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writes:Hi...I fell in love with a man...our first dates were all drinking....he was so real...into me...the most positive guy I had ever met....then he showed a very negative side...and he said I guess now you know the real me...he is always making comments about why don't I hit on other men when we are out...I walked out on him the last time...his response was that I am too unstabble to be involved in his or his daughters life...I talked him into spending the nite with me...we made love twice..he dropped me off this morning and said he still feels that this should be over...I said I will not drink...he said he wants a girl who can go out partying and not get crazy....I love him and want to make it work...I will be the first to say that I am not the most stable person...but I am working on it...how do I make him see this? I am trying to leave him alone....guess he said for the time being...do I wait for him to call?
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (10 July 2007):
 In short I think yes you should wait for him to call. In the meantime you need to carry on working on yourself. Also, what do you mean by a 'very negative side' that he showed? The thing is that we all have positive and negative sides and in a relationship the question is rather whether you can accept and absorb your partners negative side.
Obviously he feels he cant yours and sadly if ultimately that is the case then you cant make him. Focus on yourself and making things better for yourself and you will attract somebody who will love you for who you are or else this guy will come back....
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reader, love-him +, writes (10 July 2007):
 I think maybe he could be very protective over his and his daughters life, and want to make sure hes bringing the right kind of woman into the house, with his daughter being there. If you made love and after he said he still thinks it should be over, then listen to him, as he sounds serious by saying this. It would probly be for the best. Mail me if you want to talk x x x
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