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anonymous
writes:I really like this guy, but he is still totally hung up over his ex and he is after getting back with her. Do i make a move or wait?
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reader, Honest +, writes (5 May 2006):
Forget him for now. If he wants his ex and you make a move, you might find yourself getting dumped if his ex decides she wants him back.
Honest
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reader, willywombat +, writes (4 May 2006):
 If you make a move now and he says yes YOU will always be hung up thinking he is only with you because he cannot have her. Why would you want to do that to yourself?
If you stand back and let him get this thing with his ex out of his system and THEN he comes to you, you know he will be yours and not hankering after her.
Please don't set yourself up for the heartbreak.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (4 May 2006):
 If you like him then why not hang on for a while, as it would be horrible if he got with you on the rebound. If you give him some time before jumping in there at least you can be sure he is with you because he likes you, rather than as a replacement for the ex. Good Luck!
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reader, Blooregard +, writes (4 May 2006):
Oh dear...if you make a move, you could end up getting badly hurt as he could see you as an oppertunity to make her jealous. Therefore you will just be used and end up hurt. Don't be used, wait for it, and if he shows no signs of getting back with her, gradually go for it.
Hope it goes well x
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reader, Sis6372 +, writes (4 May 2006):
WAIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2006): If he's still totally hung up over his ex, then you would be nothing more than a rebound partner. I would give it a while until he is more in a place where he is able to commit to someone else.
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reader, bonym +, writes (4 May 2006):
 Wait. If he is bagging his chances of getting back withthe ex, you will only be a snare to him. Just wait and see how it goes. There is no point in going after someone whos heart is after another. Good luck. xXx
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