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writes: hi, i like a guy and i need some tips on flirting, is it wrong to flirt with one whose got a girlfriend? how do i get him to notice me even if he has someone? and how do i get to win his heart, we work together.
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (16 May 2008):
 Darling, you have a very good chance of making yourself look a complete wally if he does not respond to your flirting.
If you do want to flirt with a SINGLE UNATTACHED GUY, then I suggest you buy the book called Hot Relationships by the author Tracey Cox. She will give you tips on how to attract a guy with body language, wearing the right clothes without looking too tarty etc etc.
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reader, BlondeBabe x +, writes (16 May 2008):
 In my opinion even thinking about flirting with a guy that has a girlfriend is wrong, I also agree with the comment that was made beforedont flirt way someone at work it is a huge mistake, it wil get complicated in the future.
You may like this guy but it wont be worth it!
I would only flirt with a guy that i knew liked me back start with a simple smile, to atract attention and laugh at his jokes, i dont no how it works but it does!
The best tip that i could give would to be yourself there is know point in pretending to be something that your not.
Good Luck! x
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reader, Ask oldersister  +, writes (16 May 2008):
 If you don't have a clue about flirting, I would suggest you don't go experimenting on someone else's boyfriend, talk about getting mixed signals! Work is also a big no no and you could push it too far. I would start small and in areas that won't affect your reputation and livelihood like when you go out with friends in more casual places. The best and most effective flirting is subtle in the beginning and then blatant once they have already fallen for you. Believe me, this guy at work has already noticed you or decided not to notice you. Girlfriend or not, he probably decided within the first few minutes whether you're the type of girl he'd have sex with.
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reader, A Cappella + ♥, writes (16 May 2008):
 It is wrong to flirt with another girl's guy. How would you like it if you had a guy and he was flirting with someone else?
Also, I don't ever recommend flirting with someone you work with. If it goes badly (say he wants to stay with his girl and gets mad at you for making him uncomfortable) then you still have to work with him. Yikes.
You can enjoy your crush but I don't recommend acting on it. Or try to find another guy to crush on; someone available whom you don't work with. Good luck.
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reader, PreciousNY +, writes (16 May 2008):
He has a girlfriend and I don't think that you should pursue him. Can you really live with yourself if you break up their relationship? How would you feel if someone did that to you? And if you actually to get him to leave his girlfriend for you, how do you know he wouldn't do the same thing to you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008): well, its a difficult one, as everyone has their own way of flirting and everyone has different perceptions of what is good flirting and what is not.
my advice would be to biuld up your flirting "techniques" on your own personality, as you dont want to flaunt something that just isnt you and!
really you just have to experience, and you will learn what reels in the catch and what sends em runnin, but make sure you are approachable, fun, sexy and not clingy..leave em wanting more!
i dont think its wrong to flirt with this guy, as long as its not really provocative flirting, just friendly flirting that might give him the message that you may be interested in him, and he will def feel good about himself1!!! hope thats helped a bit xx
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