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writes:My boyfriend and I have just recently started having sex. He's the first person I've slept with, so the experience is still kinda new to me. I enjoy having sex with him and he's very sweet and loving the whole time and really tries to please me. I do feel physical pleasure, but can NOT orgasm for some reason. I've orgasmed before by masturbating and through oral sex (the oral took a fair bit of concentration, though) but I've never orgasmed through intercourse or fingering. Why do you think this is? Is there anything I can do to start having orgasms through intercourse? Thanks~
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): I advise you to try Sentia pills which are very popular now among women. These pills are made from herbs and give good results.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): I am having the exact same problem. I never discussed this with my first boyfriend but i know for sure i'm going to say something to this one. I've Read All about what everyone else is saying so i'm going too give it ago =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all so much, I'm definitely going to try your suggestions!
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reader, nikki!  +, writes (6 September 2007):
 i had a similar problem i enjoyed sex and came regulary but never the big o my partner suggested we use vibraters during sex and i hit jackpot just experiment whats good for you there is a lot of trust involved in a orgasum
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (6 September 2007):
 First of all women generally will NOT have an orgasm without clitoris stimulation. Also it takes a certain kind of pressure and sensation to create the right ingredients for an orgasm. Since this is your first sexual experience, you may feel a bit self conscious. Perfectly normal. But since you've been able to achieve orgasm through masterbation, it just means you need to position your b/f where he will stimulate your clit. I like it on top, I think it's the angle of the penis and how the head rubs against my clit during sex, especially if you apply just the right amount of "grind" during the act. Always gets me off. Just experiment until you find what works. Good luck.
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reader, duce00 +, writes (6 September 2007):
 This has been a rather common question lately, dont feel alone. I will just give you some direct experience that may help.
My last girlfriend was quite similar. No orgasm without clitoral stimulation its just how she was wired, it had allways been that way. Heres what we did. When it came to intercourse we would get in a position that allowed her to rub her own clit while I was inside her. This can be done in doggy style most easily but missionary is good too because I can help in the clit play and we can watch eachother. I dont know the proper name for this technique but its got to have some clever title because I know we didnt invent it! I actually really enjoyed it because I could do the stimulation my self sometimes and really drive her wild and other times she would alternate between touching me and herself during intercourse. Its really rather nice!
This worked good for us, give it a try!
Duce
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reader, tina1696 +, writes (6 September 2007):
 I totaly agree with Mandy7`s reply to you! Many women never experience an orgasm through the act of intercourse alone, but have fantastic orgasms through clitoral stimulation without penetration at all! Try practising on yourself,( dont feel embarrased about it ) find out what makes you feel good, then tell your partner during sex or even do it to yourself when you are together, believe me, most men will find this an even greater turn on! Good luck and yes do read a few books, its surprising what you can learn about your body from them! XX
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2007): Hi Love,
This is a question alot of women talk about its not always easy to orgasm for alot of women without clitoral stimulation, As your just starting to enjoy the sexual experience learning to understand your body with a partner will take time, During intercourse there is nothing wrong with using clitoral stimulation plus most partners will find this to be exciting, There are great books out there to help you understand your body and how to get the best sexual experiences for you and your partner, Have a look on amazon hun TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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