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writes:My wife was married to a man who stuck dildos in her for many years. I'm not small, but I don't compare to some of the objects that are out there. So, I'm wondering if all those years of having large objects inserted in her has made her vagina too large for me? Does a vagina contract back to a smaller state?
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reader, shania  +, writes (19 September 2010):
 A woman who has given birth a few times,can become slack down below and they can do pelvic floor exercises to strengthen the wall muscles.Are you not getting any feelings or sensations when you have sex with your wife? I wouldn't of thought the dildos had widen her?
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reader, person12345 +, writes (19 September 2010):
 Dildos won't make her vagina stretch out. The only thing that will is having a baby vaginally. Either she's just born that way, or you require more tightness than a vagina can give. She can work at it a little by tightening her PC muscles, which gives her better orgasms anyways. So when you ask her to do it, don't say, Honey your vagina is enormous and loose and you should tighten it. Say oh hey if you do Kegel exercises for your pc muscles you can get stronger, longer, better orgasms! Hopefully that will help.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (19 September 2010):
 The vagina naturally contracts, but not really much. If she worked out on her muscles down there she could make it tight again. It is much like after giving birth, your vagina does contract, but you also need to work at it. I don't think the large dildoes are to blame for any "looseness" though. She could be that way naturally, or it could be a result from simply having sex regularly. There's no nice way to talk to her about this subject either. If you want to ask her if the dildos are "to blame" or if she could work on her muscles down there.. she would probably feel humiliated. And would get very upset or angry. So, unless you have experienced a losseness as an issue on your sex life, I'd recommend you leave it alone. Of course, if this is a serious problem for your sex life then you should talk to her about it. But be warned, it will not be a comfortable conversation.
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reader, Odds +, writes (19 September 2010):
 It's possible - for that matter, she may just have a naturally larger vagina. But if she performs Kegel excercises regularly, she can tighten up just fine.I'm curious, though - if she's your wife now, presumably you've had sex at least once. Have you experienced any feeling that she is too large, or is this just hypothetical? Does she appear unsatisfied? Are *you* unsatisfied?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2010): Tell her to do kegel excersises
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