Pete is AMAZING! Shall I go for it?
Q. Hi, uh, I'm new to this so bear with me. I'm 18, and I've got a friend named "Pete". Pete is seven years older than me (25). I've known him since I was 15 and he was 22. And nothing happened, trust me. We just became really close friends over the...
A. 30 August 2006: Well I am sorry that he is going too, but you never know, when he returns, just wait and see. Take care. xxx... (read in full...)
Pete is AMAZING! Shall I go for it?
Q. Hi, uh, I'm new to this so bear with me. I'm 18, and I've got a friend named "Pete". Pete is seven years older than me (25). I've known him since I was 15 and he was 22. And nothing happened, trust me. We just became really close friends over the...
A. 29 August 2006: Babes, if he is that great a friend then even if, (which I hope he doesnt) he doesnt feel the same, I am sure that you can still remain good friends, I dont see why a friendship has to be ruined. What if someone else gets there first, you will be ... (read in full...)
My parents are upset that I am dating a co-worker! What wrong with that??
Q. I really need help!! My parents are upset that I got invovled with someone from work! Is getting invovled with someone that you work with that bad or is it just them? Help PLEASE!!...
A. 28 August 2006: Man these typos have to stop!!
Sorry woking should say working.
My goodness, Andrew please put a spell checker on here!!!! ... (read in full...)
Pete is AMAZING! Shall I go for it?
Q. Hi, uh, I'm new to this so bear with me. I'm 18, and I've got a friend named "Pete". Pete is seven years older than me (25). I've known him since I was 15 and he was 22. And nothing happened, trust me. We just became really close friends over the...
A. 28 August 2006: Dear anonymous poster, dont forget to tell us how things go with "Pete" ok? I am dying to know!!!
Hope it works out babe. xXx... (read in full...)
It's a love hate thing...
Q. Please help me out. me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months. I hate his feet which feet arent supposed to be attractive anyways. Sometimes the way he moves his hand up and holds it up i hate it. It reminds me of someone gay. Just little ...
A. 25 August 2006: No one is perfect, we all have some defect or something about us that either we or our partners dont particularly like, if you truly love him and want to be with him, something as irrelevant as his feet will not be a major issue. But if you dont ... (read in full...)
I really like my mates girlfriend!
Q. I really fancy this girl in my class. I know her and we're friends but she has a boyfriend and he's my mate. How do i tell her?...
A. 25 August 2006: Dont tell her, she has a boyfriend who is your mate, dont betray your friend like that, please. Your frienship should mean more to you right now. xXx... (read in full...)
I love my married friend...
Q. I am in love with my friend who is married but I am afraid that if I say anything I could loose him as a friend. What should I do?...
A. 25 August 2006: Trust me, dont say anything, dont jeopardise uyour friendship, its not worth it,nothing can happen whilst he is married. Dont tell him how you feel because it will ruin everything. Good luck. xxX... (read in full...)
Will my best friend say no if I ask her out?
Q. There is this girl i really like. She is my best friend and I think i love her but I don't want to ask her out incase she says no. What should i do?...
A. 24 August 2006: Sorry, in my first answer the reason I said TWO great responses is cos when I posted my response there were only 2 posts as the other answers must have been awaiting approval and were but up after the time I posted mine but were submitted earlier! ... (read in full...)
Will my best friend say no if I ask her out?
Q. There is this girl i really like. She is my best friend and I think i love her but I don't want to ask her out incase she says no. What should i do?...
A. 24 August 2006: Yes I do agree with Wild Thaing because I was going to say this, "A true friendship isnt one until it has been tested and tried." A close friend said that to me and its soooooooo very trye. Good luck. xXx... (read in full...)
My husband of 30 years took one of our cars and hid it from me!
Q. I reside in california and married 30 years. We have three vehicles, my husband took one of our vehicles and stated it is in a safe place. I want my vehilce returned, what can i do?...he wont tell me where it is...both names on registration..can i ...
A. 24 August 2006: Or Judge Alex Ferrer, he is brilliant. XxX... (read in full...)
Will my best friend say no if I ask her out?
Q. There is this girl i really like. She is my best friend and I think i love her but I don't want to ask her out incase she says no. What should i do?...
A. 24 August 2006: Two great responses below, my dear I live every day as if it will be my last, what have you got to lose if you simply tell her how you feel, if sh eis a true best friend and she is not interested in you beyond friendship, your friendship will still ... (read in full...)
Im not sure if its lust im feeling towards him or love!?
Q. How can you tell the difference between love and lust? Ive got really strong feelings for a friend but i dont want to tell him untill i know for sure its not just lust. I think about him 24/7, i cant sleep at night if i know he's gone on a d...
A. 24 August 2006: Lust primarily is about physical, sexual desire for a person based on their outward appearance usually whereas love goes far beyond pure physical desire. Lust goes in hand with passion, I suppose, but passion is part of love too, because when you ... (read in full...)
I've fallen for my work colleague!
Q. Im 19 and I think ive fallen for one of my close friends who's also a work collegue. I literally cant stop thinking about him and get jealous whenever i see him talking to other girls. I feel like im going to burst if i dont tell him but im worried ...
A. 24 August 2006: Welcome to the club of falling for someone you work with, I am a member of four clubs, falling for married men club, the gorgeous guys who are not interested club and the way to old, and ut of my league club as well as the one I first mentioned. On ... (read in full...)
How can I get things back to just friends...?
Q. me and my boyfriend broke up which im perfectly happy about , although i wish i could still be his friend ,and i dont understand why he doesnt like me , although going out didnt work we used to get along so well , and i wish things could still be ...
A. 24 August 2006: How did you break up, upon what terms? Was it an amicable decision that you both made etc etc. The reason I ask is because I am trying to understand why he dislikes you as you put it, why dont you ask him how he feels. Sometimes when 2 people break ... (read in full...)
Sunbed question:- Are you supposed to turn over when using one ?
Q. Stupid question on a sunbed are you supposed to turn around or not? I was on the sunbed this morning and my back got more red than my top side? Are you meant to turn on your stomach?...
A. 24 August 2006: Well it shows you what I know about sunbeds!! Sorry, I was just going off what my friend said, sorry to the question poster!! My bad!!! xXx... (read in full...)
Im worried that I have left it too long before being intimate with someone again and scared that now I never will be....
Q. I lost my virginity when I was 16 to my boyfriend and i havnt slept with anyone since i broke up with him. That was 3 years ago!!! furthermore, ive only kissed 2 people. The problem is that because im so self conscious about myself, whenever i have ...
A. 24 August 2006: My dear, dont worry yourself at all, just because you have not had sex for a certain amount of time, whats the big issue? There is mo problem, when the time is right for you to be with someone, just take it slowly and dont worry about it. Dont think ... (read in full...)
My parents are upset that I am dating a co-worker! What wrong with that??
Q. I really need help!! My parents are upset that I got invovled with someone from work! Is getting invovled with someone that you work with that bad or is it just them? Help PLEASE!!...
A. 24 August 2006: It depends on who it is from work, I mean if I told my mum I hooked up with the floor manager she would have a hissy fit, if I told her I was seeing someone from the team I work on, providing he decent she wouldnt mind at all!!! Perhaps she is ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to have relationship expectations?
Q. Is it right to have expectations in a relationship?...
A. 24 August 2006: Of course its right my dear friend. When I get married (if at all I ever do find Mr Right!) I expect him to love, honour, cherish and care for me as his wife, as well as manyother things if he doesnt he is a gonner. What I mean is, of course you ... (read in full...)
Sunbed question:- Are you supposed to turn over when using one ?
Q. Stupid question on a sunbed are you supposed to turn around or not? I was on the sunbed this morning and my back got more red than my top side? Are you meant to turn on your stomach?...
A. 24 August 2006: Personally I have never used one (check the avatar and see why!!) but my friend is a religious user of one and she says that you dont need to turn over cos as Dr Pete said, it has lighting on both sides.
However I dont recommend you use them too... (read in full...)
What constitutes the 'ideal' relationship?
Q. Hi All, This is a quick question... Can anyone give me their view on what constitutes the ideal relationship partner? Is mutual love, respect and commitment/loyalty enough?? Thanks tons, Miss Doubtful x...
A. 24 August 2006: Hi babes, well my ideal relationship must constitutes these factors:
Trust, loyalty, honesty, faithfulness, passion, friendship, respect, love ........ the list can possible go on, but to me the key ingredients for a ideal relationship are trus... (read in full...)
Love hurts
Q. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5.5 years. After talking to a few friends, I am convinced that I did what was best for myself. However, I still love him and I am fighting urges to call him and tell him it was all a mistake. This is the first ...
A. 23 August 2006: Not a problem,like you said, the same advice still applies, but just thought I would warn you it was a bloke!!! I forget over in New Zealand it is the morning its 10.15 at night here in rainy England!!!!!... (read in full...)
Love hurts
Q. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5.5 years. After talking to a few friends, I am convinced that I did what was best for myself. However, I still love him and I am fighting urges to call him and tell him it was all a mistake. This is the first ...
A. 23 August 2006: Hannie babes, I just noticed that the poster is MALE!! And you are not s*** agony aunt, I think what you have written is great. Ditto I say!!! Thats all I can say. xxx... (read in full...)
My moral standard is incompatible with that of my boyfriend
Q. I am a very pure and innocent person and am celibate (restrain from sexual relations). Having just promised to celibacy recently my very close boyfriend of a year and a half and I have been disagreeing on things. The vulgar media today really ...
A. 23 August 2006: Typo! Yet again, that should say "uneQually" not the neologismn I spelt! Sorry. ... (read in full...)
Yearning for her attention
Q. i really like a girl she is a year older than me we were really good friends then my friends told her i had a crush on her and then they asked her out for me she said no and now when she is alone she acts kind with me but if she is with a friend she ...
A. 23 August 2006: My friend you cant make someone be more attracted to you, it just doesnt work like that I am afraid if not I would make so many men fall for me just like that. Her behaviour is a bit odd, but you did say that your friend told her you liked her and ... (read in full...)
We've gone for counselling to help our relationship, but I'm falling for the counsellor!
Q. My partner and I are having sex counselling at Relate. It is going quite well, but I think I have fallen in love with the counsellor! I know about transference and it maybe only this but I am very attracted to him, (almost immediately-his sense of ...
A. 23 August 2006: NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO. This is not a good situation, falling for the therapist equals DISASTER. My dear friend, as you mentioned, transeference may be playing a part in this, but do you really think you are in love with this guy? I think that ... (read in full...)
Pete is AMAZING! Shall I go for it?
Q. Hi, uh, I'm new to this so bear with me. I'm 18, and I've got a friend named "Pete". Pete is seven years older than me (25). I've known him since I was 15 and he was 22. And nothing happened, trust me. We just became really close friends over the...
A. 23 August 2006: Snowbird you are right, and I think I was the one who started it, if you trace it down, I think its all my fault. Oops!!!!! x... (read in full...)
Pete is AMAZING! Shall I go for it?
Q. Hi, uh, I'm new to this so bear with me. I'm 18, and I've got a friend named "Pete". Pete is seven years older than me (25). I've known him since I was 15 and he was 22. And nothing happened, trust me. We just became really close friends over the...
A. 23 August 2006: Dear anonymous poster: will you keep us all updated please with the latest developments between you and Pete? I hope you do and most of all I hope you are happy. xXx... (read in full...)
My husbands mother passed away and now he won't have sex with me!
Q. What should I do? Last year my husband's mother passed away. Since then he has refused to have sex with me! They had an extremely contentious relationship, and many issues remained unsettled between them. I know he was subject to her emotiona...
A. 23 August 2006: Wendi my dear, as I said, I think the reason why he feels like this is part of the anger and grieving process he is going through and I am sure that if he could simply stop the way he is feeling he would do so. You say that he refuses counselling, ... (read in full...)
I'm in Amsterdam and having trouble sticking to my no sex before marriage belief!
Q. Hi I am in my late 20s and am still a virgin. I have been able to control myself till now as i neither had any girlfriend nor any great desire to lose virginity before marriage..It is getting difficult day by day and staying in Amsterdam (Sex c...
A. 23 August 2006: Great advice from the others, I agree with Hannieseds,dont just throw away everything that you believe in just cos you may be faced with temptation. I am a Christian, and believe me I get tempted all the time, but if you have the will power and ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy test said negative but is it accurate?
Q. Ok i havent had my period for 3 weeks now and i took a pregnancy test but it said I'm not pregnant. But i feel like i am. Do the tests mess up sometimes or is it accurate?...
A. 23 August 2006: Generally the tests are pretty accurate but as with most man made things they are not error free, however as I said they are usually very good predictors. As Hannieseds said, go to the docs for a real test, one that is definative and will give you ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose her - should I marry her?
Q. 5 months into a relationship, and i feel like she's the world to me. Even with other girls offering me to go out with them instead of my current gf, my gf means the world to me and i would never want to lose her. yet, i am too young for marriage in ...
A. 23 August 2006: Well I am sure happy that this girl rocks your world and you are very happy but marriage does not necessarily mean that it will make it better, what I mean is, I am of the old fashioned way, you meet someone, you fall in love, you marry, have kids ... (read in full...)
Pete is AMAZING! Shall I go for it?
Q. Hi, uh, I'm new to this so bear with me. I'm 18, and I've got a friend named "Pete". Pete is seven years older than me (25). I've known him since I was 15 and he was 22. And nothing happened, trust me. We just became really close friends over the...
A. 23 August 2006: David my dear friend, if you take things slowly you may miss out on the course true love!!!! Its far better to just go ahead and take the plunge. xxxx... (read in full...)
Pete is AMAZING! Shall I go for it?
Q. Hi, uh, I'm new to this so bear with me. I'm 18, and I've got a friend named "Pete". Pete is seven years older than me (25). I've known him since I was 15 and he was 22. And nothing happened, trust me. We just became really close friends over the...
A. 23 August 2006: Sorry to the girl who posted the question, dont mean to hijack it!!
Yes David, men with the name Pete have something unique about them, I have discovered that of late anyway!!!! xxx... (read in full...)
Which accent do you find more annoying: Liverpool or Mancunian?
Q. OK I know this is going to be controversial especially if someone reads this from one of the 2 cities. This is really for people who have been to Manchester and Liverpool in the UK: but what accent is more annoying, Liverpool or Mancunian? I ask be...
A. 23 August 2006: Listen folks, calm down!!!! As I am Mancunian, I personally love my accent, the Scouse accent is great, so is the Geordie and Cockney and Brummie and all the accents in the world are unique and great!!! Ok, thats a dull answer but its the truth!!!! ... (read in full...)
Pete is AMAZING! Shall I go for it?
Q. Hi, uh, I'm new to this so bear with me. I'm 18, and I've got a friend named "Pete". Pete is seven years older than me (25). I've known him since I was 15 and he was 22. And nothing happened, trust me. We just became really close friends over the...
A. 23 August 2006: Dr Pete you naughty man!!!!!! (lol) 26 is just the right age for me!!!! hint hint!!!1 (lol)... (read in full...)
My husbands mother passed away and now he won't have sex with me!
Q. What should I do? Last year my husband's mother passed away. Since then he has refused to have sex with me! They had an extremely contentious relationship, and many issues remained unsettled between them. I know he was subject to her emotiona...
A. 22 August 2006: Wendi my dear, grief and anger are such that can affect the person in tremendous ways, you will have to see with him during this difficult time because he is probably upset but at the same time angry towards his mum for what she did to him and he ... (read in full...)
Which accent do you find more annoying: Liverpool or Mancunian?
Q. OK I know this is going to be controversial especially if someone reads this from one of the 2 cities. This is really for people who have been to Manchester and Liverpool in the UK: but what accent is more annoying, Liverpool or Mancunian? I ask be...
A. 22 August 2006: Camille, you are spot on!!! By the way I love the Bolton accent! But back to the point, accents should have no beating on relationship I mean its really each to their ownas Camille said some may love or loathe an accent, its entirely an individual ... (read in full...)
Which accent do you find more annoying: Liverpool or Mancunian?
Q. OK I know this is going to be controversial especially if someone reads this from one of the 2 cities. This is really for people who have been to Manchester and Liverpool in the UK: but what accent is more annoying, Liverpool or Mancunian? I ask be...
A. 22 August 2006: Sorry David, when I say funny its not to offend you, I mean it in a nice way, when you tell jokes it sounds funnier than most other accents. Sorry David, I love Scousers. xxx... (read in full...)
Which accent do you find more annoying: Liverpool or Mancunian?
Q. OK I know this is going to be controversial especially if someone reads this from one of the 2 cities. This is really for people who have been to Manchester and Liverpool in the UK: but what accent is more annoying, Liverpool or Mancunian? I ask be...
A. 22 August 2006: I am a pure blooded Mancunian and dont have a bad word to say about my city!!! I personally love the "Scouse" accent i.e the Liverpudlian accent its soooo funny, so I dont find neither of them annoying. Some people from certain parts of Manchester ... (read in full...)
Pete is AMAZING! Shall I go for it?
Q. Hi, uh, I'm new to this so bear with me. I'm 18, and I've got a friend named "Pete". Pete is seven years older than me (25). I've known him since I was 15 and he was 22. And nothing happened, trust me. We just became really close friends over the...
A. 22 August 2006: Sorry I just realised, I wasnt trying to put you off when I said the other Pete is too old for me, I meant that he is 20 years older than me. I am 23 so you can see his age!!!! but not with you cos 7 years is absolutely nothing, sorry babes. xXx... (read in full...)
Pete is AMAZING! Shall I go for it?
Q. Hi, uh, I'm new to this so bear with me. I'm 18, and I've got a friend named "Pete". Pete is seven years older than me (25). I've known him since I was 15 and he was 22. And nothing happened, trust me. We just became really close friends over the...
A. 22 August 2006: Well Pete sounds like an angel sent from the realms of heaven!!! What is it with people named Pete? I mean I have a thing for 2 men named Pete, but one is married so thats no use and the other is a bit too old for me, DAMN!!! Anyway babes, you sound ... (read in full...)
I asked why he won't talk to me on msn and he wrote "F**k ya!"
Q. He says he doesnt want to speak to me. but i dont understand why.i asked him on msn and he said cz, i drew ... and he wrote f*** ya and went offline. shud i ask him agen? or leave him to it and see what he does? its really confusing me....
A. 22 August 2006: Sweetie, just give him a bit of space for now, what he wrote on the MSN messenger was very uncalled for and not very nice, he owes you an apology. Perhaps he is going through a bad patch and he just needs some space. Let us know how it goes. xXx... (read in full...)
Would I now be referred to as a tart!?
Q. I met this boy who i was talking to for a couple of weeks and went to his house and we was talking to each other. We started kissing for hours, then he fingered me. Am i a tart? ...
A. 22 August 2006: No I would not use such a derogatory word to describe you but perhaps you should just take things slowly when you meet a guy thats all. xXx... (read in full...)
I' m a little unsure as to when I lost my virginity-does partial penetration count...or not??
Q. I am a little unsure as to when I lost my virginity, sounds stupid but let me explain. At 22, I tried to have sex with a new girlfriend, she had a problem, vaginismus, which prevented full penetration. Although I did try and part of my penis did ...
A. 21 August 2006: Ditto. If your penis has gone into her vagina, then you cant possibly be a virgin anymore. xXx... (read in full...)
My bf is in jail and I cheated. Should I tell him?
Q. dear cupid im 17 and my boyfriend is in jail and i just met this guy and i really like him and i cheated on my boyfriend i`ve been tryna break uwith my boyfriend should i tell him that i cheated....
A. 21 August 2006: Sweetie, maybe your relationship with your boyfriend has runits course, if you no longer want to be with him as he is in jail anyway and you cant physically be with him, then end it. Its entirely up to you if you want to confess to cheating on him. ... (read in full...)
My moral standard is incompatible with that of my boyfriend
Q. I am a very pure and innocent person and am celibate (restrain from sexual relations). Having just promised to celibacy recently my very close boyfriend of a year and a half and I have been disagreeing on things. The vulgar media today really ...
A. 19 August 2006: My dear its a simple case of being "unewually yoked". You and your boyfriend are very different and its not up to you to change him. For example, I am a Christian but I do not force what I belive on others. I may respect another person for having ... (read in full...)
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