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*hikha
writes:I've been married since 10 years. I am not satisfied not emotionally not physically. I tried my level best to add spice in my marriage but cant get success. I am tired and frustreted because of lack of sex as well as emotional private time. Now a days I lead him to sex and he just get failed to satisfy me. I dont know who has problem! He shows interest and then just get off me or he get loose or just release. In initial days of marriage boy just roam around his wife and try to make love as more as possible and he just be with his family more. i get my first climax after one and half year of marriage. I never complain about it as i dont want to hurt his ego. But now i cant suppress my desires its coming out in anger form. i just feel life is not worth living. can u suggest me what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (5 June 2008):
 Hi Hunny
You need to talk with him, it sounds as if there is a problem he may not be telling you about.. Or he feels your unhappiness and doesnt know how to make things better..You both need to sit and talk together...It sounds as if you dont Communicate much at all.. It would be a good idea to go to marriage counselling to help this situation hunny..There is a chance sweetheart that you are both feeling the same and dont know how to approch the other so I would start the ball rolling and you may be suprised to find out things you never even thought of are going through your husbands head...Does he know how you feel without shouting? As people will generally run away from someone who is yelling at them, The situation needs to be sorted out in a quiet way to improve..Try asking him to go to a counsellor and hopefully alot of things will come out and you can both start to understand the other persons wants and needs It really does sound as if you are not only the unhappy one here love..I wish you well and hope you can sort this out WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008): If you don't tell him your unhappy how can he improve. You got to be brave and tackle this issue. It sounds as if he knows your not happy with sex and therefore dosen't bother you with it. This is partly your own fault, you need to tell him what you need, tell him what you like and hopefully he can improve and become the lover you've always dreamed of.
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (4 June 2008):
 My opinion is that there's a possibility something psychological is going on behind the scene. What that is would be anyone's guess. But to me, it seems that couple's therapy would help to start open that necessary dialog you guys need. If you two put the effort into it, you can recover or generate more intimacy in your marriage. My suggestion is to try that route before thinking of anything else. The sessions might lead to you two discovering that there's something else that's going on behind the scenes effecting your relationship.
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