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writes:Can't stop crying... I'm feeling so low today. I keep thinking about my ex and his girlfriend. I'm thinking about how happy they are, I'm seeing them in bed. They've just come back from holiday, so I'm seeing them holding hands. Kissing, lying together.I know I'm torturing myself. I'm trying to get over him, I really, really am. I don't want him back, he belongs to someone else. He's in love with someone else. He's making plans with someone else. He's gonna marry someone else.That's the truth, that's how it's gonna be....
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks anonymous, thanks duskyrowe. It was just a moment of weakness. I couldn't hold onto the sadness much longer. It really helps writing it down and your responses are the icing on the cake.
Duskyrowe, I'm 39 and it was 18 years. I wanted kids, he promised kids and now he's left and she's gonna get the kids.... well the kids and him.. Thing is I think he's the best part.
Anyway.. as I said it was just a little moment of weakness. Thanks for being there.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (16 May 2008):
 Oh Sweetie I know exactly how you feel. I dated a guy last year for a few months, then he dumped me saying he wasn't ready for a relationship. Three months later the rat found himself a younger model of 28 (I'm 40) and I had exactly the same visions as you too.
Today I am dating a lovely guy of 34 and we have been seeing each other for 8 months. Now the other guy is just a distant memory and my man is a much better lover than him too lol.
Move on hun and find yourself a real man. Dusky xxxx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008): He wasn't for you so it's better to find out sooner than later.
Cry your tears as that will help, but try to find something else to focus on, keep in company and try not to talk about him. Time is a great healer.
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