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writes:I am madly in love with a guy who is 12 years older than me. He is Christian and so am I. We wouldn't have sex or even kiss before marriage but I just love being near him how do I let him know how I feel for him without making me look like a fool or talking to him I am usually not shy but around him I can't say anything.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (29 February 2008):
 HEY!!
You can start by just being open with him more, showing you care for him more, by asking him out for a drink.. and talk to him more.. See how it goes from there on..
I hope i helped you, feel free to mail me at any time x x x
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (29 February 2008):
 You can show your concern or care for him.You can ask him to go out with you sometime.If he likes you , he will go out with you.
You can chat with him online.Get his details or give him yours.
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reader, Lucy2118 +, writes (29 February 2008):
 Try spending more time with him, find out what he likes, hobbies etc and join him. This way you'll feel more comfortable around him and less shy. You never know you could end up having fun!
Hope this helps.
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reader, polarkite  +, writes (29 February 2008):
 There are three patterns in human behavior that I think are affecting this situation: 1. The more you like someone, the more shy you become around them. 2. People behave conservatively when faced with risk. 3. People need to reconcile opposite views. I think you like this guy so much that you don't want to risk the following: 1. the potential of being with him 2. the potential for undermining your Christian valuesSo, you tell yourself, when the *perfect moment* arrives, I'll talk to that person, or tell him my feelings. Well, I have important news, that perfect moment will never arrive.I suggest you do two things: 1. Determine your values, irrespective of any other person. 2. Wet your appetite for risk and go for what *you want*.Remember, there's no template for taking a risk. Risk simply has to be taken, and personal values need to be honored.
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