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writes:Ive been talking to this guy on AIM for a few months now (chatting for usualy about on hour evry day), but weve never met. He lives in the same county and a friend of mine went to high school with him so Im pretty sure hes legit. I know hes told me a few white lies on ocasion, but I can deal with that as it is obviusly just him trying to look impresive. Just over tow weeks ago he told me he was throwing a party (so last week-end). Sure enough he wasnt online – although i had a suspision that he may have blocked me. I know its kind of wierd that I did it, but using AIM block checker I put in his SN and he was online on the evening when his party suposedly was. The next day I asked him how it went and stuff, and he shared some minor details of this party which he obviusly didnt have. That was about a week days ago now and he hasnt talked to me since. He only even talked for about 2 minutes when I asked him about his party and then just stopped talking. Whats going on? Does he just feel bad about lying or does the fact that I asked how it went tell him that I know his lying? Should I tell him I know, and dont really mind, but would rather he stick to the truth? Reply to this Question
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reader, joannaleigh +, writes (28 March 2008):
 No, he doesn't feel bad about lying, because he doesn't realize you've bagged him. He's just trying to impress you, as you've surmised. It's totally immature and shows some serious insecurities on his part. If he REALLY had a lofe that he was happy with, he wouldn't be lying about it. I'd quit wasting my time with him and find friends who don't need to make stuff up to impress me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008): Hi Hunny
I would just let him get on with it, It is no good starting a friendship with any kind of lie, And all this story telling NAH!!!!!!!!!Leave him to it and dont contact him eva again hunny you can do better than this bunch of bull hun I couldnt deal with all the BLAA! BLAA! He isnt mature love so leave him to grow up all on his own, He is probably doing the same to other girls, And if this is the case then he has a problem actually going out with one. He is probably scared to actually go and meet a girl or hold one relationship down at a time, So he just comes out with little lies to make him sound more interesting sweetheart...YOU TAKE CARE WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Jolie  +, writes (28 March 2008):
 I am a person that I won't tolarate a dot of a lie. God only knows how much I hate lies ..... grrrrrrr
If i were you i would show him that i know eveything and I will block him and delete him! He is not worth of worrying!
A thief start to steal from a penny then he robs a bank so I hope you understood what I want to mean.
You deserve the best so F*** him off.
Goodluck swy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx BE STRONG
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (28 March 2008):
 Hi
I wouldn't do anything. If he blcked you and tells white lies, what use is that to you?
Dont mean it horrible, but he doesn't sound all that interested. Its quite possible he is scared of real life relationships. As you live failry local, it will mean eventually meeting up, and he isn't mature enough for that yet.
C xxxx
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