Who has had the injection contraceptive is there any side effects (my doctor said there wernt any) and do you come on your period?
Q. hi im 14 years old and im almost 15 im quite mature and ive been with my partner 1 year 5 months we are sexually active and i needed to get the morning after pill last week and they told me about a permanent contraception and i cant go on the pill ...
A. 16 April 2008: Hi
I had it years ago. My periods stopped completely. It was a joy! But the mood swings weren't :o(
But i might of just been unlucky, because the implant had the same affect on me, yet other women have had no problems. I just dont think i can use ... (read in full...)
Who has had the injection contraceptive is there any side effects (my doctor said there wernt any) and do you come on your period?
Q. hi im 14 years old and im almost 15 im quite mature and ive been with my partner 1 year 5 months we are sexually active and i needed to get the morning after pill last week and they told me about a permanent contraception and i cant go on the pill ...
A. 16 April 2008: Hi
I had it years ago. My periods stopped completely. It was a joy! But the mood swings weren't :o(
But i might of just been unlucky, because the implant had the same affect on me, yet other women have had no problems. I just dont think i can use ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sent me a very strange text that makes me think he is cheating. Is he?
Q. My boyfriend of the past year sent me a text message yesterday while he was with me. It read "I'm at my moms, call you in a minute". I asked him if he sent me a message and he said no. When I opened it and asked him why he sent me this message and ...
A. 16 April 2008: Your missing the fact he's probably up to no good, because you dont want to see it.
I had a guy (who was very nice by the way) swear on his own daughters life that he wasn't keeping something from me, when instincts were telling me he was. Wasn... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sent me a very strange text that makes me think he is cheating. Is he?
Q. My boyfriend of the past year sent me a text message yesterday while he was with me. It read "I'm at my moms, call you in a minute". I asked him if he sent me a message and he said no. When I opened it and asked him why he sent me this message and ...
A. 15 April 2008: Snoop! Although now he has slipped up, he will be more on the ball. And would of probably deleted anythig suspicious. Unless he's a complete dullard!
C xxxx... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sent me a very strange text that makes me think he is cheating. Is he?
Q. My boyfriend of the past year sent me a text message yesterday while he was with me. It read "I'm at my moms, call you in a minute". I asked him if he sent me a message and he said no. When I opened it and asked him why he sent me this message and ...
A. 15 April 2008: Hi
Sounds like he is. Lucky you that he wasn't too on the ball and sent it to you by mistake! What a result!
Guess all you can do now is wait n see if anything else happens.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
Should I keep talking to her or not?
Q. Hello everyone. Have a question that I hope some of you can help me with. Should I continue to see and talk to my ex? Its not all the time, every now and then. Sometimes we will meet out for dinner, or spend the day together. Sometimes, I am ...
A. 14 April 2008: Hi
Could be just that she was embarassed? Didn't really know how to come across? If it was a long relationship, i doubt very much she wouldn't be pleased to see you deep down, even if just a curiosity thing! But a friend would be someone you can ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends a real mamma's boy
Q. Hey all... i can really do with some advice on this topic. my boyfriend is a real mamma's boy. i know you can't change a person but what can i do about this. he phones his mom every day and then i'm not allowed to know what they discuss. he says ...
A. 10 April 2008: Hi
Not a bad thing, the fact he is so close to his mum is a good thing. But you should be equal. Once you are properly established anyway. If im dating someone but not living with them, my family would come first. After that, i would say your part... (read in full...)
My guy met 2 girls at the same time and dated us both. He chose her and broke my heart. Why is he contacting me now though?
Q. hi there - reallly needing some advice! met a man on an online dating website. We went out for three months - not long some might say but we saw each other every weekend even though he has a son from a previous relationship (which broke up 2.5 years ...
A. 10 April 2008: Hi
You're second choice and it didn't work out with the other 1. He likes the thrill of the chase, which is why he spent more time with you, but then decided to chase the other one, now thats gone tits, he's trying to woo you again.
I would st... (read in full...)
I'm 12 but I have not started my period yet?
Q. hi im 12 and tall for my age but i have not started my period. im worried about this because all my family say i should of started by now. is this normal?...
A. 9 April 2008: Make the most of it, i would! i was over 13. My daughter is 11 and we were only talking about this tonight. I dont expect she will til she is atleast 13. Shes a skinny winny! I think your build plays a big part.
I wasn't particularly thin, but i wa... (read in full...)
I can't stop cheating!
Q. Well i've just met this really nice guy and at first we were seeing each other, so i didn't see the big thing on going with other people that much but now it's a serious reletionship and now i don't want to waste this but i've had a bad habit ...
A. 9 April 2008: Then you're really not ready for him are you. No matter how much you want to be. Otherwise it wouldn't be an issue you would need to ask about? Nothing wrong with that. But you obviously realise this is a guy that doesn't deserve to be messed ... (read in full...)
My new boyfriend is still friends with ex who wants him back AND part of "friend group". How can I get in and should I be worried?
Q. I recently started dating a new guy. He broke off a 1 1/2 year relationship with his ex 6 months ago. They had been friends over 10 years before and she constantly tried to go out with him. She finally succeeded at a party when he was drinking ...
A. 9 April 2008: Hi
Dont bother with him. Too much history that aint actually history yet that you will get caught up in by the sounds of it.
C xxxx... (read in full...)
My love with my wife's sister!
Q. I am married to my wife 9 yrs back, and have two kids. I love my wife verymuch. It was three years back when my wife was carrying my second kid, her sister stayed with us to help her. During this time, somehow we both liked eath other the way we ...
A. 8 April 2008: Hi
Blimey, dont do things by halves do you!
Your wifes sister is heading in the right direction, finally, after taking the seriously wrong road, by wanting to call a halt to it now!
Not too sure how you can 'stop loving'the sister though. You ... (read in full...)
I need tips on how to get a special girl to orgasm through oral
Q. i need tips on how to get a special girl to orgasm throuhg oral??and i also need some help with foreplay?how to do it...the right time...everything about foreplay and helpful tips about sex...please help..thanks in advance..mwah...
A. 8 April 2008: Relaxed atmosphere, patience. Dont go at it like a bull in a china shop! Gentle, unless she likes it rough! Communicate, communicate, communicate. Men aren't mind readers. You need some guidence from her, all women are different. Listen to her ... (read in full...)
Since we became more than friends with benefits I feel bored of him, but I still love him
Q. I don't know what to do.... There is this man that I've been dating for only a few months, before this we where friends with benefits for almost a year and always wanted more than friends with benefits and now we're both together and i thought i'...
A. 8 April 2008: Hi
Sounds like you're not yet ready to 'settle down' thats all. But a part of you wants to, and you panic a bit when you split with them. Its ok to be single and learn about yourself before getting with someone full time.
The fact you feel bored wh... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I want something more than sex?
Q. Dear Aunts, I'm confused about a guy. We've been friends for quite some time, and we slept together. It was a complete surprise to me since I never expected anything more than friendship from him. I told him early on that I wasn't ready fo...
A. 8 April 2008: Hi
Just tell him. Got nothing to lose have you. And you never know, he might be thinking the same thing. As it was you that said you didn't want more than this, he is unlikely to be the one to say he wants more.
Bite the bullet, and ask him if h... (read in full...)
Does a period sixteen hours after having sex mean no chance she is pregnant?
Q. If a girl gets her period sixteen hours after having sex without a condom does that mean she won't get pregnant????...
A. 8 April 2008: A woman can get pregnant whilst on her period, extremely rarely, but even that article says the chances are highest 14 days after, not during. Ive never heard of anyone ovulating during their period! That makes no medical sense whatsoever. So i ... (read in full...)
Does a period sixteen hours after having sex mean no chance she is pregnant?
Q. If a girl gets her period sixteen hours after having sex without a condom does that mean she won't get pregnant????...
A. 7 April 2008: A similar question someone else posted elsewhere. Hopeit helps..
Question
I am on the second day of my period. I am not on the Pill and my boyfriend and I had intercourse last night and the condom split.
I have heard from various peop... (read in full...)
Does a period sixteen hours after having sex mean no chance she is pregnant?
Q. If a girl gets her period sixteen hours after having sex without a condom does that mean she won't get pregnant????...
A. 7 April 2008: Hi
Pretty much zero chance, but pretty much means theres still some chance. But i dont agree with Laura, the most fertile time is about 14 days after a period. Based on an average 28 day cycle.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
Sleeping with my best friend who's getting married
Q. I have a bestfriend whom i've fallen in love with 3 years ago. When I asked him what our status was, he said we are "bestfriends-with-benefits." Stupid, but i stayed on even after he said that. When he had a gf, we stopped and decided just to ...
A. 5 April 2008: Hi I dont get why if you two are such good friends, and the sex was good, why you didnt end up together, why did he end up dating someone else? Bit confused there. I always thought good friendship and sex was ideal foundations for a relation... (read in full...)
Bottom line is I don't trust him-should I walk away or stay?
Q. id really like some advice as i have come to my last option. i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2years. it has been very hard and emotional to stay together. in the begginning he told me he was single with no kids. after a few months he kept ...
A. 4 April 2008: Makes a change on here for someone to stand up for themselves! Good for you. The guy obviously wants his cake and eat it. Everyone makes mistakes, and giving someone a second chance isn't always a bad idea, but when they keep making them, you say ... (read in full...)
Bottom line is I don't trust him-should I walk away or stay?
Q. id really like some advice as i have come to my last option. i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2years. it has been very hard and emotional to stay together. in the begginning he told me he was single with no kids. after a few months he kept ...
A. 3 April 2008: I was with a guy like that, when he left mine at night, i wondered what he was doing. Never could quite trust him, although i dont think he wass up to much apart from going to the pub maybe. But its not nice is it, the things that go through your ... (read in full...)
Bottom line is I don't trust him-should I walk away or stay?
Q. id really like some advice as i have come to my last option. i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2years. it has been very hard and emotional to stay together. in the begginning he told me he was single with no kids. after a few months he kept ...
A. 2 April 2008: This guy keeps letting you down. Thats way to much to put up with if you ask me.
Doesn't sound like he will change much either.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
I'm fed ape monkeying around, what makes a real chimpion for women?
Q. 'Pretty women out walking with gorillas down my street' These are the word from a famous pop song. Can someone tell me what women want, i'm confused. I've done all the talking about feelings thing and seem to get blown out for guys that can barely ...
A. 2 April 2008: Bad guy syndrome i expect. Lots of women are attracted to them. I am guessing it changes a bit the older we get.
Bad boys are more exciting. Although ive never understood it myself. I have never liked rollercoasters though!
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
What can I do to save this relationship? Any advice can help!
Q. Me and my boyfriend are together for 3 years, living together for 2 years.Last months were nerve-racking, we are arguing and fighting almost every day.I think there are 2 problems here: 1)i feel that i'm giving him much more and care about him more...
A. 2 April 2008: Hi
Its not right to make him choose between you and a mate, thats the first point. But its not helping that you feel you are making all the effort. Thats almost certainly building up resentment. Quite a few of us have been there at some poin... (read in full...)
I don't mind him viewing porn online, but am I right in drawing the line at cybersex?
Q. I have been with my current husband for almost 6 years. I don't mind him watching porn, and I don't care if he masterbates, but cybersex, or even thinking about signing up, worries me. My friend found out her husband was doing it, and actually, she ...
A. 2 April 2008: Hi
Of course he should!
Cybersex is cheating. End of.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
All we ever talk about is sex so do we really love each other?
Q. I am in a relationship with a guy since last yr. We are very attracted to each other and we love each other. However, most of the time all we talk about is sex or having sex. Is there anything wrong with it? Or How do we figure out if its physical ...
A. 1 April 2008: Hi Nothing wrong with good communication. I wouldn't know how you figure out if its ONLY sex that keeps you together or love. Um, i guess only if you abstain for a while. Dont know if theres any point in that though? Its normal to be at it like ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant, by these signs?
Q. hi. my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex on saturday. and ever since monday morning my breasts have been very sore (tender). and this morning around 10am i was feeling so nauseas..but never throuwed up could i be pregnant? i have been using birth ...
A. 1 April 2008: Hi Not a chance you would be pregnant yet. Let alone show signs/symptoms of it. Ive had times when breasts are horrendously tender. Never had that til i was 36! Even had me wondering, but i wasn't. This is normally a hormone thing going on. C x... (read in full...)
What is my BF trying to achieve by such comment to his ex?
Q. Hi i just want to find out what this means...my boyfriend replied on the picture that the Ex girlfriend send to him by email he said "Damn can you plaese send it to my mobile, you are so beatiful" what could he possibly be hoping to achieve......
A. 1 April 2008: Hi Possibly he's trying to achieve options that are kept open! C xxxxx... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Over half a million visitors in March!
Q. I'm pleased to say that according to Google Analytics, March 08 was the busiest month ever for Dear Cupid! We had 519,747 unique visitors (i.e. people!) visit the site from 1st March 08 to 31st March 08 inclusive. Over HALF A MILLION people.... ...
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Opinions wanted on dating... Do you let him pay or go dutch?
Q. Opinions wanted on dating. If you meet someone and they want to go out evenings for instance, do you let them pay, do you go dutch and take it in turns to buy the drinks, do you go halves on the dinner? If you have a night in and they want a take a...
A. 1 April 2008: Thanks very much everyone. Interesting answers.
Much appreciated.
C xxxxxx... (read in full...)
How can I stop worrying about him talking to other women?
Q. I been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs. I have very low self esteem and recently found out he spends most nights on dating circle websites! I don't know if i should be worried or not. I know if i ask him about it he'll just accuse me of checking up on h...
A. 31 March 2008: Its called being soft really, but its a nice personality trait but also open to abuse mate!
Hope it goes ok.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
How can I stop worrying about him talking to other women?
Q. I been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs. I have very low self esteem and recently found out he spends most nights on dating circle websites! I don't know if i should be worried or not. I know if i ask him about it he'll just accuse me of checking up on h...
A. 31 March 2008: Hi again
Well, you need to work on that communication really. Because you need to have the right to express your thoughts. If its actually dating sites he's on, then you're better off out of it, but if its just chat sites, you need to get some more... (read in full...)
Is it true my friend wont find peace with God after committing suicide?
Q. Good day to all, A girl I know commited suicide. To be honest I am not so upset about the suicide itself or even her death. She had a really really awful life and alot of bad things happen her entire life-from the day she was born. When I f...
A. 29 March 2008: Hi
Im not christian, but i believe god will welcome her no matter how she died. God loves all his children. Im not religeous in anyway to be honest, but i certainly dont think her soul will go to hell. You're right, she will now have peace.
C xxx... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wanted a break from me, but I found out she doesn't want to get back with me.
Q. My girlfriend wanted a break from me 2 months ago, and i have found out that she doesn't really want to get back with me, this is because i was to clingy and controlling. I love her so much and she says she still has feelings for me...but wants to b...
A. 29 March 2008: Hi
You cant! If she doesn't want to, thats her choice. Just because you want something, it doesn't mean you automatically get it. Where is her opinion allowed in this?
Atleast she has been honest with you, and it sucks cuz its not how you wanted i... (read in full...)
Shall I go back or get on with my life?
Q. Hi I left my husband 2 years ago and moved into rented accomodation were i still live. He spent a lot of his spare time in the pub. My weekend became very predictable. I have three children who all live with me. He still lives in the matrimonal ho...
A. 29 March 2008: Hi
I dont think its fair on the new guy no. Also its not fair on you. Your ex doesn't sound like he knows what he wants and i bet you will find he will be back n forth between the 2 of you from now on.
I wouldn't wanna be with someone that frequent... (read in full...)
How can I stop worrying about him talking to other women?
Q. I been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs. I have very low self esteem and recently found out he spends most nights on dating circle websites! I don't know if i should be worried or not. I know if i ask him about it he'll just accuse me of checking up on h...
A. 29 March 2008: Hi
Its a tricky one. I mean, i know i go on chat sites, but i wouldn't be interested in meeting up with anyone off them, if that makes sense. Thats probably how your guy feels.
I know where you are coming from though. Im not sure i would be comfy... (read in full...)
I don't hate him, I dislike the behaviour and lies about other women though. I'd like to see him again to clarify these, good idea?
Q. i recently told the man i've been sleeping with that my son passed away and after a week of not hearing from him i blasted him for being so cold hearted to a person that had been nothing but good to him. not to mention at the same time there was ...
A. 29 March 2008: Hi
I wouldn't bother. It screams of married or attached guy to be honest.
Are your instincts not telling you the same?
You cant make someone listen to you. Its his loss.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
I know he had been lying to me but why?
Q. Ive been talking to this guy on AIM for a few months now (chatting for usualy about on hour evry day), but weve never met. He lives in the same county and a friend of mine went to high school with him so Im pretty sure hes legit. I know hes told me ...
A. 28 March 2008: Hi
I wouldn't do anything. If he blcked you and tells white lies, what use is that to you?
Dont mean it horrible, but he doesn't sound all that interested. Its quite possible he is scared of real life relationships. As you live failry local, i... (read in full...)
His comments about other women make me feel insecure, and I want to be more confident!
Q. Am a 48 year old, attractive, intelligent woman. I have been seeing this wonderful man for 4 months. Just back from holiday with him. On occasions when we are out, he'll say things like "that barmaid was gorgeous, wish I could take her home" or ...
A. 27 March 2008: Hi
I dont think confidence comes into it. Its rude in the least what he comes out with. Theres a lot of guys out there like it though! But i wouldn't mind betting its a bit of a game to him, and the fact you are fairly new, indicates that even more... (read in full...)
Broke up with her and now she's in a relationship and I feel hurt! Is this love?
Q. Hello all, Me and my ex girlfriend have been broken up for almost 4 weeks now even though it feels like only 2, i found out just today that she is in a new relationship, and it makes me kind of upset, i dont know why. I was the one that broke ...
A. 27 March 2008: Hi No its not love, its just a bit of a shock to you that she's not sat at home pining for you, and is getting on with her life. You wanted to 'see what else was out there' but didn't expect her to. Its a classic, ive always ended relation... (read in full...)
Do I stay or go?
Q. I lied to her, I've tryed proving to her that she can trust me, but nothing has changed, infact its worsened, do I stay or go? I'm 11 months in, I've spent every day with her bar a few odd occasions. We barely ever argued however now it's everyda...
A. 26 March 2008: Hi
Blimey you have managed to stay off the smokes for 2 months and are still getting it in the neck? I think she's being a bit hard on you to be honest, but obviously we dont know the full sp. Lying wasn't the best idea at the time, but most peop... (read in full...)
His arguing and rudeness since our wedding is causing my love for him to disappear...I have no idea what to do.
Q. My husband of one year (although we have known each other for nearly three years) is becoming more and more insulting towards me. Prior to our marriage he was fantastic for 18 months, full of fun, loving caring and gentle. The day we got married he ...
A. 25 March 2008: Hi
You will need to go to a solicitor on this one. It all depends if his name is on any utility bills, how much he has contributed towards mortgage etc etc, oh bum, ive just realised you're in Canada. I'm in the Uk. You will definately need to see ... (read in full...)
Should I keep talking to her or not?
Q. Hello everyone. Have a question that I hope some of you can help me with. Should I continue to see and talk to my ex? Its not all the time, every now and then. Sometimes we will meet out for dinner, or spend the day together. Sometimes, I am ...
A. 25 February 2008: Hi
Why not keep her as a friend if you get on so well like that?
If its really too painful then maybe best not, but i dont see whats so bad about having exes as friends personally.
Depends how painful it is, if you are holding out for a reconcilia... (read in full...)
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