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My girlfriend doesn't seem to orgasm when I use my fingers, please help

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Question - (24 November 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2007)
A male United States age 41-50, *unsat writes:

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I don't know whats wrong every time I finger my girlfriend she becomes stimulated but never actually cums and I'm pretty sure she never actually orgasms she starts moving her hips faster and then stops but I don't think that lasts long enough for it to have been an orgasm I need help.

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A male reader, Tunsat United States +, writes (28 November 2007):

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Yeah I want her to have an orgasm. I don't think she's scared about going further but I'm in no rush to move things further right now anyway. How would I ask her whats going on? I mean if I'm in the middle of fingering her and nothing seems to happen what could I say?

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (25 November 2007):

love-him agony auntHi hon, everyone is different when it comes to orgasms, she may be having one, then again, she may not be. You need to ask her what feels good. I very rarely orgasm with my partner, as this is because i feel i can't let go to the feeling. If she doesn't orgasm, however she looks satisfied then be happy :) I hope i helped and be happy :) Feel free to mail me about anything :) x

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A female reader, muffy United States +, writes (25 November 2007):

muffy agony auntwell maybe shes just different.do you want her to have an orgasm?maybe shes just scared to go any farther then you already have.talk to her about it but don't make her feel uncomfortable and be nice about it.don't tell her that somethings wrong with her but just ask whats going on?

i hope i helped

love and kisses

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