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writes: I have been going out with my girlfriend for almost six years now and we have only had sex about six times! It was the first time for both of us and I suffer from premature ejaculation. Other than sex we have a very good relationship. Are we weird not to be having sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2006): Well if its not weird for the both of you, then it shouldnt matter.If there's a 'societal standard' to be having sex, then I dont know what it is. As logn as you two are in a loving and supportive relationship and each of your needs are getting met( physically, emotionally etc) Then I wouldnt worry about it. If your both satisfed then thats all that matters. Trust me, many people would love to have a more caring relationship( an emotionally intimate one) than one that is physical and empty. Enjoy your time together. If it becomes a problem for one or both of you, or there isnt any satisfaction, then you might want to see a therapist if it is a serious problem. Otherwise, enjoy what you have!
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reader, shania  +, writes (15 June 2006):
 Thanxs martini...im glad you noticed it.I wish people could write their own answers down...otherwise its boring for the poor person who wrote it.Write your own xxlikkleangelxx!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2006): xxlikkleangelxx - did you just copy Shania word for word? Shania must be your #1 fan? 8]
Anyway, no it's not weird that you two aren't haven't that much sex. It's always about personal preferences.
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reader, shania +, writes (15 June 2006):
If you and your girlfriend,are quite happy with your sex life then no..its not a problem....not everyone has a high sex drive but there could be other reasons on why your girlfriend doesn't ask for more.You said that you suffer from premature ejaculation so maybe by the time she is getting into it...you have already shot your load already so therefore she didn't orgasm and didn't get much out of it.So that could be another reason on why she avoids sex....but i could be wrong.If you are coming too quick then there is certain things that can stop you from doing that...self help books on sex and web sites with information on premature ejaculation will help.You have a good relationship so therefore you shouldn't have trouble on talking about it to your girlfriend.
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