 28 July 2007: My advise would be to wait until you both have finished your degree courses and your fiancee has found work. Your can take your career break then. An education is easily carried. That way you can try for a baby with healthy finances. So many people ... (read in full...)
At first sex was fine and wasn't an issue but now she dosen't seem interested in it at all.
Q. I've been going out with my girlfriend for going on 2 years now but somthing's not right at all. At first sex was fine and wasn't an issue but now she dosen't seem interested in it at all. We still get on really well and are very much in love but ...
A. 28 July 2007: Could your girlfriend be worried about something? Did you both have a pregnancy scare before she became distant sexually? You say you still love her and the other aspects of you relationships are fine, so this is worth fighting for. If she has conc... (read in full...)
I feel she's pressuring me into marriage but I'm just not ready yet.
Q. We're almost breaking up with my gal now since I requested her to wait since am yet not ready for marriage as I feel my self. I am 25 she is 30. She says time is running out and she is ready. We've been dating for the last year and a half now. How ...
A. 28 July 2007: This will always be a tough issue to come to terms with. Love and committment MUST be a two way thing. If one partner wants to marry and the other doesnt , then you need to talk to eachother to find out where you both are in your relationship and ... (read in full...)
Should I try again for the sake of the baby??
Q. I'm 32 and have been with my boyfriend [he's 36] for 5 months. He has 2 children from a previous relationship. I have found out recently I am pregnant, it is my first child. I have always lived a very independant life but since meeting him, I have ...
A. 28 July 2007: Hello Anonymous, Firstly I want to say that I think you are a very brave. I really admire your decision to end this relationship and get your life back on track for you and your baby. This man does not sound a healthy influence. Now you are ex... (read in full...)
She never emailed me!
Q. hi last year i met a girl that was really nice, attractive, funny and everything! i really like her and we were very close friends. when the summer break came i wouldnt be seeing her for all summer, so i gave her my email out of like a sign that i ...
A. 26 July 2007: hlskitten is right. She could have just lost it, or perhaps she doesnt have an email address or her parents might not allow her on the computer much. She could be away for the summer. There are all sorts of reasons why you havent heard from her.
W... (read in full...)
He always makes me smile and laugh.
Q. The other day i was with my friends cousin.. i dont know if i like him, help me?! I don't know if this is considered flirting, he asks me stuff and he's always making me smile and laugh. Yesterday he called me cute because of the way my hair was,...
A. 26 July 2007: Sounds like you could be developing a crush on this man. As you say, he is a lot older than you, so I doubt he is flirting. He probably likes you though, as his cousins friend.
Crushes at you age can be very enjoyable; and believe me he wont be your... (read in full...)
What are the chances that i will bleed the first time we have sex?
Q. Hey, me and my boyfriend have decided to have sex. I wanted to know how much of a chance there is that I will bleed? I've never had sex or done anything sexual with anyone else before. I've heard that the hymen can be broken by exercise... well ...
A. 26 July 2007: Yes, you most likely will bleed a little after your first experience. It can be a bit uncomfortable too, but at least that part can be minimised. If you are worried about getting pregnant you can be tense which can make things difficult, so make ... (read in full...)
Should i teach my friend?
Q. I have a friend that i like. He is 12 and i am 16. is it ok to teach him how to have sex and give blowjobs and have sex and how to make out and how to drink pee and other stuff? Also, I have not gone through puberty yet. Should i be worried?...
A. 26 July 2007: NO WAY! Your friend is a 12 year old child. You would be breaking the law. Also, you friend is not old enough to know or even understand his future sexuality. That is not for you to decide for him. Leave well alone. ... (read in full...)
How long before my feelings for him wear off?
Q. Just been dumped. Okay it was like 2 almost 3 weeks ago. But i still love him which i hate. I see him everyday coz my mates are his mates and so we're out together everyday. It breaks my heart, bcoz i love him still so much and its taking me so lo...
A. 26 July 2007: Im sorry to hear that you feel so bad. It will pass, I promise. What you are feeling is normal. You are grieving for your lost love and only time will heal this pain. How long it lasts is different for everyone. Some of us get over things quicker ... (read in full...)
I'm doubting my boyfriend's heterosexuality
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and I am doubting his sexuality. From the first day I met him I thought he was gay but he was determined to make me think otherwise. He states he actually hates homosexual activity but I find he has ...
A. 26 July 2007: If you are having doubts you need to reasses your relationship. He could be with you to help him forget about his feelings towards men. Thats not to say he doesnt care for you, but it would never be the kind of a relationship you deserve. You could ... (read in full...)
My male friend flirts with me even though he has a girlfriend
Q. Hi im in a sticky situation here this is my problem. there's a boy in my class he has a girlfriend i really get on with him like mates but i always see him looking at me and flirting with me, my friends tease me when he comes and sits near ...
A. 26 July 2007: No, he doesnt care for you. Steer well clear of boys like him now and in your future otherwise you could get hurt. He has a girlfriend, so imagine how she would feel if she knew what he was doing? Now imagine if you where his girlfriend and found ... (read in full...)
I started dating my ex's friend; now my ex doesn't speak to us and is calling me a slut
Q. my ex broke up with me in Dec after a brief 4 month relationship. very shortly after our breakup, i was out and I met one of his friends that he talked about all the time, but Id never met this friend..me and my ex's friend hit it off right from the ...
A. 24 July 2007: I really feel for you on this one. We have all been in a situation where someone cries off in a huff. Unfortunately for you, you have to work with this big baby! Sounds to me like you are far better off without your ex. First he cheats on you, ... (read in full...)
What shall i do with my husbands online cheating?
Q. My question is 'what should I do with my husband'? He was caught in December meeting women online then calling them and then actually meeting in person two of them. He did not have sexual relations, but just the same it hurt. He promised...
A. 24 July 2007: I couldnt agree more with eyeswideopen and candy00s. You deserve much better than this. When you married your husband you both agreed to forsake all others; this has to be a two way thing or you are going to get hurt. I have found that things that ... (read in full...)
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