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Huge crush on someone I'm playing the girlfriend of in a pantomime. Please help.

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Question - (24 November 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 25 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok, I'm 14 and attracted to girls (no labels yet). I'm currently part of a group pantomime of Dick whittington, where I play Alice (the girl Dick marries in the end) in true panto style, dick is played by a woman, who is married, with a son only two years younger than me. I've managed to develop a huge crush on this woman, and although I know it's never going to go anywhere it's making rehearsals really difficult; I spend half the pantomine hanging off her arm and hugging her! I've had awkward crushes before and worked through them, but it's more difficult when you spend most of your time with them playing their girlfriend! It doesn't help that I was managing to push it all to the back of my mind by the fact that I would be being emotionally unfaithful to my girlfriend if I allowed my self to think about it, but I broke up with said girlfriend on Thursday, and since then haven't stopped thinking about this other woman. I really need to move on before someone twigs what's up; I haven't even come out to anyone except my best mates and my mum!

Please help,

confused xxx

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A female reader, Kayleigh :) United Kingdom +, writes (25 November 2007):

Kayleigh :) agony auntGood luck :) x

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (25 November 2007):

love-him agony auntAww that's great, i wish you luck :) x x x mail me about anyhting :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007):

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Thanks very much for your help guys, I feel a bit better just for saying something; unfortunately we have a press thingy this afternoon where I'm going to spend g_d-knows-how-long stood with her arm round my shoulders while some guy takes pictures, wish me luck!

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A female reader, Kayleigh :) United Kingdom +, writes (25 November 2007):

Kayleigh :) agony auntHello :)

It's good to know that you have arent label yet. And its a good thing you know your relationship wont go anywhere more than just friends. Because if you did then it would only leave you heartbroken in the end. Just try to forget about it as you know your only gonna stay friends. Don't worry though you will find someone, you just have to wait.

Hope i helped :)

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (25 November 2007):

love-him agony auntHi honey, well it's good you aren't labeled yet, it's also good that you know a relationship with this woman wont work :).. work your way around it, take your mind off her, talk back with your ex :) I hope i helped and that you are alright :) feel free to mail me about anything x

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (25 November 2007):

love-him agony auntHi honey, well it's good you aren't labeled yet, it's also good that you know a relationship with this woman wont work :).. work your way around it, take your mind off her, talk back with your ex :) I hope i helped and that you are alright :) feel free to mail me about anything x

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