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41-50,
*henisitmyturnfree
writes:I met someone online and after a few months we moved in together. We had alot of disagreements and problems the first year and I told him I was not happy and he was very angry at me and so I left without telling him. When he realized that I had left, he call and asked me to come back. I did, it's now 2 years later and he does not trust me and would like me to make him feel better about my leaving. He sys I should have tried harder to explain how I felt and not just leave. I agree that maybe I didnt try hard enough to explain things to him and understand why were having so many problems. We get along alot better now but the only problem is that he feels that I once betrayed him and he doesn't totally trust me. Any ideas how I can make this up to him and help him to feel better about us? I do love him very much and would like this to work out.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (11 July 2007):
 Any relationship without trust is troubled."now 2 years later and he does not trust me"It sounds like he doesn't wanna trust you for some reason.Probably you had lots of arguments - try a different approach.You should focus on your mutual feelings: you love each other.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (10 July 2007):
 Did you betray him by leaving? All i would suggest doing, is make sure you show him love and affection.. make sure he knows you do love him. Trust is a big part of a relationship, and once the trust has gone, the relationship is at a dead end. If he decides not to gain your trust then that's up to him. It is 2 years later.. He should have been able to get over it. Mail me if u wanna talk x x x
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