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writes:I'm 21 and have been seeing my 20yr old boyfriend for 6 months. He's an attractive guy, intelligent, and arrogant. He tells me that he used to cheat on previous girlfriends but has matured since he found me.. a sweet girl he can trust. However he sincerely tells me about many different situations at his job (Restaurant-Kitchen) where he gets hit on by waitresses, hostesses, and tells me that he could have any of these girls IF he wanted them, but that he's only interested in me. He's usually pretty honest, so is this an attempt to get me jealous? Or just being honest and truthful? --btw he's the jealous type himself
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (6 November 2007):
 Where does this guy get off? By saying the girls at work all fancy him and he could have them if he wanted to. He sounds like an insensitive jerk by the sounds of it, by blowing his own trumpet. If I was you hun, I would kick this guy to the kerb and find someone who is more in tune with your feelings, do not give this guy the satisfaction that you are bothered of what he brags to you. Next time he starts boasting about these women, tell him fine they are so welcome to him and see the reaction on his face he will soon shut up. He sounds very insecure and by bragging about how attractive he is to other women, he probably thinks in his minute brain of his that he is the best thing since sliced bread. Good luck and let me know how you get on. Dusky xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2007): he's just being silly, paying games...massaging his ego and making you jealous - i would knock him down a peg or two by telling him to be your guest if he wants the girls (he can have them and then you can move on with your life by finding someone more suitable who won't cheat on you and love you more - possibly better looking too ;0))...ultimately if he want you and you respond to his teasing by being confident he'll just stop...it seems to me a thing boys that age do!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2007): i think hes telling you this so he could get you jealous in a way .. and to give u a heads up that if u ever decided to cheat on him or break up with him.. he would have a line of girls waiting for him. This is kinda disturbing.. but in a way he is letting you know that you are the one he chooses to be with and he is not interested in the other girls.
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