Does this girl fancy me ?
Q. In a nightclub this girl kept looking at me and pulling me up to dance. She keeps trying to talk to me. Does she fancy me?...
A. 25 October 2006: Wow she loves you!!!! Well I wish I would get more of those calls!!!! Still waiting to hear it from some special person!!!!!!! Well why dont you talk with her and see where it can go from here? xxx... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: New features? What other sites do you use? .. and please tell a friend!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here! I ask this periodically... 1. What new features would you like to see? 2. What other websites do you use regularly? 3. Where are you from? Thanks to all the agony aunts, moderators and of course...
A. 22 September 2006: LOL
Yes,that wasn anothet feautem a spekl checkeer itn needed.
Really what I meant to write is:
Yes,that was another feature, a spell checker AND A GRAMMAR check is needed!!!! Thanks David!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: New features? What other sites do you use? .. and please tell a friend!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here! I ask this periodically... 1. What new features would you like to see? 2. What other websites do you use regularly? 3. Where are you from? Thanks to all the agony aunts, moderators and of course...
A. 22 September 2006: *eith* surprisingly ought to be *it*
cant spell again today!!! sorry... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: New features? What other sites do you use? .. and please tell a friend!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here! I ask this periodically... 1. What new features would you like to see? 2. What other websites do you use regularly? 3. Where are you from? Thanks to all the agony aunts, moderators and of course...
A. 22 September 2006: I dont get eith either Wendyg!! How is it rated out of ten anyway, makes no sense to me!!! I am not a blonde, but I dont get it either!!! lol Andrew please enlighten a beautiful blonde and a reasonable brunette, thanks very much. xXx... (read in full...)
He has a great personality but I don't like his looks! Physical attractions means a lot....right??
Q. hi, i met this guy on myspace and we have been on a date! i love everything about his personality and we get on well! its just his appearance, i'm not attracted to him! i'v kinda turned him down because i dont find him attractive, it may seem ...
A. 22 September 2006: You are very welcome David and yes I do agree that there are some physically beautiful men and women who have such "ugly" personalities, it eventually starts to show up in their face and makes them an ugly person. xXx... (read in full...)
He has a great personality but I don't like his looks! Physical attractions means a lot....right??
Q. hi, i met this guy on myspace and we have been on a date! i love everything about his personality and we get on well! its just his appearance, i'm not attracted to him! i'v kinda turned him down because i dont find him attractive, it may seem ...
A. 22 September 2006: David Lewis is a perfect gentlemen, thats lovely, I wishall men were like you!! But for me, looks are almost top of my list, that does sound shallow but let me explain.
I do believe that I have to physically find my husband attractive otherwis... (read in full...)
I'm 17 he's 40+ with 2 kids and a wife, is it wrong to have feelings for him?
Q. im 17 he's 40+. he's perfect man, kind,gental,loveing,cuddly,makes you feel wanted.he is a very hands on person which is great and he made a move on me(a very effectionate kiss on the lips). i didn't mind and i realy enjoyed it. but he slightly tied ...
A. 22 September 2006: *but he slightly tied up with 2 kids and a wife.*
Slightly tied up? Is that what you call marriage and kids, my dear he is not slightly tied up, he is married and commited to another woman, he has no business kissing you at all. How on earth ca... (read in full...)
How do I tell if my teacher really fancies me? He seems quite friendly to me!
Q. hi, i fancy my teacher and he seems to be extremely friendly and chatty towards me and my friends all say he does little things like when we were performing a play, one eye was following me around. how do i tell if he fancies me/loves me/just...
A. 22 September 2006: Actually, its my sister who watches it religiously, I used to watch it back in the day when Luke Morgan and Izzy Cornwell were in it!!! But I do know about Becca the teacher sleeping with Justin who is 15 or 16 right??? Teachers and students getting ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be in love with your boyfriend and like someone else?
Q. i have been going out with my boyfriend for 3years but i like someone else that i have known for 6months. is it possible to be in love with your boyfriend and like someone else? ...
A. 22 September 2006: I dont think it is, if you truly are IN LOVE with your man, you may indeed find another man attravtive, thats normal, there are billions of other attractive people in this big bad world but you cant be liking someone to the point where you may be ... (read in full...)
How do I tell if my teacher really fancies me? He seems quite friendly to me!
Q. hi, i fancy my teacher and he seems to be extremely friendly and chatty towards me and my friends all say he does little things like when we were performing a play, one eye was following me around. how do i tell if he fancies me/loves me/just...
A. 22 September 2006: *how do i tell if he fancies me/loves me/just likes me?*
I can tell from such a statement that you are perhaps quite young and my dear what you need to realise is that yes you may like this guy, but thats all it can be, he is in a position... (read in full...)
If I lose weight, will my penis become larger?
Q. Hello, I am in my early 20s and I am about 6'1" and weight about 310 pounds. When erect, my penis is 5.5 inches long. I know that's a good size, but my question is, if I lose weight, will my penis become larger when erect or be the same size? I know ...
A. 21 September 2006: Cant say I am an expert on this matter, far from that but I am inclined to think that even if you lose weight it will remain the same size. But perhaps you are best asking for a man's perspective, this is not my speciality area. But I like to try ... (read in full...)
Is sex with and in-law incest?
Q. I have a close girlfriend, who just confided in me about her sexual encounter she had with her brother in law, that would be her husband's brother. She has been married and known him for over 10 years. I really do not know what to tell her; that i...
A. 21 September 2006: Incest is when you have sexual relations with blood relatives, this is not incest, its simply adultery. xXx... (read in full...)
My ex wants to see me as a friend, but he wont accept we are over, is it possible to be friends in this case ??
Q. I ended a relationship with my lover because i felt it wasn't going anywhere and i told him that.We couldn't agree to compromise so i walked away.Trouble is my ex will not accept this and says he misses me alot.He wants us to remain friends and just ...
A. 20 September 2006: I agree with what you have said, its kind of hard to remain friends with someone you used to date especially if he still harbours strong feelings for you. I think its best if you didnt continue to see each other, seeing each other every week stirs ... (read in full...)
I have cheated before, we are engaged together 3 years, but think im falling for someone at work!!
Q. I have been going out with my current boyfriend for nearly three years and we are now engaged, I am only 18 and I have cheated before but totally regretted it. I have been working in my current job for just over and now I think I am starting to fall ...
A. 20 September 2006: The fact that you have cheated before giving your age suggests that you are far being ready to settle down. Why would you risk everything on some guy at work you have a crush on, you dont even know how he feels and either way, its probably not a ... (read in full...)
Is it normal not to say I love you to someone you lose your virginity to ?
Q. Well my mate lost her virginity before me, but she wasnt in a long relationship like me and my bf. She used to always make me feel stupid, and give me the impression that i would lose my bf if i didnt have sex with him. She lost her virginity to ...
A. 20 September 2006: Hi Wendy, "V Plates" must be a Mancunian phrase, I heard it since I was about 14 years old, "Have you lost your V plates yet?!!!" !!!! lol xxx... (read in full...)
How do I tell my bf...that he has real bad body odor?
Q. I'm in love with a guy who has bad b.o. and I don't know how to tell him. He smokes alot of pot so I think he doesn't remember to put deorderant on. Do you think I should bring it up to him? If so how? ...
A. 20 September 2006: Gently does it as they say!!! There is a girl who sits opposite me at work and she smells of sweat so badly its awful, I have tried to be subtle and I discovered the reason she smells like that is because she doesnt use deoderant, her excuse it ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: New features? What other sites do you use? .. and please tell a friend!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here! I ask this periodically... 1. What new features would you like to see? 2. What other websites do you use regularly? 3. Where are you from? Thanks to all the agony aunts, moderators and of course...
A. 20 September 2006: Hi Andrew, yeah sorry it was late when I typed that about the IP so it probably sounded like gibberish!!! All I meant is this: one time you were talking about some junk being posted on the site and you said it was coming from the same IP address, ... (read in full...)
Is it normal not to say I love you to someone you lose your virginity to ?
Q. Well my mate lost her virginity before me, but she wasnt in a long relationship like me and my bf. She used to always make me feel stupid, and give me the impression that i would lose my bf if i didnt have sex with him. She lost her virginity to ...
A. 20 September 2006: Its nice to lose your virginity to someone you love and who loves you back, but in this day and age, most people just lose it for the sake of losing it, there is no love, no feeling, nothing, its just a case of take my "V plates" and replace them ... (read in full...)
Is she completely nuts ??
Q. She dumped me because allthough she feels very nice with me she cannot continue to have sexual relationship because I am married but on the other cannot see me only as a friend anymore because we had sex and she never really loved me anyway.We have ...
A. 20 September 2006: The whole situation is nuts. If you are married,then you should not be playing away. She seems to have an obsession with married men which is not healthy at all. Leave her, she ended it, be glad that you have got out of it now and move on, I mean, ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and I'm curious...what does the girl do during sex?
Q. ok well im a virgin and i was really curious on what girls normally do during sex im kinda lost im this church type girl and so i dont know much about sex....
A. 20 September 2006: If you are a "Church" girl type then stop worrying about what if. My dear, let me tell you something, I am one of the most clued up clueless person on the planet. What I mean is, I have not done a lot of things that most people my age have done, and ... (read in full...)
He's my boss, he's married and i love him
Q. i am 23 years old girl in love with my boss. He is married and has 2 kids. He's ready to leave his family for me. We are so much in love that we want to be together as soon as possible. We kissed each other passionately and that resulted in sex. Now ...
A. 20 September 2006: Me again!!
Yes I totally agree with Ponungalungb's advice, amd regards to the first answere, that is not something I would even dream of doing to my sister, in my opinion, that is blatant wrong, evil and dispicable behaviour. But thats just my ... (read in full...)
Should I marry someone I am not in love with?
Q. Hello Agony Aunts and Uncles, My question is.....is it ok to settle with someone that you love but are not in love with?? I am debating as to whether marry my man, who is extremely good to me......however, I do know that I am not in love with ...
A. 19 September 2006: My dear it would simply be folly to marry someone you dont love, because you will end up despising the person and its not fair to them. You cant just settle down with someone simply because they are good to you, it doesnt work like that. I would not ... (read in full...)
Does this girl fancy me ?
Q. In a nightclub this girl kept looking at me and pulling me up to dance. She keeps trying to talk to me. Does she fancy me?...
A. 19 September 2006: Well it seems highly likely she does like you!!!! xXx... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: New features? What other sites do you use? .. and please tell a friend!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here! I ask this periodically... 1. What new features would you like to see? 2. What other websites do you use regularly? 3. Where are you from? Thanks to all the agony aunts, moderators and of course...
A. 19 September 2006: Andrew, Stina's suggestion is great!! I am like that too, if someone rates my answer as poor, them I want to know why so I wont answer poor again if you see my point. Its not about being great or anything but as Stina said, it helps you to improve ... (read in full...)
Im 20 shes 14, is it legal to touch her up and kiss her ?
Q. hiya i am 20 year old n me girl is 14 i was just wondering if legal to kiss me girl n touch her up im from the uk n need help to answer these questions i know im not allowed sexual intercourse but wondering if allowed any physical touching or ...
A. 19 September 2006: Friend, this GIRL is a CHILD, please end this unhealthy relationship. You cannot possibly do anything with her until she is at least 16 or 17 in some parts of the world I believe. She is too young for you right now, wait till she grows up first. xXx... (read in full...)
What is this white stuff?
Q. hello, i was just wondering if anyone knows what this white stuff is that i find in my underwear sometimes. its like a paste almost and some days there's more than others. thankyou!...
A. 19 September 2006: If it does not smell of a strong pungent smell, then it sounds like normal discharge to me. Try not to use harsh soaps when washing, use a mild soap otherwise you risk getting thrush. All the best. xXx... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: New features? What other sites do you use? .. and please tell a friend!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here! I ask this periodically... 1. What new features would you like to see? 2. What other websites do you use regularly? 3. Where are you from? Thanks to all the agony aunts, moderators and of course...
A. 19 September 2006: Hi Andrew I am a firm believer in spreading word!!!! I dont use any other sitem this one is suffice.
I am from Manchester, England, UK. I gave you a possible suggestion some time ago about about having feature pages for each agony aunt/unc... (read in full...)
He's my boss, he's married and i love him
Q. i am 23 years old girl in love with my boss. He is married and has 2 kids. He's ready to leave his family for me. We are so much in love that we want to be together as soon as possible. We kissed each other passionately and that resulted in sex. Now ...
A. 19 September 2006: Sweetie, how can you be doing right, you are having sex with a married man, that cannot possibly be right. My dear I can symphathise with you, but whilst he is married, you have to leave him well alone. You dont want to be a homewrecker do you? Try ... (read in full...)
At what point did I lose my virginity ?
Q. I'd like peoples' opinions on this, i lost my virginity at 22, so I believe and just want confirmation of this. Myself and my girlfriend did everything sexual from this age, but not full sexual intercourse. She was very tight so my penis wouldn't ...
A. 18 September 2006: Sorry just realised my first answer must have confused the hell out of you cos I said... Oh man, I dont even know what I wrote!!! SORRY. Yes, you are no longer a virgin now, but it doesnt actually matter when you actually lost it, cos you have lost ... (read in full...)
Will the pill fix period pains? But will I put on weight?
Q. I get realy heavy painful periods and i have had advice from people saying 2 go on the pill as i am sexually active anyway but its very rarely i would, but is it true that people gain weight from this?? please help i dont like suffering from painful ...
A. 18 September 2006: I took Microgynon 30 for severe stomach cramps and to help regulate my periods, I did not put on an ounce of weight, it just depends on the individual. Talk to your gp about which pill is best for you. xXx... (read in full...)
At what point did I lose my virginity ?
Q. I'd like peoples' opinions on this, i lost my virginity at 22, so I believe and just want confirmation of this. Myself and my girlfriend did everything sexual from this age, but not full sexual intercourse. She was very tight so my penis wouldn't ...
A. 18 September 2006: As I said, if you had "half" sex (not sure if thast is possible!!!) then technically you are not chaste, but the definition of virgin is someone who has not had INTERCOURSE. Technically the first time you didnt really have intercourse, so whilst you ... (read in full...)
How do you get pregnant!? ( well same question asking about swallowing semen again!)
Q. well, this might sound dumb, but it's impossible to get pregnant from swallowing cum right? and can this make u sick, cause i gave my bf head last night and he went and i swallowed all of it, but i felt sick afterwards. im always careful after too, ...
A. 17 September 2006: My dear, God designed conception to take place via intercourse, not oral sex. You cannot get pregnant by swallowing semen. When you swallow food, does it end up in your womb? Of course not, when you swallow, it goes into the stomach then it is ... (read in full...)
At what point did I lose my virginity ?
Q. I'd like peoples' opinions on this, i lost my virginity at 22, so I believe and just want confirmation of this. Myself and my girlfriend did everything sexual from this age, but not full sexual intercourse. She was very tight so my penis wouldn't ...
A. 17 September 2006: You lost your virginity when you had penetrative sex,i.e intercourse penetration implies something has to go in FULLY and there is no need for me to describe what happens next. When you had penetration, then you lost your "virginity". Virginity is ... (read in full...)
My bf has to marry his ex gf because he got her pregnant. It's tearing me apart!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend early this year, but we have known eachother all our lives. He breaks up with me because he has a moral duty to an ex girlfriend he got pregnant. He now has to marry her. My boyfriend comes from a strict christian...
A. 17 September 2006: The first advice given to you in my opinion seems utter foolishness to simply tell you to move on, what I need to understand is, is your partner a Christian? If so, then he has already gone against the faith by having sex out of wedlock so I am a ... (read in full...)
Will this guy I like know I'm a virgin, when we do it for the first time?
Q. hi i need some advice! im 17 and im a virgin but this lad im seeing doest know i am! i have done sexual things beofre but i have never gone the whole way lol will he know im a virgin when i have sex for the first time???? ...
A. 17 September 2006: People who are not virgins can bleed after sex and also virgins having sex for the first time have not always bled so bleeding is not the obvious sign of virginity. The only way he can TRULY know is if you tell him and unless he is psychic he cant ... (read in full...)
My husband looks very old and I'm ashamed to be seen in public with him! How do I deal with this?
Q. My husband is 43 but he looks atleast 55 - greying, balding and generally cares a damn. I'm 38 but look much younger (as per others) and often nowadays people mistake him for my father. Perhaps sounds really immature but I feel really ashamed to be ...
A. 16 September 2006: For better for WORSE, in sickness and in health, till death.... etc etc
Be honest with him, but dont be harsh, be tactful and gentle with him and explain to him that you feel he needs to perhaps take more care of himself and maybe he should t... (read in full...)
what do guys like in girls..tall, slim, blonde or short, petite, curvy, brunette??
Q. hi... im a teenager and wanna know, y would teenage guys want a tall, thin blonde girl to go out with? Wouldnt they prefer someone who is shorter than them? Cos my boy mates all always say "oh theres this really fit girl, she's tall and ...
A. 16 September 2006: Every guy is different, some like petite, curvy girls, others like tall, catwalk model girls, it just depends on the individual.... (read in full...)
Does every guy really watch porn ?
Q. Is it possible to not watch porn as a guy? My bf told me he's not interested at these things. He admitted he was curious about it when he was 16, but he absolutely shows no interest about it now. I love him very much and I'm lucky that I found so...
A. 16 September 2006: I am amazed beacuse apparently, there are some agony aunts/uncles who have this amazing superpower, they know EVERY man on the face of this earth thus they conclude that ALL men like porn. Errm hello, wake up, NOT ALL MEN LIKE FILTH YOU KNOW. As I ... (read in full...)
Is female cheating really acceptable ??
Q. we all have grown to accept that most males cheat almost to the point of accepting and forgiving it all the time, when it happens. Is female cheating acceptable? When they cheat it almost definetly ends in breakups. They never get chances like males ...
A. 16 September 2006: No form of cheating is acceptable whether male or female, not all men cheat either, I know plenty. So in both cases, cheating is wrong. xXx... (read in full...)
Does every guy really watch porn ?
Q. Is it possible to not watch porn as a guy? My bf told me he's not interested at these things. He admitted he was curious about it when he was 16, but he absolutely shows no interest about it now. I love him very much and I'm lucky that I found so...
A. 15 September 2006: I am female but I have NEVER watched porn and have no desire to ever watch it and I know at least 35 men who never have either and never will, so yes it is very possible. xXx... (read in full...)
Any one from Worthing here???
Q. hiii Anyone from Worthing here!?!...
A. 15 September 2006: No I am a Mancunian and your point is? ............ (read in full...)
Has everyone cheated at least once in their lives ???
Q. I'm curious. I jus want 2 know has every person cheated at least once in thier lifes? I jus find that alot of people on here have alot of questions about it n it seems alot of us have done it....
A. 15 September 2006: Never ever cheated and I would like to think I never would. xxx... (read in full...)
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