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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My relationship of about 4 months is probably about to end, but the thing is that i believe its all down to my massive shyness problem. Due to this problem, this has been my first real relationship, however recently she said that it "doesnt feel like we are goin out" and i put this down to me being too shy around her, cos she means a bit to me, therefore i dont want to do anything to offend her, if that makes sense. It also includes things like saying stuff, such as she is really beautiful, yet i would feel embaressed saying this. I've sorta talked to her about this, but not too well, but i dunno what to do really. cheers.
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reader, love-him +, writes (25 November 2007):
 Hi sugar, dont listen to conrad, i think that is really imature to say just go and have sex. This isnt what to do !! Im 16, what i think you should do, is be more relaxed around her, try to tell her you think she is pretty and gorgeous, because believe me, girls love to be told they are gorgeous and stunning. Dont let your shyness ruin what you've got with this girl :) please feel free to mail me about anything.. try your hardest to relax :) x
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reader, Conrad  +, writes (25 November 2007):
 if your girlfriend is beautiful, and you dont want to lose her, then just be unshy for a couple of days... and if you really are 16 or 17 then just go have sex with her or something if thats what it takes to make hr think that youre not that shy... or if you dont want sex, then how about making out?once this happens, she will love you more... i havent tried sex yet, cuz im only 12. but the making out thing really works, so just try it..
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reader, enjoimx  +, writes (25 November 2007):
 No worries bro.Heres your options: Be more assertive and tell this girl how much you like her! Take control of your reality and just be scared and go tell her whats up. Or just let it fade away and lose the girl you still obviously like. Either way you will be OK...if you lose the girl, you will never make the mistake again and your next relationship will be that much better!
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