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Getting married soon and have proof that he slept with an ex while on business!
Q. Dear friends, I'm getting married in September. My fiance has been on a business trip and i have firm evidence that he slept with his ex girlfriend. I really dont know what to do and how to react. Shall i confront him? Shall i even cancel my f...
A. 6 September 2010: I would call off the wedding!!!! No dobut about it. He has a different set of standards going into this relationship than you do...Than most of us do. He thinks it's okay to bang someone because he "needs sex" and you weren't around. If you marry ... (read in full...)
Getting married soon and have proof that he slept with an ex while on business!
Q. Dear friends, I'm getting married in September. My fiance has been on a business trip and i have firm evidence that he slept with his ex girlfriend. I really dont know what to do and how to react. Shall i confront him? Shall i even cancel my f...
A. 15 August 2010: If you call off the wedding without talking to him, you'll never feel like you have closure on this relationship. In the back of your mind, you'll always wonder what he would've said, or offered as an explanation for the information you have on him. ... (read in full...)
Pandora's Box
Q. Im not sure wether this is fair to my loved girlfriend or not; Yet we recently discussed her sexual past for she brought it up. In the process she explained that she has had a number of sexual partners she didn't want to give me the number but she ...
A. 14 August 2010: Sadly most men cannot handle a woman who has a past like that. Somehow the idea of taking this woman home to meet your mother, and have your children just doesn't match the image men hold of women they plan to have a future with. It may feel ... (read in full...)
I'm addicted to other men's wives.....
Q. I am addicted to other men's wives. I love sex, but honestly, only when it is with a married woman. There is just something so taboo about it. I have no boundaries, I've slept with co-worker's wives, , the neighbor's wife, two of my three brot...
A. 14 August 2010: Check yourself into a sex rehab center (think Tiger Woods) this behavior is not healthy and will lead you no where. It's fun now, but eventually it wll take you down.... (read in full...)
I'm addicted to other men's wives.....
Q. I am addicted to other men's wives. I love sex, but honestly, only when it is with a married woman. There is just something so taboo about it. I have no boundaries, I've slept with co-worker's wives, , the neighbor's wife, two of my three brot...
A. 14 August 2010: Check yourself into a sex rehab center (think Tiger Woods) this behavior is not healthy and will lead you no where. It's fun now, but eventually it wll take you down.... (read in full...)
Meeting up with my boyfriend's ex
Q. dear cupid, my boyfriends ex wants to meet up with us both. she was an absolute cow to him and cheated on him which lead to their break up. its been over two years since that happened and she's asked that her and her boyfriend and a few friends me...
A. 14 August 2010: Don't go. I smell a trap and somehow mixing it up wth his ex and her so-called boyfriend just sounds like a disaster n the making. Find a reason to cancel and don't give it any more thought.... (read in full...)
We broke up, but I'm stuck with her dogs
Q. My girlfriend and I have been on and off for the last 2 and a half years. She had two dogs when we meet.Shortly after our meeting she had to sell her house. (which I helped get ready to sell with her)After this she had no room for the dogs which I...
A. 14 August 2010: Find someone to adopt them. It shouldn't be too hard you just have to put the word out there at work, or with your friends or just advertise them. ... (read in full...)
She's on a dating site now...
Q. Hi, I've been in a relationship with a female for almost 3 years. Things were good at first, but we started having problems. Well long story short, last week she told me she didn't want "titles" - meaning boyfriend or girlfriend status. On top o...
A. 14 August 2010: Yes, she is just being nice to you until she finds someone else. You should look for the nearest exit and disappear to avoid a major heart break later.... (read in full...)
She always wants sex, I don't! Help!!!
Q. My girlfriend constantly wants sex, but i dont, what should i do?...
A. 14 August 2010: She may be confusing sex with love (women tend to do this). In a woman's mind, if a guy loves you, he'll want to have sex with you. (And unfortunately the more dangerous tought-process is that if a guy wants to have sex with you, he must surely love ... (read in full...)
If a woman introduces you as her "special friend", what is she saying?
Q. Hi, I have a female friend who always introduces me as her "Special Friend"... what is she saying? Is she interested in a relationship with me.. or is it a subtle way of saying "hands off" to other women? I'm confused as she tends to blow ho...
A. 14 August 2010: I think it means that she sees you as more than just a casual friend, but maybe not too sure if you are her "boyfriend" (either by her own choice, or by yours). Since she blows hot and cold,this "title" implies that she does not yet know what she ... (read in full...)
Getting married soon and have proof that he slept with an ex while on business!
Q. Dear friends, I'm getting married in September. My fiance has been on a business trip and i have firm evidence that he slept with his ex girlfriend. I really dont know what to do and how to react. Shall i confront him? Shall i even cancel my f...
A. 14 August 2010: We cannot tell you how to react to such a violation of trust. What is your deal-breaker? Sleeping with an ex, or any woman other than me, would be a deal-breaker for me I'm afraid. Personally I think you're still in shock! Just make sure you are ... (read in full...)
Worried about my first threesome this weekend!
Q. Help! I am having my first threesome this weekend. It involves my fiance and another man who is a complete stranger. What should I do? What should I expect. Any ideas will be appreciated....
A. 14 August 2010: I would not do this. People are rarely as open as they pretend to be for their mate (usually the person who wants this sort of thing). Then jealousy follows and an inevitable break up evolves.... (read in full...)
He's with his ex and sneaky. How can I get him to stop dating her?
Q. bad news!!! my best guy friend who i have a major crush on just got back together with his ex. i dont know if he is tricking me or if he is telling the truth. it is the middle of the summer, he goes to his friend's house and my house, so how did he ...
A. 14 August 2010: You cannot stop him from seeing her, but you can stop yourself from wasting any more time on this guy. He's a loser. Set standards for yourself and others will respect you more.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants me to choke him during sex.
Q. Hey peoples! , My boyfriend recently asked me to choke him while I'm giving him pleasure and i've never done it before so how do you do it? x...
A. 14 August 2010: Don't do it. There are people who get into this sort of thing, and it usually has disasterous outcomes. It's just too weird and pretty soon, he'll want more and more until you accidentally kill him one day.... (read in full...)
My kids were rude to my ex. Did I do the right thing?
Q. My girlfriend and I have broken up and gotten back together many times in the last 2 and a half years. When we have broken up sometimes I would vent my frustration to my adult children, not in a vicious way but just trying to get some answers ...
A. 14 August 2010: Number one: You should never vent on your kids because you will get over the "tiff" with your girlfriend, but they will not. Number two: If you plan to continue seeing this woman, you MUST confront your kids and tell them their behavior was not ... (read in full...)
Help! Vaginal smell is too strong!
Q. Okay, here's my problem. Since I met my current partner sex has always been extremely... smelly. When she gets wet, it often, but not always, is accompanied by a strong sour or bad smell. Often it's not too bad (but still definitely worse...
A. 14 August 2010: Maybe she should consider using a douche once a month. And P.S. I've used soap "below the decks" for 30+ years...hasn't hurt me yet and it definately cuts down on the normal smells all women have. Especially if she works out or lives in a hot, ... (read in full...)
I give guys my number but they never call... why???
Q. I am a very frustrated young woman. I have given my number to numerous men who never bother to call. In person, they seem very interested in me, but the moment I give out my number; I never get called. I want desperatlely to be in a casual ...
A. 10 August 2010: Ask for their number instead and see if they do the back stroke. Some men are just players.... (read in full...)
Why do guys like to talk dirty with someone they don't know?
Q. Why do guys like to talk dirty with someone they don't know? I have been in online dating chat rooms. and all the guys want to talk about is sex. It makes me feel uncomfortable since the guy is a stranger. If anyone knows the answer to this ...
A. 10 August 2010: Because it's somewhat annonymous, kind of like phone sex. You don't really know the person on the other end of the line and she doesn't know you. Somehow this breaks down the barriers for normal, respectable behavior. Go figure. You won't find any ... (read in full...)
I introduced a woman into our marriage and now my husband is in love with her!
Q. I'v been married to my husband for 15 yrs. Of those 15yrs we have had very few arguments. I thought that we had a good and happy marriage. Our sex has always been strong until a few yrs ago it started to get stale. I had befriended a woman 10 yrs ...
A. 10 August 2010: Well that was a really bad decision, now wasn't it? I would recommend some sort of marital counseling, if he's even willing to attend. It might salvage what's left, but I think you made some horrible decisions and the damage may be irreversible.... (read in full...)
Help! Vaginal smell is too strong!
Q. Okay, here's my problem. Since I met my current partner sex has always been extremely... smelly. When she gets wet, it often, but not always, is accompanied by a strong sour or bad smell. Often it's not too bad (but still definitely worse...
A. 10 August 2010: Two things come to mind on this topic; personal hygiene (does she bathe frequent enough and does she use soap down there? Some women don't).....If she doesn't bathe regularly, or you're not sure if she uses soap in that area, then offer to bathe ... (read in full...)
I just want good sex like I used to have!
Q. Hello :) my boyfriend and I have only been together for about 5 months and things were obviously great in the begining.. but not as much anymore. I don't tell him this yet but I do love him. Things are starting to seem a little complicated now tho....
A. 10 August 2010: I have the same problem! My b/f hardly ever wants sex, and sometimes I think it's me -- maybe I'm just not sexy to him. Who knows, but it all comes down to this: Are you compatible to make this relationship work?....If sex if really imporant, you ... (read in full...)
Will I get hurt having an affair with a married man?
Q. A few months ago I met a man online just chatting he told me right off that he was married and that he and his wife love each other yet they do allow each other to do whatever they wish . Anyway we clicked and we met up we just had our sceond ...
A. 25 July 2010: Your insecurity is driving you to settle for a sub-standard relationship because you have already convinced yourself that you cannot get something better. You have told yourself (and us) that you are not cute, or slim enough or capable of finding a ... (read in full...)
We got close but now he doesn't call me. Why?
Q. I meet some someone eithmonth ago. We had a womderful first date. Then my ex came to pick up some things he left at my apartment. he sneaked into my phone and listened to a voice message from my date. He called my date and made it seem that i ...
A. 22 July 2010: Maybe your ex got to him again. You never really said how you found out that your ex had snooped in your stuff and caused problems. You also didn't mention if you and the b/f had talked about this problem. It could be that your new b/f is just not ... (read in full...)
Woman and loving the "BIG ONE"
Q. A lot of questions on here about penis size, and most women say it's not the size, it's what you do with it, it's the motion of the ocean, bla, bla, bla. BUT, most women at least joke about meeting a guy with a big one. Some women love it. Some ...
A. 22 July 2010: My first impression was "Oh my God!" for lack of a better phrase. But it was not all it was puffed up to be. Most of the time, sex was just uncomfortable. We tried different positions. I enjoyed the closeness sex provided. I enjoyed knowing he was ... (read in full...)
My husband's ex lover cannot accept the fact that he came back to his family
Q. My husband I was separated for almost 1yr,now he's back to us w/my two kids.He's involve w/a woman who can't accept the fact that my husband was back to his family.Now she's sending me a lot of malicious pictures of them and e-mails telling what ...
A. 22 July 2010: I don't know if you can or not, but there must be a legal agency who will know the answer. What you can do is change all your phone numbers; close your e-mail account and open a new one, cut off all avenues she is using to harrass you and if ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and paranoid about certain things people say to me...
Q. hi im 15 and ive been picked on most of my childhood and it realy effects my mind when people call me gay and i know im straight but when im in bed i am paranoid about what people say about me nd i dnt act feminine or anything, i only masturbate to ...
A. 22 July 2010: It will probably do no good to say you shouldn't let other people's opinions and comments rule your psyche. But that's easier said than done. Take a good look at yourself in the mirror. It is time for a make-over? Could it be that you get teased ... (read in full...)
How long do you have a break for before its to late to get back together
Q. Hi me and my partner of 6years decided to have a break 2weeks ago due to him drinking to much he dosnt drink every day maybe 2/3 times a week but when he does he gets totally drunk acts stupid and nasty he only acts like this when he goes out on his ...
A. 22 July 2010: It's not like milk. There's no shelf-life on things like this, so it's all about how you both feel and when you're ready to try it again.... (read in full...)
He wants to wait to have a baby but I have this nagging ticking time bomb inside me...
Q. I'm 25, and before we got married I told my husband I wanted to try for a baby.. Well, I got off the pill but we werent trying but if it happened it happened.. Then we discussed after we got married we would try for a baby.. he promised me, we would ...
A. 22 July 2010: Too much PRESSURE! If you want a baby, you have to stop talking about it, bugging, whining, pleading, begging, crying and nagging. No man could get an erection with that much pressure, especially if he's got reservations (and most men do). Your ... (read in full...)
Don't know if I want kids, help!
Q. I am 23 years old and have been in a committed relationship with a woman I love to death for about 2 years now. She knows she wants children in the future but I'm still unsure. When we talk about it, she gets upset and says she doesn't want to ...
A. 22 July 2010: I think you could both stand to wait 3 or 4 years and that would give you both time to be prepared for that chapter. So don't shut down, don't shut her out, be open to the idea just make sure she understands it's not "No forever." it's just "No not ... (read in full...)
Should I forgive or not?
Q. K well my girlfriend is out of town for training for her work for 2 weeks. When the weekend came I asked her not to drink and she did I got mad and we faught. She previously mention that everyone else she was with would go to the strip club. So...
A. 22 July 2010: I'm guessing she's young and got caught up in the moment. Forgiveness is totally up to you, but her behavior indicates a total lack of self control and an absence of judgement. I think you've got your work cut out for you with this one. She has a ... (read in full...)
Can I sue the Other woman that had a love child with my husband?
Q. I'm lost at this time! My husband cheated with the mother of his 1st child. And this other woman got pregnant I come to find out two months before our church wedding that "WE" have been planning for a year. This Aug would of been our two year anni. ...
A. 22 July 2010: First of all, you will need to consult an attorney to answer these questions and a consultation fee is not that expensive so I encourage you to do so. Secondly, even if your b/f wants nothing to do with this woman, his ex can get a court order that ... (read in full...)
He didn't call to give me closure on our relationship...
Q. Today is a month from the day my bf stopped talking to me. He hung up promising to call after a trivial dispute that happens between any two. from that day till today he did not call. I tried to call him, he never answered and when I sent him an SMS ...
A. 22 July 2010: He obviously has difficulty with confrontation. He may have also met and started seeing someone else, hence the quick exit. Alas, you are going to have to find your own closure on this deal. I suggest you sit down and write him out a long letter, ... (read in full...)
What do you think guys... Is it over???
Q. need some advice! i've been seeing angie, exclusively for 8 months, she is on a rebound from a previous ex, last friday we were having some drinks on her porch. this man from the neighborhood showed up, we are both 40, this guy is 27. well she ...
A. 22 July 2010: If she texted you, saying you guys needs to talk, I think the ball is in your court so there's no sense in waiting for anything else to happen on her part. She's waiting for you to respond and discuss whatever is upsetting her. I don't think it's ... (read in full...)
What can I say so that we remain in touch???
Q. I am leaving my job and there is a mutural attraction between me and the boss. I want to give him something to remember me with. I was thinking of a plant with a card with some really kind words in as he has helped me a lot. I have been treate...
A. 22 July 2010: A plant, a nice card and include your personal e-mail address and/or phone number. Then see if he pursues. If he doesn't, don't bug him. The attraction may not have been as tangible as you thought. If he's interested, he'll contact you, ... (read in full...)
Will I get hurt having an affair with a married man?
Q. A few months ago I met a man online just chatting he told me right off that he was married and that he and his wife love each other yet they do allow each other to do whatever they wish . Anyway we clicked and we met up we just had our sceond ...
A. 22 July 2010: I smell a heartbreak brewing....These things rarely ever work out.... (read in full...)
Is it reasonable to ask my fiance to get a paternity test of his son with his ex?
Q. Is it reasonable to ask my fiance to get a paternity test of his son with his ex? We are planning our future living arrangements and it all hinges on our children. We currently live a fairly large distance apart and in order to satisfy everyone ...
A. 22 July 2010: I think you should ask for the paternity test. It's reasonable and smart. Hopefully your b/f will agree. But it may take a court order to get his ex to cooperate. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Does a look mean alot?
Q. there is a guy in the area i work in at my job..he is pretty popular in the office and just overall a friendly, cool guy. I am pretty quiet at work and not really a social butterfly at all. I was also going through alot of things so i didn't real...
A. 21 July 2010: Some men are attracted to women who are a bit mysterious or seem to need to be 'fixed'. You may have come across this way, which heightened his interest. What do you really know about him? You didn't say how long you've worked around him or what you ... (read in full...)
Should I come clean about my real age?
Q. hi met my boyfriend in class i'm 32 he's 21 we hit off right away studing for test and hangin out at school over spring break i noticed he liked me and he said he did and we started dating. i have already met his family including grandmom and have ...
A. 21 July 2010: I'd wait until he tells you he's completely and utterly in love with you. That way you know he's not going to bail over something silly like that. Just try to avoid talking about it (without looking obvious and raising more suspicions) and let it ... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong with me or it?
Q. My boyfriend and I fool around almost every time we see each other. He goes down and me and is fantastic! I go down on him and he won't stay hard. He insists that it feels awesome, but his penissays otherwise. He claims to just get really nervous ...
A. 21 July 2010: You can't. Only he can stop being nervous. So try this; instead of giving him a full-blown blow job, just use it as foreplay and then allow him to do you (since you enjoy it without obsessing) this may enable him to get his erection back and still ... (read in full...)
My cat is peeing on my couch!! HELP PLEASE!!
Q. My cat is 2 years old, and he is peeing on my couches.. I just moved so he is a little mad but I want him to stop... What can I do to get him to stop. (He is fixed) ...
A. 21 July 2010: Here's the thing; male cats who have become sexually active before they got "fixed" will still spray things. It's their way of marking their territory. If you get a male cat fixed later in life (like after their 6 months old) you may never change ... (read in full...)
Is she cheating on me??
Q. Okay, so right before bed my gf and i text and she tells me shes going to bed usually sleep well and goodnight. 98 percent of the time.. well a couple days ago she was being all " ohh hunny bear, i hope you sleep well xoxo muah etc.. just really ...
A. 21 July 2010: Would she really have the time to juggle another guy?..Could it be someone she works with? Before you jump to conclusions, I'd say you need to watch her behavior a little more without making accusations. The more you spill, the more chance you give ... (read in full...)
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