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... Send *weet-thing a private message | | | *weet-thing's profile:I'm a 38-year old artist who is a bit of a hopeless romantic. I've had a few long-term relationships, been married, separated, currently going through a divorce but have a wealth of friends and family around me to keep me centered and happy. When I fall in love, I don't play games. I like it all out there in the open and have always respected men that were honest with me.
I hope that my experiences will help others who are going through similar things.
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Does he still care?
Q. Hoping someone can help me through my confusion. My boyfriend and I broke up at the end of June. I needed time to get over him but really I am not over him yet. I still think about him all the time. I did contact him a couple of weeks ago. I go...
A. 16 September 2007: He's trying to be the "nice guy" about this break up. He can tell you haven't let go and he feels guilty, but clearly he's moved on, because he's already seeing someone else. You'd be wise to do the same and quit expecting him to be there for you ... (read in full...)
Why do some girls judge on the size of the penis?
Q. Does penis size reallly matter to girls? I have heard that medium to smaller is better, but then how poeple make fun of the small ones? Why do some girls judge on the size of the penis? its not like men have control over what size penis we get. Its ...
A. 16 September 2007: For the same reason men judge women by the size of their breasts. Think about all the small-breasted women who have been teased since puberty because they didn't have a chest like Pamela Anderson's, or ignored by guys because she "her boobs were ... (read in full...)
She took advantage of my fiance's good nature, and I even told him to watch out for her! Should I be upset w/ him?
Q. There's this girl who I used to be friends with. I stopped talking to her really b/c she started being a big slut, and trying to get with every guy she saw, including her best friend's live in b.f. She's also an alcoholic and pathological liar. She ...
A. 13 September 2007: Sounds like your b/f is susceptible to feeling sorry for women who are basically train-wrecks. I also wonder if he's a little attracted to her because she's kind of a mess, she's a little wild, she's "easy" and some men view a woman like that as ... (read in full...)
I'm in a sexual relationship and I feel like an amateure compared to him. Advice?
Q. i am in a sexual relationship and although the age difference isn't that big he has been in more relationships wich make him more experianced im not saying its a bad thing the sex is amazing but i feel inadequate to him and ive asked him what he ...
A. 12 September 2007: I would seriously hope all 16-year girls feel like amateures in bed. If you had alot of experience, I'd worry. Just relax and be yourself and know that experience comes with age. ... (read in full...)
Separated from my wife of 25 years because of her affair with my employee. I'm in a new relation and the wife's apologised!
Q. hi i have seperated from my wife of 25 years last year we have 3 children 21 17 and 8 she was having an affair with my employee, they have moved away, and now she wants to come back and live with me , i have formed a new relations...
A. 12 September 2007: Consider it very carefully. She moved away with her new lover. So I'm guessing they fizzled and now she wants the safety net of her marriage to fall back on. Just make sure you understand the motive of why she suddenly wants to come back and then ... (read in full...)
I need some advice about sex with the girl on top..
Q. Hi I really need some advise. I am a female in my 20's and I have never been on top! I was with one boyfriend for several years and this was never a problem as we were very in tune with each others bodies and had great sex anyway. He also said h...
A. 12 September 2007: Ever seen a woman ride one of those stationary bulls they used to have in some western bars? (Think of the "Urban Cowboy" movie). It's similar but you don't have to worry about being thrown! Just close your eyes and rock your hips and do whatever ... (read in full...)
Can we have sex without a condom when I'm on the pill?
Q. hiya im in a serious relationship with my boyfriend and we have been havin sex for almost 2 years. what i would like to know is, can we have sex without a condom when im on the pill? ive been on the pill for 2 years and me an my boyfriend really w...
A. 12 September 2007: Yes. Just remember The Pill doesn't protect against sexually transmitted disease, such as HIV or Herpes. ... (read in full...)
My guy accuses me of having a friend with benefits, but I don't!
Q. i am engaged to a wonderful guy,and have been for a number of years,but lately things aint been to good,he constantly accuses me of having a friend with benefits,which is untrue and he is constantly suspicious of whatever i do,yet he`s made it quite ...
A. 12 September 2007: On the one hand you say you're engaged to this man, on the other hand, he says you have no future together? It could be that he's getting cold feet. The other thing you need to look at is whether you really do have a few male friends that you're ... (read in full...)
My guy accuses me of having a friend with benefits, but I don't!
Q. i am engaged to a wonderful guy,and have been for a number of years,but lately things aint been to good,he constantly accuses me of having a friend with benefits,which is untrue and he is constantly suspicious of whatever i do,yet he`s made it quite ...
A. 12 September 2007: On the one hand you say you're engaged to this man, on the other hand, he says you have no future together? It could be that he's getting cold feet. The other thing you need to look at is whether you really do have a few male friends that you're ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend might be moving away. Should I go with him? We have been together a year.
Q. Im 21 and moved to kent 2 yrs ago i have a 2 yr old son and his father has no contact with him. when i moved here i never thought i would meet anyone but i did and i love him to bits. he has three children two of which live with their mum who now ...
A. 11 September 2007: Does he want you to go? I would say if he's asked you to come with him, and you love him, and can relocate job-wise once you get there, then go. Regardless of the amount of time you've been together. It's what's in both your hearts that matters. ... (read in full...)
Does he want to end things with me and is trying to let me down gently?
Q. My boyfriend of 8 months recently told me he is depressed and that he wanted to get away from his friends, me, the city we live in (not together) and away from doing the same old things. He is a mature student and is due to start back at un...
A. 11 September 2007: He may be depressed and unable to deal with everything that's bothering him. You included. His drinking is only adding to the problem, because alcohol is a depressant. At this point there's not much you can do, but you might suggest that he ... (read in full...)
I need to stop bein unfaithful before I get caught and lose him, what's wrong with me?
Q. Im so confused......I love my boyfriend, I REALLY do. Id love to someday be his wife but....I have this huge problem....I cant seem to be faithful. The sex is great, our relationship is great, we are best friends and I dont ever want to be without ...
A. 9 September 2007: Find a good counselor, I think you may be a sex addict. It can be treated. The fact that you recognize your behavior and are unhappy about it, is the first step in making a change. You will need to start a program that will help you deal with sex ... (read in full...)
Why is she lying in bed drunk thinking of me but be with someone else?
Q. Help. I have recently in the last week began to distance myself a bit from my affair cos she is gettin her cake an eating it emotionally and sexually when she gives into temptation with me (although she knows it's wrong) and I aint getting what I ...
A. 9 September 2007: Instead of playing dodge ball with your phone calls and i.m messages, it's time for a real discussion. She needs to chose who she's going to be with and then do it and you will have to abide by her decision, if for some reason it's not you. But ... (read in full...)
I still want to remain a virgin but I also want to satisfy my boyfriend sexually. What can I do?
Q. What can I do to make my boyfriend satisfied and make him enjoy during sex activity? I wanna remain a virgin, and I don't wanna act too sophisticated, please advise me!!! thanks a million...
A. 9 September 2007: There's always oral sex.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has asked me to tell my ex not to call again. Should I do that?
Q. My girlfriend is upset that my ex-girlfriend of over 15 years ago is in contact with me. In the past five years or so, she's called me between 5 and 10 times (when she got a cell phone). I have no feelings for this ex, beyond "hey, how's it g...
A. 9 September 2007: You need to ditch the ex and stop having contact with her. Your g/f will never feel like she can trust you until you cut this tie. You may feel like you're being ordered around, but she feels like you're keeping your ex on a string "just in case" ... (read in full...)
How can I help him change so I can enjoy a night out without his jealousy ruining it?
Q. last night i went out with a friend i havent seen in 5 months for a drink and my bf didnt stop texting me when i didnt reply back he would text me the same text until i replied and at 10 he sent one that said why i wasnt home yet he then phoned me ...
A. 9 September 2007: Next time you plan to meet a friend for a drink, especially a male friend, you should invite your b/f to come along. Then he won't have to worry and wonder what you're really up to. Once he knows them and feels more comfortable about them, he ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend went on a date with another girl, we splitted over this, now he wants us to start fresh again. Please advise.
Q. I had been going out with my boyfriend for over five years, we moved in together and things started going downhill between us, I was thinking that he was seeing someone else,so I started checking his mobile, I found a text he sent to his friend ...
A. 9 September 2007: I think he's using the auntie-money thing to draw attention away from his actions and to somehow force you to share the blame for his act of unfaithfulness. Now that everything is out in the open, why did he do it? And what guarantee do you have ... (read in full...)
Should I break up with my bf or tell him I was unfaithful? I feel guilty.
Q. Dear cupid, I have been in a serious relationship for exactly 3 years, I love my boyfriend to death but lately we've been going through a ton of problems, mostly trust issues. I had this strong gut feeling that he was cheating on me!!...
A. 9 September 2007: If you are already having trust issues, telling your b/f about this episode is sure to break you up. If you're sure you love your b/f and cannot imagine yourself ever doing anything so stupid ever again, I'd say take it to the grave and don't tell ... (read in full...)
How would you feel if your boyfriend had several female friends calling him throughout the day?
Q. How would you feel if your boyfriend had several female friends calling him throughout the day?...
A. 9 September 2007: I would hate it!! Women are very territorial. Why don't men understand this? I don't know how long you've been seeing this man, but maybe it's time to talk about boundaries, and exclusiveness. I am battling the same thing in my relationship, but ... (read in full...)
Why can I never orgasm during sex?
Q. My boyfriend and I have just recently started having sex. He's the first person I've slept with, so the experience is still kinda new to me. I enjoy having sex with him and he's very sweet and loving the whole time and really tries to please me. I ...
A. 6 September 2007: First of all women generally will NOT have an orgasm without clitoris stimulation. Also it takes a certain kind of pressure and sensation to create the right ingredients for an orgasm. Since this is your first sexual experience, you may feel a bit ... (read in full...)
Why do people have wierd fetishes? How do they get started?
Q. Hi i would like to know about fetishes, how they begin etc. I have a balloon fetish which I know is not unknown, but i dont seem to be able to find out why how etc. Any advise please...
A. 6 September 2007: Maybe counseling would help you figure out where it's coming from and what to do to control it better. Good luck.... (read in full...)
She's joined facebook and this angers me... Is this normal?
Q. It seems that it only takes my ex-girlfriend to join Facebook.com to get me rattled up. I've been having a pretty good day. Been feeling fairly comfortable about the relationship ending (2 months and 2 weeks ago), but then suddenly I find ...
A. 6 September 2007: Nah, I seriously think she did it just to piss you off. She's just ready to move on. It's what people do when they want to make new friends. You did it, right? What was your motive? To meet someone new. It angers you because you are not ready ... (read in full...)
Could these antibiotics have caused thrush?
Q. Hi, i dont think i should be too worried but i just want to put my mind at ease. I lost my virginity 3 days ago and it was protected sex as he wore a condom. I have also been ill and have been on penicillin tablets due to tonsilitis. I have noticed ...
A. 31 August 2007: Antibiotics can cause a nasty yeast infection in some women. Don't worry, just contact the physician who prescribed them for you, and he/she should be able to switch you to a different one and the problem will clear up on it's own. Good luck.... (read in full...)
What shall I do. I've been doing an anger management session on paper and I think I've shredded it. My assistant will probably have seen it beforehand?????
Q. What am I going to do?! I have been doing an anger management training session on paper. I think I may have put it to be shredded by mistake. My assistant shredded all my papers and made reference to some of the documents. What if I did put them ...
A. 31 August 2007: Hold your head up Sweetie, and act like nothing happened. They may be snickering behind your back but just act like you don't know what's going on. Don't grace it with a come-back, or explanation. You owe them nothing. So what if you said things ... (read in full...)
She's admitted she's having an affair but how do i trust her now?
Q. I have just found out that my wife is having an affair and she admits she is having sex with the guy.she says it is now over because i have found out ,what shall i do to beleive her because she will not tell me who the guy is even if it breaks our ...
A. 30 August 2007: An affair is always the symptom of a bigger problem. What you need to be asking her is why. What's missing from your relationship? Has the chemistry fizzled? Is she going through a mid-life crisis? Have you been obsessed with work, and other ... (read in full...)
I have to look stunning the next time i see my ex. Any tips?
Q. I have to look absolutly amazing the next time i see my ex. so does any one have any tips how to look absolutly flauless. much appreciation, Xxx ...
A. 30 August 2007: Schedule a day at the beauty salon, have your hair styled, straightened, put in highlights, whatever would look good on you for your age, and face frame. Have your nails done, your feet the works. Have your make-up done, but keep it natural just ... (read in full...)
How can I convince my sister in law to have sex with me?
Q. Q. I am married for the last thirteen years but I am in love with my younger sister-in-law for the last eleven years. I always fantisize about her during sex with my wife. I have an obssessive compulsive disorder about her. I told her that I wanted ...
A. 30 August 2007: Because it'll never be only once in life. Once you cross that line, you will want it again and again. You've had feelings for this woman for years. It'll be a full-blown affair and if she is still happily married then you'd be making a much ... (read in full...)
My parters brother in law keeps coming on to her!
Q. Hello, I sincerely hope you can help as i do not know if i am right to be concerned here....my partners brother in law keeps 'coming on to her' he has once grabbed her and kissed her and on another occasion entered her bedroom while she was al...
A. 30 August 2007: She's old enough to realize his behavior isn't normal and she's also old enough to stand up for herself regardless of the family quo. Usually by this age, men and women no longer live to please their families because they've lived on their own, have ... (read in full...)
What does this recurring dream mean?
Q. Since the beginning of the week Ive been having the same dream everyday. It includes me and a guy, the situation is somewhat complicated but I have alot of feelings for him we are just not in a together. In the dream, I'm taking the train to and ...
A. 30 August 2007: So is this guy someone you know in real life, or someone you're imagination has just created? If this guy is a total stranger, it could simply mean that you are longing to meet someone in which you connect to and have a relationship with. If it's ... (read in full...)
How can I get rid of these awful headaches?
Q. I suffer from cluster headaches. They are like migraines, but they come at the same time everyday and can last up to over a month with me. The best way I can describe it is a feeling like someone is trying to push out my left eye from inside of my ...
A. 30 August 2007: I used to suffer from cluster headaches, mine felt more like someone was driving a nail into the side of my head. I would get them every day and this cycle lasted for several months before they just went away on their own. But everyone is ... (read in full...)
What can I do to get our relationship back the way it was?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and a week ago his mates told me he has cheated on me but we talked and we said we would give it another go. He apologised and i knew he meant it because he was crying and he told me he has not cried ...
A. 30 August 2007: It'll never be quite the same, but it can be close if you're willing to accept that he screwed up big time and is truly sorry. Just take things one day at a time. Try not to bring it up if at all possible. When you have an argument, don't throw ... (read in full...)
He is wonderful when we are together, but a jerk when we are apart
Q. hey aunts. hrmm, i've written quite a few posts within the past few weeks. i'll give u the detailed story... i was with my boyfriend for 8 months and we broke up for 2 months with ALOT of troubles within that two months he, had other girls o...
A. 30 August 2007: He sounds as if he has anger issues, is a bit manipulative and just isn't consistent with the way he treats a woman. I don't think his behavior has anything to do with the fact that he's a Scorpio man. Zodiac signs are very loose illustrations, ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend has bipolar and now wants nothing to do with us. what do I do?
Q. my girlfriend and i recently seperated after 2 half yrs.she suffers with bipolar.we laughed and talked for hours.her reasons for splitting are that i'm to blame for a bipolar incident that happened when we were on holiday in scotland.i can't ...
A. 29 August 2007: People with bi-polar disorders have to stay on their medication in order to function and have normal lives. Unfortunately, many of them do not comply and their mood swings and irrational behavior clouds their judgement and makes them do ... (read in full...)
I fell over whilst out and have done damage to my leg. Should I be worried about it?
Q. I was out on friday, and fell over while walking i got two seperate cuts on my leg one being worse than the other. it feel on a sharp object and got two puncture marks. i left it and came home. It is now tuesday, my knee has swollen up, the veins ar...
A. 28 August 2007: You should probably go see your physician. An x-ray may be required before they can determine that you didn't fracture or crack any of the bones in your leg. Do not delay medical attention. It could get much worse if left untreated. Good luck.... (read in full...)
My house is getting too crowded and now my bf wants his son to move in!
Q. well, its like this. I moved to a smaller unit with 2 b/r on my own after a divorce. I was moving on in my life and started a new job etc. A few months later I met bf, he moved in, his dog moved in. A while later my 16 year old moved in from his ...
A. 23 August 2007: Can the 19-yr.old find an inexpensive apartment and/or a roommate to split expenses with? If so, he should consider living somewhere else. He's old enough to be on his own and not mooching off of you guys for a free ride. The 16 yr.old is still ... (read in full...)
When I have 'low points' in my relationship with my bf, I think of this other guy! Is this normal?
Q. Is this a bad sign in a relationship? My boyfriend kissed another girl one drunken night over a month ago now and although i was extremely hurt, he made an great effort to make it up to me and i kept our relationship going. I've been rebuilding ...
A. 23 August 2007: It's probably just your mind's way of telling yourself that you have options, should the going get too rough. I wouldn't worry about it but don't dwell on this other guy either. It could get in the way if you continue to think about him. Where ... (read in full...)
This guy at work is giving me looks! What should I do?
Q. This is abit long im not sure if there is anything in this but here goes-there's this guy who i sometimes see at work,he is almost 10 years older than me,anyway we have never really spoken to each other -once as he was leaving and i was returning ...
A. 23 August 2007: I wouldn't read too much into his behavior. It doesn't sound like there's anything there. ... (read in full...)
He shows me no affection, but tells me he loves me.
Q. I have been with this guy 6 weeks now but feels like we've known each other years!! He's told me he loves me and i have him and i really do but i really don't for one minute believe he loves me even though I've had a chat with him about it he still...
A. 23 August 2007: Maybe he just needs a little coaching. Affection doesn't come natural to some men. Tell him again that you'd like for him to be more affectionate because it helps you FEEL loved. You know what they say, "actions speak louder than words". Perhaps ... (read in full...)
I've been in love with a married woman for two and a half years
Q. Please give me some advice. I have been in love with a married woman for 2.5 years. Although we haven't had an affair, I can't seem to stop thinking about her and hoping that maybe one day she will be available to me. I am considering moving ...
A. 23 August 2007: Perhaps moving away will help you get over her because as long as you see her every day at work or where ever, it will be much more difficult to think about anyone else that might be available for you and just waiting for the right man to come ... (read in full...)
I feel a chemistry with a man who isn't my husband--is it all in my head?
Q. dear cupid, i'm in a bit of a dilemma, to say the least. i've been married for nearly 7 years though cant say it's been any kind of relationship apart from co parenting for at least 4 and i am terribly lonely and miss love in my life and my husband ...
A. 23 August 2007: The way I see it is you really have two choices here. First you have to figure out if you even love your husband anymore. Because if so, then your first choice is to accept that he has mistrust issues over what he's learned about you recently. It ... (read in full...)
He said that he doesn't want to have sex b/c we're around each other too often. Is this normal?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for almost two years. We were instantly attracted to each other and bonded so well. The first two months in our relationship we were intimate every evening and twice in the morning. It was great. ...
A. 16 August 2007: Stress can zap a man's sex drive quickly. The stress of being laid off, and still having bills come in that have to be paid could be playing a role here. Also it's not so much that you're around each other all the time, but that he feels pressured ... (read in full...)
I feel a chemistry with a man who isn't my husband--is it all in my head?
Q. dear cupid, i'm in a bit of a dilemma, to say the least. i've been married for nearly 7 years though cant say it's been any kind of relationship apart from co parenting for at least 4 and i am terribly lonely and miss love in my life and my husband ...
A. 26 June 2007: I know what you are going through, been there myself. Part of me wants to just tell you to ask the guy out for coffee and at least make a new friend. But I know it won't stop there and from my own experience, I can tell you, it will feel wonderful ... (read in full...)
I feel a chemistry with a man who isn't my husband--is it all in my head?
Q. dear cupid, i'm in a bit of a dilemma, to say the least. i've been married for nearly 7 years though cant say it's been any kind of relationship apart from co parenting for at least 4 and i am terribly lonely and miss love in my life and my husband ...
A. 25 June 2007: You my dear, have fallen prey to the attention of another man because your husband is no longer making you feel loved. You are emotionally starving to connect with someone because your husband is not treating you with the kind of loving and warmth ... (read in full...)
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