Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 20 August 2009: Only just got back on here after a few months away, whats happened since?... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 12 March 2008: Because he's a manipulative jerk that knows you better than you know him, and has just been binned off by the new squeeze that sussed him out quick smart :o(
Didn't wanna be friends up til now huh.
Blimey that was a long scroll down to post!
C ... (read in full...)
My wife is beautiful and we have kids but I can't stop thinking about the women at work.
Q. I'm a married man with a beautiful wife, a gorgeous 3 year old son and a baby on the way, I've got a great job and a lovely house, but I'm desperately in love with a woman at work. We've always been very friendly and flirty, and after 5 years I ...
A. 6 March 2008: Hey maybe you just needed people that are detached from your life, reminding you what you have. Because your original question included some nice things about your wife and family. Kinda got the feeling you just needed that confirming.
Glad you'... (read in full...)
My wife is beautiful and we have kids but I can't stop thinking about the women at work.
Q. I'm a married man with a beautiful wife, a gorgeous 3 year old son and a baby on the way, I've got a great job and a lovely house, but I'm desperately in love with a woman at work. We've always been very friendly and flirty, and after 5 years I ...
A. 6 March 2008: Hi
Because your a kid in a toy shop! Seriously though, the woman at work leaving her job will be the best thing to happen! Pleeeeeeeeeeeeeease for that babies sake, dont manipulate the girl to get into anything with you. She isnt interested and know... (read in full...)
Old flame on Facebook - contact or not?
Q. About 25 years ago, I was at a week long residential course. The second evening, I met this fabulous girl, and we really got on well. The next evening, our eyes met across a crowded room, and from then on we were basically inseparable for the rest ...
A. 6 March 2008: Hi
Grrrr the internet has a lot to answer for! lol
I wouldn't contact her, but thats an outsiders point of view! Easier said than done. You're dying to find out if she still thinks about you. Human nature!
But like i say, i certainly wouldnt open... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 6 March 2008: And you dont know me or my brothers situation, yet you judge that we should be getting him help. Hahaha! You think we havent? You answered the help statement on your own, if they dont want help, they wont take help.
Sorry if you saw it as insu... (read in full...)
My fiancee and I split up for a while, I then met someone else, but now back with my fiancee, who should I choose?
Q. So, the situation is as follows. i have been with my fiance for going on 4 years now, and i truly from the bottom of my heart, not a doubt in my mind, love him. i am totally prepared to spend the rest of my life with him, no questions asked. but ...
A. 5 March 2008: Hang on a mo, you are cheating on someone 7 days a week, for the last year, and no one said you were a slut. Merely selfish.
I can see why you're possibly doing it to him now. You dont see anything wrong with it, apart from you dont know which one ... (read in full...)
Could it be over before it even began?
Q. i am just out of a three year relationship with a guy my age. a week before we split i cheated on him with a 35 yr old. i am now falling very hard for this 35yr old, we;ve spent the gist of these past two weeks together and i can count on one hand ...
A. 5 March 2008: Hi
I dont think the age gap is relivant. The fact he says he doesnt want a long term relationship is though.
I would call it a day with him, it will be a nightmare if you really do fall for him over some weeks or months, then he decides he's bor... (read in full...)
Part 2 of "Please help me win my husband back!"
Q. Hi thanks to all you answered the question I posted about "Helping me win my husband back" Ok her are some more details. My husband left me 4 weeks ago because of the way I used to treat him, which was lower him down and call him names(But ne...
A. 5 March 2008: Hi
Have you figured out why you treated him so bad and couldn't control it? Because obviously you dont want it happening again, if he does come back.
There are certain personality disorders that can cause someone to be like that. And it can be a... (read in full...)
My fiancee and I split up for a while, I then met someone else, but now back with my fiancee, who should I choose?
Q. So, the situation is as follows. i have been with my fiance for going on 4 years now, and i truly from the bottom of my heart, not a doubt in my mind, love him. i am totally prepared to spend the rest of my life with him, no questions asked. but ...
A. 5 March 2008: Hi
Do you really believe he thinks there's nothing going on? Hmmm. Well, sex wont make a good partner. But that might not become apparent to you for some years yet. If i was in your shoes, i would end it with the fiance, let him meet someone that... (read in full...)
We went on a few dates, and talk regularly...but she just told me she has a boyfriend! Help!
Q. Hello, There's this girl I like and I think she knows it. We been on a couple of dates and talk regularly. However, she recently told me that she has a boyfriend. I still haven't told her how I feel. What should I do? Thanks for your responses....
A. 5 March 2008: Hi
Dont go near her. If shes going out on dates with you whilst with someone else, if she does leave her guy for you, i guess atleast then you will know how she works and how your relationship might end!
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
Betrayal - from my boyfriend and my sister!
Q. Okay SO! I dated this guy 2 years ago and we had a rocky relationship but we both seemed to care about each other a lot so we worked through it. At one point during our relationship he was really close with my sister, but I trusted him. Finally, I ...
A. 5 March 2008: I wouldn't be speaking to either of them. Double betrayal.
You sound a strong person, i take my hat off to you! Thats a horrible thing to happen.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
He cheated, I got upset but he forgave me, how do we start over?
Q. The man I have been sleeping with recently forgave me for all the hateful things i said after I found out he was sleeping with another women besides me. Even though i am grateful for the fact that he forgives me and wants to continue seeing me I am ...
A. 5 March 2008: Hi
You're missing the point. If this guy has you believing that you getting annoyed that he cheated, is something you need forgiveness for, then thats gotta be manipulation.
I wondered if this question was a joke to be honest. Maybe we need som... (read in full...)
I feel so disgusting, it's really getting me down
Q. I feel so disgusting, lately I can't stop eating. I am a size 8-10 and I know it sounds so dumb but I feel so fat, I constantly feel bloated, when I eat I feel disgusting and bloated. I know it's psychological but I don't know what to do. I even b...
A. 4 March 2008: Hi anon can you say briefly what symptoms you got when allergic to milk? I have been wondering if my daughter is to be honest. And i know the tests to find out are quite strange.
C xxxx... (read in full...)
Am I just missing a relationship with someone or am I past my ex so soon?
Q. I just broke up with my long term girlfriend last week and now i find myself laying down on a couch with a girl that i almost dated before my ex. Is it possible for someone to move on so fast? she wants to date me and i want to date her, ...
A. 4 March 2008: Good point there Steffytee! Thats my golden rule these days to be honest, not to get into a relationship with someone so new out of one.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
I feel so disgusting, it's really getting me down
Q. I feel so disgusting, lately I can't stop eating. I am a size 8-10 and I know it sounds so dumb but I feel so fat, I constantly feel bloated, when I eat I feel disgusting and bloated. I know it's psychological but I don't know what to do. I even b...
A. 4 March 2008: Hi
Must be horrible. You could be eating the wrong things maybe? That actually do make you bloated?
8-10 is fine and the fact you know that is a good thing. But you do need to find out why you are buying diet pills off the net. They dont work by ... (read in full...)
Can anyone please suggest any illnesses that have these symptoms or anything that can cure indigestion?
Q. Hello! Dan’s (hubby) feeling a bit bloated at the mo. He’s been very flatulent for nearly a year, big deep horrible trumps. Very unpleasant to the ear and nose. Last Saturday, he came out of lav in such a state, went to look and his brown stuff...
A. 4 March 2008: Without sounding harsh but too many men die of embarrassment!
Or fear for that matter. Put your foot down! lol
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
My periods are wierd and I'm bloated. Could I be pregnant?!?
Q. My partner and I are trying to conceive. My periods aren't regular, going from 21 days up until 30 days. They usually last 5 - 7 days, with at least 3 of those days heavy bleeding. Last month, (period starting 15th feb); 15th - light spott...
A. 4 March 2008: Hi
I would wait til next month. A test will only work really from day 1 of a missed period. If you had a period in feb, you wont be pregnant yet, well, its unlikely! Some people do get them all the way through a pregnancy. But if you aren't preg... (read in full...)
Can anyone please suggest any illnesses that have these symptoms or anything that can cure indigestion?
Q. Hello! Dan’s (hubby) feeling a bit bloated at the mo. He’s been very flatulent for nearly a year, big deep horrible trumps. Very unpleasant to the ear and nose. Last Saturday, he came out of lav in such a state, went to look and his brown stuff...
A. 4 March 2008: Hi
Possibly IBS. Very common. But needs to be diagnosed by a professional. Causes terrible bloating. My other half had the bloating for months and he even got it worse after just drinking a cup of tea not just food!
Not sure to this day why it s... (read in full...)
Am I just missing a relationship with someone or am I past my ex so soon?
Q. I just broke up with my long term girlfriend last week and now i find myself laying down on a couch with a girl that i almost dated before my ex. Is it possible for someone to move on so fast? she wants to date me and i want to date her, ...
A. 4 March 2008: Hi
Depends on your feelings for your ex. If you genuinely know you dont love her anymore and that side of its done and dusted, then yes, move on. When i split with someone i had been with 6 yrs 16 yrs ago, i went straight into a new rela... (read in full...)
Recently ingaged and now he's flirting with other women in front of me!
Q. My fiancée and I are going to get married soon. He like proposed to me a week ago when we were in my favourite restaurant, it was really sweet and I wasn't really expecting it because he had managed to push the ring inside the ice cream so when I ...
A. 4 March 2008: Hi
Could just be a confidence boost for him. But if it were me, i would hold off on the engagement bit for now. Its a bit too soon no? Maybe he's one of those real impulsive people at the end of the day. But that doesnt mean getting engaged afte... (read in full...)
Can he have really fallen out of love this easily?
Q. Hope someone can give me some wisdom. I'm sorry if this is long... I have been with a wonderful man for 7 months. I have never been this happy before in a relationship. After 3 months, I found out he'd been living with someone for the first 6 week...
A. 3 March 2008: Hey if i was you i would walk away now anyway.
This pretty much mirrors what ive been through, and it lasted a year and a half and his ex was a complete nightmare! I too felt he was the type of person that needed to meet someone new before he move... (read in full...)
What do women seek out of a threesome or foursome in general?
Q. What do women seek out of a threesome or foursome in general? I think most men would go for it without much resistance....
A. 3 March 2008: Hi
Possibly a lot would. Ive never been with anyone that wanted anymore than myself though, infact the thought of sharing me with someone else, man or woman, turned them right off. So i dont know, because i too wouldnt want to bring a third part... (read in full...)
How do you get your wife to forget the past when it comes to strip clubs / porn?
Q. How do you get your wife to forget the past when it comes to strip clubs / porn? Even if you cut way back she still keeps bringing it up and using that for a excuse to not have sex. ...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi
You cant really mate. If she cant forget and brings it up in rows and uses it to not have sex, she probably always will do.
You still go to strip clubs though dont you? So its not strictly past?
C xxxx... (read in full...)
Is it possible for someone to change if they meet the right person?
Q. I'm 17 and I was in a long term relationship that lasted just under 3 years and it finished because I became pregnant and wanted to keep the baby. I had a missed miscarriage and am grateful that this made me realise how wrong my ex was for me. He'd ...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi
If you can still hang out with this guy, i would keep it at just that, for now atleast.
The misscarriage wasnt something you should of had to go through on your own, but thats the trouble with young people, they run when the going gets tough.
... (read in full...)
How can I get a break to stop me being so fed up with it all?
Q. How shall I open my topic? Uh … let me think … my kids are sucking the life out of me! Nice opening gambit huh? It’s true! They’re doing my head in! Now, don’t get me wrong they can be little angels when they want to be but then some kind of fog ...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi
Eeeek, nightmare!
He certainly sounds as much use as a chocolate saucepan your ol man! So basically, you have kids under the age of 18 and one over the age of 60. It does suck to be you!
No relatives that can take the kids overnight oc... (read in full...)
I love her, but she thinks I'd damage her image!
Q. Hi guys,i'm in a big big problem... I love a girl and she's my friend... but when i told her about my feelings she said keh though i really really like you but not this, but as a friend...but i'm not even one of her normal friends...i'm not allowed ...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi
She's not girlfriend material for you let alone marriage material.
Why would you be chasing someone thats not interested. And she doesnt want to be seen in public with you?
Are you sure you really need to ask this question?
It doesnt really ma... (read in full...)
I don't want her new friend to ruin our relationship or anything but at this point I truly feel like he is in the way.
Q. I was very attracted to a girl I was working with for a while. She had just gotten out of a relationship and we began hanging out and hitting it off amazingly well. After a few weeks of spending a lot of time together I told her how I felt about her ...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi
Can i just say..You sound like a very well balanced guy!
Of course you are prepared for her to have friends, even of the oposite sex. And its good that she will include you in that. I was going to say if everything is innocent, she will be happy... (read in full...)
Was I too fast in sleeping with him? What did I do wrong?
Q. I met this guy at a party, we danced and later exchanged contacts, three days later I called him just to say hi coz I was interested, we later started texting each other. He asked me out for a date and went over to his place, I spent the night, no ...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi
Possibly a little too fast, but its not like you jumped into bed the first night you met. But maybe a few more dates before you did, would of avoided you having slept with him. It might not of bought about a different outcome though. You cant... (read in full...)
Have you dealt with a probable alcoholic taking anti-depressants?
Q. Would you consider 6-7 pints of Guinness a day a sign of alcoholism (sometimes more, sometimes less)? In Europe, is that normal, or is a sign of a heavy drinker no matter where you go? Also, this person is taking anti-depressants. I'm wondering if ...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi
Oh yes. My ex used to drink everyday. He owes a lot of people money and yes, i think people that 'need' to drink, do it for that reason. where i dont think yours or my exes drinking constitutes an alcoholic as such, it is an alcohol depe... (read in full...)
Is this relationship a healthy one?
Q. Dear Cupid. I met my boyfriend October 2006 and I moved in with him January 2007. When we met he told me he was self employed and a few months into this relationship I noticed he was struggling financially. At times he asks me borrow him money to...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi
No its not healthy. He's using you. If he's self employed and hasn't got enough work, he needs to get off his arse and find another job.
I had an ex that was self employed and basically work shy. I lent him thousands which he was supposed... (read in full...)
It hurts like hell that he doesn't care about me and acting cool doesn't seem to be working!
Q. Hi, I have been on this site before and got some good advice and it helped me loads. Please can someone give me some advice on my current situation? Well it's been 2 months since my partner walked out on me and my 6 month old son. At first I did...
A. 3 March 2008: Hi
Was you acting cool for a reason then? To get a reaction? Want him to want back? If he wanted out, thats because he wants his freedom now. But the way he txt while he has your son, is possibly because he has to cope on his own and maybe stru... (read in full...)
Is it over? What is up with him? I don't understand!?
Q. My boyfriend of over 2 years decided over a month ago out of the blue that he wanted space. I gave that to him. I was devastated so headed back to my home country for a month to recover. During that time he would text and email and call ...
A. 3 March 2008: He's wanting to have the single life for a while. Bit of a no brainer to be honest really. From what you have put there anyway.
C xxxxxxx... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 3 March 2008: You're addicted to drama. I would go see the doc and see about some counselling, to find out why. I dont think anything will change until you figure out why you need all this melodrama in your life. Its very self destructive. And could be very ... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong for a 36 year old to date a teenager? Can people choose who they are attracted to?
Q. honeslty do people think this is wrong if a 36 year old man is really really attracted to a 16 year old (mature, or so he thinks) girl...i mean people cant help who they're attracetd to right??? and if he got carried away and ended up in bed with ...
A. 2 March 2008: Hi
Theres no law against it, but the guy would need to question why he's attracted to a teenager, because no matter how mature the teen is, there is only a certan lever of maturity that could be reached by 16.
I dont think it would be love, ju... (read in full...)
Why do some women choose 'bad boys' over 'normal' guys, as nine times out of ten, they get hurt in the end?
Q. Why do some women choose 'bad boys' over 'normal' guys, as nine times out of ten, they get hurt in the end?...
A. 29 February 2008: She will split with him, get back with him, split with him, get back with him etc etc etc, because she is attracted to the rollercoaster. Until she is a lot older, it wont dawn on her to want anything better.
Dont stick around for the fallout, that... (read in full...)
He's still supporting his ex wife. Am I wasting my time?
Q. This is a long story but will try and condense it down. The man I am with has a problem letting go of his ex wife. We were living together for two years when he couldn't decide what life he wanted anymore, so he went behind my back and made plans wi...
A. 29 February 2008: I just couldnt be doing with that. Its definately not normal. Hes just lucky he is dating you and not me, cuz my patience would of run out months ago, i have a feeling i'm not isolated in that opinion either! lol
C xxxx... (read in full...)
Why do some women choose 'bad boys' over 'normal' guys, as nine times out of ten, they get hurt in the end?
Q. Why do some women choose 'bad boys' over 'normal' guys, as nine times out of ten, they get hurt in the end?...
A. 29 February 2008: Hi
Without meaning to sound nasty, it TENDS to be due to upbringing. Being used to a tough home life. Being treated pretty crud by parents, and they dont know any different. So are attracted to the ups and downs a bad boy brings.
I had a good upb... (read in full...)
He's still supporting his ex wife. Am I wasting my time?
Q. This is a long story but will try and condense it down. The man I am with has a problem letting go of his ex wife. We were living together for two years when he couldn't decide what life he wanted anymore, so he went behind my back and made plans wi...
A. 29 February 2008: Hi
Probably yes. Doesnt sound like hes going to stop supporting her anytime soon. I dont get why hes not still with her. The only thing hes not doing is sleeping in the same bed as her at night?
I cant do recent exes, for this reason alone. W... (read in full...)
Do younger women really ever go for older guys say 15 to 20 years older?
Q. Do younger women really ever go for older guys say 15 to 20 years older? I am interested in some real life occurances that worked out. Thanks for inputs....
A. 28 February 2008: Hi
I personally prefer older guys. Only about 10 yrs older though. Did date a guy for a yr that was 17 yrs older and the chemistry was amazing! But i would say max 10 yrs now. Mid 40's.
Ive done the younger blokes thing, a 10 yrs younger guy, and... (read in full...)
Is it normal to nerver have any fights?
Q. is it normal that my boyfriend and i never get into fights.am always doing right and so is he.since we started dating a year ago we have never argued...
A. 28 February 2008: Hi
I was with my kids dad 9 yrs and i dont remember us having a cross word. I dont doubt we didnt agree on everything, but we talked about things. He was my soul mate. We were extremely close. We didnt split by arguing, we split because i was your... (read in full...)
Should I give it another go with my girlfriend after she cheated?
Q. I've been dating my girlfriend for 7 months now. I know it doesn't seem like a long time but we have been friends for a couple years and with her I feel different then I have with any other girl. So I was out of town recently for my job and she ...
A. 28 February 2008: Hi
Well, i guess if you stress to her that if it happens again, you're outta there, it could work. Who knows if she will do it again, who knows if the next person you meet will.
If you dont think you can get past the cheating, its best to cut your... (read in full...)
Am I wrong in getting upset with my boyfriend?
Q. My boy friend thinks about sex a lot more than I do am I abnormal? When I am having a conversation with him he tends to check out my ass or tits and in a way I feel disrespected because I dont feel like he is listening to me when he says he heard ...
A. 28 February 2008: Hi
I'm with you on this one. Its a bit of a turn off if you have a guy that seems obsessed with sex. I have had that before, and whereas its flattering, on the other hand we usually have a desire to be loved more. Thats more important. I had a toug... (read in full...)
Is he taking her away from me?
Q. My grilfriend and i have been dating for 1 year and 2 months now and been living together for 6 of those. She's paranoid because her two ex- boyfriends cheated on her. She therefore thinks that i am going to do the same. She is talking to a frie...
A. 27 February 2008: Hi
Difficult one, on the one hand, she has a right to have friends of the oposite sex, as long as nothing is going on. But on the other hand, it can be hard for their partner to get used to.
I have male friends and did have a problem with an ex no... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 19 February 2008: Hey thats great! 40 a day and even after all this crap going on, you still didnt start again???!!!! Now THATS something good!
And as for the manipulation, i know what you mean. I cant remember if i mentioned it in this thread, i wont check, but my r... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 15 February 2008: Very good positive attitude. Glad to hear it. Blimey he was a charmer wasnt he? not! Thats the best thing to do, keep reminding yourself how nasty he acrually was. And all those things...you deserved better.
I didnt realise he was on coke, unfo... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 13 February 2008: How far up his own ass is he?He didnt sound like he wanted to talk. He knows what buttons to press thats for sure, and exactly how you react, thats horrible. And a tad creepy! The power trip must be sensational for him! I wasnt pleasant to an ex ... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 11 February 2008: Hi
You have a constant migraine because of the pressure in your head. This is basically all doing your head in. Too much stress. I expect you're not eating either. Bad combination. We would all get migraines in this situation. This is a nigh... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 7 February 2008: Who cares if you have pushed them together. They deserve each other dont they? They probably wont make each other very happy. And She certainly wont ever trust him.
And he asks you to treat HIM with respect??? I would of replied with a lot more than... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 6 February 2008: Well said RCN. The longer you are on your own, and really dont mind being on your own, you gain strength and know being on your own is way better than being treated badly.
Its quite a shame the amount of people on here that settle for second, thir... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 6 February 2008: This is truly horrible. Nothing anyone can say will make the situation any better. Theres lots on here with problems obviously, and this is one of the many worse ones. At the end of the day, it sounds like he played you both for fools, and, small co... (read in full...)
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