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We're using the "pull out method" and I have some worries...

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Question - (10 July 2007) 9 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok me and my bf have sex alot and we havent been using condoms lately. he pulls out instead. well when i go to wipe his semen off of me i noticed i acidently used the toilet paper i wiped it off with and wiped my "area" soon after. can you get pregnant this way? its proebly a dumb question but i was curious.

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A female reader, Bunnygirl United Kingdom +, writes (16 July 2007):

Bunnygirl agony auntHoney,

If u do this you are asking to get pregnant. Get on the pill or something please. Also consider that condoms are also a barrier for STI's withdrawl is not a good method.

It's also about you and your body, thinking enough of yourself and knowing what you want from life, at a young age can you imagine it all having to revolve around a baby? something so precious that relies on you when you are still growing and learning yourself? tell your fella if he respects you he will wrap up.

Good luck. x

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (16 July 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntHunni you could get pregnant with pre-come! And yes you could fall pregnant for wiping come "down there". The little sperms are stong swimmers and it only takes one. I would suggest you start using condoms again or think about going to the doctors for something else like the pill.

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A female reader, Straight Up United Kingdom +, writes (12 July 2007):

Straight Up agony auntokay so obviously you weren't taught that in your sex education classes? of course you should be worried just listen to this before the male climaxes there is semen on his penis already it's called pre-ejaculation.

if you want to continue having sex without a condom take the pill and both of you get tested for stds after that do what you want

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2007):

love-him agony auntHi babe, yea you can get pregnant.

I suggest you get a pregnancy test, or see your doctor, and also maybe consider using condoms, or other forms of contraception, which doesnt include the rythem method ( calender ) and the pull-out method. Hope i helped, mail me if you would like to talk x x

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A female reader, JessAgonyAunt United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2007):

JessAgonyAunt agony auntYes you can,use a condom or go on the pill

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (10 July 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntWell just so you know, that was the birth control method used in the Medieval Ages. In the US you can get free birth control, there is no excuse here for unplanned babies.

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A female reader, stina United States +, writes (10 July 2007):

stina agony auntHello Anonymous,

You are more likely to get pregnant from the pull-out/withdrawal method. (Look it up to see the % rate. I believe that it works only about 76% of the time, but I can't check because I'm at work.) If you don't want to get pregnant, then you're playing with fire.

If I were you, I would go to my doctor or Planned Parenthood to get some other kind of birth control. If you go to Planned Parenthood, they'll be able to provide you with free or cheap birth control (cheap as in about $3) and will keep your files confidential (meaning your parents will not know). Please look them up online and find a location near you - they're all over the country.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2007):

you can get pregnant using the pull out method anyway the man will ejaculate small amounts of semen whilst having intercourse so i would suggest either going on the pill or using condoms because the "pull out" method is not reliable.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2007):

You can get pregnant that way. Very easily. If your "area" makes any contact with semen, you can get pregnant. By the way, the "pull out" method can still get you pregnant. There's a thing known as "pre-cum" which will ooze out of his penis at random points during arousal and sex acts. It's a sort of natural lubricant. But it too contains sperm. He could be oozing "pre-cum" into you, long before he actually reaches orgasm. Use a condom. Or don't have sex at all.

As for your current situation, see a doctor for a test.

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