I'm engaged to a man whole calls me a "slag"... What do I do?
Q. I am engaged to a wonderful man, well he used to be wonderful. He has recently started being really nasty to me calling me a slag and rough. I have never cheated on him. He always apologises the day after but I can't take much more of it what do I ...
A. 9 May 2006: My friend it makes no difference to me pointing out that he has never hit you it would however make him more of a wretch if he did, but the fact is, he disrespects you and that is not fair to you. I wish I could help you but it seems as though you ... (read in full...)
He wants to give me a "pearl necklace" but I'd prefer some pretty ear-rings!!
Q. Hiya I'm 17 and from Newcastle in the uk, studying art and design. My boyfriend and me have been going out for a few weeks now and he keeps promising to give me a pearl necklace at the weekend, but he has yet to come round with one. I love my j...
A. 8 May 2006: In my view, you should be grateful for whatever he gives you, however you have been dating for a few weeks, i.e. days and that is hardly a long enough time for your fella to know what floats your boat and what rocks it. If for example the two of ... (read in full...)
Update on "Why hasn't he called"?
Q. UPDATE on "why hasn't he called?". He never did phone me last night, i didn't call him...didn't want to seem desperate. Okay, so i was slightly dissapointed he didn't ring..then he calls me tonite(i didnt answer, he left a msg to call him back)! ...
A. 8 May 2006: Don't you think it makes perfect sense to call him back to see exactly whats going on and then you will know where you stand. Good luck. xXx... (read in full...)
I'm in a love triangle!
Q. I am in a love triangle! I have been married for just over a year to a wondeful guy who worships me, however I have been seeing a married man for 6 years who I just can't let go! he is older than me, married with children and we speak daily and see ...
A. 8 May 2006: This is one pathetic scenario, how can you possibly love your husband and be dating a MARRIED man who has kids and thenthe ex factor comes on the scene. Do you want Wold War III to start? This is disgraceful, what do you want us to say to you, ok ... (read in full...)
Should I ask my tech teacher out?
Q. i am in with my teacher he his my technology teacher i think he love me he sexy but i don't now if he got a girl friend do i ask him out or not ? i love him....
A. 8 May 2006: Answer me this, how old are you my dear? By the sounds of it, you are too young and it is not a good idea to ask out your teacher, it is really not a wise choice.It is not professional for teachers to date students, its just not acceptable, I mean ... (read in full...)
How can I get my boyfriend to change his mind??
Q. How Can Get My Boyfriend Change His Mind To Have Intercourse With Me Please Help ? ...
A. 7 May 2006: If your boyfriend is not ready to have sex with you, I am not goung to offer advice to you on how to lure him into bed. He will sleep with you when he is good and ready. xXx... (read in full...)
Wife keeps cheating on me... How can I get her to see how I feel??
Q. love my wife for 20yrs but she keeps on having affairs and i have child that is not mine.she goes on nights out and am very lucky if she comes home.did it before and found her at it with someone else.but keep staying with her.i am a lorry driver so ...
A. 7 May 2006: I am so sorry to say this but your wife is not a nice person at all. Marriage is a God given blessing and if all she can do is sleep with other men, she is simply no good. She has a problem, she is insecure and lacks self esteem. Why on earth are ... (read in full...)
Love at first sight, Is it possible???
Q. Is it possible for two persons to fall in love w/ each other even if they haven't meet personally yet?...
A. 7 May 2006: Yes it is possible. I do believe so. A lady once told me that she heard her potential husband's voice on a tape recording and she said to herself immediately "he is the one" and sure enough when they met, they soon married and have been together ... (read in full...)
I'm 36, new into a relationship and pregnant for the first time... I want to terminate but my doctor says "no"
Q. i just wanted to see what you thought of my situation....i am 36 and 6 months.i have never been married or have children.i met a nice guy a month ago who is 39 and never been married or has any children either.sadly ,there was an accident and i ...
A. 7 May 2006: My friend, I personally am totally against terminating life that God has created, however I dont sit here in judgement of you neither to I want you or anyone to think that I look downo on those who have had terminations, every circumstance is unique ... (read in full...)
A mutual friend keeps calling round to discuss her sexual problems with my HUSBAND!
Q. Sorry but i don`t know what to do. A mutusal girlfriend is forever calli ng round to discuss her sexual problems withj my husband. The sexual tension is palpable and despite telli ng him i feel threatened he calls me paranoid. To get the agony over ...
A. 7 May 2006: My friend, why did you allow them to kiss passionately? That is a recipe for disaster. Kissing is one sure way to strengthen feelings between two people, apart from sex it is the closest physical, intimate contact a man and a woman can have and if ... (read in full...)
Does he like me for more than a friend?
Q. I just had my birthday the other day. When I was at work I checked my voice mail and had a really sweet message from a male friend of mine. He was singing happy birthday in a really soft romantic voice. Then he said he would be sending me a small ...
A. 7 May 2006: Buzzie,it really depends, sometimes guys are really really nice and thats just because they are being really really nice. Its impossible for me to whether he likes you beyond friendship, but I guess time will tell. It was a very lovely gesture, I ... (read in full...)
I feel like sex but he says he feels "tired"... Any ideas?
Q. Anyone who reads this, I would love some feedback. My fiance and I have been togeather four years,and he is always turning me down for sex when I ask for it; saying he's tired. It's not just some of the time, it's all the time. This makes me feel so ...
A. 7 May 2006: My friend, I find it odd that your partner is persistently rejecting you for intimacy, that is not right. Something is wrong, you cant ALWAYS be tired and if so, there are times when you will put tiredness aside and be affectionate or intimate with ... (read in full...)
My friend's telling my boyfriend that I'm cheating, when I'm not, what can I do?
Q. hi im with my boyfriend now and my friend always stirs it up and has been telling him that im cheating well im not and my boyfriend does not believe me at all and i feel like i want to cry and my boyfriend said well if im being cheated on then i can ...
A. 6 May 2006: My dear, your friend is a manipulative, scheming, deceitful, envious minx. Find yourself another friend a TRUE friend, and as long as you have nothing to hide, your fella will see you are telling the truth. xXx... (read in full...)
He's immature, does nothing and treats me like crap...
Q. I'm wondering if my boyfriend will ever change. He's 5 years older than me and so immature when it comes to responsibility. I have to make sure everything is done. He does nothing and treats me like crap, when I take care of his 2 small boys (i take ...
A. 6 May 2006: To show this horrible boyfriend of yours that you deserve better, leave him. When you are no longet there to take care of his kids, do al the chores and be his slave then he will realise what good he had with you. You have been really good to this ... (read in full...)
We're like chalk and cheese - I'm sweating at the gym while he's drinking booze
Q. Help! I am in a 10 year relationship, we love each other very much but it seems to want more from life than my partner. He drinks every night to relax from his stressful job. I go to the gym to keep myself fit. I think I am having a mid life cri...
A. 6 May 2006: The problem you are having my friend is that it seems you dont communicate properly, nor do you spend "quality" time together as partners and as a result what is happening is as you said, you go to the gym and he is drinking himself into oblivion ... (read in full...)
Is it worth it?
Q. are relationships worth the hassle or is it way more fun staying single?...
A. 6 May 2006: Relationships dont always have to be hassle, true love conquers everything and if there are problems, love will cover a multitude of woes and you can have perfectly healthy and lasting relationships. xXx... (read in full...)
This woman at work has a crush on me...do i tell my wife and how do I proceed with this? Help!
Q. I've been married to my wife for two years, and been together for about six. We are both in our mid twenties, and although we are young I feel that i have married the love of my life still. However I work in a small team and spend everyday with on...
A. 6 May 2006: Sir, the dream doesnt necessarily mean you fancy her even though you dreamt of having sex with her. Listen my friend, the dream could be your minds way of saying look, if I let this go on, then this (i.e the sex with the woman) will happen and you ... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with him and now he's with someone else!
Q. I met this boy on holiday who i began to really like.he liked me too and when i found out,i thought that we could start a relationship.but because we live so far away,we didn't see eachother for months.he started to get less interested but i became ...
A. 6 May 2006: My friend I know exactly how you feel, it has happened to me more times than I care to remember, but let me say this, you have to move on otherwise you will slowly drive yourself crazy. I know because I have been there. My dear, there are many men ... (read in full...)
How do you treat your gf after finding her infidelity?
Q. She cheated on me three months ago, because she tought I ignored her for a while and she went panic-she regrets it a lot and this almost wracked her, she could not sleep and eat well. For all the love she gave and proved to me, I forgave me and ...
A. 6 May 2006: You have to ask yourself, are you happy knowing that she has previously been unfaithful? It was irresponsible of her to simply cheat on you like that because she thought you were ignoring her, a decent woman would have sat you down and told you how ... (read in full...)
I'm engaged to a man whole calls me a "slag"... What do I do?
Q. I am engaged to a wonderful man, well he used to be wonderful. He has recently started being really nasty to me calling me a slag and rough. I have never cheated on him. He always apologises the day after but I can't take much more of it what do I ...
A. 6 May 2006: Ok let me get this straight. You are engaged to a wonderful man who calls you "lovely" names like "slag" and then he is ever so corteous to apologise the next day. My dear wake up and see this prat for who he is. If your fella cant even respect ... (read in full...)
He throws a tantrum when he doesn't get sex... !
Q. My boyfriend throws a temper tantrum (no exaggeration) when he does not get sex. What shuld I do?...
A. 6 May 2006: Well from the sound of it your boyfriend is no man, he is acting like a spoilt brat who wants his dummy. Tell him straight, if he carries on like this, you are through with him. I mean it. Sex should be something that the both of you want to ... (read in full...)
He keeps touching my panty... Will this lose me my virginity?
Q. Hi Dear, I never had sex with my boyfriend, but sometimes he's touching my panty with his hands or fingers, but he never enter it. So with touching panty, will my virginilty get finished? I know, it's stupid question, but still i'm asking. ...
A. 6 May 2006: My dear its not a silly question at all but I guess you are quite young because you ask a seemingly obvious question. To lose your virginity, your boyfriend will have to actually enter you with his penis, not his finger my dear. People think you ... (read in full...)
Is it best to ask him out face to face or by text?
Q. hi i am 15. is it best to ask a boy out face to face or text? would it make a boy feel shy and awkward if i asked him face to face or would it make him like me more? plz answer this, i really want to ask face to face cos will it boost my confiden...
A. 6 May 2006: Even though I have 2 phones and send in excess of 600 texts per month, texting is very indirect and a very unsociable way of asking someone out!!! Face to face is always best because in a text he may read it ata bad time, he may not read the text ... (read in full...)
Are YOU in love with your partner or do you just lust for them?
Q. Are you in love with your partner... or do u lust for them? (there is a difference)...
A. 6 May 2006: Annie my dear it is not necessariy bad that you lust for your partner more than you love him, but consider if the two of you are together for the rest of your lives i.e til old age, you may not lust after him them because looks may have faded, teeth ... (read in full...)
We had sex....I think....do you think I could be prenant?
Q. I'm 13 years old. I've met a boy who I really like and is really special. The other day he came round and I think we had sex. His penis went just a tiny bit into my vagina, but only a tiny bit. It wasn't properly in and he didn't ejaculate. What are ...
A. 6 May 2006: Firstly, you are far to young to be having sex, its highly risky and irresponsible my dear. But as for being pregnant, its really hard to say. Its perhaps unlikely that you are seing as he never ejaculated, but as I said, you are too young. When I ... (read in full...)
I may be pregnant, can someone help me?
Q. me n my boyfriend had unprotected sex, n he came in me, what are the chances im pregnant?...
A. 6 May 2006: You may be pregant but it depends really if you are ovulating, you dont just get pregnant each time you have sex, remember, people have unprotected sex all the time, i.e. married couples using the rythm method and getting pregnant depends on whether ... (read in full...)
I have cerebral palsy and everyone treats me horrible. Can I change this?
Q. Dear Anyone. I'm 42, living in England, with Cerebral Palsy. This comes out mainly in my face - I look like a freshly shaved gorilla! And that, in a nutshell, is the question. How do I get people past the face and disability to the person ins...
A. 6 May 2006: Dear Chris, I wept as I read whay awful things you have had to put up with. My friend, people are so ignorant nowadays. I am afraid I cannot answer your question because man being the fallable, inherently evil beings that we are, we have ... (read in full...)
Is it because we're different races that she doesn't want me?
Q. is she ashamed to go out with me coz im black and she is asain? ...
A. 5 May 2006: Errm, I am not sure how to answer this question. You only say that you are blackand she is Asian. That may be a problem, i.e. not to say she is racist, but perhaps she comes from a strict background where interacial dating is out of the question. ... (read in full...)
Are YOU in love with your partner or do you just lust for them?
Q. Are you in love with your partner... or do u lust for them? (there is a difference)...
A. 5 May 2006: Of course there is a difference my dear but because they may be seen as similar, some get confused between the two. Lust is where you see something which you want to ravish and you desire it with all your heart, love on the other hand is a feeling ... (read in full...)
I live in a loveless marriage, but I can't handle this that much longer...
Q. Six months ago my husband cheated on me with a prostitute, once he said but he actually phoned and booked an appointment it wasn't a spur of the moment out with the lads type of thing. I was totally shocked and he told me because he thought he had ...
A. 4 May 2006: I like to believe that all things can come together for good, but my dear if your fella cheated on you with a prostitute, I believe that you should tell him you must split. You are clearly not happy. If you stay in a loveless marriage its useless, ... (read in full...)
She's always having more than one guy, should I stay or go?
Q. There is this girl I work with who I just can't seem to get over. We have had and on/off relationship for the past 6 months or so. I really care about her but she always gets drunk and does stupid things. I found out recently that she slept with m...
A. 4 May 2006: My dear, this woman has a hold over you, a Psychological hold over you. There is a line in a song and it goes something like this "How can heaven hold a place for me, when a girl like you has cast a spell on me?"
It may sound daft, but this gir... (read in full...)
Should I carry on faking it??
Q. I am in a loving relationship with a fantastic man, we have regular sex and i always fake my orgasm. I really enjoy the sex and dont feel bored that i have to put on my show but iv never had an orgasm, maybe a very slight one on my own but i know n...
A. 4 May 2006: You said: so is there any need for me to stop,what he doesnt know........ No my dear, I believe that honesty is the ONLY policy. Whats the point in faking it? If you love him, the intimacy is great and you are happy, if you dont have an O, then ... (read in full...)
He wants his ex back, but I like him. Should I go for it?
Q. I really like this guy, but he is still totally hung up over his ex and he is after getting back with her. Do i make a move or wait?...
A. 4 May 2006: Wait. If he is bagging his chances of getting back withthe ex, you will only be a snare to him. Just wait and see how it goes. There is no point in going after someone whos heart is after another. Good luck. xXx... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants arthritis, I'm not quite sure what to do about this.
Q. I am 18 and my boyfriend is 20. He wants arthritis and insists: "People with arthritis have the best sex lives and lives in general. Arthritis is cool" What should I do? Our relationship was good up until now. Dannii in Leeds...
A. 4 May 2006: Errm, Danni, I think your boyfriend is coming across as a bit of nutter!! No seriously, there is NOTHING cool about Arthritis, its not nice at all. And as for sex, well you are not speaking to an expert, but word has it that arthritis causing a ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin at 29. I want to lose it, what should I do?
Q. Virgin at 29 Years I know this may seem weird but it is true. I am 29 yr old woman, who is asking for your help. I am still a virgin. I go out sometimes. In a month i may go out 3 times. I work, l have a good job good life. But i am ready t...
A. 4 May 2006: My dear what is the problem? So what if you are a virgin at 29, you should not be ashamed of that. If you keep seeing your virginity as something to be lost n such a hurry, you wont get anywhere. When you meet a guy and fall in love, then you will ... (read in full...)
Hes emailing female escorts, what do I do??
Q. My boyfriend and i have been going out nearly 4 years last christmas he cheated on me. Since then we have got back together but he says he wants to be with me and other times hes not sure. I have checked his phone bill and found nothing but hes been ...
A. 2 May 2006: Spowell, I am not a harsh person and I do believe that people can cange, but if he has cheated on you already and sees the need to email female escorts, he is a bit of a loser. If he cant see the good he has with you, then I think you need to give ... (read in full...)
Feel guilty about my collegues crush, Whats the best option??
Q. OK, so i am a married man, and work in a small shop with four other employees. Recently everyones has been meeting up outside work, and although we are good friends, i feel that i am missing out. One lady in particular i have a really good bond...
A. 2 May 2006: It seems weird how you kind of didnt like her then all of a sudden, you think you might fancy her back. I am not sure if this is no more than just a bit of lust my friend, because either you like someone or you dont, you dont kind of or think you ... (read in full...)
He's married, but I MUST tell him how I feel... HELP!
Q. Hi everyone, I am one of the agony aunts and I do hope that I have managed to be of some help to those I have responded to, if not or if so, I am happy to receive criticism or thanks. But I do have a question, I know what advice I would give "me...
A. 2 May 2006: Hey guys, thanks for your replies, they are much appreciated. I will of course keep you updated on the situation but in the mean time, thanks for the comments!! Bless you both. xXx... (read in full...)
I have a dream about my exboyfriend, what does this mean?
Q. Well...I had a dream about my ex-boyfriend who broke up with me like in january. I Still like him but he likes another girl. Anyways, In my dream we still knew about our breakup and we were flirting and stuff. We really liked each other in the dream ...
A. 1 May 2006: My dear you are not going nuts, as an every day dreamer myself (i.e. I dream every single night!) I do believe that dreams are often very significant. If you say that you still like him, its quite common to "make things happen" in our dreams, i.e. ... (read in full...)
He doesn't have a picture of me on his phone, just other women...
Q. I think it is wrong for my boyfriend to have pictures of women on his phone as he has none of me. Is this right as i feel he doesn't love me much?...
A. 1 May 2006: I think its a bit strange thathe doesnt have a picture of you on his phone if he has other women, when you say other women, are these famous women whom we know he could never ever date, you know, Kylie, Beyonce etc or is it other women as in ... (read in full...)
How do I ask this (married) guy for his number?
Q. i work at a place that has a truck come deliever stuff to us once a week. im very attracted to this guy. but i found out that he won't be delivering anymore after next week. i want to ask him for his number but im way to shy and scared of what he ...
A. 1 May 2006: He is married, you have to leave him alone, ask yourself, do you really want to be a home wrecker? No, of course you dont, so what if he as a little crush on you, you will find in all marriages, one or both partners will be attracted to someone ... (read in full...)
I think this guy doesnt like me anymore because I wouldnt flash him!!
Q. hey! okay there is a guy that i like and i was talking to him and he was like i like u to but then he wanted me to like flash him and all other stuff and i said no and then he was like oh i thought u were different and he all this stuff and i do...
A. 1 May 2006: Listen, if this guy seemed only interested in you for your body, then he is a real loser and a jerk. I bet you are an absolute stunning young lady, believe me, you will find a decent more respectable guy, dont worry about this loser, if he thought ... (read in full...)
This woman at work has a crush on me...do i tell my wife and how do I proceed with this? Help!
Q. I've been married to my wife for two years, and been together for about six. We are both in our mid twenties, and although we are young I feel that i have married the love of my life still. However I work in a small team and spend everyday with on...
A. 29 April 2006: The reason I believe you should tell her is because if you don’t and this woman becomes bitter later on, she may start stirring and you wont want that. I don’t know the lady and I cant say that she will become bitter but what if she does, AngelRon ... (read in full...)
This woman at work has a crush on me...do i tell my wife and how do I proceed with this? Help!
Q. I've been married to my wife for two years, and been together for about six. We are both in our mid twenties, and although we are young I feel that i have married the love of my life still. However I work in a small team and spend everyday with on...
A. 29 April 2006: Dear sir,what a lovely man you are, you seem so considerate of your wife and this lady. God bless you for being such a lovely man. Now listen to me, I would do this: a) tell your wife that there is a lady at work who has expressed an interest... (read in full...)
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