Is it possible...for nerds to date the attractive girls?
Q. I'm 19, I'm at university and I'm a nerd. I've never kissed a girl (proper kiss) in my life, let alone have sex with a girl, and when I go out with friends at night to clubs, I have very little chance of getting a date with a girl as I can't dance ...
A. 11 November 2006: Dont call yourself a nerd and do not ever think that you are not good enough for a pretty gitl. No one is better than anyone, dont think that just cos a girl is pretty that she is bette than you. Love yourself and love will follow. xXx... (read in full...)
I've fallen for my sex buddy! Is this a waste of time?
Q. ok, so where do i start??? so i met a guy about 2 and a half years ago. i did the wrong thing and slept with him after our 1st date! since then we have become shag buddies but i have fallen for him big time!! i heard he has had a g/f since we met ...
A. 6 November 2006: This isnt good, I dont believe in "sex" buddies because sex is so intimate it is inevitable that you will start to develop feelings for him and if he has a girl, then he is a loser and a jerk for cheating on her and sleeping with you. Why dont you ... (read in full...)
I crave sex with everyone but my gf! Help!
Q. why do i find that i always go off sex with my girlfreind but crave it with every other person.can any one help?...
A. 6 November 2006: Do you mean you crave sex with others and then go and have sex with others or are you simply lusting after others? You have some void and issue in your life and you think sex will fill it, it wont. Sex is a want, not a need, what you NEED is to ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and know nothing about contraception. Too scared to ask mom!
Q. im a virgin and have no idea what kind of protection is best for me and im a little scared to ask my mom! please help?...
A. 6 November 2006: If you are scared to ask your mum then it sounds to me like you are too young for sex? Please do correct me and tell me off if I am wrong for making that assumption, but how old are you? I am not going to advise you on types of contraception, I ... (read in full...)
Why is he behaving this way? Do you think he likes me?
Q. hey all cupids, there is this lad i like he is a mte of my brothers hes 13 and im 15 i don't no whether he likes me cuz he keeps been nasty to me sometimes then nice to me the next time and he keeps finding ways to touch me and he lets me sit on his ...
A. 6 November 2006: A typical "boy" and "man" reaction when they have feelings for a "girl" or "woman". It seems to me that he likes you. Dont allow a 13 year old to drive you crazt, my dear you are young and special, dont be stressed with boys just yet. xXx... (read in full...)
There is sexual tension between me and my crush..but I love my bf! What should I do?
Q. I'm 21 and have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I am happy with my relationship. But then there is this guy - I have known him from back at school when I had a serious crush on him. We have kept in touch over the 3 years and ...
A. 6 November 2006: Why exactly are you ashamed at something you cant control? You cant control how you feel but you CAN control how you act. Its normal to have sexual feelings for other people even if you are with someone else, but the problem is when you act on ... (read in full...)
Sex before marriage? Opinions please....
Q. Someone once told me that it would be better if I slept with a few guys before finding the one to marry. They told me that way I would really get to know men before I settle and get out of the lust stage. I'm almost 19 and I haven't slept with ...
A. 4 November 2006: As a Christian, my immediate and favourable opinion is to say to you have sex when you are married and if you are saying it is for moral reasons, then stick to your beliefs, but I am also aware that in todays society, there are very few people who ... (read in full...)
I'm skinny and want to impress this girl. Is it possible to get "six pack' abs in 5 days?
Q. i'm 16. i have a close female friend who is also 16. we go to the same school. i have recently joined the gym as i am tryin to keep fit and help me gain weight. well i have a guest pass and i asked her to come. she accepted and told me she is free ...
A. 3 November 2006: Friend, be happy with who you are, dont try to obtain something which is impossible in such a short space of time. Being skinny is no problem, six packs dont necessarily make you more attractive, sometimes I find it a turn off, I just like the man ... (read in full...)
What can a girl do to make her breasts grow bigger?
Q. what should a girl do for her tits to grow bigger?...
A. 2 November 2006: There is nothing you can do, gaining weight wont necessarily make them bigger at all, I used to be a size 6, and now I am a size 10/12 they havent got any bigger really. You just have to hope and pray they get bigger. My mum said she was flat ... (read in full...)
I like this guy in college. Is it ok for a girl to ask a guy out?
Q. theres a guy i like on my college course who is several months older than me. I do not want to rush into anything with him, I want to get to know him better first, but I want to do it without making myself look desperare. I like him a lot but i ...
A. 2 November 2006: Is it ok for a white man to date a black girl, is it ok for a 25 year old to date a 30 year old, is it ok for a Manchester City supporter to date a Chelsea supporter, is it ok for an avid rock fan to date a classical music fanatic? Yeah of course, a ... (read in full...)
Haven't had sex in months, but missed a period - could I be pregnant?
Q. i havent had sex with my boyfreind for 5 months, but hav just missed a period.. is there any chance that this could be pregnancy? ...
A. 1 November 2006: Seems unlikely but you best just check to be on the safe side, strange things do happen. xXx... (read in full...)
Don't want Peter around me anymore but don't want to explain things to him. What can I do?
Q. A boy in my gang Peter caused problems between my ex best friend(Susan) and I as they started to try to go out in secret Which I do not know why meant my best friend started to be upset with me and his atittude to me(peter's) was very unkind. My ...
A. 1 November 2006: Tell him to get lost, what more do you need to say? Simple. xXx... (read in full...)
HAd sex with a guy who went too deep. Two months later sex with another guy hurt like hell! Did I get damaged?
Q. please help!! i had sex with this guy one time and when we did he shoved hard, deep, and fast in me. i was sore for a week. 2 months later i had intercourse with someone else, he was gentle but when he went deep it really really hurt. did the first ...
A. 1 November 2006: You better go the doctor and fast, because you ought not to be in so much pain like that. Take care. xXx... (read in full...)
Tomorrow I lose my virginity.
Q. on thursday, november 2nd, i will be losing my virginity to my ex girlfriend, and I am nervous, but in an extremely good way, because i know it is right for both of us. is there anything i can do to stop the nervousness? i smoke cigarettes, so maybe ...
A. 1 November 2006: Sorry I dont get it, I mean I have just worked a 9 our day, I am a bit tired, have been having nightmares all week and I have been racking my brains with figures all day, but seriously this makes no sense. Why would you be losing yout virginity to ... (read in full...)
I'm black..he's white and we are friends! Should I tell him I want to date him?
Q. Ok so I've known this guy for a while and we talk on the phone alomst all day/every day and I've hung out with him with my friends a couple of times. He's always nice to me and we get along great, but I'm afraid he'll never acutally like me the way ...
A. 1 November 2006: Hello again, I see, please dont think that I was trying to say there is something wrong with your preference, because like I said, colour means zero, nothing to me. People who tease you are ignorant thats all, there is nothing wrong with liking ... (read in full...)
Does a girl prefer cuddle or kisses?
Q. Hi everyone just wondering if your spending time with a girl does she prefer cuddle or kisses?...
A. 31 October 2006: Depends on the girl.... (read in full...)
We snogged and she took it seriously. Now she's being real clingy! How do I tell her I just want to be friends?
Q. Theres a girl i've been friends with for about a year now. Shes a bit fragile and I don't want to hurt her but I don't know what to do. A couple of Fridays ago, we both were pretty drunk and ended up having a bit of a snog. I just took it as a one...
A. 31 October 2006: Some say a "kiss is just a kiss" but it simply isnt the case. Kissing is highly intimate for some and a kiss can cause all sorts of sensual emotions in a person, so to you it may have just been a "snog" but to her it meant a hell of a lot more than ... (read in full...)
Do people really lie about how much sex they have? What are the signs?
Q. How many people lie about the amount of sex they have had? And what do people think the signs are that someone is lying? ...
A. 31 October 2006: People lie about all kinds of things and to be honest, it is the most boring conversation when people drone on about how much so called sex they have, who cares?!!! Friend, sometimes its obvious when people lie, they come up with figures ranging ... (read in full...)
I'm 14..he's 17 and I want to have sex with him. Can he get into trouble with the police if we do have sex?
Q. HI, Im 14 (nearly 15) and im going out with a 17 year old. And i want to have sex with him and he isnt putting pressure on me although i know hed like to have sex aswell. im just worried about it as i know the lagal age to have sex is 16. so if...
A. 31 October 2006: Sweetie you have a great guy who is not enforcing underage sex on you, be glad. Trust me girl, sex so young is NOT wise. You may think you want sex now, but really, I personally think you are too young emotionally and physically for it, sex is ... (read in full...)
I'm black..he's white and we are friends! Should I tell him I want to date him?
Q. Ok so I've known this guy for a while and we talk on the phone alomst all day/every day and I've hung out with him with my friends a couple of times. He's always nice to me and we get along great, but I'm afraid he'll never acutally like me the way ...
A. 31 October 2006: Friend, colour really ought not to be an issue, I mean I am black and I love ALL races, ALL creeds, ALL colours, it doesnt matter to me as long as they are respectful, clean, decent, honest, hygienic, loyal, and charming, colour dont bother me ... (read in full...)
Started an affair with my husband's brother...
Q. I got married 2 months ago to a man I had been living with for 2 years previously. My husband is a wonderful man who I truly love but unfortunately our sex life has never been fantastic. However I thought this was not important as we get on so ...
A. 31 October 2006: Why on earth would you want to continue being deceitful, dishonest and a cheat? Dont you think thats wrong? My dear, I am not one to judge people, but I will speak the truth when there are people who WILL get hurt and lives which will get messed ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a girl ......
Q. Ladies. what does it mean when a girl smiles at you and sits next to you even if there are other seats...
A. 31 October 2006: Not sure if anyone else has said this but I reckon she likes you!!!! But obviously I dont know her so its hard to say really, but it looks like a positive sign!!!!! xxx... (read in full...)
Sex buddies and friends, until Tuesday
Q. Ok, so I broke up with my bf 4 weeks ago after an on/off relationship of about a year. We were then sex buddies and friends, until Tuesday when he got a new girlfriend. But then the day after that he rang me saying he was lonely, came over and had ...
A. 27 October 2006: I am sorry to say this but your ex is a jerk, he is using you and you are falling into the web of deceit, manipulation and lies. He wants sex with you, he wants no one else to have you, yet he has a new girl? Errm, well he sounds like a loser, who ... (read in full...)
Falling for someone who is already with someone!!!
Q. i am falling for this guy i know but he already has a girfriend what should i do? please help!...
A. 27 October 2006: Sweetie there is little as lostandalone has rightly said that you can do, he is with someone, so there is no way the 2 of you can ever be together whilst they are together. Its very difficult, I should know, but the best way is to accept that you ... (read in full...)
Does this girl fancy me ?
Q. In a nightclub this girl kept looking at me and pulling me up to dance. She keeps trying to talk to me. Does she fancy me?...
A. 25 October 2006: Wow she loves you!!!! Well I wish I would get more of those calls!!!! Still waiting to hear it from some special person!!!!!!! Well why dont you talk with her and see where it can go from here? xxx... (read in full...)
Would this non virgin younger guy think it's weird to be dating me..an older woman who is a virgin?
Q. Hi I have a question, I am 24 and I am still a virgin -I like this guy and he is 20 and he likes me too he has asked me out a few times but I always say no, because it was a choice of mine to stay a virgin and its still my choice, but would he...
A. 25 October 2006: Good for you to remain chaste at 24, thats a blessing and an honour. Now to answer your question, as unhelpful as it may be, it all depends on the type of person he is. If he isnt a jerk, it shouldnt bother him in the slightest. Good luck. xXx... (read in full...)
I was wondering if agony aunts get paid?
Q. could you please tell me do agony aunts get paid or is it a service they provide for free,thank you....
A. 25 October 2006: No monetary payment, but the "reward" of knowing that you have possibly helped someone is as good as getting £2000 a month wages!!!!! I think my answer concurs with that of "tux" the first poster as well as the others.
What makes you ask anyway?... (read in full...)
We never have anything to talk about!!
Q. we never have anything to talk about.... is that a bad thing???...
A. 25 October 2006: Yes it is pretty bad my friend, how did you even get together? Before a relationship can be established, you need to know if the 2 of you have got anything in common, I mean you may for example like someone purely for looks, bur they are not ... (read in full...)
Unsure I love my wife, but I fancy a work colleague. What do I do?
Q. Have been married 11 years and have a son who is 9. I have recently been having feelings that I no longer love my wife or even find her attractive anymore. I have told my wife that I am unsure whether I love her or not and she pursuaded me to ...
A. 24 October 2006: If your work collegue does not see you as boyfriend material then what is the need in questioning what to do? If you no longer love your wife, I cant say or do anything to make you love her again, but as for the work colleague, you simply have to ... (read in full...)
I'm a 25 yr old who loves having sex with men! Is this right or wrong?
Q. I am 25 years old and i want to know if i have a problem, as i have slept with about 80 - 90 men, and i feel a bit bad but i love it. I'm single and i quite like it that way, because when i'm in a relationship i just want to sleep with someone else. ...
A. 24 October 2006: You are obviously lacking something in your life and by having sex with so many men, its as if it fills a void in your life. If you have to question something then the chances are it isnt right but this is individual morality and choice. Its not ... (read in full...)
Is my penis big enough for sex?
Q. hi would my penis just under 6 inches erect be large enough for sex? also which position is best for a penis which has a smaller girth?...
A. 22 October 2006: These sort of questions amaze me, its as if we are to say something like, "well in order to have intercourse, you need to be a certain number of inches etc etc." I am not one to answer these sorts of questions, because I see no point, but let me ... (read in full...)
Both married to other people and I want to stop this affair!
Q. How do we stop the affair? 11 months going ,sex 4 times a week ,but both are married to diffrent people not each other....
A. 22 October 2006: Its simple, if you want to do something, you will do it. You will simply stop commiting adultery and walk away from this and regain some self respect. Simply say enough is enough, no more lies and cheating, just end it and work out whether you ... (read in full...)
I love anal sex but I have concerns about cleanliness.
Q. I really love anal sex, but latley I have faeces still left in my rectum even after bowel movement and washing. Why is this? Is it to do with my diet? It's very embarassing and spoiling my fun. ...
A. 22 October 2006: Typo, well we know faaces isnt in the english dictionary but I think you know what word I meant!... (read in full...)
Have had only 2 sexual experiences and both were lousy. Is it me?
Q. Im 15 years old and hav had sex with 2 people. On neither occasion has me or the guy came and the sex wasn't really that good....am i doing something wrong?? ...
A. 22 October 2006: At 15 you have no place having sex, my dear so I wont even begin to suggest what the problem may be apart from the fact that you are way too young and physically immature for sex, I am not saying you as a person are immature as that would be ... (read in full...)
She left me for her married boss and now living with him so why does she keep texting me wanting to meet up and thing??
Q. I split up with my ex 12 months ago now and I am trying my best to move on,I am about 95% there at the moment. She left me for her married boss with 3 kids who told her his heart has never known so much love! and loads of other bull and she fell for ...
A. 22 October 2006: Yes you should cut contact with her, she is selfish and greedy and wants to have her cake and eat it too. She was already comitting adultery and wants to act all nicey nicey with you. Friend, forget about her, she will only hurt you again. xXx... (read in full...)
I love anal sex but I have concerns about cleanliness.
Q. I really love anal sex, but latley I have faeces still left in my rectum even after bowel movement and washing. Why is this? Is it to do with my diet? It's very embarassing and spoiling my fun. ...
A. 22 October 2006: Faaces will always remain in the rectum, thats why God created the rectum for dafeacating and in my opinion not for intercourse. Why not have sex the way God designed it, then you wont have this problem. It has nothing to do with diet, the only way ... (read in full...)
Which is the best way to promote self esteem? Any ideas?
Q. Which is the best way to promote self steem?...
A. 22 October 2006: I have what people say is a very "low self esteem" but as a Christian, I realise that having a low self esteem is not something God wants for anyone. You must learn to accept who you are and be thankful to God for who you are and accept the things ... (read in full...)
Are you single? Please reply here!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here.. Just doing a poll to see how many visitors to the site are SINGLE and would be interested in a (free, of course) DearCupid dating service. Just reply to this post. Thanks! A....
A. 20 October 2006: No I am not single, and to be honest, I am not sure that it would be such a great idea, only because the purpose of this site is to help people who are having "love" difficulties and if we have this site also, it may create a few too many problems. ... (read in full...)
After making love with my boyfriend, I usually cry and start thinking about my ex of 7 years. Why is this happening to me?
Q. My boyfriend of seven years broke up with me about a year ago. I have a new boyfriend but there is a problem. After we make love I start thinking about the loss of my other relationship and get quite upset...I usually cry. I just do not understand ...
A. 23 September 2006: Its simple, you still have strong feelings for your ex boyfriend, and this leads me to ask you why is he your ex and not your current boyfriend? You need to be honest with your boyfriend and yourself, dont be with someone when you are thinking of ... (read in full...)
How can a loser ever win the heart of a stunner?
Q. Hi I've just started my 2nd year at uni and there's a girl, where one of my friends lives near, who also goes to the same uni as me and similar student bars. I'm not joking she is utterly beautiful, stunning hot etc. and my friends says she is smart ...
A. 23 September 2006: Friend, stop the self destruction, "as a man thinks in his heart, so is he" thats what the Word says. If you think you are a loser, you will be one, but friend, I am not happy to allow you to degrade yourself like that, dont speak so badly of ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: New features? What other sites do you use? .. and please tell a friend!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here! I ask this periodically... 1. What new features would you like to see? 2. What other websites do you use regularly? 3. Where are you from? Thanks to all the agony aunts, moderators and of course...
A. 22 September 2006: LOL
Yes,that wasn anothet feautem a spekl checkeer itn needed.
Really what I meant to write is:
Yes,that was another feature, a spell checker AND A GRAMMAR check is needed!!!! Thanks David!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: New features? What other sites do you use? .. and please tell a friend!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here! I ask this periodically... 1. What new features would you like to see? 2. What other websites do you use regularly? 3. Where are you from? Thanks to all the agony aunts, moderators and of course...
A. 22 September 2006: *eith* surprisingly ought to be *it*
cant spell again today!!! sorry... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: New features? What other sites do you use? .. and please tell a friend!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here! I ask this periodically... 1. What new features would you like to see? 2. What other websites do you use regularly? 3. Where are you from? Thanks to all the agony aunts, moderators and of course...
A. 22 September 2006: I dont get eith either Wendyg!! How is it rated out of ten anyway, makes no sense to me!!! I am not a blonde, but I dont get it either!!! lol Andrew please enlighten a beautiful blonde and a reasonable brunette, thanks very much. xXx... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: New features? What other sites do you use? .. and please tell a friend!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here! I ask this periodically... 1. What new features would you like to see? 2. What other websites do you use regularly? 3. Where are you from? Thanks to all the agony aunts, moderators and of course...
A. 20 September 2006: Hi Andrew, yeah sorry it was late when I typed that about the IP so it probably sounded like gibberish!!! All I meant is this: one time you were talking about some junk being posted on the site and you said it was coming from the same IP address, ... (read in full...)
Does this girl fancy me ?
Q. In a nightclub this girl kept looking at me and pulling me up to dance. She keeps trying to talk to me. Does she fancy me?...
A. 19 September 2006: Well it seems highly likely she does like you!!!! xXx... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: New features? What other sites do you use? .. and please tell a friend!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here! I ask this periodically... 1. What new features would you like to see? 2. What other websites do you use regularly? 3. Where are you from? Thanks to all the agony aunts, moderators and of course...
A. 19 September 2006: Andrew, Stina's suggestion is great!! I am like that too, if someone rates my answer as poor, them I want to know why so I wont answer poor again if you see my point. Its not about being great or anything but as Stina said, it helps you to improve ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: New features? What other sites do you use? .. and please tell a friend!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here! I ask this periodically... 1. What new features would you like to see? 2. What other websites do you use regularly? 3. Where are you from? Thanks to all the agony aunts, moderators and of course...
A. 19 September 2006: Hi Andrew I am a firm believer in spreading word!!!! I dont use any other sitem this one is suffice.
I am from Manchester, England, UK. I gave you a possible suggestion some time ago about about having feature pages for each agony aunt/unc... (read in full...)
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