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Why do some girls judge on the size of the penis?

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Question - (16 September 2007) 9 Answers - (Newest, 18 September 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Does penis size reallly matter to girls? I have heard that medium to smaller is better, but then how poeple make fun of the small ones? Why do some girls judge on the size of the penis? its not like men have control over what size penis we get. Its not like we had a choice, and picked the small one, any insight? Why is the worlds view of a good man depending on the size of his penis?

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A male reader, duce00 United States +, writes (18 September 2007):

duce00 agony auntAhhhhh yes, the penis size issue once again!

You did pose your question quite well and far more articulate than others Ive seen. You really should try a site search on this subject if you dont feel that the advice youve gotten here is enough. You will find the same basic response from the vast majority of women as you have seen here.

If you still have some concern that smaller penises are snickered at then consider the source of those opinions. I would bet those are the same people who cant tell a clit from a g-spot.

Knowledge is king and skill is your best ally.

Work it with what you have!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2007):

Well I don't think that is necessarily true. And I don't know what women you have been talking to but if the girls who are making you think this are talking about that so openly in front of you, that's just kind of vulgar. It sounds like you are talking to strippers or something. Yeah they might think that.

It would be the same if some guy was telling me how he fancies gigantic breasts. I don't need to know that.

I don't know. It sounds like you are getting these opinions from such lame and shallow people. Such nobody's, to be honest. There is so much more to life and to a person than something so superficial. Do you really care what someone dumb enough to think that has to say?? I sure don't. There are different groups of people in this world. It sounds like you are getting your information from people at the bottom of the social barrel. If you become a little pickier of who you listen to and befriend I think you will find that these opinions are of people not worth two cents in this world.

There is so much more to beauty. People who's opinions matter in this world are very well aware of this. I wouldn't give that comment one more second of thought.

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A female reader, broken babe United States +, writes (17 September 2007):

broken babe agony auntwhy do men judge girls on their breast size?? its simple those who judge do it upon what they want a real girl who is a nice person shouldnt care about the size just like a good guy shouldnt care about a girls looks

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A female reader, Geminibabe2013 United States +, writes (16 September 2007):

yes i would say women are very difficult

but u said that women make fun of the small ones its not like they have control over how big they get.

but think about it alot of guys make fun of girls about alot of things too. breasts is a big concern

dont worry every one has flaws

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007):

Same reason as girls get judged by their breasts for being too small. Just deal with it, we get the same treatment. Well I personally don't but other girls do

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A female reader, Sweet-thing United Kingdom +, writes (16 September 2007):

Sweet-thing agony auntFor the same reason men judge women by the size of their breasts. Think about all the small-breasted women who have been teased since puberty because they didn't have a chest like Pamela Anderson's, or ignored by guys because she "her boobs were too small". And you also don't have to compete with men who have had their penises surgically enlarged, or worry about your penis getting smaller if you lose a few pounds. I've dated men who had such large penises, it was downright uncomfortable to have sex with them and some positions were completely out of the question (like girl on top, which is my favorite). And I've dated men who had terribly small penises, until they got aroused, and then holy cow, they were plenty big enough to satisfy a woman. It's all about personal preference but from my experience, a small-to-medium size penis is the best because he's going to be more versatile in bed, and able to hit a woman's g-spot without killing her ovaries with every thrust. It's also more easy to give head to men who are not so large. Just be yourself, be creative, be able to last long enough with your erection to give a woman an orgasm, and trust me, no gal will care if your penis isn't 10 inches long if she's being satisfied and loved by someone who judges her for the person she is, and not just by the size of her tits.

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A female reader, Gemini1506 United Kingdom +, writes (16 September 2007):

Size dont matter its just its been built into everyone that it does. AS long as u know what to do with what you got it dont really matter how big or small it is

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A male reader, bobbb United Kingdom +, writes (16 September 2007):

I suppose it matters if it's large then it may be painful.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007):

Most girls do not judge the size of a penis. Its same with breast size, most guys do in fact like larger breasts. So some women think its more sexually exciting to take on a larger penis.

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