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writes:I have been with my bf for 3 months now and we constantly argue about alot of things. There is an 8 year gap between us im younger than him, the age doesnt really borther me but what does is his constent yelling and going off at me when i do something wrong or have a say about a certain thing.I am not very happy with this situation and i just dont know what to do anymore.I feel stupid and confused. Reply to this Question
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (19 November 2007):
 I lived with a guy who was exactly like your guy, the slightest thing used to trigger him off and constantly undermine me. If this guy continues to yell at you, tell him you will finish with him if he does not stop. This guy has serious issues with his anger and needs to seek professional help to manage his temper. Find someone who treats you with the respect you deserve and dump this loser or he will continue to bring you down. Good luck Dusky x.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007): 8 years is a long time and it seems to me that he is treating you like a baby. I dont know enough about your relationship together as a couple to say for sure but it sounds like he see's you as a child and therefore is treating you like your opinion doesnt count and that what you say doesnt matter. I have been in a relationship like that in the past and it didnt work, you both need to respect eachother for who you are and if he doesnt start rspecting you, tell him you need some space to think about what you want. As hard as it will be, it will make him realise that he might lose you for good and hopefully he will buck up. This could still work out but you need to be a strong confident women and dont take no crap.
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