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writes:I know a man whom I am deeply attracted to both physically and to him as a person. However, though he is just as attracted to me physically,( He has made this clear for the past two years now but I haven't done anything about it as i know he wouldn't want a relationship)he doesn't seem interested in me as a person. How do i get hime to see past my looks and notice my personality? How do i show him that it would be worth it to give things a go with me? basically, how do I get him to move from this mindset of-"she's attracive, i would" to "I would love to get to know her better!"...Thanks,Michelle, 19 Reply to this Question
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reader, shania  +, writes (1 July 2006):
 If this guy has made it pretty clear that he only likes you for your looks alone...and he has been saying this for the past 2 years...why would he change his mind now? From what i can tell,he is only interested in a leg over and nothing else....Sounds blunt?....Iv come across fella's like this who only want one thing.If this guy really liked you then he would be making all the effort,i wouldn't chase him.Im surprised you haven't died of boredom while he still makes his mind up?..2 years is a long time to wait for anyone...go and set your sights on someone else....someone who will appreciate you for who you are.
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reader, *lola* +, writes (1 July 2006):
 Hi Michelle, i think that you should sit down and talk to this guy,tell him how you feel. If he does not react then move on there are plenty of other guys out there taht will love you for your personality aswell as your looks.
Good luck
*lola*
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (1 July 2006):
 Hey,
well michelle. First off - you know he likes you, which is a good thing to know if you're trying to get someone to notice you and want to know you. Why don't you get your mates to ask him questions about you and see how well he actually does know you. Then maybe your friends can tell him that he should know more about you than he currently does. Another crazy idea - demonstrated by a friend of mine - is throwing a party and making it a mascarade ball. Wear a mask and disguise yourself then chat to him. Then he can't focus on your looks but gets to know you, the real you. You could e-mail him saying that you like him too but he doesn't know you. Then if he likes you he'll want to get to know you!
Hope this helped,
Phoebe
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