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writes:Hi.This question might apply to several situation, but theres one in particular i want to think about.what happens if at somepoint in the future i really feel i love my gf (ive only been with her for 2 and a bit weeks so far) and i tell her, but she doesn't feel the same and can't say it back? is it likely things would gradually fade or would we be able to carry on and at somepoint she may decide she does love me, and it just took a bit longer than it did for me?Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2007): guys guys, i was talking hypothetically, i know 2 and a half weeks is a short time, relax. i was just asking now for the future, while the idea was on my mind. but thanks all the same.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2007): 2 1/2 weeks is a very short time. give it a while longer. but even if she doesn't say it back remember that it takes more time for some people than others. if she doesn't love you now it doesn't mean she never will.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (10 July 2007):
 We all fall in love at different stages of our relationships and just because you turn around and say you are in love with someone and they don't respond it does not mean to say they will not feel the same way in a while.
If you are an insecure person and it would worry you if you did not get a responce then wait a little longer, like you say you have only been together for a couple of weeks anyways and who says you are going to fall in love with this person.
Take care.xx.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (10 July 2007):
 Maybe some time in the future she will tell you she loves you too. You know, maybe she doesn't believe you're sincere after only two weeks and a half. I know you can be, but, in this case, she needs to be sure about it. Give her time. If some time passes by and she still is not sure about it, well, then she won't say it, and you will need to move on.
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reader, love-him +, writes (10 July 2007):
 It takes some people quite a long time, to love someone.. it isnt somethin that many people can say after just 2 weeks.. it may get better, it may stay the same.. only the future will be how you know.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2007): My boyfriend said that he loved me months before I was ready to say it. Just give it time. Don't rush her.
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