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writes: hi i am 15. is it best to ask a boy out face to face or text? would it make a boy feel shy and awkward if i asked him face to face or would it make him like me more?plz answer this, i really want to ask face to face cos will it boost my confidence or not?what do you think about asking face to face?
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reader, robinlovescena +, writes (7 May 2006):
 I think that if you ask him face to face, then that shows that you really do like him, and that you care about what his response would be. I dont think that he would feel awkward, just alittle shocked, becuase these days, everyone is afraid to ask face to face.If you ask him out through text, then that shows that you dont care whether or not what he says. If he does say yes when you asked him out through text, then the next day that the two of you see each other, it would be extremly awkward for the both of you. So my advic eto you is to ask him out face to face. if you cant do that, then ask him out over the phone!!!
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Robin
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2006): Just like I wouldnt want to be dumped by text, I wouldnt want to be asked out that way either. Face 2 Face is much better.
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (6 May 2006):
 thro text is easier, face to face is more personal. face to face you get to see how the person truthly feels thru there reactions but thru text there no way of telling how the person feels. it may be difficult to do it face to face but the rush you get is something you wont get from texting him.
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (6 May 2006):
 face to face the old fashion ed way of communication is better is better thatn text.
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reader, bonym +, writes (6 May 2006):
 Even though I have 2 phones and send in excess of 600 texts per month, texting is very indirect and a very unsociable way of asking someone out!!! Face to face is always best because in a text he may read it ata bad time, he may not read the text properly, and you cant gage their expression if you text them so you kinda dont know what they may be feeling or thinking, but face to face is best because you can go off facial expresions, chemistry and feelings. My dear, dont text to ask him out, if there were no phones in the universe you would have to ask him face to face, so please, I believe personal contact is far better and a better way to go about this. xXx
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reader, xlittleredcutiex +, writes (6 May 2006):
I would only ask him face to face, if i knew he liked me too. So do you know he has feelings for you aswell? If you know he does then go for it.If you were to do it face-to-face, make sure he's on his own as he may get embarrased if his friends are with him, just casually say it though don't make it out as if its a big deal.Good Luck!
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (6 May 2006):
 Speaking personally I would prefer face-to-face. I have never liked doing important things by txt because the problem is words can easily be misinterpreted but if you go with face-to-face then you get the whole package and can see each others body language and stuff.
Asking him face to face should boost your confidence because it means you have tackled a really hard thing head on instead of slightly avoiding it by using text. Most boys and indeed men like confident girls/women, confidence is very attractive. Hope that helps and good luck.
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