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writes: My boyfriend and i have been going out nearly 4 years last christmas he cheated on me. Since then we have got back together but he says he wants to be with me and other times hes not sure. I have checked his phone bill and found nothing but hes been emailing female escorts as i asked him yesterday but he has said he hasnt met up with them. I dont know what to do can you help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2007): i disagree with the last comment you should not have too change yourself for someone if they truly love you they love you for what you are and everything u stand for!!!There must of been a connection and attraction in the 1st place for him 2 get with you!!!My advice is if he don't like you for you he needs too be kicked too the kerb.I feel he wants his cake and too eat it the best of both worlds!!Never change who you are sweety find someone better who loves you for who you are!!Takecare amy aka yourstruly
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reader, kelly3000 +, writes (7 May 2006):
Hi Honey
Trust me babe, it has nothing to do with you. You don't need a make-over, you don't need to lose weight...you don't need to do anything, because there's nothing that you can do...
I work as an escort...so you can trust me...I know what I'm talking about...I've met a few men, and talk a lot to them about their personal lives...and once they start seeing escorts, one things for sure- they get hooked...and they never stop...
It's time for you to move on..and find someone who'll treat you better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2006): Hi Honey
I work as an escort...so you can trust me...I know what I'm talking about...I've met a few men, and talk a lot to them about their personal lives...and once they start seeing escorts, they get hooked...and they never stop...
It's time for you to move on..and find someone who'll treat you better.
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (2 May 2006):
 dump him
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reader, yourstruly  +, writes (2 May 2006):
 Sweet theres no way you deserve to be treated like ths! He has already hurt you in a big way by cheating but he was fortunate too get another chance at making a go of things with you and it sounds like he is blowing this chance also.There is a true saying you don't know what good thing you have until it's gone and if he's not careful he runs the risk of loosing you for good.I can not understand why he would want a female escort when he has a woman that is his in every way. Have you tried talking too him about this and getting some sort of explanation? It sounds too me that he isn't showing much affection and consideration towards you and there is only so much neglaction a person can take. Try telling him how you feel and how he makes you feel. I hope things sort them selfs out for you and i hope i have helped in some sort of way.takecare xx
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reader, yourstruly +, writes (2 May 2006):
Sweet theres no way you deserve to be treated like ths! He has already hurt you in a big way by cheating but he was fortunate too get another chance at making a go of things with you and it sounds like he is blowing this chance also.There is a true saying you don't know what good thing you have until it's gone and if he's not careful he runs the risk of loosing you for good.I can not understand why he would want a female escort when he has a woman that is his in every way. Have you tried talking too him about this and getting some sort of explanation? It sounds too me that he isn't showing much affection and consideration towards you and there is only so much neglaction a person can take. Try telling him how you feel and how he makes you feel. I hope things sort them selfs out for you and i hope i have helped in some sort of way.takecare xx
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reader, bonym +, writes (2 May 2006):
 Spowell, I am not a harsh person and I do believe that people can cange, but if he has cheated on you already and sees the need to email female escorts, he is a bit of a loser. If he cant see the good he has with you, then I think you need to give him an ultimatum. You deserve to be treated with respect. Tell him its me or else!!! Good luck. xXx
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reader, willywombat +, writes (2 May 2006):
 This guy has already proved himself to be unreliable as he has been unfaithful once to you knowledge already. He wants to be with you then he doesn't...if you want my honest opinion I think he reamins with you until something he considers *better* comes along. This contacting escorts, he is looking for sex elsewhere as well. How much longer are you going to allow him to treat you like you mena nothing to him.
Take your life back and leave him. Dont give him a reason just do it. Cut off all contact and get some self esteem and self respect back into your life. learn to like yourslef again and then you will find somebody new who will treat you properly and respect you eventually. Please do not continue to be a doormat any longer.
xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2006): hi
i think u need to change your life style & change your appearance so as to make him feel the renewal & feel that you really love him as you will change your self for him.
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