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writes:I have a girlfriend, we have known each other for a couple years. When I saw her at school I had a crush, now that school was over I realized this and we met with a friend to see Pirates of the Carribean. She had fun. Since then we have gone to eat out and hang out more exclusively. She went on vacation and then I did. Now we haven't seen each other for almost a month and when we talk on the phone she seems comfortable with me. Should I tell her how I feel? Should I just charm a little more and then kiss her when the time is right? We wont have classes together when school starts and she is busy with sports, as am I. I also really care about our relationship. I dont want either of us to have doubts and I dont want to lose the trust and comfort level we both have.Thanks. Help please
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reader, skye  +, writes (5 August 2007):
 Why not ring her and ask her out to the cinema and for a coffee afterwards? Then you will get to talk to her properly alone. If she declines, then move on gracefully and agree to be friends. Hopefully she will agree, so talk about the film, then perhaps ask about her holiday and tell her how much you missed her and your time together. If things are going well and she seems receptive, great! You still have your old connection. Ask if she would like to go out with you again. She will get the message.
I hope you can both come through this.
Best wishes,
Skye
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007): I would talk to her face to face and tell her how you feel. If you both trust each other, then you've nothing to lose. If you are totally comfortable with her, you should be able to tell her anything.
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