Should I keep talking to her or not?
Q. Hello everyone. Have a question that I hope some of you can help me with. Should I continue to see and talk to my ex? Its not all the time, every now and then. Sometimes we will meet out for dinner, or spend the day together. Sometimes, I am ...
A. 14 April 2008: Hi
Could be just that she was embarassed? Didn't really know how to come across? If it was a long relationship, i doubt very much she wouldn't be pleased to see you deep down, even if just a curiosity thing! But a friend would be someone you can ... (read in full...)
Is he taking her away from me?
Q. My grilfriend and i have been dating for 1 year and 2 months now and been living together for 6 of those. She's paranoid because her two ex- boyfriends cheated on her. She therefore thinks that i am going to do the same. She is talking to a frie...
A. 27 February 2008: Hi
Difficult one, on the one hand, she has a right to have friends of the oposite sex, as long as nothing is going on. But on the other hand, it can be hard for their partner to get used to.
I have male friends and did have a problem with an ex no... (read in full...)
Hmmmm.... do I believe her story? Do you???
Q. I left town for two weeks and when I came back one of our condoms was missing. She told me that her daughter's dad tried to have sex with her and she said no and he slept on the floor in the living room where I pay rent. She said she was out by ...
A. 27 February 2008: So shes not only possibly telling porkies about the co worker, but her ex too?
I would definately run a mile if i was you.
Too much smoke i think.
C xxxx... (read in full...)
She was dating a co-worker that I didn't know about until I had reason to check her texts messages...
Q. She was dating a co-worker that I didn't know about until I had reason to check her texts messages. If I had not done so I believe she would have kept it going. She told me that she has only been out with him twice once with other co-workers and ...
A. 27 February 2008: Hi
Its possible, but me being a realist would be thinking along the lines you are.
You have 2 choices, accept what she says and work on things, or leave.
It certainly is possible thats all that happened, but how are you gonna feel when you kno... (read in full...)
I want a sexual relationship with my mother in-law! Has anyone experienced this?
Q. I've seen this topic brought up a few times, but I thought I'd ask advice from anyone here that might have experience on this. I know - this is horrible to say or think, but I really hope to make this work so spare me the preaching. I am extremely...
A. 27 February 2008: What hello1 said :o)
C xxxx... (read in full...)
I've just split with my girl but I want to meet someone new straight away. Is this right?
Q. I just broke up with my girlfriend. In this relationship I really didn't think I was treated well. She didn't pay much attention to me and couldn't show me ANY affection. After going out for two months she couldn't kiss me. I want to know, is it ...
A. 27 February 2008: Hi
Wanting a relationship because you are craving affection, isnt a good basis to start one really.
I know where you're coming from, but until you can be happy on your own, its not a good way to start a relationship. You would tend to be in it fo... (read in full...)
I told him we could just be friends...and now he is picking fights with me, why??
Q. Hi, I have this male friend and feelings have stirred between us, but due to him having a girlfriend nothing has happened, although he has asked to meet up a few times but i have made excuses. He kept telling me that his relationship with his girl...
A. 27 February 2008: Hi If his relationship isnt great then why doesnt he do something about it or quit it? Doesnt ring true to me. But he's your mate, you will know him better. But it sounds to me like he is a tad manipulative and the reason he's hanging around, ... (read in full...)
I found him in bed with another girl..we split, now he wants to get back together..Should I forgive and forget ?
Q. I've been really impressed with this site so far, so I'm hoping that maybe someone out there can give me some advice, or share a similar story... I met my last boyfriend about 8 months ago, and we clicked immediately. We had text book compatabili...
A. 27 February 2008: Hi I would be strong and move on. But ive done the trying to forgive and forget thing (and he hadnt even cheated) and found it hard enough, needless to say it didnt work. But only you know if you can get your head round this. It will be very h... (read in full...)
Any weight loss tips?
Q. I am a teenager and would like too lose weight. Im a size 10 and would like to be atleast a size 8. Maybe I wont be because of my frame but I dont want excess fat. Love handles, Belly fat and leg fat. Im starting a diet tomorrow which ive done once ...
A. 26 February 2008: Hi
Calorie counting. And having a day off once a week. Ie- no calorie counting and eating any amount you want basically. Keeps the body on its toes. The reason you possibly put the weight back on is because you avoided lots of foods, then ate them... (read in full...)
Still in love with my ex. Should I tell him?
Q. well theres this boy and i am in love with him, but hes my ex and is a ful time player. he's realy cute and nice, but every time we try im the only one trying. now we dont talk much, but every time i see him my heart explodes. i love him and want ...
A. 26 February 2008: Hi
Dont keep trying! If he is a major playa, it will be music to his ears! Surely you dont wanna be taken advantage of, do you.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
I feel immense sympathy for him thinking he will be alone forever if he doesn't have me, so I can't walk away!
Q. for 3 yrs i have lived with a man who constantly lies to me about his internet activities, i know he uses it as a way to meet to meet people because i have found this out on numerous occasions. he avoids our sex life as a way to punish me and openly ...
A. 26 February 2008: This smacks of manipulation. If he tops himself because you split with him, thats not your fault.
If he is spending the night with someone he's met on the net, and spends a lot of time chatting to all n sundry on it, why do you feel guilty that he w... (read in full...)
Why cant I find Mr. Right?
Q. What is wrong with me? I am soo desperate and ready to meet someone and date them etc However, any guys that I meet or seem to want to go out with me, I have no interest in whatsoever. There are a few guys that text me a lot, wanna see me etc but I ...
A. 26 February 2008: The only guy I have ever felt anything for and really wanted to be with messed me around, unfortunately I am still hung up on him and I am desperate to meet someone that makes me feel that way again ...
2 alarm bells, Still hung up on an ex, bad ... (read in full...)
As long as she wasnt married yet, she was free game. Right?
Q. I was at my brothers house and met his wife's neice. She is 10 years younger than I am and was engaged to be married in 3 months. She has a daughter with her fiancee and they live together and have been together for about 7 years. The thing is, I ...
A. 26 February 2008: Hi
Not being horrible here, but i think you have a very large ego! You have tried piling on a lot of pressure in a few ways in that post you wrote.
Is it right shes fair game if she wasnt yet married?
Wrong.
Thats just my opinion.
I thin... (read in full...)
What do you do when you have a holiday booked with another partner when the ex whom you still love asks for reconciliation?
Q. what would you do if an ex boyfriend you really loved split up with you, you had no contact with him for months and you made a go of things with someone else and you have got a holiday booked with them. then the ex texts and tells you they love you ...
A. 25 February 2008: If it caused a big problem for your ex with his child, then i would DEFINATELY not go back. Thats not fair for the child. I wouldnt personally wanna come between someone and their child.
C xxxxxx... (read in full...)
Should I keep talking to her or not?
Q. Hello everyone. Have a question that I hope some of you can help me with. Should I continue to see and talk to my ex? Its not all the time, every now and then. Sometimes we will meet out for dinner, or spend the day together. Sometimes, I am ...
A. 25 February 2008: Hi
Why not keep her as a friend if you get on so well like that?
If its really too painful then maybe best not, but i dont see whats so bad about having exes as friends personally.
Depends how painful it is, if you are holding out for a reconcilia... (read in full...)
My ex cheated and then begged for me back, I seem to always go for the wrong guy...!
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend about 3 ish weeks ago, I had gone to visit him (we live about 3 hours apart) and he didn't even turn up. Then I find out that he was sleeping with his ex at the time. He really hurt me and I have been finding it stupidly...
A. 25 February 2008: Hi
As an outsider, i can see that this guy isnt 'nice' he's just another bad boy....
Why do you always get the bad boys? Because thats what you are attracted to.
Your family will probably be able to help you out in this one, but you will need to... (read in full...)
He left me stranded at 3am. Should I forgive him?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been dating a guy for ten months. Over the weekend we got into a fight. Frankly, I don't know what he was mad about. We had been drinking quite a bit. He started screaming in my face and left me at the sports bar without a ri...
A. 25 February 2008: Hi
The key here is 'alcohol'
People do crazy things when it comes to booze and its hard to make judgements on anything anyone says or does, when booze is involved.
BUT if he drinks a lot or YOU BOTH drink a lot, maybe you are argumentativ... (read in full...)
She is still not over her ex
Q. I met this girl about 5 months ago over the net we got on great from the moment we started talking, but when it came time for our actual meet she went all quiet and i didnt see her or speak with her for a couple of weeks, finally she came back and ...
A. 24 February 2008: Sounds like you are willing to take the chance. And i hope it works out for you.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
I am straight but only blowjobs turn me on, people think I am gay!
Q. some freinds think im gay bcoz only blowjobs turn me on. im straight though but i dont know why only bj`s work 4 me....
A. 24 February 2008: Hi
Gay? What a load of tosh. I dated a guy the other way round, that didnt get off on bj's, only intercourse. Was he gay? Was he eck. Different strokes for different folks! It will prob change as time goes on anyway. Thats the joy of sex! Go with... (read in full...)
The pain I felt then is just as strong now...what can I do??
Q. Me and my ex were together for just over 8 months. We broke up 3 months ago and she's been with someone else for 2 months. I can't get over her. The pain I felt then is just as strong as it is now. What should I do?...
A. 24 February 2008: Hi
You're probaly stuck in a rut. If she had stayed single and alone, you possibly wouldn't of felt so insulted.
You know deep down she has moved on (albeit a bit quick and unlikely to last as its a rebound) but you wonder how she has rejected... (read in full...)
He has a child and doesn't want anymore...but what if I want children??
Q. I am in an age gap relationship, I am 36 he is 56, we have been together for 7 years and we love each other to bits there is one sticking point that keeps cropping up in my head and this is the issue of children. He has an 8 year old child fr...
A. 24 February 2008: Hi
Its a no brainer really. It depends how much having a child of your own means to you.
He has stated he doesnt want anymore, the ball is ultimately in your court here.
C xxxxxx... (read in full...)
Do I pursue her still or get out now before I get hurt??
Q. Well, I've been seeing this girl for about 1 and a half months now. She's a great girl, we have a lot in common, get along great, there is a physical attraction, etc. Now, she just got out a a relationship of 2 years this past New Year's in which...
A. 24 February 2008: Hi
I think your instincts are already answering this question for you to be honest.
She will no doubt be on the rebound.
If only i had trusted my instincts in this same situation before, it would of saved a lot of rollercoaster rides!
Have... (read in full...)
She is still not over her ex
Q. I met this girl about 5 months ago over the net we got on great from the moment we started talking, but when it came time for our actual meet she went all quiet and i didnt see her or speak with her for a couple of weeks, finally she came back and ...
A. 24 February 2008: Hi
You might of had relationships that never got off the ground, but she did, a 6 yr one. So i guess you wont completely understand how long that can take to move on from.
You are almost certainly heading for a rocky ride, if she still has feelings... (read in full...)
What do you do when you have a holiday booked with another partner when the ex whom you still love asks for reconciliation?
Q. what would you do if an ex boyfriend you really loved split up with you, you had no contact with him for months and you made a go of things with someone else and you have got a holiday booked with them. then the ex texts and tells you they love you ...
A. 24 February 2008: Not go back. And go on holiday with the new guy.
If you know it wont work with the ex, dont let him call the shots.
C xxxxx... (read in full...)
Is this a way of saying she needs time or are we actually breaking up for good?
Q. My girlfriend says she wants a break. She says her priorities are all messed up. This happened right after I told her that she doesn't show me affection. She thought she was hurting me and says she cant do that to me right now. She used the ...
A. 24 February 2008: Then if thats the case, its gonna be a nightmare for you, until she seeks counselling to figure out whats going on in her head. You're better off out of it til that happens.
C xxxx... (read in full...)
I'm unsure what the problem could be.
Q. I've known a male doctor for 19 years. He used to treat one of my children and seemed to like my family-anyhow things changed suddenly.Well the behavioural change wasn't that sudden- it changed after my husband suddenly died from mugging ...
A. 24 February 2008: I assume he's south african?
My doc was south african, white. I went to him with depression when i split with someone. Basically i ended up dating that doctor and changing gp's! Doctors are people too, and my doc said, people meet people in all sort... (read in full...)
Why am I feeling so low?
Q. at the moment i have been feeling so low. i have friends but i dont want to be near them and i feel really distant from everybody in general. i dont want to get close to anyone and the littlest things upset me. i am 14 years old and this has been...
A. 24 February 2008: Hi
Could be hormones? My son is nearly 13 and for the last 2 or 3 weeks, off and on, has been saying he feels down. He doesnt know why, he says he just wakes up feeling really low.
At the moment i'm thinking its puberty. But if it carries on, i wi... (read in full...)
Do guys really want platonic (best) friendships with women or have secret expectations?
Q. Do guys really want platonic (best) friendships with women? I always thought it was great, that two people could be best friends no matter what gender/orientation, but recently on these relationship sites it seems straight guys who are best bud...
A. 24 February 2008: Wouldnt mind hearing what guys think about this question.
The jurys still out in my opinion.
Ive had male friends but, they didnt last long because they seemed to want more.
My most recent ex always wants to be mates, but we ended up back togethe... (read in full...)
Is this a way of saying she needs time or are we actually breaking up for good?
Q. My girlfriend says she wants a break. She says her priorities are all messed up. This happened right after I told her that she doesn't show me affection. She thought she was hurting me and says she cant do that to me right now. She used the ...
A. 24 February 2008: Well thats not a bad idea. But dont go down the blame route. We would all like to put the blame on the other if we get finished with, but it takes two sometimes and if she is the type that doesnt like to hurt someone, she might not even of said all ... (read in full...)
Am I gay for breaking up with my girlfriend?
Q. my friends have been saying i'm gay because i broke up with this girl because she told me she loved me the second day we went out i am very sensitive and compassionate am i gay for breaking up with her? my friends said i should've told her i love ...
A. 24 February 2008: Hi
Well your friends are a strange bunch then. Pretty nasty to tell someone you love them just to get sex. And whoever loved someone 2 days after they go out? Sounds a bit worrying to me, i would be running away too!
If you didnt wanna go out with... (read in full...)
I didn't turn him on
Q. Hello - I am not sure if i just need to sound off, or need some feedback...I think feedback to be honest. I recently met a man who is 43. I liked him alot and fancied him alot. I am mid 40, divorced and (about a year ago) out of a LTR. Th...
A. 24 February 2008: Hi
There could be many reasons this guy wasnt interested sexually. Maybe he has a medical problem?
Maybe the chemistry just wasnt there. I dated a real traditionally good looking man, no one would of called him ugly, he got eyed up all the time. bu... (read in full...)
Why am I always dreaming of my ex?
Q. Hi,Dear Cupid! I have a question, Why I always dream of my ex-boyfriend? It's been a 5 months since we broke up and slowly move on... I dream that when we're walking down the road he doesn't know me and never recognizes me and another dream the ...
A. 24 February 2008: It will get better, honest. Just doesnt seem it right now.
You might have to kiss a few frogs yet that arent as good as your ex, but in time there will be one thats better! Guarantee it.
Good luck.
C xxxx... (read in full...)
Is this a way of saying she needs time or are we actually breaking up for good?
Q. My girlfriend says she wants a break. She says her priorities are all messed up. This happened right after I told her that she doesn't show me affection. She thought she was hurting me and says she cant do that to me right now. She used the ...
A. 24 February 2008: Its definately better being honest Danielpew. Its a horrible thing to have to do though, tell someone you dont wanna be with them anymore. It sucks doesnt it. But you're right, its gotta be done no doubt about that.
Just wish there was an easi... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and I'm pregnant by a 13 yr old. Can I be charged with rape?
Q. (i live in New York) If I am a 16 year old girl and I got pregnant by a 13 year old while I was drunk and I wanted to keep the baby could I be charged with rape? Also, if his family wanted me to keep the baby and live in their house with them and ...
A. 24 February 2008: Hi
Well i dont know what the law is in the states?
My bro was only just 14 when he got his 15 yr old girlfriend pregnant, they had a girl. She didnt get charged with anything. If it had been the other way round, who knows what could happen. ... (read in full...)
I've fallen for him, but I am 12 and he is turning 18! Help!!
Q. i have fallen head over heels for this boy and 89% of the time i think about him. the only thing is i am 12 and he turns 18 this month. i need help!!...
A. 24 February 2008: Hi
Well ive just asked my nearly 13 yr old son about this qestion, and he said he fancies Ashley Tisdale or whoever it is off the tv, and shes 22! But like i said to him, you dont love her though do you! He said, er no!
I would be gobsmack... (read in full...)
How does someone get to a size zero????
Q. heyx i was just wondering how u can get to size zero, and dont tell me that its bad for you, i already know. And looking so skinny isnt even attractive. I just want to know for my bestmate, she is really skinny now and she tells me that she is a ...
A. 24 February 2008: Hi
Its probably a genetic thing with her to be honest. Prehaps has a thin mum or dad. Because if someone starves themselves, they usually end up ill before they end up slim and happy.
Its a well known fact, that usually if someone starves themselv... (read in full...)
He cheated on me and I can't get rid of the anger I feel towards him.
Q. hi my boyfriend cheated on me and i know he is sincerley sory and i want to forgive, though i try i just can't seem to get rid of this anger i feel towards him, even though i know he is sorry and has told me he regrets it cant explain why he did it ...
A. 23 February 2008: Hi
Its a bit worrying that he doesnt know why he did it?
How do you know now he wont do it again if thats the case.
Anger can take a long time to go. Sometimes it doesnt towards that person.
It will probably ease in time, but only if you spea... (read in full...)
Is this a way of saying she needs time or are we actually breaking up for good?
Q. My girlfriend says she wants a break. She says her priorities are all messed up. This happened right after I told her that she doesn't show me affection. She thought she was hurting me and says she cant do that to me right now. She used the ...
A. 23 February 2008: Simply just because Danielpew.
Im as upfront an honest as the day is long, but, when i fifnished with someone, they were a bit more manipulative than me, and always tried their best to talk me round. In the end we split, but i agreed to stay frie... (read in full...)
He feels hurt and I don't know what to do.
Q. Hey I was dating a guy all through out high school we broke up and he dated many other people. Now he is single and he found out I was in an intimate relationship with another guy. He became very upset and made me feel like i betrayed him. He began ...
A. 23 February 2008: Hi
You arent together anymore. Simple as that. The poor guy just doesnt like the fact you have moved on and been intimate with someone else apart from him. Thats his problem not yours remember. Dont keep shouldering the blame.
You havent done any... (read in full...)
Embarassing to date a fat person?
Q. is it embarassing to date a fat guy? what do you think when you see a fat couple? give me your own honest opinion pls....
A. 23 February 2008: Hi Buck the trend and ignore what other people 'say'! Who gives a shiney? Possibly when you get a bit older, you will worry less what people think. C xxxxx... (read in full...)
How can I deal with the loss of my bf and help his best friend give up drugs?
Q. My Boyfriend Died In A Car Accident Back In September And Im Finding It Really Hard To Cope.. I Love Him So Much, I Turned To Alcohol Iv Only Just Turned 16, I Took Comfort From My Boyfriends Best Friend.. Only I Think I Put More Preasure On Him ...
A. 23 February 2008: Hi Thats a hell of a lot to deal with at your age. Your friend has turned to drugs the same way you turned to alcohol, because he lost his friend, not because of you. Having you will of eased it a little for him if anything. But getting him off th... (read in full...)
Is this a way of saying she needs time or are we actually breaking up for good?
Q. My girlfriend says she wants a break. She says her priorities are all messed up. This happened right after I told her that she doesn't show me affection. She thought she was hurting me and says she cant do that to me right now. She used the ...
A. 23 February 2008: Hi
9 times out of 10, she would be saying she wants to break up for good. But doesnt want to come out n say that. Its the softly softly approach. Very common.
You said you cant stand to lose her, shes picked up on this big time, and like i say, is ... (read in full...)
Why am I always dreaming of my ex?
Q. Hi,Dear Cupid! I have a question, Why I always dream of my ex-boyfriend? It's been a 5 months since we broke up and slowly move on... I dream that when we're walking down the road he doesn't know me and never recognizes me and another dream the ...
A. 23 February 2008: Hi
I think dreams generally tend to be wat we think of just before we go to sleep, but sometimes i think dreams will try and tell us something. Usually what we already know, but just dont realise.
When i split from someone 4 yrs ago, i did love him... (read in full...)
Embarassing to date a fat person?
Q. is it embarassing to date a fat guy? what do you think when you see a fat couple? give me your own honest opinion pls....
A. 23 February 2008: Hi
What do i THINK when i see a fat couple? I think if i thought anything when i see a fat couple i would assume that i think too much to be honest!
What a daft question!
What are you expecting people to think, why arent these overweight p... (read in full...)
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